We broke up, but now she wants me back. Do I stand up to her? Usually she gets her own way.
Q. Hello Everybody! Okay, I have a situation. I finished with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago because she was cheating. Please see my previous questions. (Had really good advice as well. Thank you to all!) Anyway she got in touch the ot...
A. 4 October 2012: Good for you.
Ending a relationship in way that doesn't give you regrets down the line is a good thing. Maybe you will give her food for thought and maybe she will learn that what SHE did isn't OK.
I hope you find a girl who treats you the w... (read in full...)
I don't know how to feel about dating an army man. Should I?
Q. I went out with some girlfriends to a bar a lot of army guys frequent; my friends really wanted to know what it was like to be with (i.e. sleep with) a military man. i wasn't so much into it because they kind of creep me out. but because i know my ...
A. 2 October 2012: Being an ARMY wife of 14 years your post kind of cracked me up. Army guys are no "wilder" then you average guy - though I have know some crazy Scouts and SF, but that is a whole other story.
I have to say you seem to have a odd notion of what it ... (read in full...)
Can a women get really tight from doing kegel exercises?
Q. My wife says she does the kegel exercise all the time but I can barely feel it when she squeezes. So I was wondering how strong a woman's vagina can actually get. Are there some woman that can squeeze so hard that it hurts him? Can some women ...
A. 2 October 2012: I don't think a women gets "tighter" per say but she will be able to "milk" you as anon male described. IT does take more work (specially if she's had kids) but it gives both parties a nicer sensation.
And I agree with Cadid Cally, could be you a... (read in full...)
The school books I need cost more than my allowance
Q. Hey everyone, This is not a relationship question, I just want to know if this is right. Ok my dad passed away like 6 months ago, and I don't have no parents with me, I live with a guardian. I receive social security every month, i get $400 a mon...
A. 2 October 2012: Ask her for the money and maybe look in to second hand books too, just to save the extra money.... (read in full...)
Pushy jerk won't take no for an answer
Q. So, i'm in college, a junior, and a guy recently let me know that he was interested in me. i, on the other hand, am not. i don't like him very much, as a person and also physically. he's very arrogant and obnoxious and comes off very pretenti...
A. 2 October 2012: I agree ignore him. Honey you do NOT owe the creep anything, not even an explanation as to WHY you aren't interested.
And I agree with C. Grant. Next time he approaches you tell him, Enough is enough. You are NOT interested and you are NOT play... (read in full...)
His ex has nothing to lose and won't go away
Q. What do I do about a completely insane psychopathic ex girlfriend of my boyfriend? She is the type they make movies about. She is worse. He warned me when we first started dating of everything she would do and he was right. It seems like no ...
A. 2 October 2012: I agree with SVC - this is your BF's problem why you are making it yours I'm not certain.
As for her "infiltrating" his life, there is nothing he can do (or you) but I think if the two of you "PLAY" along with her games it makes then more "fun" fo... (read in full...)
Do people in work places always take sides like this? The woman who was disciplined (and unjustly) has been sacked and I don't think it's fair.
Q. Hello Aunts,this is a work relationship question. Recently two women where I work had a fall out, not major at all, but one reported the other to our manager. When the other came into work she got disciplined and she walked out as she didnt want t...
A. 2 October 2012: I agree with your mom, it's time to look for a new job.
Things are never black and white. Specially when it comes to "office politics". If you have a weak or bad manager who rather have "kiss-ass" employees things like this is not uncommon... (read in full...)
Should I break up with b/f who swears he didn't put up a profile on a dating website? I know he did it!
Q. My friend and I were looking at plenty of fish dating site today because we were really bored in work I've never been on there but she said she knew loads of people on there with cringey photos and stuff they'd written about themselves. Well I came ...
A. 2 October 2012: After all that you still don't know if breaking up is the right thing?
Really?
To quote you: *** He thinks I'm an idiot if he thinks I'm going to believe what he's saying. ***
So you should stay with a guy who treats you like you are an idio... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Fiance I made-out with another women?
Q. Hello, feeling like a piece of crap and could use some advice. I've been with my fiance for 10yrs and we are planning our marriage here soon, and actually just had our engagement party with our friends last week. I love her dearly, we are m...
A. 1 October 2012: So what did you learn from this? That you did stuff you KNOW you shouldn't while under the influence.. so maybe it's time to give up the drugs and moderate the drinking?
Part of life up is making mistakes. Part of growing ip is LEARNING from the... (read in full...)
Old fashioned b/f is not attached to his phone and is unreachable a good portion of the time!
Q. Hello, I am in a relationship with a wonderful man and everything is in fact quite great between us. We have good communication and I have no doubt in his love for me. Sometimes, however, he is really unreachable. He is a full-time p...
