I'm not asking for much, just for the dog to be on the floor and for my boyfriend to give me a bit more attention than he gives the dog!
Q. I love my boyfriend to bits, but I feel like he doesnt appreciate me. Now we are both students and are very broke have no money, he has a part time job so gets a bit more than me. He drops me off to my house one day and I ask if he would like to ...
A. 5 May 2012: I wouldn't give him gas money, but take toe bus to his place every now and then? or meet up places.
I wouldn't sleep over either. Though I DO love animals, I rather get a good 6-8 hours sleep.
And last but not least, I think I would rather be ... (read in full...)
Should I take this job offer for the reality show?
Q. Should I take this job offer? Basically, I am currently the youngest assisstant head teacher in Britain and I have been approached by a TV network to make a reality show where I spend a week in different schools around the world to see what teac...
A. 5 May 2012: I would have a long talk with the hubby about it. Make a pro/con list and make talk to some of the older more experienced (no offense) teacher at your school for advice. Someone you trust, of course.
I think it's a once in a life time experien... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been cheated out of a happily ever after
Q. I am a very devoted wife. I cook daily for my husband, try to have sex with him daily, I even surprise my husband with lingerie, or cleaning house in the nude, but he never takes interest. When my husband and I dated he was a totally different guy, ...
A. 3 May 2012: I agree with YouWish,
Stop catering to him. Then have a long talk about the marriage and future. If you two can't agree, then what?
... (read in full...)
We don't like C. Should we invite everyone and just let C's bf tag along?
Q. My three best friends (A, B, and C), and I are planning a graduation Europe trip. We are considering inviting our boyfriends as well as we are all very close and it would be very fun! However, none of us including the guys, can stand C's boyfrien...
A. 3 May 2012: If you want to go on a holiday with A, B, your BF and their BF's, why not? It's not like you are really a good friend to/with C - at least that is how is seems when you talk about her and her BF the way you do.
Why do you think you HAVE to invit... (read in full...)
I wrote her a letter and I would like her decision. Or am I wasting my time with her?
Q. Hi, about four months ago, I asked a girl out and we ended up going on three dates; but after the third, she started acting a little weird by trying to zone me out. And then when I asked her why, she said she was sorry and didn't feel too comf...
A. 3 May 2012: So what exactly did you do that made her back away?
... (read in full...)
How would you deal with finding out about a one night stand?
Q. Guys or Gals, please share your thoughts. What if you found out a year into your relationship that your girlfriend or boyfriend had a one night stand after being drunk at a bar with another guy/girl they barely knew only a few weeks before you both ...
A. 2 May 2012: 1. I wouldn't want to know details.
2. You weren't exclusive.
3. You have to decide if this is a dealbreaker or if it was a poor choice she made.
4. if you want to stay in the relationship, I think it's time to put it to rest.
I have to ask, wh... (read in full...)
We had sex, and do these signs mean anything?
Q. Hi, so im 18. I liked this guy which is also my friend... He used to be a womenizer but he changed,he kissed,but he said once he is more for a combination. My friends think he probaly likes me. So anyway we had sex. He slept before with this...
A. 2 May 2012: I think you should stop calling the other chick he slept with a slut.
From what you describe it seems you are in a FWB, nothing more, nothing less.... (read in full...)
Help me lie to my mom!
Q. i have planned an trip with my boyfriend for three days without my parents knowledge now how do i make them believe tat i am gonna go with girls .my mom is telling tat she wil come to the station to drop me but if she cums she wil know the truth tat ...
A. 2 May 2012: Don't lie. Your parents need to know where you are and who you go with.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes weed and I don't know what to do...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for just over 2 years now. He lives 2 hours away from me and we have had a generally good long distance relationship. He smoked cigarettes and weed when we started to get close, I told him I wasn't ...
A. 2 May 2012: That would be an absolute dealbreaker for me. No weed. No drugs.
I don't think weed is AT ALL harmless, specially the younger the smoker is. Many studies link mental issues.
QUOTES and LINK:
It is still unclear whether the psychotic sy... (read in full...)
How long do people go when they work in the air force reserve?
Q. My boyfriend is enlisting in the Air force reserve and I want to know how long most people are gone for this? I know what they tell you but I know most of it is lies. So if anyone has gone through this or anything please? I'm not even okay with him ...
