Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?
Q. Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did ...
A. 6 April 2013: If you don't want to FEEL stupid then don't BE stupid.
I'm sorry he got hurt and his sister too, but they are NOT your responsibility.
He borrowed the CD not because he wanted to listen to music but to have an EXCUSE to come back or to talk ... (read in full...)
Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?
Q. Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did ...
A. 26 March 2013: I don't think you NEED to officially end it, YOU know it's over. He knows it over. He just doesn't like it, because he can no longer manipulate you. Well, he can suck an egg.
Cheer up it gets better.... (read in full...)
My teacher has scary, piercing eyes and I have trouble keeping eye contact.
Q. i really can't keep eye contact, extremely bad at it. When teachers talk to me they make eye contact, and I can't. There's just this one male teacher I suck at making eye contact with, it's just he knows im shy. This teacher has "stare" while ...
A. 25 March 2013: I would just stare back at his nose. It's less "scary".... (read in full...)
Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?
Q. Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did ...
A. 25 March 2013: He is hoping to reel you back in.
Keep the non-contact. If you can I'd block his number. He knows why you don't want to talk to him ,he just doesn't think it matters HOW you feel and WHY you are doing it.
His loss, keep moving on.... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in her as more than a friend. How do I keep her as a friend and not hurt her?
Q. Hello Cupid I need advice about a girl who is being really clingy to me and she even said : she is attached to me loads! well, I am not interested in her more than just friends! lately she has started flirting and I have been ignoring it! ...
A. 25 March 2013: I am not sure it's possible to keep her as a friend because she has ALREADY crossed that line and decided that she can "convince" you that she can be more.
Have you TOLD her in no roundabout way, that you ONLY like her as a friend? Because ... (read in full...)
I wasn't his cup of tea so why does he say and do things to make me jealous?
Q. Ive been friends with this guy for over a year at first he seen me as a potential but when we met things changed I wasnt his cup of tea as they say it. Put me in insecure zone where I wanted to live on his expectations. I realised that I had feel...
A. 25 March 2013: Am I right in guessing that you two met online and became "friends" and when you met in person he didn't feel the "spark" or see you as GF material?
If that is the case, no matter HOW much you bend over backwards TRYING to be HIS MS. Perfect,... (read in full...)
In loved with a guy that is spoken for but unhappy
Q. Hello guys. I've known this fella for 3 years. He's in a very unhappy (unmarried) relationship.Unhappy on BOTH sides. They've been together 10+ years with property, finances and a business in both their names. He has feelings for me and he knows I ...
A. 25 March 2013: If he wants change he can do it. This is not something you can fix for him.
He might not be happy in his relationship but no one is holding a gun to his head or taking things away from him if he breaks up with her. I think he just rather stay wit... (read in full...)
Can a single mom with 2 kids consider a military job?
Q. I apologize that this question isn't about dating. I'm not currently dating, as I'm focused more so on my future. Here's my situation: I'm 31, divorced, two kids... and contemplating joining the military. Is that crazy??? The job market is rough and ...
A. 24 March 2013: You have a support-net where you live NOW, but you are not going to be station there, you could for in fact get stationed in Germany, Korea or Texas ( or any CONUS/OCONUS bases/posts around the world). This is why the Family Care Plan is the most ... (read in full...)
I am a fem dom. Can I convince my man to be my sub?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a very attactive and girly girl feminine woman. I appreciate the beauty of a woman but am not sexually attracted to women. I am sexually attracted to men but I will not allow a man to have intercourse with me in a traditional ...
A. 24 March 2013: So your sex life (your husband your your sex life) is all about what YOU want?
I'm sorry, but if your libido and sexual preference is MORE important then maybe HE is not really the man for you.
... (read in full...)
Why did I let him turn me into someone I hate?
Q. I dated this guy last year, and I had only known him for 2 months when we started dating. I was completely innocent when we started dating, and he had a lot of sexual experience with girls before me. At first the relationship started steadily...
A. 23 March 2013: I think you are one of those people pleasers. Who consider making others happen OVER how it makes themselves feel.
Stop beating yourself up, LEARN from this. A no means NO. And you HAVE every right to SAY no, if that is how you feel.
You tho... (read in full...)
Can a single mom with 2 kids consider a military job?
Q. I apologize that this question isn't about dating. I'm not currently dating, as I'm focused more so on my future. Here's my situation: I'm 31, divorced, two kids... and contemplating joining the military. Is that crazy??? The job market is rough and ...
A. 23 March 2013: You MIGHT be able to, IF you can make and keep an water/air tight FAMILY CARE PLAN.
YOU need to have people who can take care of the kids when you are sent off to school, deployments, training. When the kids are sick, out of school for the summ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I don't have money for an Ipad, then he stopped talking to me.
Q. Dear cupid My bf of 3 years is asking me to buy him new iPad for his birthday, I don't have that kind of money and I cannot afford it. He never bought me anything for my b'day and I never really made an issue out of it. I told him I cannot ...
A. 23 March 2013: Stop calling him and CERTAINLY DO NOT buy him an IPad, why on Earth should YOU buy him this? If he never bought you ANYTHING how is that fair for him to "demand" you buy him this or that?
Obviously he doesn't love you, he was just using you.
... (read in full...)
I am a fem dom. Can I convince my man to be my sub?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a very attactive and girly girl feminine woman. I appreciate the beauty of a woman but am not sexually attracted to women. I am sexually attracted to men but I will not allow a man to have intercourse with me in a traditional ...
A. 23 March 2013: I think with certain SPECIFIC fetishes SUCH as sub/dom there HAS to be an agreement BEFOREhand.
Unless he is ALREADY into that I think you are going to have a VERY hard time making him understand what you need.
