Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!
Q. Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...
A. 18 March 2013: STUFF (tv, IPod and what not) doesn't mean your parent LOVE him more or you more. The size of his room doesn't mean they love him more. Maybe your parents are overcompensating due to the Asperges? Have you thought of that? Many parents who have ... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 30 November 2012: Great news!!
I'm glad it paid off to be honest and upfront!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant with another man's baby?
Q. My husband and I have had alot of issues that we just cant seem to get over. 3 months ago I told him I was unhappy and didnt love him anymore and didnt want to be with him. we have 2 children together and he said to me if I left he would take the ...
A. 29 September 2012: Seriously?
I understand that your marriage feels over for you, but WHY the unprotected sex?
I agree with the Aunts/Uncles who says go for the divorce. Staying with a man because he threatens to take your kids is not fair on anyone. How do y... (read in full...)
He played me and tore out my heart. How could he do this to a good hearted person?
Q. Hello everyone. I hope you can help me because I have never felt more down or heartbroken in my life. I have been married for ten years and my husband left me about a year ago. I do not have a lot of experience with men. I have only had my hus...
A. 29 September 2012: I wouldn't spend time worrying about WHY he did it, I would spend time looking back and noticing all the red flags.
1. He had a GF yet had NO problem flirting with you and basically hitting on you.
BIGGEST red flag there is. He isn't respecting... (read in full...)
Does the love for a previous partner fade away in time, or is there always something there?
Q. This question is directed mainly at the guys, but ladies please feel free to answer too :) My current boyfriend is my first for everything, and hopefully he'll be my last! We're a long distance couple, have been together for two years now and I ...
A. 29 September 2012: My first BF and fist love will always have a piece of my heart and a place in my heart but the overall LOVE I felt for him has faded. The other two guys I dated (one was a total Douche King) faded faster, I guess it depends on how strongly you felt ... (read in full...)
Is he playing games or is there hope?
Q. Ok me and my ex been off and on for about 2yrs. I just want to know is he sincere about us. Like he tells me that he knows that I'm the right one for him and no matter who he is dating or talking to whenever he think or plan out his future I'm t...
A. 29 September 2012: Honestly, I think he LOVES to string you along. That way he can do his own crap and if that doesn't work out for HIM he's got you to fall back on. So he can date others while he "gets himself" together but you can't? How is that even fair? And why ... (read in full...)
Do you believe a mans view on a woman can change?
Q. If a man has been nothing but disrepsectful for most or all of his years, (since puberty to say) do you truly believe they could see women than more than boobs and ass? Do you believe a man could change and accept a woman properly if theyve had this ...
A. 29 September 2012: It depends, on the man and the women who have been around him.
If he dates women who will "allow" this, I don't see he would feel a need to change. And most likely a guy like that knows EXACTLY how to pick a woman who at least for a while accept h... (read in full...)
I think my friend is making a mistake -- would it be better just to keep my mouth shut?
Q. My best friend has started sleeping with a guy from work who is married. They live on a campus and he is her next door neighbour. She says they both know it is going nowhere but she is happy for it to continue. She had a terrible relationshi...
A. 28 September 2012: I think if she asks you can be honest, I certainly would be. Do you really think if you brought it up and told her what she was doing is "wrong" that she would stop?
I'm not one for telling people how to live, unless they ask me.
(except my ki... (read in full...)
A girl I had sex with is pregnant.
Q. Girl i know is pregnant? well there is this girl that i slept with on aug 27, i(A) did not ejactulate in her at all, she told me that she slept with another guy (B) in the same week which was on august 29 and 30, comes to find out on that she is p...
A. 28 September 2012: *********does that mean that guy B is the most likely the father?*********
No.
That is the simple answer. It all depends on when she ovulated, not just when sperm was in/near her vagina.
If she keep the baby the only way you will know 100% i... (read in full...)
Is he taking me for a fool or am I being needy and pathetic?
Q. Hi I'm very confused by my boyfriends behavior recently. We've only been officially together for just over a month but I met him 3 months ago which I know is still no time at all but I've fallen hard and I thought it was mutual. Firstly I have...
A. 28 September 2012: Seems like you gained a dog and lost a BF...
He doesn't seem interested at all. I personally find it odd that he hasn't at least checked in with you about his dog. I tell you if ANYONE was watching my kids or fur-kids I would call them daily. I... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him treating me this way, but I don't want to leave him.
Q. My bf of 2 years never has time for me, whenever I call he picks up a fight and tells me not to call him ever. After 2 or 3 days he calls me back and apologizes and the same thing happens again. Whenver i try to talk to hiim regarding this, he ...
