My boyfriend used my phone to send himself a picture of my sister's fake boobs
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs and last year when I was getting ready really early for work I noticed my boyfriends phone receiving a message and I glanced at his phone and noticed the message was from me. I was confused because I had not ...
A. 3 September 2012: What a lying sleaze bag.
I wouldn't trust him any further then I could throw him.
Stop talking to him. You are starting to doubt yourself and starting to believe him, I think that is a mistake.
He is sorry he got caught. Not sorry for do... (read in full...)
After six years of dealing with trust issues I finally broke up with my boyfriend
Q. I feel really sad, because I broke up with my ex last Monday. We'd been struggling with his trust issues for a long 6 years. He had problems with my past, because I had been with a guy he knows (but I didn't sleep with him, I had a crush on him, we ...
A. 3 September 2012: I'm sorry honey but I do think breaking up with him was for the best.
The only thing you can really do with this is look back at your OWN actions and not repeat them. As in don't start off a relationship with lying. It really can break trust fo... (read in full...)
Should I come right out and ask if she's on her period?
Q. Okay so normally I know it's not a good idea. But the problem is I've noticed this trend in my girlfriend. At around the beginning of every month (usually around the 5th), She completly ignores me I'm talking she doesn't have any contact with me and ...
A. 3 September 2012: I agree with the other ladies do NOT NOT ask her, it's honestly slightly offensive. Women lives may seem like the revolve around their periods, but really, they don't.
Instead, you could ask her how come it seems like she doesn't want to spend ti... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if a guy gives you his phone number?
Q. Does it mean anything if a guy gives you his phone number? I was at school and the guy I think likes me gives me a hug. I asked him if he tutored for Chem he told me yes, he's always around. I asked how I'll be able to find him and he basicall...
A. 3 September 2012: In this case, it means that he volunteered to tutor you in Chem. Nothing more.
Pretty sure if he was interested he would have bothered to remember your name.... (read in full...)
He likes me but doesn't love me but wants to be intimate!
Q. I'm madly in love with a guy for more than a year now and he says he likes me but doesn't love me. i don't know what to make of it. Does it mean he only wants to sleep with me ? cos he often tells me he wants us to get intimate....
A. 3 September 2012: He wants sex, but not a relationship. Basically, he wants you to take care of his sexual needs while he looks for a girl he wants to actually BE with.
Sorry, honey I'd look elsewhere for love.... (read in full...)
Have you wished you focused on some things but not others during your 30's
Q. I am a single mother of an 8 year old child who has special needs. I’ve been single for 3 years and prior to this I was in a long term emotionally and physically abusive relationship for all of my 20’s I a mature student who is training as a health ...
A. 3 September 2012: Honestly, I have no regrets.
They just aren't worth focusing on, "could have beens" and "what if's".
Make a list, set your priorities and go for it. As long as you are able to be flexible, because you might like things in a certain order, b... (read in full...)
Had sex with my long time best friend, things have been awkward. Should I text/call him?
Q. Hello. I am going to try to make this story super short. Basically, I have this best friend of almost 6 years. We are very close, talk to each other about anything, and enjoy each others company. There is also physical attraction that has always b...
A. 3 September 2012: ******I want my friend back I want him to feel he can talk to me even if he doesn't like me romantically I don't care I just want that friendship back and if he does like me romantically, even better! ******
Tell him JUST that.... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a younger man, I look much younger than I am but worry about what people think. Advice?
Q. In need of some advice. I am 32 female and have been recently seeing a lovely wonderful man, but his only 23 and I'm not sure we can carry on because of age difference. I look about 22 and he looks about 28, so he looks older, but I constantly...
A. 3 September 2012: It's you two in the relationship not everyone else, stop worrying about what others might say you are BOTH grown people.
Relax and enjoy what you have.... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for an 11 year old to date?
