Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 30 November 2012: Great news!!
I'm glad it paid off to be honest and upfront!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 27 September 2012: Good for you to own up to it. And good luck with next phase!... (read in full...)
Why do women get post natal depression, while others haven't found love/ struggle with infertility?
Q. Why would you get post natal depression? What is there to get depressed about? As I haven't had children I can't understand. As opposed to be single and getting depressed because you haven't met The right person yet and don't know if you will...
A. 14 September 2012: Having kids doesn't give me the right to judge those who doesn't. I have friends who CHOSE to not have kids, I think that is their right and their choice.
But in your case, you NEED to learn how to tell people to BUTT out of your life if they sto... (read in full...)
Why is it that a guy can have a girlfriend but when his female friend starts dating, he suddenly becomes jealous and possessive?
Q. Hey all. Tell me, why is it that a guy can have a girlfriend but when his female friend starts dating, he suddenly becomes jealous and possessive? I see this happen all the time! I told my male friend I liked him more than friends. He to...
A. 11 September 2012: Being friend with a person of the opposite sex usually don't work well long term once "romantic emotions" start to develop in my experience at least.
I would honestly either cut the contact with this "friend" or take a break from him and focus on... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kept his friend's secret, but betrayed mine with ease
Q. Hello everyone,It is going to be long but please bear with me! I love my boyfriend and i believe he loves me too.We have been together for almost 3 years now.His best friend is also one of my friends, but he has been acting like a bad friend.I...
A. 11 September 2012: I don't really know why you two having sex needed to be a secret, you two have been together for 3 years so it would seem reasonable that sex might be part of it.
However, I'm sure you had your reasons.
He can't "take it back" as it's already ... (read in full...)
My cheating ex seems to be trying to inch his way back into my life
Q. Hi all got a problem with the ex. We was together for a year or so and things was great between us,lived together, we was like best friends until i noticed he was a bit controlling, didnt like me going out without him drinking, was always on my ba...
A. 11 September 2012: Just because HE wants more doesn't mean you HAVE to go back to the relationship, YOU know what kind of guy he is, you KNOW how he made you feel.
Be firm and if that is too hard ask someone else to bring over the baby and pick him up, so you can ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me as if I were a wife, but he won't marry me
Q. Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend are seeing each other for 5 years now why doesn’t he want to marry me I ask him why? He immediately says it’s just that I can’t marry you he told me then I ask him do you love me. And he said yes; what the matter ...
A. 11 September 2012: Can you not get birth control? To prevent pregnancies? And can you not see that you need to tell this man to stay out of your life so you CAN met someone for you.
He can't marry YOU - he IS married.
... (read in full...)
He left his mistress to reconcile with me but he keeps comparing me to her
Q. I'll try to keep this short. My husband and I had been married only 3 years when I caught him having an affair. Long story, but the short version is that he told me he had to visit a sick relative over Xmas. What really happened is that he was 1...
A. 10 September 2012: Why the HECK are you even with the man? Obviously he doesn't want you, he is just hanging on to you til he finds the "next best thing".
And from what you write you are an attractive lady yet you make this DOUCHE of an EX HUSBAND berate you and ... (read in full...)
I've had it with my husband's cheating, what is the quickest way to get over him?
Q. my husband has been cheating on me from when i was pregnant and ive just had it with the cheating...im really tired of all this...a week ago i went to the doctor and discovered that i have a stress related infection in my mouth...i dont want to end ...
A. 10 September 2012: Is divorce an option? Can you support yourself and your child? I think the sooner you leave him behind on your dust the better to build on your future.... (read in full...)
He says I'm a great woman, but he only wants a sexual relationship...what am I to do?
Q. He says that he doesn't see a serious relationship with me because, I'm not part of his culture and that when it comes to building a family, the way he children will look, they language they speak and the culture is very important to him, THUS he ...
A. 10 September 2012: What are you to do?
Take your hand (either of them will do) and put it behind your back, try and feel all the bumps on your back, THAT is your spine!
He ONLY wants you for sex. He gives you enough compliments to get you to drop your panties whi... (read in full...)
