Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 30 November 2012: Great news!!
I'm glad it paid off to be honest and upfront!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 27 September 2012: Good for you to own up to it. And good luck with next phase!... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...
A. 8 September 2012: If you are in college many colleges offer FREE counseling/therapy. Take advantage of that.
And honey, stop beating yourself up. You recognized that your behavior might not be for the best (for you) that is the first step, admitting and recogniz... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I think it was well worded and honest. ... (read in full...)
We decided to give it another go despite him cheating on me, but I'm struggling to move on....
Q. After it came to light that my boyfriend had cheated a year later we agreed to try sort things out. We had issues and we had been working the whole year to try fix things but I just can't move on. It hurts so much, I've even started having ...
A. 7 September 2012: Why on EARTH do you still "talk" to that girl? CUT her out of your life.
As for your BF, are you only staying with him because of the child? Because it doesn't sound like the relationship is making YOU happy at all. Just because he is "sorry" ... (read in full...)
I want to make him dump me so no-one blames me for ending the relationship, how do I do this?
Q. hello everyone. Its been more than a year since i have posted here.Well my life has been wonderful in the past year.The last time when i needed help it was about dating my cousin's ex and i got only one reply saying not to.But it was my bad that...
A. 7 September 2012: Honestly, just dump him. Get him out of your life. If his family talks smack about you there is nothing you can do. They will talk smack about you even if HE dumped you.
Just end it.... (read in full...)
Toxic father and less than optimum mother. Any suggestions on how I can move forward, to live a normal life, without resentment clouding every moment?
Q. I hate my father. He has always offended my sister, my older brother and i. He has 7 women as wives of which 6 had children for him. He completely ruined the lives of most of these women. We recently started discovering some more children. B...
A. 7 September 2012: Keep working on your plan to get far far away. The thing is all this hate for you dad will eventually HOLD you back. He is who he is, even if THAT is a sucky excuse for a husband, father and human being. You can't change him. But you can minimize ... (read in full...)
His wife only wants him back because she knows he was happy with me
Q. Please help i'm in a muddle! when i started my new job last year i met a lovely bloke in 1 of my calls. we always got on well and chatted. he told me he was married with children and i always asked after them its was strictly professional but i ad...
A. 7 September 2012: I would step back til the papers are signed. Because YOU are ending up in the middle and YOU are the one getting hurt here.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
I can't get over this male model but he doesn't like me in that way. Should I lose my virginity to him?
Q. Hi, I am a lost person at the moment. I had a thing with a male model we romanced three times with one almost leading to sex but I refused because I knew he did not like me. I still like this guy, even when I forgot him I dream about him and that ...
A. 7 September 2012: Ridiculous!
You barely know him. So because he is "pretty" you think he is worth having sex with for the first time? I'm sorry that is the silliest reason I have ever heard.
The fact that you have doubts means your gut is telling you some... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with C. Grant. Be 100% honest. I'm PRETTY sure they have seen/heard it before. Owning up to past mistakes I would think is better then having a polygraph that shows deceit.
Everyone has done something in their life they aren't proud of... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friend was hitting on me so I told my boyfriend, he got angry saying it was my fault!
Q. i dont know if im over reacting. I used to talk to my bf's bestfriend just a conversation stuff like that than all of a sudden he starts hitting on me telling me to come visit him, have a few and mess around and telling me not to tell him about ...
A. 7 September 2012: I think your BF is pulling a "bros before hoes" (not that you are a hoe...)
He is making an assumption that his friend would ONLY hit on your because you somehow started it.
I'm sorry that makes for a lousy BF. And lousy best friend.... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with Yos. Can you answer WHY you sleep with them all? The "I couldn't stop myself" is not an answer, you DO know WHY you are doing it. You just have to word it out and look for the real reason.
Are you hoping if you have sex, they wil... (read in full...)
Every time my g/f talks about her past I get pissed off
Q. Let me start off with introductions.My girlfriend and I have been together for like 3 months already. But we have known each other for 3 years already,took us long before we really bonded since we didn't really talk in the past. Well doesn't matter. ...
A. 6 September 2012: I don't think she is missing her ex, I think she is telling you all this in a way for her to make sense of some of it. Talking to someone who you think doesn't judge you can really help. So whether you like it or not you are helping her by ... (read in full...)
My libido has gone from 100% to about 10%
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over three years. I lost my virginity to him when I was thirteen, but as soon as my parents found out they broke us up. Anyway I’m eighteen now, and recently my libido has gone from 100% to about 10%. I ...
A. 6 September 2012: Are you on a new birth control or any birth control? If so it can be that the one you have is not working well for you. Also, when you two DO have sex is it satisfying? Does he take his time getting you in the mood or do you "just" grin and bear it" ... (read in full...)