Q. If someone is 11 should they date? ...
A. 3 September 2012: Define date.
If you mean one-on-one outings in a romantic aspect (as in girlfriend/boyfriend) I would say yes, 11 is WAY to young. For me personally (I'm a mother of 3 daughters) there will be no dating til at least 16.
They need to stay kid... (read in full...)
Does it bother women if men like their scent?
Q. I just would like to know is it really gross and disgussing to women if a guy whom they are in a relationship or friends with bennefits with loves their wetness and scent down there during the women sexual arousal?as well as smelling their panties ...
A. 3 September 2012: She might find it odd that it turns you on, but as I see it different folks different strokes..
So enjoy it but maybe not bring it up to her?
Maybe it's part of her modesty that she doesn't think people should "like" that smell..
You k... (read in full...)
Should I call her and set the record straight?
Q. Hi there, last week I went to dinner at a friend's house. This friend used to be my boss and I met my current boyfriend through her. There were a few women at the dinner party and the topic of conversation got onto sex. I said that I won't do ...
A. 3 September 2012: I would leave it alone. I don't think you owe her an explanation at all on the subject.
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How to ask for sex lessions?
Q. I date an older, more experienced guy, whom I recently lost my virginity to. I'm not sure if this happens to everyone, but having sex made me realize it's pretty awesome and made me well.. want way more. Nevertheless, I'm really shy and have qui...
A. 3 September 2012: For the blow jobs, get the book:" How to tickle his pickle." It has ALL kind of good advice in oral pleasuring of a man, plus some pictures/drawing to help you get the point on some things.
As for the bondage.. Hold your horses. Learn to enjoy se... (read in full...)
Does it bother women if men like their scent?
Q. I just would like to know is it really gross and disgussing to women if a guy whom they are in a relationship or friends with bennefits with loves their wetness and scent down there during the women sexual arousal?as well as smelling their panties ...
A. 2 September 2012: Having a guy (even if it was my husband) wanting to sniff my panties would do absolutely nothing for me, but no, it wouldn't upset me. I just don't get the attraction....
Pretty sure most women would PREFER that their partner likes their scent.... (read in full...)
If it were just him he would probably be perfect, but his family oppose us living together and his house mate dislikes me. With all these problems is it worth sticking around?
Q. So I'm at a point where I don't know if I should be sticking around in my relationship, or if I should strike out on my own. I've been seeing this very sweet, very handsome guy for about two years now, and although I would definitely say that we are ...
A. 2 September 2012: Honestly, I don't think he is serious about you or he would have at some point put his foot down somewhere, with his friend and family.... (read in full...)
What can I do about my drama queen cousin's boyfriend? He likes me I don't like him!
Q. Hello everyone, I am not sure what to do about my cousin's boyfriend. He flirts and texts me quite a bit, mainly when he and my cousin argue. He confides in me about the problems they have, about the trust issues, ect. I will admit, he can do way ...
A. 2 September 2012: I would tell him to stop texting you from now on, that you don't want to start any drama nor do you find his texts appropriate. If he doesn't stop, block his number.
He doesn't see you as a little sister. Big brothers do NOT flirt with their si... (read in full...)
Had sex with my long time best friend, things have been awkward. Should I text/call him?
Q. Hello. I am going to try to make this story super short. Basically, I have this best friend of almost 6 years. We are very close, talk to each other about anything, and enjoy each others company. There is also physical attraction that has always b...
A. 2 September 2012: I would call him. Not text. And just tell him how you feel how the situation makes you feel.
It can't really get worse, right?... (read in full...)
Is it really that wrong to expect the guy to do the driving /taking out once in a while?
Q. Ever since I got a job and car, I've noticed my bf has been turning his head the other way in terms of picking me up, taking me out, etc. Those responsibilities have landed themselves on my head and I'm the only one putting in any effort now (i ...
A. 2 September 2012: I think he is starting to take you for granted, which in some cases make the other person seem "lazy".