A. 28 September 2012: Wishing he would change is nice, but not realistic. Einstein said a lot of smart things in his life, this one is one of my favorites:
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein
... (read in full...)
I need a way of telling my boyfriend that I want exclusivity and a serious relationship without him feeling like he has to give up his freedom
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks and one week ago we had a talk about where our relationship was going. He said he "cant commit" until college finishes up in one or so months because everything is so busy etc. and asked me what I would ...
A. 28 September 2012: I agree 100% with YouWish.
In the future if you WANT a relationship with exclusivity, don't have sex til you both can agree on it.... (read in full...)
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites
Q. hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...
A. 27 September 2012: Just end it and put him behind you, you don't HAVE to have set in stone proof, his behavior added with e-mail already being registered kinda tell it all.
UNLESS... he signed up BEFORE he met you and didn't delete it.... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 27 September 2012: Good for you to own up to it. And good luck with next phase!... (read in full...)
The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions
Q. Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relation...
A. 27 September 2012: I understand that the wedding is planned and you got your dress, but .......
Every time you ASK him - he comes up with the LAMEST excuses and you accept it (even if you don't really believe him) and you stay.
I'm wondering if you feel like yo... (read in full...)
How can I improve my ballet skills?
Q. Hello everyone. This isn't a relationship question, but if you can provide, I'd love to receive some advice on the best ways to improve my ballet, leaps and turns mostly. I aspire to audition for the musical theatre program at my school and my fr...
A. 27 September 2012: Take classes and get a good coach.... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision to leave my boyfriend?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple of days ago. We were living together for 2 of those years and frankly I was beginning to despise him. I'm not sure why I have so much anger towards him. He was really expressive with his love, always ...
A. 27 September 2012: I'm pretty sure you know he wan't the right guy for you and that ended it was the right thing for you.
Sure he had some good points, but obviously they didn't out weight the bad ones.
Don't doubt your decisions or second guess yourself.
Tim... (read in full...)
She gave me her number but then didn't reply to my text. Why?
Q. I have been talking to this girl at work. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I sent her a text message today and never got a reply. What does that mean? How do i react to her at work, since she didn't reply my text message?...
A. 27 September 2012: Um,Why not simply CALL her?
If you see her at work say hi and see how she reacts.... (read in full...)
I cant handle all this drama anymore, is this normal behaviour for a man?
Q. My boyfriend is interested in buying a second hand suit (not really a suit, but just for the story's sake we'll say it's a suit). I went to look at it with him. It seems nice. I have a seamstress whom I trust very much. I told my boyfriend that ...
A. 26 September 2012: Honestly, if this is HIS pattern why do you keep engaging in it? If he likes a "suit" and isn't sure he want to buy it, leave it up to him to decide, I would stop offering advice if THAT is how he responds. He obviously can't handle advice. I think ... (read in full...)
Is it odd that I can only contact my BF via facebook?
Q. Is it strange that the only way i can contact/speak to my boyfriend in the evenings is via facebook? We've been together for 4 years. I dont think he is cheating but i dont understand it. When he gets home from work, he puts his phone away and d...
A. 26 September 2012: Seriously odd!
I have 3 numbers where I can reach my hubby is he is not at home, his cell, his office and the staff duty desk - they can usually track him down if I can't.
Have you ASKED him how you are supposed to get hold of him in an emerge... (read in full...)
How to figure out men in their late 50's?
Q. I've been seeing someone in his late 50's and I have no idea what sort of mind games he is playing. Sometimes when I tell him I miss him, he would reply my text with a smile icon. Sometimes even though he read my "I miss you" text, he wouldn't reply ...
A. 26 September 2012: I RARELY text at ALL.. only time it happens is when a friend text me and I don't feel like a 1-2 hour phone conversation.
So my guess is, he is not big on texting.
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We were getting close after she broke up with her boyfriend but now she's said she isnt sure if she can love anyone else. What is going on?
Q. So here am I in a new dilemma... The situation is like this, she isn't with her bf anymore because he betrayed her.. She had a 5yr relationship with him.. But now she ended up with him! Its been 5months we have been with each other.. (not in ...
A. 26 September 2012: So you two have been flirting for 5 months, but she only got dumped 2 weeks ago? Am I reading that right? So she was having an emotional affair with you while he stepped out on her?
I think you need to back off and let her get though mourning... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend think I'm with him for his money?
Q. Hey everyone,I'v been dating a guy for 3 years now and I love to death,he means the world to me but he is a well known businessman of the city and I'm happy for him,he is constantly busy and whenever he can't make it he would send me these really ...