Can you see why I am so angry? My husband thinks his job will be at stake if he stands up to his supervisor. She sends him texts about her sex life!.
Q. Ok, here's my problem. Been with bf for 5 and a 1/2 yrs, engaged have a little boy together, and boyfriend took on my 3 kids:) He started a new job in jan this year, and seems to like it now he's settled there a bit. His direct supervisor is fem...
A. 6 September 2012: You need to sit down with your husband and lay down HOW his actions are affecting you.
First off, either he deletes FB or he just block/remove her. She is a co-worker and he REALLY doesn't need her on his FB.
He also needs to stop responding ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend romantically roleplays with others, would I be wrong to ask her to stop?
Q. Ok so I'm in a rather unique situation right now. I'm in a long distance relationship with my current girlfriend and she is an avid roleplayer on various forums with multiple people. The problem lies whenever she romantically roleplays with someone. ...
A. 6 September 2012: I agree with IP. The lines get VERY blurred and honestly it seems to me like she expects you just just "play" along too. Which makes her quite selfish and not at all respectful.
I have to ask, did you two met through online role-play?
I think... (read in full...)
How can I study for an exam and attend a wedding that are both in the same month?
Q. Hey everyone, This is not a love related question but you guys are soo sensible I decided to reach out to you.. I have an important exam in december it literally decided my life,and who I will become..but I think my family they don't seem to ca...
A. 6 September 2012: Plan your study time. How many pages and how many subject - allow yourself 2 days off around the wedding - 1 for the hen party and one for the wedding and honestly, stop being so selfish.
Also if the house is on it's end due to wedding preparat... (read in full...)
How do I handle my posessive boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend lately is driving me crazy, he has gotten so possesive, it scares me.. A little background: it took my bf a really long time to ask me out..he is a very good looking man and has easily could sweep any woman off her fe...
A. 6 September 2012: He doesn't trust you, he make demands on whom you can talk to, he "stalks" your phone when you are pout and he isn't there....
The list of red flags go on and on and on.
1. If you wish to continue this relationship you need to grow a set. You ... (read in full...)
This guy who wanted me to be his FWB is going around telling my friends that he had a crush on me and we were good friends! What is wrong with him?
Q. A guy I know we used to be in the same university but then I took a transfer..he used to have a massive crush on me,but I didnt respond back.. A few weeks ago he indirectly asked if we could have a physical relationship without really being in a rel...
A. 6 September 2012: He is hoping to push you to be interested. Just keep ignoring him and tell your friends to do likewise (unless they are his friends too).
Apparently he didn't seem to understand your NO.... (read in full...)
Why do guys stare at me or laugh/smile when they see me?
Q. there are a group of guys in my school and i never talk to them. its like everytime i walk by they stare at me and whisper, i have same classes with couples of em, and i know everytime i walk into the classroom and no matter what im doing, they ...
A. 6 September 2012: Ignore it. He is doing it to get you to pay attention to him and to make you feel insecure.
If you ignore him he will find someone else to target.
... (read in full...)
Am I being used or Shes really busy?
Q. I recently knew Ms.XXX for 6months.I been asking Ms.XXX if she likes me; but I been getting "I don't know" as answer. Ms.XXX knows i love her and We been going out dining for the few months until Ms.XXX started working as a financial planner....
A. 6 September 2012: So she wants to use you for your insurance? I'm not sure how the insurance fits into the scheme.
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Should I get the gastric bypass surgery done?
Q. I'm 16 almost 17, I have always been overweight and at this time in my life I think I'm ready to move forward and start working to lose my weight. I'm in the 300s and I'd really love to lose this. I know people are going to say your young and w...
A. 6 September 2012: At your age? My advice would be no. You are young, with the right help/tools you can do this without surgery.
First off You need to go see your doctor. Get checked for any issue that might make it harder for you to lose weight, such a diabetes (... (read in full...)
Is she telling the truth about miscarrying?
Q. A girl i was seeing told me she was pregnant with my child and after stating her reasons she decided to terminate it as she said he wasnt mature enough or financially ready to bring up a child and also since alot of stuff had gone on between us she ...
A. 6 September 2012: Unless she is a total attention whore/drama llama I can't see why she would tell you about the pregnancy/miscarriage/abortion, unless it actually happened.
All of them are quite emotional to go though and since YOU were part of the pregnanc... (read in full...)
B/f cheated, got her pregnant but says he loves me more. What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend of 3years cheated on me for 3monthes with a girl much younger than me and even got her pregnant. i found out recently from the girl her self. i asked him but at first he was denying later on he told me the truth but he says he loves me ...