My Ex: What to do? Do I take a break from him or stay around and see what eventuates?
Q. my ex and i text everyday and talk about everything School,family,work,cars and Guys/Girls we find attractive and i mean everything. We even go out to eat and see movies together, its like were best friends. The thing is he knows i have feeling...
A. 10 September 2012: I think he is "just not that into you" as anything then a friend and I don't think that will change.
The more time you spend with him, the harder it is going to be for you to find someone who wants you in the same way you want them.
It is n... (read in full...)
He seemed very into me, so why did things change?
Q. A while ago i met a guy while out for a friends birthday. I started talking to this guy everyday (through text and over the phone cause we both work a lot and he lives about an hour away) he called me babe and always had nice things to ...
A. 10 September 2012: I'm guessing there was another girl at the second house he wanted to hook up with. Or that he was already dating.
I would stop talking to him and move on.... (read in full...)
I've become attached to my fiance's nephew
Q. I am 20 years old. My fiance, boyfriend, whatever you want to call him is 50. We are swingers, which means we're in an open relationship. now that the info is over, here's my story. I was driving home from my uncle's house one night and saw my...
A. 10 September 2012: Very well put anonymous male reader!
Yes, having a swinger lifestyle with a 50 year old is not at all a healthy choice for a 20 year old (or most ages really). Then having sex with his nephew? Are you trying to "keep it in the family"?
I will ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move or wait until she is single?
Q. Hi. I like this girl and I know she likes me too, the problem is she is taken. Should I make a move on her and disregard her boyfriend or should I NOT make a move because she has a boyfriend?...
A. 10 September 2012: I agree - do NOT make a move. IF she wants to BE WITH YOU she will leave her BF. It's not like she is chained in his basement...
People hitting on people who are in relationship are disrespectful, don't be like that.
I wouldn't "sit by the phon... (read in full...)
B/f on dating site saying he was single, we've been dating for 3 years!
Q. Hiya, I'm in a bit of a pickle. My boyfriend and I have started sharing his email account and he left his laptop here for me to use as mines broke. Basically I went to send a email and I found that he had dating matches so I had a look. It said ...
A. 10 September 2012: I would bring it up. I would want to know WHY he made an account, why he thought it would be OK to make one, and I SURE as hay wouldn't believe a "oh just for fun" excuse or a I don't know...
Then I guess it all comes down to how he acts and what... (read in full...)
Now that we are not together anymore he wants my picture!
Q. Hi everyone I had going through a really tough situation my fwb and I decided to try make a go of having a proper relationship but a few weeks later I founf out he had been sleeping with another woman and he always accused me of seeing someone else ...
A. 9 September 2012: Trophy pure and simple.. I "tagged" this....
Stop talking to him 100% delete/block his number and move on.... (read in full...)
Why does he go out of his way to push my buttons when I'm having my period?
Q. Around the time of my period, I've noticed myself to be in a pretty bad mood, feeling crappy and being over-emotional. I admit that. What I don't get is why my bf pushes my buttons about it. He will know that I'm on my period, and ANY comment I make ...
A. 9 September 2012: Next time you are on your period give yourself a break and tell him to stay away.
... (read in full...)
Is my wifes best friend playing games?
Q. Over the last few months my wifes bestfriend has been going through a divorce. My wife and i have known this women for around ten years now and over those years have given her the support she needs during her rocky marriage, through texting, phone ...
A. 9 September 2012: Um I'd venture a guess that your WIFE told her what you thought and the best-friend DIDN'T have those feelings for you and felt the best way to let HER best-friend know, is to avoid you like the plague.
So you thought she had a crush on you, but... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship so why is my FWB acting this way?
Q. Hey everyone, I have been friends with benefits with this guy for like 2 and half years now!!well here's the thing we met at a bar,hooked up and I thought I would be a one night stand BUT no we ended up doing it over and over again! Its been 2 yea...
A. 9 September 2012: So he is not REALLY your FWB, he is your booty call. And I don't think he likes that. Doesn't mean he wants a relationship with you, he just doesn't want to feel like you only like him for his dick.. not so strange really.... (read in full...)