I don't see there is anything wrong with either of you paying or driving, specially not after 3 years, BUT for him to try and "guilt" you into... (read in full...)
18 year old living with us is too friendly. Do I tell her brother?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm in a living with my boyfriend for the past 4 years now,and everything was going great,he has a good job so do I..but now the problem has arised cuz of a third person which unfortunately I brought into the picture.. My best guy fr...
A. 2 September 2012: Yea talk to her brother. And if you decide to let her stay longer sit her down and LAY DOWN the rules in your house. If she can't agree or follow them, she can move out.... (read in full...)
I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?
Q. My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have ...
A. 2 September 2012: I agree 100% with So_Very_Confused's answer.
Sit her down, figure out what you two got going on. If it IS strictly FWB, then no she can't demand you don not talk to other women or date them or whatever..
Then again I don't believe a partne... (read in full...)
How do I now cope with fact he's slept with 10 girls since we had our partial break-up 7 months ago?
Q. My boyfriend and I split up 7 months ago, but we remained close and still had a physical relationship. (not the wisest decision I know). However recently, he told me that he has slept with 10 different girls during the 7 months, one of which wa...
A. 2 September 2012: Sounds to me like he was trying to forget you, by sleeping with as many girls as possible.
Maybe it was also an ego thing, the "I still got it" sex. That kind of sex is all abut them, not the person they sleep with. The fact that he regrets ... (read in full...)
How do I now cope with fact he's slept with 10 girls since we had our partial break-up 7 months ago?
Q. My boyfriend and I split up 7 months ago, but we remained close and still had a physical relationship. (not the wisest decision I know). However recently, he told me that he has slept with 10 different girls during the 7 months, one of which wa...
A. 2 September 2012: Sounds to me like he was trying to forget you, by sleeping with as many girls as possible.
Maybe it was also an ego thing, the "I still got it" sex. That kind of sex is all abut them, not the person they sleep with. The fact that he regrets ... (read in full...)
At 61 and divorced I feel I have no friends. No family either. How does one make friends?
Q. I just dont know how to make some real friends. I was brought up in children's homes so have no family as such I was divorced years ago and have had a few boyfriends since but one way and another all folded up. I have tried working in charity s...
A. 2 September 2012: After my Mom died 2 years ago, but Dad kind of discovered how lonely he was. (My mom held the family together, no doubt). He was kind of clingy with me and my brother (which was OK, he is my Dad after all, but we also wanted him to live his life, ... (read in full...)
I feel like my love for him died.
Q. I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, ...
A. 2 September 2012: Wow, I would have kicked him out of the car while it was still moving if that was me!
No, his reaction isn't NORMAL. The first thing out of his mouth when you sit there WORRIED about a potential pregnancy is that you MUST have cheated?
Sorry, ... (read in full...)
Husband won't work and we are about to lose our house!
Q. I am needing some advice and am not sure what to do about my marriage. My husband refuses to look for work or get a job. First off, he is not depressed at all. He has seen the doctor for an evaluation and he is not depressed. He was lai...
A. 2 September 2012: I would start by selling all his computer/game-cube and games.
I would also sit down and make a budget, show him black on white what's going on financially. It might be that the job market is hard and he feels emasculated by having you take car... (read in full...)
Should I send a text saying, I miss you so much, I don't want someone else, I want to be with you .
Q. hello i went on a date with a woman 5 weeks ago, she said it was lovley and i was a lovley man xxx . i wanted to give her a kiss at end of date, but did not want to risk it . i told this a few days later and she said she was not interested. but we ...
A. 2 September 2012: Sorry, no. You need to accept that you didn't "do it" for her, so it's time to stop wasting your time on her and move on.
If you keep pushing it's going to end up ugly and you will be looking like a creeper.... (read in full...)
He offered me sex instead of a relationship!
Q. Should I be insulted that a guy Ive liked for a while has asked me to be his FWB or 'fuck buddy'? He says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be more than friends. Im shocked and dont know what to say! Im 29 and hes 28, Im looking for a ...