A. 1 October 2012: I think my personal opinion doesn't really matter, what matter, is that you HAVE a need to be able to contact him through out the day. And it's not being met.
He has a need to be "left alone" when he is in his creative mood. And his NEEDS are bein... (read in full...)
I couldn't orgasm even though g/f gave me hand job! Help!
Q. I'm a male virgin, and the other night i was with my girlfriend and things got pretty heated. She started giving me a hand job, but no matter how attracted to her i was, i wasn't able to orgasm!!! for some reason i just couldn't... i'm worried that ...
A. 1 October 2012: Relax! It will get better. Some people just can't "perform" under pressure and I think YOU put yourself under a lot of pressure.
Let her know that it wasn't a bad experiences but that you were nervous and that is what made you not be able to finis... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Fiance I made-out with another women?
Q. Hello, feeling like a piece of crap and could use some advice. I've been with my fiance for 10yrs and we are planning our marriage here soon, and actually just had our engagement party with our friends last week. I love her dearly, we are m...
A. 1 October 2012: I think you know what you need to do. And that is own your actions. Things like this doesn't remain hidden and I think you can be pretty sure that if you DO NOT tell her, marry her and THEN she finds out.. you marriage is over before it began.
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Is a 13 year gap for dating really such a big deal.
Q. I've recently started casually dating a guy who is 13 years older than me, I'm 24. We're having lots of fun, i enjoy his company and its not serious. I get annoyed when we go out because people stare and comment, with one girl actually saying it ...
A. 1 October 2012: I think when you are in a relationship you have to learn NOT to care what others think. You will have someone try and judge you if you let them. Could be you are taller then the guy? or of different ethnic, nationalities or religious background and ... (read in full...)
I found a lot of disturbing things on his pc and I'm worried about my children
Q. Hello i really need help with this its killing me. Ive just moved my boyfriend in and he bought his pc wellni looked at it and found loads of lolicon on it. It was horrible and my head is so messed up, we have been friend years then i started dating ...
A. 1 October 2012: I understand that you feel a sense of empathy for this guy, the thing is if he knew and still knows that those images are sick why did he not delete it? It doesn't make sense.
And I doubt you can find many 19 year old who DOESN'T KNOW instinct... (read in full...)
We broke up, but now she wants me back. Do I stand up to her? Usually she gets her own way.
Q. Hello Everybody! Okay, I have a situation. I finished with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago because she was cheating. Please see my previous questions. (Had really good advice as well. Thank you to all!) Anyway she got in touch the ot...
A. 1 October 2012: I'm with SVC - Be a man. Call and and tell her she isn't worth your time, that you have no interest in getting back together and that you do not wish to talk/see her again - tell her to have a nice life. After that you BLOCK her number and delete ... (read in full...)
Why is my married ex calling me on the phone?
Q. My ex, who is now married, is flirting with me on the phone. I'm a little baffled because he dumped me after many years of living together and then married very quickly. My question is: is he trying to get me back or does he just realize he's made a ...
A. 1 October 2012: Could be that he is bored or unhappy in his marriage and reaches out to you because of happy memories he is trying to rekindle, not necessarily WITH you, but through you.
Reliving the "glory-days" when all was hunky-dory.
If I was you I would ... (read in full...)
Pimples by my vagina?
Q. is it normal to have pimples by my vagina? i have shaved ever since high school so i know it's not those kinds of bumps. do i pop them? seems painful...
A. 1 October 2012: It depends on where they are. They can be ingrown hairs, it can be HPV (genital warts). If this is out of the norm I suggest you go see your doctor.... (read in full...)
I don't like sex. Anyone else?
Q. I just wonder why people can't accept that i dont like sex. Ive never been raped, abused or anything like that, i just dont ever feel the need for it. All my hormone levels r ok. I can watch it on tv, if a sexy scene on a programme comes up but that ...
A. 1 October 2012: Have you always felt this way?
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My ex and I reconnected over Facebook and then he suddenly blocked me! Why would he do that?
Q. I sent a Facebook message to my ex boyfriend to smooth over the awkwardness after we broke up (almost a year ago) and kind of extend a hand of friendship, which he gladly accepted. A few months after we broke up he wanted to get back together or ...
A. 1 October 2012: Don't try other ways to get hold of him. He blocked you for a reason and honestly, you don't need to know why.
Maybe he met a new girl and didn't want to have ex's on his FB maybe he had some feelings for you still and since getting back together... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!
Q. okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...
A. 1 October 2012: ***he can't be that stupid.***
No, but he obviously think YOU are... A spam bot will not reply with anything useful nor with crotch-shots or the likes..