A. 2 May 2012: That depends on a lot of thing, his MOS ( which type of job he is doing) and what he signed up to do.
Best info you BOTH can get is from his recruiter.... (read in full...)
Guys & kissing..likes and dislikes?
Q. Guys can you answer a few questions about kissing, do you like when girls use tongue or no tongue when they kiss you? Where do you like their hands to be, on your chest, arms, waist, back of your neck etc.? Also, do you like when a girl ...
A. 2 May 2012: I'm not a guy, but I think there is a kiss for every situation. Some guys don't like a snog your socks off right in front of their friends, others do.
Don't force a kiss, let the chemistry, guy and situation guide you. And no "kissing by numbers"... (read in full...)
Be honest: would you date a 24-year old virgin or would you pass her up?
Q. To start off I want a completely honest answer from you guys. Don't tell me what I want to hear, but your real opinion. So, here goes: I'm a 24 year old virgin. Would you be open to dating one? Or would it freak you out? I'm not looking for ...
A. 2 May 2012: Being a virgin or not shouldn't matter. But I'm sure there are many guys who rather date a virgin then a non-virgin.
Personally, I think it comes down to personality, not the sexual status of a person.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend broke things off saying she didn't feel the chemistry anymore
Q. My partner of 7 years has just decided she wants to separate. Our relationship has been a tricky one because I had to work away a lot (she had no work, but stayed at home raising our 3 year old). A couple of weeks ago, out of the blue, she ...
A. 2 May 2012: I think the breakup has a lot less to do with you then you are assuming and more to do with her. Many women when they have a child they lose themselves. They are no longer Ann (example) but mom, SO (significant other) but Ann is put on a back burner ... (read in full...)
How can people not think of pornography as cheating?
Q. I have something bothering me i've read and discussed this and people say that a boyfriend using porn is no different than him imagining someone in his head but I strongly disagree. Masturbating to porn is alot worse it is an actual picture but ...
A. 2 May 2012: I don't see it as cheating but more of alienation of affection honestly.
The person who chooses porn over a person doesn't have any emotions involved with the porn, just their hand and body part.... (read in full...)
Is it true men love stockings and suspenders?
Q. Hi everyone I just need to ask a quick question I am planning on surprising my boyfriend. Is it true that men love stockings and suspenders? I just need some answers as I am unsure whether he would like it or not thank you ...
A. 1 May 2012: Pretty sure most guys would appreciate their GF dressing up in something sexy.... (read in full...)
Thinking of leaving because he is chosing porn over sex with me, but I'm worried about hurting our daughter. What should I do?
Q. Can someone help me, I've been with my fiancée for 2 years and we have a beautiful daughter together. We've been planning to get hitched next month and now I don't want to. When we first met everything was brill we had an amazing sex life. From the ...
A. 1 May 2012: I don't think staying for the baby is the solution. Not for you and certainly not for the baby.
I think you need to figure out what would be best for you. Because in my book happy mom = happy children.
He is not going to stop any time soon or... (read in full...)
I think he is using this Christian lady to make me believe he has changed. Surely only counselling with help him, not God?
Q. Master of malipulation or genuine guy who realises what he s lost? My ex and i parted about 6 mths ago,it was a hard relationship. We had children but it was never offical. He had committment issues. And had caused me hurt over the yrs with lies, ...
A. 1 May 2012: It takes all sorts. Maybe religion is what he needs. I would just wish him well and start focusing on YOUR life, not his and not his actions.
Let it go.
If you aren't comfortable having a women you do not know around you kids talk to their fa... (read in full...)
He cheated, prom is only a week away and the dress is paid for. What to do?
Q. Help! I just found out my my boyfriend of 7 months has cheated on me. He kissed another girl while he was wasted at a party....and Prom is a week away. We already have tickets and i bought a $500 dress. My family is super excired to see us go. Im ...
A. 30 April 2012: Go with friends instead?... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?
Q. I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...
A. 30 April 2012: I'd say go with neither. They are both a bad fit.
Dump your BF, enjoy being single, find out what YOU like and want in life.
... (read in full...)
My ex is torturing me because I had to break up with her! What can I do? Can I approach the police?
Q. hello all.. i really need some help. i am in terrible situation. i had my first girl friend (for 1 year) and we had to breakup for some reason and after that i really didnt want to get into a serious relationship. i met this lady in club who is...