How far should we go without being in a proper relationship?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about three weeks, however we have known each other this whole year. We have seen each other about 6 times in the past three weeks, including three times this past week. We have made out and the other day we went a bit ...
A. 9 September 2012: I do think you need to talk to him as well. Caring Guy put it well.
No one is a mind reader. And you know what they say about ASSuming. :)... (read in full...)
Should I confront my wife about her old pictures which I found?
Q. I was going through some photos with my wife, and came across a couple of her I didn't recognize. I know what year they were taken, and it's the year we broke up for a couple months. During that time she had a fling with an older man. I've been ...
A. 9 September 2012: You think you see his reflection? Are you looking for some kind of evidence to prove a point?
I think YOU should just ask her about tossing them. But to confront her about an alleged reflection? That is not really going to help you.
As for ... (read in full...)
How do I let my wife know I found her vibrators without it looking like I was snooping?
Q. Hi Married for 10 yrs, wife and I have great sex, when we have it. Over the last 6 mth or so, we only have sex when she drinks, which is maybe once a month. I heard all the excuses...You smell like choclate, you smell like garlic, you are ...
A. 9 September 2012: I agree with Ciar here.
I don't think it's the vibrator that makes her want you less.
Aside from hardly ever having sex, how IS the sex when you do have it? Is she satisfied? You said YOU had great sex WHEN you have it, but the question is ... (read in full...)
Am I justified in feeling very upset at his refusal to apply the topical medical the Dr ordered to stop me getting more Urinary Tract infections?
Q. I recently got a urinary tract infection (UTI) and was in terrible discomfort and pain for several days. I was treated with a dose of anti-biotics and was told that my partner would also have to apply a topical medicine on his penis so that there ...
A. 9 September 2012: Condoms can perhaps also help prevent UTI's. But yes, if he can help you NOT get another UTI he should.
Stop giving in. It's REALLY that simple.... (read in full...)
My parents allow my younger sister more freedom than I ever had. Makes things very difficult. What changes should I instigate to help me cope with this?
Q. This doesn't really have anything to do with relationships, but I need some advice. I hate hate hate being the oldest sibling. I have one younger sister, 15 years old, and I love her to bits but she is driving me insane right now. Ever since she...
A. 9 September 2012: I agree with Caring Guy.
As a parent I can tell you this. Child #1 is the guinea pig. That is the one we "test" out how to raise the others. Whether the #1 child likes it or not.
I think you are also a tad jealous at your sister and hones... (read in full...)
Would you consider this as stalker-like behaviour?
Q. Hello all, I am just wanting an opinion on a situation that has arisen on Facebook. I have a "friend" who I met through a mutual interest site. We spoke for a long time, and eventually added each other. I figured this would be fine, sin...
A. 9 September 2012: I agree with Daisy. I would change my private setting and if he still seems "creepy" I would defriend & block.... (read in full...)
How do you all feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage?
Q. How do you all (ladies AND gentlemen) feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage. SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY. I'm not talking about "the other woman" who has no idea that the guy has a wife/girlfriend. I'm talking about...
A. 9 September 2012: I think (and this is a generalization of course) that women who CHOOSES to "date" married men are selfish and lazy.
They don't CARE that he has a wife, they assume that they have a golden twat that no man can resist, and that he will eventual... (read in full...)
Can a man that wants friendship (can't let you go in this way) but keeps making it more like an affair ever really let it be a real relationship
Q. I know I have already figured out what I need to do, but, still have questions about why a man would do what the man I loved did. Two men actually, but will just concentrate on the first for right now. I am a real life soap opera without meaning to ...
A. 8 September 2012: I'm sorry if I offended you with the affair comment, but honestly wasn't it one? He has seeing someone who he called his STEADY girlfriend, so what does that make you? You were aware of this GF right? You had a choice to say no to sex?
You m... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to stay in this relationship and go behind my parents' back? I only regret the way we met but not meeting him.