He is lying and patronizing. ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's brother, but should I tell him?
Q. Okay so my best friends brother is amazingly cute and I sadly like him alot and he works down the street from my job and with out fail he comes and visits me at least to 4 times a week with out fail . He doesn't even work.on saturdays and he'll ...
A. 1 October 2012: I agree I would talk to your best friend first. Sisters ALWAYS have the best insight into their brother (s).
My SIL (sister in law) is one of my best friends. I think she first started having a crush on my brother when we were 13. At 16 they wer... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's son is the first priority in his life and I hate myself when I get jealous
Q. I'm sorry I'm not very good at explaining stuff. I'll do the bast I can: My boyfriend has a 6 year old son and they have been the only real family eachother have had since the kid was born. My boyfriend's parents have never really been in his life...
A. 1 October 2012: Well, I can't see what he is doing is wrong in any ways. He is ALL his son's got. That's basically it. He is trying to be the best parent he can be. Be both mom & dad for his son. I have to take my "hat" of for that.
Personally, I would NEVER da... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!
Q. okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...
A. 1 October 2012: Of course he threw the YOU ARE CHEATING in your face, he had no other viable excuse to do what he did.
And for him to call those "needy & desperate" girls he contact for "machines" is just downright chauvinistic.
And if you need the definit... (read in full...)
An overprotective mother, how can I get her to be reasonable?
Q. Hello. My question deals with an overprotective mother. I am 22, going on 23 in 3 months. I never dated in high school because of how she over reacts about boys. It was just easier to not date then to constantly argue with her. So yesterday, I ...
A. 1 October 2012: Did you mom have you and your sister when she was really young?
That would be my guess, and that she is afraid that you will end up a young mother and not reach for the sky.
I would also suggest that you sit down with her and talk to her.
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I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?
Q. hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to ...
A. 1 October 2012: I have to agree with the other aunts you come of as a total douchy guy.
You don't give a flying duck about the girl. She is 16 and most likely immature as all get out of town.
She will REGRET having sex with you.
And really do you thi... (read in full...)
I found a lot of disturbing things on his pc and I'm worried about my children
Q. Hello i really need help with this its killing me. Ive just moved my boyfriend in and he bought his pc wellni looked at it and found loads of lolicon on it. It was horrible and my head is so messed up, we have been friend years then i started dating ...
A. 1 October 2012: I'm sorry but it's NOT OK for a teenager to like a **A picture with a toddle on a mans private parts** any less then it's OK for someone in their 20's -30's 40's and so forth.
It's freaking sick at ANY age.
Why are you making all these excuse... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?
Q. I just wanted opinions to see if my boyfriends behaviour is normal or not. so I left his house around 12 this morning to meet my best girlfriend for a coffee and I told him that i MIGHT go to a shop to look for bridesmaid shoes as my friend a...
A. 30 September 2012: Not normal behavior, I can't see why 1. you can't have a day out with your female friend 2. why you can't go shopping or just window shopping without his say so.
And it's about control. You didn't pick up the 17 times he called in 2 hours (which a... (read in full...)
Can't believe he spoke to me this way! Should I forgive him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having a disagreement tonight, and it ended with him saying 'f**k you you little piece of s**it' then he hung up on me - in the 2 years we've been together hes never spoken to me like that, I can't get it out of my head he ...
A. 30 September 2012: It could have been a lot worse (what he said) but if this is something you don't feel you can "just" forgive then don't. You might be able to forgive it down the road. However, you need to figure out if this ONE "smack-talk" is such a no-no that you ... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel comfortable about having sex with me again?
Q. long story short, i pressured my gf into sex because i wanted to catch up to my buddies that had all done it. i felt left out so i pressured my long-time gf (2 years) and she gave in, even though i knew she wasn't ready (hence 2 years without any). ...
A. 30 September 2012: I concur 100% with iAmHereToHelpYou
You have no idea of what you did to her because you are STILL thinking with your dick.
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I found a lot of disturbing things on his pc and I'm worried about my children
Q. Hello i really need help with this its killing me. Ive just moved my boyfriend in and he bought his pc wellni looked at it and found loads of lolicon on it. It was horrible and my head is so messed up, we have been friend years then i started dating ...
A. 30 September 2012: Sorry, he would get 20 minutes to pack his shit and get out. The fact that he kept them speaks volumes.
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Why is he lying to me if he isn't doing anything wrong?
Q. I am in a new relationship, have been with the guy for about ten months now. It has recently turned into a long distance thing which is fine as I have done it before. I trust him.. or at least I did. He is gud friends with a girl, which is fine, ex...