A. 6 September 2012: Tell him good luck and good riddance. He can't have you both. That isn't fair on anyone.
Dumb the cheating loser.... (read in full...)
I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all. Is this because of hormonal imbalance?
Q. I am a 15 year old male and I was wondering if my sexual orientations are due to hormones? I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all.. And I am only attracted to some women (usually middle aged) but have emotional ...
A. 6 September 2012:
At 15... it's not strange to have "odd" sexual attractions. And it's not uncommon to have your hormones messed up at your age, it will settle in time, but it will fluctuate a lot in your teens. Don't fret.
Relax.... (read in full...)
How do I get over anger from a troubled relationship?
Q. How can I get over this? Sorry for the ramble in advance. So it seems I'm at the end of a very troubled relationship. Me and my boyfriend have gone out for almost a year this month. He moved in with me in Dec. Since around January we've had...
A. 5 September 2012: Kick him out, if he still lives with you and STOP taking him back!
Do it for YOU!
You keep going back to it and THAT is one of the reasons you are having a hard time getting over it I think. You really need to forgive yourself for thinking he ... (read in full...)
Am I being used or Shes really busy?
Q. I recently knew Ms.XXX for 6months.I been asking Ms.XXX if she likes me; but I been getting "I don't know" as answer. Ms.XXX knows i love her and We been going out dining for the few months until Ms.XXX started working as a financial planner....
A. 5 September 2012: She doesn't seem to be into you at all. Sorry.... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments?
Q. How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments? I'm still in my second month of marriage and my husband's mother and brother are living with us currently, because they are repairing their home... It's only a matter of a few weeks until they...
A. 5 September 2012: Take the high road. Obviously your SIL is a little jealous of you. I'm glad to head your husband stood up to her.
What can you do? Let it go. Just accept this this woman is petty. It's who she is. Avoid as much as possible but enjoy the rest of ... (read in full...)
15 year old pupil is hitting on me - her teacher. Should I report this?
Q. I am in a terribly difficult situation. I have been teaching for 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever had this particular problem. There is a girl in one of my classes; she is very young, 14/15 years old, a child. Now I have had students have ...
A. 5 September 2012: I would report it and have her moved from your class.
I understand that you may not be able to control your body's reactions, but you need to ensure that you are not alone with her AT ALL. You can ALWAYS walk away, you know.
She isn't wor... (read in full...)
I think my best friend slept with my FWB
Q. I think my best friend slept with my friends with benifits. She brings him up alot. How do I find out ? I slept with him two daya ago thimgs were good...
A. 4 September 2012: You aren't DATING your FWB you are just having sex with him, so you two AREN'T exclusive, which means............. HE can sleep with whomever he likes as well, including your friend.
Now if you don't like that... then FWB is not for you.... (read in full...)
How much of a deal breaker is penis size?
Q. I've seen a lot of penis anxiety threads based around "reassure me, is insert size normal?" but I'm going to come at it from another (still similar) angle. I'm 23, relatively slim although my guts bigger than it's ever been (people still ac...
A. 4 September 2012: I have never considered the guys penis size as a deal-breaker, unless it's so darn huge that it's painful.
I don't compare the guys penis I have had relationships with either. I'm not one for taking out the measuring tape or ruler and see if h... (read in full...)
He has also been going to his ex girlfriends house.. Is it something I did? Do I say something?
Q. I have been seeing this guy who's my friend's brother. He is a lot older than me and when we started seeing each other i said i wasnt interested because he had a girlfriend but he reassured me they werent together he told me he really liked me...
A. 4 September 2012: He lied to get you in bed. I would honestly stay far far away from him. And next time don't jump into bed with a guy only after two weeks, make sure you two are on the same page.. you can't know that after only 2 week.
Chin up.... (read in full...)
How do I end this babysitting arrangement without things becoming awkward?
Q. I've been babysitting on and off for a couple (I'll call them J and B) with a little boy of two years old since October 2011. They didn't used to call me often, maybe once a month, but since around April of this year they've been in touch more ...
A. 4 September 2012: Just tell them next time you babysit or next time they call that you can't work as their babysitter any more, you need to focus on your schooling.
You don't OWE them anything.
... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend pay something if he moves into my house?
Q. My bf and i will soon be moving in together - he will be moving into my house. We have already agreed on that we will split the utilities bills and food. However he doesnt think he should pay anything weekly. Obviously i am not looking to make any ...
A. 4 September 2012: Whatever you decide make SURE you and your BF got it straight and preferably on paper.
Figure out the cost of living (and I can't see why he shouldn't help with the mortgage/rent either) Split the other bills. You two can keep your phones/c... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend blew off my birthday. His birthday is in a few days. Should I blow it off or at least send him a card?