A. 26 September 2012: IF you are uncomfortable with his gifts let him know that you appreciate the thought, but that he really doesn't NEED to buy you stuff. Honestly though, I don't think it's right to tell him HOW he should spend his money - as in you have patients ... (read in full...)
What kind of sexy lingerie should I buy? I feel fat!
Q. i really need help, me and my partner are going away for the weekend to see his family and staying in a hotel. hes paying and the thing is he wants me to wear sumthing sexy well where in the hotel, i dont have a clue what to wear as have never do...
A. 26 September 2012: Baby doll "nighties" can look great on just about ANY size/shape body.
... (read in full...)
Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!
Q. Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...
A. 26 September 2012: Honey, not to be rude.. but you sounds like a spoiled brat.
When you get older, get a part time job and BUY whatever YOU want.
Your parents have to feed you, clothes you and put a roof over your head, teach you right from wrong and hopefully ra... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring my requests to return my things?
Q. Hi there. I had been dating a man for just over a year. We had spoken of getting married ETC. He suffers from depression therefore it was not uncommon for him to be distant sometimes. A few months ago he told me that he would like to leave things ...
A. 26 September 2012: Call him up and ask him when you can go pick up your stuff.
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Do you think he is cheating?
Q. First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr ...
A. 25 September 2012: Something is definitely up with him.
But nothing you mention is a clear cut "He must be cheating". but it seems like he has left the marriage, at least mentally.
I can't imagine how you two make it work with him being back and forth like that.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend that just because she's dating doesn't mean that everyone wants to date
Q. Hi. Yesterday i took my best friend to the restuarant to eat. While we were there..a certain guy who works there asked for my numbers and i told him that my phone just got destroyed so i had no cellphone at that moment (i lied). Well sure he didnt ...
A. 25 September 2012: Next time give out HER number.
Be honest with your friend, tell her, I'm 16 and have NO inclination of dating any time soon and I'm quite OK with that choice, so PLEASE stop trying to set me up, It's embarrassing and annoying.... (read in full...)
The love has faded in my current relationship, and there is a new guy who I am falling for....what should I do?
Q. Hi, I am currently in a relationship of seven years. We live together and have dogs. A few months ago my boyfriend told me he didn't think he wanted to marry me (maybe anyone) and it really upset me at the time. However now I feel like maybe he...
A. 25 September 2012: I think you need to figure out what to do about the current relationship FIRST and without regards to the other guy. He may or may not be in your future as a BF/friend.
Focus on what you have and if it's something worth working on or if it's tim... (read in full...)
I have been told that guys won't bother to try to spend time with a girl as only a "friend".
Q. It's the age old question: Does he like me as more than a friend? Simply put: A coworker continues to invite me to lunch. He is from another country so he is hard to read. I feel like he is just trying to make friends, or he is being polite by ...
A. 25 September 2012: 100 % what SVC said.
Eating lunch is not dating, it's just having company (some times GOOD company) whilst you eat.
I have always had more male friends then female and it's never been about dating.... (read in full...)
I've decided not to speak to this guy anymore after he said when he's with me he feels like he's talking to a baboon. Am I right in deciding to do this?
Q. Before I go into details as to why I'm asking this question. Let me first ask the question aha, exactly how right am I for deciding this? You see, I am a sixteen year old girl, you know I'm young but a lot of people, well, grown ups say I'm matu...
A. 25 September 2012: Honey he MAY see you the way he expresses it. You MAY think you are more sophisticated and advanced maturity wise then you perhaps are. Understand that he may "think" he can read everyone like a book, but in reality (at his/your age) that just ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I call my partner "daddy" during sex?
Q. Hello everyone! I just wanted to know your thoughts on calling your significant other Daddy during sex. Not dad, or father, I mean it on the sexual way. It started with him pestering me to do something, and I ultimately rolled my eyes and sardoni...
A. 25 September 2012: I think when it's part of "play" it's not that weird. It makes me think of Joe Dirt (the movie and the "sister" scene).
If it WORKS for you two.. then don;t sweat it. Now if you get to a point where you CAN'T enjoy sex without having him "... (read in full...)
How do you stay positive when you're single?
Q. How do you stay positive when you're single? I see all of my friends and some of my exes, happy anHow do I get my husband to stop being so insecure ?d in relationships... Don't get me wrong, I'm truly VERY happy for them and wouldn't wish anything ...
A. 25 September 2012: I think it's about finding things in life you enjoy to do, not just with other but alone too.
I actually enjoyed being single a lot. A traveled a lot, I took some classes (photography and creative writing) and met some really nice people, some of ... (read in full...)