A. 30 September 2012: Does she know he is dating you? Does she know you?
If she does then I think she is enjoying the drama she is creating and it won't stop unless your BF put his foot down. The only problem with that is... your BF seems to suffer from "knight ... (read in full...)
My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?
Q. Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is...
A. 30 September 2012: If it only was a bit of harmless fun, you wouldn't feel like a douche - would you?
Even if you didn't go INTO it thinking it's cheating IT IS a kind of cheating. Which is properly why you feel bad about it.
I think you need to talk to your GF ... (read in full...)
Ladies: Do you wear stockings underneath your clothing?
Q. Just a quick question to all those ladies out there. Does anyone actually ever wear stockings underneath their clothes (like on t.v and in movies) or do people just wear leggings? The reason I ask is because if true then... ;-). But anyone I've ever ...
A. 30 September 2012: I only wear stockings if I dress up for a social function or for a date-night (because hubby loves them) I NEVER wear tights EVER.
Like Person12345 says stocking are much easier when you wear skirts/dress, also if you have a "run" or snag in a leg... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!
Q. I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story ...
A. 30 September 2012: First of all MAYBE the condom was not just for HIS sake, but for yours too? After all he DID tell you ha had a "rather" active kinky sexlife.
Saran wrap can be used if he doesn't want to go down on you without a barrier.
And honestly a guy w... (read in full...)
G/f's ex FWB still contacts her
Q. Me my gf have been going out for more than a year now we are living together. I don't think of my self as being a jealous or a controlling Bf. Her ex fuck buddy would text her every now and then for a chat. I have never like him contacting her b...
A. 30 September 2012: I don't think you are being unreasonable either. What is her reason for meeting up with him? If she was nothing but a booty call to him and she knows it WHY would she even do this? I think it's indicative of maybe 3 things - she isn't over him and ... (read in full...)
He said if I dislike his pot smoking I can leave
Q. Ok! So me and my fiance have been together almost 9 years. When I met him he did not smoke, we've broke up and got back together in between that time, but here we are together again, and now he smokes weed. I have a serious problem with it. I mean...
A. 30 September 2012: Seems to me that pot is more important to him then you and the kids.
Now you have to decide if staying with him is the right thing for AND the kids. Is HE the kind of role-model you want for your kids? Is he the kind of partner YOU want?... (read in full...)
I have an athletic body, but no boobs. Are my friends right about the comments, I'm now self conscious guys will be put off!!?
Q. I feel really self conscious about my body after the comments from people I live with at uni, now I think they're right that a guy wont like my body or maybe I should get surgery, or gain weight, anything to change myself. I'm not that tall, only ...
A. 29 September 2012: Wow!
I am trying to understand why you listen to those girls. Honey, we are not made from cookie dough with cookie cutters! We ALL look different. We are all INDIVIDUALS.
You sound like you are a petite and FIT girl. Which I KNOW many guys f... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get back at me because I told him I won't cheat with him?
Q. There is this guy friend I have that's been doing his best to lead me on. He has a girlfriend but he was always acting like he was single. We were involved in an emotional affair you could say and nothing physical ever happened but not because he ...
A. 29 September 2012: I wouldn't speculate why he did what he did, however I think you did the right thing is telling him you don't want to be his sloppy seconds.
Honestly, if you have feeling for him I would suggest you cut the contact with him. HE isn't being ... (read in full...)
I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me
Q. Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...
A. 29 September 2012: Why waste any more time with this guy? He treats you like a hole in the mattress, what good is that? For you?... (read in full...)
Living together and dating.. how to secure it..
Q. hello, here is my situation.. I need some input.. In Feb 2012 a friend moved in that needed help. we had previously * 10 years ago*had an affair for 2 years, and were ready to move forward togther, and both decided to try to work out our marraige...
A. 29 September 2012: I would honestly sit him down and tell him that it doesn't work for you. So you two need to figure out if you can stay "just" room mates and friends or not. If you can't he needs to move out.
I know that SOME people date multiple people at the s... (read in full...)
My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...
A. 29 September 2012: If this is something you aren't DYING to try, it IS cheating. It's about HIM fulfilling HIS needs and he just wants you to not be able to be mad, feel bad afterwards.
Just because this was "normal" in his marriage doesn't mean you have the same... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant with another man's baby?
Q. My husband and I have had alot of issues that we just cant seem to get over. 3 months ago I told him I was unhappy and didnt love him anymore and didnt want to be with him. we have 2 children together and he said to me if I left he would take the ...
A. 29 September 2012: Seriously?
I understand that your marriage feels over for you, but WHY the unprotected sex?
I agree with the Aunts/Uncles who says go for the divorce. Staying with a man because he threatens to take your kids is not fair on anyone. How do y... (read in full...)
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