Q. My LDR boyfriend of 1.5 yrs allegedly forgot my birthday (*actually, I think he remembered 2 days before but decided to be cheap and blow it off). When I didn't speak to him for 2 days, he still didn't try to make it up to me, so I asked him to ...
A. 4 September 2012: Honestly, I WOULD sent him a card, because that is the kinda person I AM. However, I would take a GOOD long hard look at this relationship and see if it's actually worth staying in.... (read in full...)
Do I leave my wife over breast implants?
Q. my wife lies to me she had a breast implants done without my permission i dont like it what will i do. leave her?...
A. 4 September 2012: Isn't it HER body?
I mean ideally I think she should have talked to you about it, but really? fake boobies means the end of a marriage to you?
... (read in full...)
I'm a male teacher. How do I handle an aggressive 13 year old female student?
Q. I am a male secondary school teacher (I'm 26). One of my female students keeps staring at me and flicking her hair and calling me over to her desk. She's 13. I try not to look at her inappropriately. She always flirts and makes me feel awkward. What ...
A. 4 September 2012: I think I would have a chat with school guidance counselor. I would also suggest you find an older teacher and asks how he/she deals with this. It's not that uncommon for students to have crushes on teachers.
You are the adult here, so don't le... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't get off from blow jobs
Q. My boyfriend says that he can't come from blowjobs. Is this true of some guys or am i just doing it wrong? Tips?!...
A. 4 September 2012: No, he is most likely telling you the truth. Some guys can't get off that way at all.
You can go at it til your jaws lock up lol.
Use it as fore-play.... (read in full...)
I'm married but attracted to a guy at work. My husband is okay with it, but how do I approach him?
Q. Hi! I'm 35 yrs old, married and i'm attracted to this guy at work. I feel he likes me too. I told my husband about this and he' ok with it. I only slept with one guy which is my husband. He said it's ok to have sex with him if it comes to that. My ...
A. 3 September 2012: Are you really SURE your husband is OK with it, and not just saying it to keep you happy?
Once you go down that road there is NO going back, your marriage will NEVER be the same.
Why on EARTH do you think you need to have sex with someone bes... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I tell this guy I'm dating (I'm not) just so he won't try to ask me out?
Q. Hi! I just started my freshman year of college a week ago. It has been a pretty difficult adjustment for me and I'm just trying to hang in there and hope it sorts itself out. Well, one of the problems I had during my first week was this guy in my Fr...
A. 3 September 2012: Lying can complicate things. Let's say you lie. But there is a guy you ARE interested in, he talks to the one you AREN'T into and this second guy tells him, oh she has a BF and you... end up missing out..
I would just be honest. Tell him you don'... (read in full...)
He broke up and just wants to be friends, I really want him back. What do I do?
Q. I broke up with my bf 1 month ago there wasnt cheating involved though. I had need dating my bf Chad for 2 years he told me we fighted too much and he just wanted to be my friend. Sometimes I miss him a lot so I texted him begging him to come back ...
A. 3 September 2012: You can't make him want to be with you again, and honestly staying friends is NOT going to help you in any way, form or shape.... (read in full...)
I feel like people show me that being a virgin at my age is like being cursed and it's seriously getting on my nerves.
Q. Hey. I'm going to turn 20 in two weeks and I'm still a female virgin. Most of my friends had already sex which make me feel a little bit left out. Besides, some of them are really annoying about it. Generally, people don't know about it and They are ...
A. 3 September 2012: I would ignore them and do what you feel/think/believe is right.
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He ignores his own 6 children. I tried to help but it was too much. Is it reasonable for me to now focus on myself and my son?
Q. Well here I go... I have had posts about the same thing several times but my situation keeps changing so here I go... I am with a guy I love, he is the father of my only son... He's funny, witty, intelligent, loving, affectionate... ...
A. 3 September 2012:
The thing is, all these kids. He must be paying a LOT in child maintenance? How does that affect your finances? Are those other kids "ooops" children or were they planned? Has he explained WHY he doesn't interact with his other kids?
You can't... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used my phone to send himself a picture of my sister's fake boobs
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs and last year when I was getting ready really early for work I noticed my boyfriends phone receiving a message and I glanced at his phone and noticed the message was from me. I was confused because I had not ...
A. 3 September 2012: What a lying sleaze bag.
I wouldn't trust him any further then I could throw him.
Stop talking to him. You are starting to doubt yourself and starting to believe him, I think that is a mistake.
He is sorry he got caught. Not sorry for do... (read in full...)
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