Former supervisor bullied me and now is trying to stop me from making a grievance against her
Q. Hi, I started working at this new place in November last year as my husband lost his job so I had to leave my current part time job to do a full time job. I got on well with everyone apart from my supervisor who from day 1 never liked me or...
A. 25 September 2012: Block & ignore her on Facebook and STAND UP for yourself and those others she bullied. It's KARMA that came back to bite her ass and she deserves it.
Print it out and bring it.
You are a GOOD person for doing this, you have nothing to gain ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his child are a pair of spoilt brats!
Q. Okay, so i have been with my bf for two years now, he has a 4 yr old of his own and i have a 6 and 8 yr old. My bf takes his son every weekend and whenever his son is here i dread it, i know i sound horrible but i treat all children the same so if ...
A. 25 September 2012: Of course he is making YOU out to be the bad guy... It's MUCH easier then owning up to him NOT teaching his son manner or disciplining him when he IS out of order..
TYPICAL passive-aggressive behavior.... (read in full...)
These two girls are using me for my popularity
Q. I'm so confused right now. I don't know if they're friends or not. After I joined like, a zillion clubs,these two girls come and I genuinely liked them, and we start being all buddy buddy. They liked the same stuff that I do and I was impressed ...
A. 24 September 2012: Eh don't waste your energy on them. Take the high road and kill them with kindness ( you know that expression, right?) People WILL know who your real friends are who aren't. And so will you.
I agree with Ciar. ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't love me the way I am then why he can't make me the person he wants?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for some time. He does not support me emotionally, physically and especially financially although he loves me. He gets whatever he wants from me, like sex, support, and whenever he wants me he gets me. He is ...
A. 24 September 2012: He isn't lowering your self esteem as much as you are LETTING him lower it. Is it more important for you to have a boyfriend then you be respected and loved?
Because it seems to me like you are letting this guy WALK all over you.
The thing is ... (read in full...)
What do I do if my married lover's husband calls?
Q. hello dear cupid teams and ladies and gentelemen! Well z story might be silly and extremely heavy 4 one subject. We me 27 and a lady 31 have a secret love contact between us started a month ago.we have been get in touch by text and cell phone but ...
A. 24 September 2012: If you can sleep with the married lady, you should have Cojones big enough to handle a phone-call from the husband.
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Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?
Q. My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean ...
A. 24 September 2012: I think the "general rule" for FWB is that you don't have any say in who they see, date or have sex with UNLESS there is a prior agreement.
You don't own your FWB nor your friend.
I wouldn't be bothered honestly, but...... I would NEVER have... (read in full...)
Does size matter? I think he's going to be too big.
Q. I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. ...
A. 24 September 2012: Slow down.. And try it out.. if he indeed IS too big then decide.
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Should we let our friend make the same mistake or bring our concerns to her attention?
Q. My sister in law and best friend was previously married to her high school sweetheart, but she had given him an ultimatum before he proposed and he asked for a divorce eighteen months later. No one liked him, friends or family, the unanimous ...
A. 24 September 2012: Honey, she needs make her own mistakes and learn from them. IF she loves the dude and want it to work, you need to butt out and support her. (doesn't mean you have to like him, but cut her some slack).
Obviously she is the kind of person who HAS ... (read in full...)
After one month of college I still don't have a boyfriend
Q. hi, I am a 22 year girl...doing post graduation.In my past life I get 3 relationships, but all broke. now in my new college I wanted to start new.....I want someone in my college to be my boyfreind. but here no body takes intrest in me, though I ...
A. 24 September 2012: Honey, slow down
It'w not there there is a Fairy Boyfriend Mother standing at then entrance to the college handing out Boyfriends to needy girls.
ENJOY college, ENJOY getting to know people, make some friends and mostly learn to not be so d... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his child are a pair of spoilt brats!
Q. Okay, so i have been with my bf for two years now, he has a 4 yr old of his own and i have a 6 and 8 yr old. My bf takes his son every weekend and whenever his son is here i dread it, i know i sound horrible but i treat all children the same so if ...
A. 24 September 2012: Oh holy terror!
I agree with Auntie Bim Bim.. Change the locks and hope to goodness the dude doesn't show up anytime soon.
And STOP second guessing yourself. The NO, to sleeping in the beds was fine, his DAD needs to GROW the HAY HAY up and B... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I think it was well worded and honest. ... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with C. Grant. Be 100% honest. I'm PRETTY sure they have seen/heard it before. Owning up to past mistakes I would think is better then having a polygraph that shows deceit.
Everyone has done something in their life they aren't proud of... (read in full...)
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