A. 30 April 2012: Stop talking to her. No contact what so ever. Either pay to block her number or look online for a free app for your cellphone. (certain types get those, you would have to search online by the brand of your phone)
Cancel your Credit card and have... (read in full...)
Air conditioning sickness?
Q. Hi everyone, I just want to know whether anyone else has this problem. Over the past 10 years, I've worked in a variety of places, but I notice a pattern when I'm working in air conditioned buildings - I always seem so pick up wierd stomach bu...
A. 28 April 2012: You can also consider getting a
http://www.amazon.com/Germ-Guardian-GG-1000-UV-C-Sanitizer/dp/B000G2BESO/ref=pd_sim_sbs_hg_32
And wipe down your desk/phone/keyboard daily.
... (read in full...)
This guy only texts me when he wants to talk dirty!
Q. I really like this guy and it seems like he only texts me when he wants to talk dirty. He knows that I'm not ready for sex or anything but I don't know if I should still persue him becuse he doesn't text back or talk to me that often....
A. 28 April 2012: Tell him to stop texting you... He can go fly a kite.
Creep!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like it that my job is as an exotic dancer
Q. I really cannot understand why guys get so Jealous ..But this has been a Really serious problem . My work as an Exotic Dancer pays very well , and is a Fun way to live life , Its all harmless fun . Yet my boyfriend is constantly trying to get me ...
A. 28 April 2012: Were you a dancer when you two met? And he didn't mind dating you in the beginning, but now it bothers him?
I can see why he gets jealous,I would actually find it a little off putting if he didn't. However, if you did this BEFORE you two got seri... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is going on holiday with his ex wife and kids, should I just accept it or should I say something?
Q. Iv been dating a guy since January and he has just told me that at the end of may he will be going on holiday for a week to Tenerife with his ex wife and their two children. He says it's just to make the children happy but I still feel jealous and ...
A. 27 April 2012: My best friend's parents divorced when she was a kid and yes, they would vacation with their parents every other summer, the Dad brought his new wife and later the Mom her new husband too. They were all quite civil.
I think it comes down to a lot... (read in full...)
Leaving my best friend and my gamer life behind.....
Q. Ok here's the thing. I know this isn't your typical relationship question that you guys get but it's a serious one to me. I'm what most people would consider a 'Hardcore Gamer'. I use to be the guy playing video games for 20 hours a day. Video games ...
A. 27 April 2012: We all grow. Sometime we outgrow friends, jobs and hobbies. Sounds to me that you just outgrew gaming.
Good luck and stop beating yourself up.
Live life and be happy!... (read in full...)
Leaving my best friend and my gamer life behind.....
Q. Ok here's the thing. I know this isn't your typical relationship question that you guys get but it's a serious one to me. I'm what most people would consider a 'Hardcore Gamer'. I use to be the guy playing video games for 20 hours a day. Video games ...
A. 26 April 2012: Get his e-mail, keep in touch that way. I have gamed a bit (EQ for 10 years) and it wasn't so hard to quit the game as it was to "leave" all the people I spend time with almost every day.
I quit almost 3 years ago and I still e-mail some of my ol... (read in full...)
He told his ex he loves her then denied it with me!
Q. I just saw emails that my boyfriend sent his ex 2 weeks ago, that say how he misses and loves her. There was mention that he had a girlfriend but yet he stated he love her......why? Also he lied to Me by telling me he never bought her an engageme...
A. 26 April 2012: Can you ever really trust this guy? Seems like every time his lips move he's lying...
It would be a deal-breaker for me, I don't do liars.... (read in full...)
I cant get this out of my mind, please help!
Q. Hello all. I am in a bit of a situation here. I used to date a guy online few years ago and it just ended. And few months ago he added me on facebook. We talked,exchanged numbers,texted and flirted all the time. Then one day he started talking dirty ...
A. 26 April 2012: Cut all contact with him, un-friend him and block him from Facebook.
He didn't think of you as a friend (or he wouldn't have tried the talking dirty stuff earlier) He was hoping he could fool around with you behind his GF's back.
He sounds lik... (read in full...)
Can you make somebody love you?
Q. Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a ...
A. 26 April 2012: No, I don't think you can "make" anyone love you. Free will and all :)
Now in a movie sitting under a girls window might be sweet and romantic, but in real life, well someone might think of it as a little creepy and stalkerish.