A. 2 September 2012: I wouldn't be insulted honestly, I would disappointed no doubt and then I would turn him down pronto, no need to waste any more time on this fella.
Obviously this wasn't a keeper, just a horny dude.. NEXT!
Don't give up, honey. Stick to your gu... (read in full...)
We were fooling around but stayed in our underwear, I am worried I could still get pregnant.
Q. My guy and I were hooking up last night in our underwear. He was wearing boxer briefs and I was wearing lace underwear that had a sheet of fabric between the lace. I was worried that since I think he precame and though I didn't remove my underwear ...
A. 1 September 2012: No, I'm pretty sure you can't get pregnant this way.
However, TAKE that fear and do something about it. Get on birth control, ask him to bring/use condoms even IF you are just fooling around.
BETTER safe, then knocked up and sorry.... (read in full...)
My severe acne has me hating myself! Help!
Q. I am embarassed to step out of the house. I sleep all day because I am ashamed to go out. I am hedious. My severe acne has scarred my face and I feel worthless. I am afraid to go to shopping malls. Everyone else looks amazing with good skin. I am ...
A. 1 September 2012: Have you been to a doctor/dermatologist ? There are things that can help your skin improve.
The things is, you need to realize there is more to you then your skin. However, that doesn't mean you can't try and get some help for it.
I can't belie... (read in full...)
I like this guy but he suddenly stopped talking me and said he would rather date himself. How do I get over him?
Q. Hello I recently have been hanging out with this guy who likes me and I like him. We have been through a few years and he says he wants to go out with me and now he stopped talking to me and said on Facebook he knows now he would rather just date ...
A. 1 September 2012: How do you get over it? You accept that he wasn't for you.
Delete him of Facebook and block him and go totally non contact with him. He sounds toxic.
I guess you kissed a toad. Chin up.... (read in full...)
I should be enjoying my life right now but instead I am constantly worrying and paranoid. Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. Hi, In the past 4 months I have gotten engaged and bought a house with my fiancé. We are both really happy as its something we have wanted to do for a long time. Now here's the problem... I can't stop worrying that something will go ...
A. 1 September 2012: I am the same way. Part of it (for me at least) is that I'm OCD. I have to worry or things will go wrong. Somehow that is stuck in my head, therapy did help me curb it a little, but this is one of the things I haven't really been able to get "rid" ... (read in full...)
My starbucks barista crush, does he like me at all or do I notice these signs because I like him?
Q. I have a crush in guy; I'm 18, and he is probably around 20. I know he is in college, I think it may be even his first year. He is a little quieter, but not shy. I hardly see or talk to him and we don't know each other. I occaisonally interact with ...
A. 1 September 2012: He is in the SERVICE industry as a barista, which means he will be nice and polite to customers. Nothing you write in your post seems like flirting or extended interest, sorry.
I would honestly, not read more into what he is doing.
Find a ... (read in full...)
He makes 6 times the money I do but he won't spend anything on me.
Q. I met a new guy weeks after i ended up the relationship with my worthless boyfiend.Now We are dating for about three months relationship.He is a successfull man,he makes almost six times of what I make at my job; but it won't spend nothing on me. He ...
A. 1 September 2012: Well, I think you should stop giving him money. You call it lend/borrow, but since he doesn't pay you back, it's giving in my book.
If he asks you to make dinner for him - give him a shopping list, tell him bring x,y,z.
He is not a mind-reade... (read in full...)
Are guy's disgusted by breaking a girl's hymen?
Q. Okay, so last week, I was getting fingered by a guy that I've been fooling around with. I'm a virgin and I guess I never really took into consideration about my hymen. Anyways, while his fingers were inside of me, he pulled out and said "Are you um, ...
A. 1 September 2012: I would say he didn't know you were a virgin?
If he did and he acted all disgusted I'd drop him instantly. There is nothing you can do about a little blood at that stage.