Q. Ok,rewind to start. In a moment of teenage rebellion, I (a typical goodgirl to my parents and teachers) decided to go on to a website which lets you talk to strangers. now, my parents hate the internet for one plain reason: you can talk to stra...
A. 8 September 2012: I think if you feel THAT strongly about him you SHOULD tell your parents, they MIGHT surprise you.
Keeping the relationship behind their back will put a serious "dent" in the relationship.
And I DO think that is is possible to feel a sense of ... (read in full...)
Am I a racist for not liking a black guy?
Q. I’m a young gay man and I feel like I’m a bad person. I’m receiving a lot of attention from a black guy (I'm white myself). He’s being really nice, giving me small gifts and everything, asking me to go out with him. We’ve talked many times, he’s a ...
A. 8 September 2012: Just wanted to say a LOUD AMEN! to Beingblack.
Whenever my kids have forms from school/sport to fill out and the "race" question comes up, I ALWAYS put "other" and HUMAN RACE.
Because I believe the idea of "races" is ridiculous and i... (read in full...)
I'm a plus size woman who has lost weight recently. Why has my Bf made no comments on my weight loss?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a plus sized woman with an average sized boyfriend. He makes me feel so confident with myself and always shows so much respect for me. I have been starting to lose a sigificant amount of weight, and he hasn't mentioned an...
A. 8 September 2012: Maybe your weight doesn't matter to him, only that you are happy. Or he is one of the SMART guys who knows that most women are sensitive about their weight.
If he started to give you comments about how awesome you look now compared to before ,... (read in full...)
Why do women get post natal depression, while others haven't found love/ struggle with infertility?
Q. Why would you get post natal depression? What is there to get depressed about? As I haven't had children I can't understand. As opposed to be single and getting depressed because you haven't met The right person yet and don't know if you will...
A. 8 September 2012: Honestly, I thought this was a joke at first.
No woman chooses to have postpartum depression. It has to do with a chemical and hormonal imbalance brought on BY the pregnancy and birth.
Instead of being jealous toward women who suffer through t... (read in full...)
Two days after I posted our pictures on Facebook he deleted his account
Q. my boyfriend and i started our relationship july17 of 2011. I was working as a nurse in a hospital in Sudan and he was a student of aeronautic engineer in a university in the same place he was still in his 4th year and now he is on his final year. ...
A. 8 September 2012: I have to ask WHY would your relationship be destroyed due to a Facebook account?
I mean YOU "could" keep all pictures private so ONLY friends can see them, which means HIS family can't (unless they are friends of yours on Facebook and it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Should I feel threatened that she wants him back? Do I stay out of this, or do I mark my territory?
Q. A while ago I met a great guy after 3 years of being single. It took me along time to get over my marriage to my previous husband and spent my single time having fun and enjoying life and trying to repair any damaged caused from that marr...
A. 8 September 2012: I think I would go on my gut and trust him to do what's right. Personally, I don't think there is ANY good reason to see her in person, but I wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
I think, however, that if he REALLY doesn't want any contact with her... (read in full...)
What can I do about the unwanted gift my mother in law gave me? It disturbed my husband and I. What was I supposed to do?
Q. I'm in a situation that I'm not sure whether was a nice gesture or something very strange/kind of disturbing. I'm not sure how to prevent future uncomfortable incidents without hurting my mother-in-law's feelings. Some background info might be ne...
A. 8 September 2012: Ewww!
Either donate them or pack them in a box and stick them in the garage...
LOL you have some fun In-laws.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to stay in this relationship and go behind my parents' back? I only regret the way we met but not meeting him.
Q. Ok,rewind to start. In a moment of teenage rebellion, I (a typical goodgirl to my parents and teachers) decided to go on to a website which lets you talk to strangers. now, my parents hate the internet for one plain reason: you can talk to stra...
A. 8 September 2012: How much older is this guy? How well do you REALLY know him. People will tell you EXACTLY what they think you want to hear in order to get X,Y,Z from you.
And LOVE? Honey... Infatuation, lust, crush, adoration, admiration is not too hard, but actu... (read in full...)