Maybe you nee... (read in full...)
My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?
Q. My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting ...
A. 26 April 2012: Maybe tell your ex it's time for him to not just come around and hang out? Except if he wants to spend time with the kids?
And he can spend time at his house,can't he?
Honestly, I would not want to spend time with him, if I were in your sho... (read in full...)
Is this just a gift or does it mean more?
Q. My ex and I broke up when I was 14 wks pregnant. His choice not mine . Through my whole pregnancy he was less than Kind. As advised by an attorney I kept him up to date on dr appointments and allowed him to be at the birth. We were together...
A. 26 April 2012: I think you should ask him that question. But ask him it with out bring up past "lack" of presents of how much other presents had cost in the past.
... (read in full...)
Viagra won't work without desire...any ideas for increasing my libido?
Q. What could be a cause of that I dont care about sex anymore at all? I used to be very horny, and now, I dont even care for porn or any sexual contact with my wife? What could cause such a big change in me? I know,I'm asking, I should know better. ...
A. 26 April 2012: There are many medical reasons for a guy to lose his libido. Just like women's hormone level goes down after menopause, same thing can happen to men.
Go talk to your doctor, maybe have your testosterone level checked and your thyroid. Both thi... (read in full...)
Him and His new "girlfriend" like to taunt me
Q. A guy that I dated for years all of a sudden didn't want to see me anymore. It had always been kind of casual but we had always been really close friends, for over 10 years. When he said he no longer wanted to see me, he said that he just didn't f...
A. 26 April 2012: Block and unfriend him. It's facebook for goodness sake you don't have to look at his page. THAT is your choice.
If you get odd calls, just hang up. And consider blocking his number. Sooner or later he will hopefully get over his need to show you... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 26 April 2012: Honeypie- I don't know what type of women honestly set up their partners to cheat on them. I would never do that to myself, I love him. Why would I want him to hurt me?
I don't think you really wanted him to hurt you.I think you wanted him to p... (read in full...)
My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?
Q. My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting ...
A. 26 April 2012: Do you want to start the relationship back up perhaps? and he is just using you as a back up plan til he finds "greener" grass?
It's hard for me not to get the wrong picture - but paint me the "right" one?
... (read in full...)
Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...
A. 26 April 2012: This is what happens when people communicate instead of guess:) I'm GLAD you talked with her and got to the bottom of this.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?
Q. I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take ...
A. 25 April 2012: I think the best thing you can do is end one relationship before you jump into a new one.
If you and your husband both don't love each other no more, why stay together? What would that teach your child?
... (read in full...)
I saw a future with this guy but after our argument I feel abused and demoralised!
Q. I guess I already know the answer to my question, but need a little kick in the arse to make a move. I am mid 40's...so is my boyfriend. We've been together for more than a year. The relationship has been really great. Or HAD been until a huge ...
A. 25 April 2012: What was your thoughts behind wanting him to get the door for you from now on? I'm curious as to why all of a sudden that became a "need" or demand from you.
As I see it, some men are raised to get the door, the chair, order the food, the wine, pl... (read in full...)
He's a decent guy but not as good looking as I remember, should I give him a chance?
Q. So I met this guy on a night out, he's tall, perfect age, really good kisser and we get along smoothly it's nice. What I like was the fact he wasn't full on and didn't ask me back to his, or initiate something of the sort (very rare over here for ...
A. 25 April 2012: I guess it depends on how much good looks mean to you. If it's more important then, let's say a great personality, then I wouldn't go out with him again.
If you are just a little curious why not go on date and see if there is anything that spa... (read in full...)
My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?
Q. My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting ...
A. 25 April 2012: He is your ex husband and you two are divorced, so I can't see why he can't go out for coffee.
He already stated that all he wants from you is friendship. Though it does seem like he wants to be friendly as long as it suits him.
I think in or... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 25 April 2012: I think you need to take some ownership in this mess. Yes, you walked away from the "sex" but you were just as anxious to get it going as he was. Except he was to drunk to walk away. Why you didn't stay and tell him to get dressed and apologize to ... (read in full...)
Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...
A. 5 January 2012: I would tell her. She obviously isn't going to be mad that you surfed porn so you have nothing to hide. She might not even know they are out there, so yea, tell her.
My husband's ex sold some dirty picture the two of them made when they were tog... (read in full...)
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