However, I think you need to actually get to know the guy before you a... (read in full...)
How do I not worry with my long distance girlfriend going out and having a drink?
Q. Let me just say at the front that I get the need for drinking. It's a great escape with an awesome buzz that helps you just relax and go crazy and forget about the stress that have been bothering you for a while or during your work week. I used to ...
A. 1 September 2012: I would suggest that you start getting out and so stuff, meet people and stop your mind for going into overdrive with all those "what if" scenarios. Get a hobby, take a class.. Don't stop living your life because you two are not right next to each ... (read in full...)
This older married woman is giving me mixed signals. Do I persist or finish the relationship?
Q. hi, well i made friends with this woman who is older then me. we got really close. She is married but they dont get on at all i never get a straight answer from her. One day she is ok, saying 'I love you' then next she just doesn't seem to ...
A. 1 September 2012: Since she is married, my advice would be to end it. It really doesn't matter if she is happy in her marriage or not, what she is doing is wrong. Wrong towards you and her husband. No one wins from this.
Find a woman who isn't married, who is truly... (read in full...)
My marriage lacks a sex life so I have a friend with boundaries. How do I be happy with my husband?
Q. I am a happily married woman (20+ years). Hubby is great, we get along, we have grown children, built a nice life, etc. We work great together, have some of the same hobbies, and almost always agree. He is sweet and nice and we are happy together. I ...
A. 1 September 2012: I'm trying to understand how come in 20 YEARS you and your husband haven't sought help in the sex department. I can't imagine getting "poor" sex at home for THAT many years and not doing anything about it, other then look outside the marriage for ... (read in full...)
My instructor touched me when I don't think he needed to, what does it mean?
Q. I'm sorry this is terribly wrong, but I need help... every time I meet him at the corridor or out of college, he will raise his eyebrows twice,lowers his eyelids and smile, there, he did it again today. The way he raises his eyebrows are som...
A. 1 September 2012: I think you are reading WAY more into his actions then actually happened.
I agree with Candid Cally, I think he was more frustrated with you then interested.
Chill and show up more prepared next time and don't bring a friend. It's not a party... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts about our relationship problems on Facebook.
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I discussed a problem we've been having and it didn't turn out so well. We ended up arguing then ended the discussion. A few weeks ago we had got into an argument and he posted a status about it on facebook. He says it'...
A. 1 September 2012: Posting relationship problems or whines in FAB is so passive-aggressive and annoying. I would tell him to GROW a set and talk to you about them not air the "dirty laundry" online. It's ridiculous.
Not being friends online seems to be the way to g... (read in full...)
I always do favors for a work collegue but she doesn't appreciate me or do anything in return!
Q. There is a certain work collegue I have done many regular favors for over the years. One specific favor takes me out of my way a bit and she has takes it for granted. Yesterday I was stuck and couldnt get my morning coffee. I saw her coming back ...
A. 1 September 2012: Stop doing favors for her...
Pretty simple really.... (read in full...)
Can we help determine the sex of a baby by the position we have sex in?
Q. Ok guys . I hope you can help me. My husband wants a little girl. Right know we have 3 boys. My mother in law and her sisters told me to do all the work in bed. My husband should just lay there while im on top. Is that true? Apparently according to ...
A. 31 August 2012: I doubt the position has anything to do with gender, maybe the timing (with regards to ovulation ) can effect it.
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My ex now flirts with me and claims he married his new wife for the wrong reasons
Q. im 23 years old and a single mom. my sons father and i didnt work out because we had a lot of resentment towards each other during the pregnancy. now that we have gone through court and its been a few years for us to mature some we realize the mist...
A. 31 August 2012: Honestly I would cut the contact with him to a minimum. Since you share a child that would be the ONLY topic I would talk to him about.
You know you two didn't work out and what he is doing now is sabotaging his OWN marriage and keeping you from... (read in full...)
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