He mentioned the possibility of us seeing others whilst we are apart. I don't know what to do.
Q. I have been in a committed, monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. During this time we attended the same college, maintained relationships with mutual friends, worked together, lived together, backpacked Europe ...
A. 8 September 2012:
To me it seems like you are talking about an open relationship, and those RARELY work.
I think once you start to add OTHER people it's only downhill from there. Someone is BOUND to get a strong emotional attachment.... (read in full...)
Can a man that wants friendship (can't let you go in this way) but keeps making it more like an affair ever really let it be a real relationship
Q. I know I have already figured out what I need to do, but, still have questions about why a man would do what the man I loved did. Two men actually, but will just concentrate on the first for right now. I am a real life soap opera without meaning to ...
A. 8 September 2012: I'm not sure why you would in a sense" degrade" yourself to having an affair (cause that is what is was) with this guy, he HAS/HAD a steady GF. I don't care how much he SAID he wanted to be with you... You should have held off as he was seeing ... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...
A. 8 September 2012: If you are in college many colleges offer FREE counseling/therapy. Take advantage of that.
And honey, stop beating yourself up. You recognized that your behavior might not be for the best (for you) that is the first step, admitting and recogniz... (read in full...)
He used me and I hate him, so why can't I get over him?
Q. Can someone explain to me why I can't get over someone even though he used me? We're the same age but I was still naive. Basically I fancied him, and he knew. He asked out one of my closest friends, and being a good friend she asked itf it was okay. ...
A. 7 September 2012: Are you sure you are more mad at him or yourself for being duped?
Let it go, the guy is an asshat and one of these days he will get a dose of his own medicine.
Don't waste your life with "hating" people because the only person that "hate" hurt... (read in full...)
Am I a racist for not liking a black guy?
Q. I’m a young gay man and I feel like I’m a bad person. I’m receiving a lot of attention from a black guy (I'm white myself). He’s being really nice, giving me small gifts and everything, asking me to go out with him. We’ve talked many times, he’s a ...
A. 7 September 2012: I don't think it makes you a racist. We all have a "type" and obviously "black" isn't yours.
But stop accepting gifts and stuff from this guy, that is like stringing him along. Tell him he just isn't your type.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 4 years won't stop going on dating sites. Is it worth trying to sort this out?
Q. Hi, I am new on here and would really like some advice on what to do. I have been with my boyfriend 4 years. He wont stop going on dating sites. I have caught him doing it and seen it with my own eyes 3 times, I have also got to the point where I ...
A. 7 September 2012: The thing is, he keeps doing it and every time he gets caught, he is "sorry" and your "forgive" him, it's vicious cycle that is not going to stop.
He does it because he CAN. A guy trolling dating site are ( in my opinion) looking for greener ... (read in full...)
He is my one regret in life - should I call him even though he never answered my message on Facebook?
Q. I'm so confused. There was a guy I had been seeing a while back but I wasn't in a good place in my life and we stopped talking. We started talking again later on but I had just move over an hour away and had no car or anything so we never hung out. ...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with SVC - you put the ball in his court. He didn't pick it up, so you need to let it go.... (read in full...)
Can the way a person hugs be a sign of how they feel towards you?
Q. I have a question about...different types of hugs. And the reason why is because, well, I've seen articles about how you can kind of tell how a guy feels about you by the way that he hugs you. This is an interesting subject for me, beca...
A. 7 September 2012: Sometimes how people hug has more to do with the situation then how they feel. Though I highly doubt he would hug someone he DIDN'T like with such fierceness.
However, I would try to not read too much into it.
... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I think it was well worded and honest. ... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with C. Grant. Be 100% honest. I'm PRETTY sure they have seen/heard it before. Owning up to past mistakes I would think is better then having a polygraph that shows deceit.
Everyone has done something in their life they aren't proud of... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with Yos. Can you answer WHY you sleep with them all? The "I couldn't stop myself" is not an answer, you DO know WHY you are doing it. You just have to word it out and look for the real reason.
Are you hoping if you have sex, they wil... (read in full...)
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