Now if the roles were reversed wo... (read in full...)
Wife said she needed space. That was 4 years ago! Do I wait?
Q. This is me and my wifes 2nd marriage, we've been together 22 years. married 13. when we met i was unfaithful, a couple of times freshly out of my first marriage by 3-5 months, kept going back sex only.\ now those transgressions are here was of 5...
A. 22 March 2013: I think you should GO talk to a lawyer, get some financial advice and I don't think you waiting around for her will make her change her mind. Seems like she wants you around to punish you and because it's familiar, not out of LOVE.
In case of ... (read in full...)
Should I have told my girlfriend that I've been with men?
Q. I am an m2f crossdresser and pass well as a woman. My girlfriend of 5 years is totally fine with my crossdressing and is really in to it to a point that she prefers that I crossdress when we go out. She recently asked me if I ever wanted to or ha...
A. 22 March 2013: I don't think you should have lied about it. I'm guess you think she would look at you differently if she knew you were bi?
I have to say I would not KNOWINGLY date a bi-sexual for the reason that I would feel like I wasn't REALLY enough. That the... (read in full...)
What if you can't forgive your partner for cheating?
Q. Hello. My name's Luan and I'm writing from Brazil. I'm not going to bother you with the whole story of my life and my relation, so I'll go straight to the point, asking you this. What to do.. If you are not able to forgive your partner after he...
A. 22 March 2013: Don't try and "force" forgiveness, it will come when you are ready to let it go. When you accept that this was not YOUR fault. It was your partners CHOICE to cheat. You didn't MAKE her cheat.
Take some time and think on the anger. Find a way to l... (read in full...)
Are online conception date calendars accurate?
Q. Conception date. Are online conception date calendars accurate? I want to be sure. Can anyone help pls. I had a dating scan and a due date of 26th Sept 2013. With this info i got a conception date of somewhere between 31 Dec - 2nd Jan 2013. Would th...
A. 22 March 2013: If you want to know the conception date, take 2 weeks off the scan date and count back.
Google "pregnancy calendar" online and type in your due date and it will calculate back to find your approximate conception date. (which will be two weeks af... (read in full...)
What if you can't forgive your partner for cheating?
Q. Hello. My name's Luan and I'm writing from Brazil. I'm not going to bother you with the whole story of my life and my relation, so I'll go straight to the point, asking you this. What to do.. If you are not able to forgive your partner after he...
A. 22 March 2013: Forgiving is not the hardest part of being cheated on. Regaining trust is.
There are no set rules carved in stone that says you HAVE to forgive and you HAVE to stay with a cheater. But in my own personal experience forgiving can be a release ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend his lateness is driving me mad?
Q. Hello all I think my bf has issues with time management. He's a lovely guy and he tries his best to spend time with me despite his busy schedule. Sometimes when he says he would call at a certain time, he ends up calling an hour later. I wish he ...
A. 22 March 2013: I had to add, my aunt (mom's sister) was ALWAYS late to EVERY family function (including one wedding and one funeral, no kidding). For Christmas, Easter and other holidays were we had big family gathering my mom would tell my sister that we would ... (read in full...)
I've been texting with a guy I met online for a couple months...Is he just wasting my time?
Q. I'm just getting back in to the dating game, and decided to sign up for an online dating site to meet new men. A couple months ago, this guy (I'll call him "Brad") emailed me and we started chatting. Then a week later, we exchanged numbers and ...
A. 22 March 2013: **QUOTE** -He's currently out of a job, and a bit depressed, so am I just someone to talk to? Or someone to "pass the time with"?
That could be part of it. But the fact that he bothered to e-mail when he phone broke and call you when he got it b... (read in full...)
Do you think the man I'm cheating on my husband is in love with me?
Q. I've been having sex with him for three months. I'm married, he's single.I fell hard for him and he knows it. Despite knowing my feelings, he still wanted to meet me and have contact with me. He told me he'll never become attached to a married ...
A. 22 March 2013: 1. You should gt a divorce, but NOT because you want to be with this guy. You don't love or respect your husband/marriage, so why stay? Because you don't want to be alone? That isn't fair on your husband or yourself.
2. I think you are reading ... (read in full...)
Why am I still hurting from getting fingered a week later
Q. I am 16 yr old sophomore and my senior boyfriend who is 18. We really hadn't done anything else but make out. Until this year, last week was spring break and we went to the beach and we had talked about doing more than kissing but I ha no idea it ...
A. 22 March 2013: I agree with Auntie Em.
Dirty fingers in your ladybits is a HUGE no-no. It can cause infections and if he had ANY nails that was jagged you could have gotten scratched up inside too which again can lead to infection. He needs CLEAN hands/fi... (read in full...)
I can't STAND him when he's drunk!!
Q. I've been seeing this guy pretty regularly for about six months. We're not officially dating mainly because I don't want too and still consider myself single even though I haven't really hooked up with anyone else besides him. But basicall...
A. 22 March 2013: I would honestly end it. He doesn't want to stop drinking and he sees nothing wrong in how he acts out. It will escalate.
And what's next? hitting you? Getting evicted again and wanting to live with you?
This isn't stable. It isn't healthy fo... (read in full...)
If you were in my shoes, would you stay?
Q. i've been seeing a girl for about four months now. i'm very happy with her and we have a very healthy relationship together. she tells me she definitely sees a future with me and i thought i did, too. my problem is that she told me today that sh...
A. 22 March 2013: By Fall you will have known her another 6 months and maybe you will feel more confident that 4 months apart is VERY doable, IF you are with the right person and WILLING to work to keep it going.
Don't tell her you NOT to go. This is HER dream an... (read in full...)
Should parents knock before they enter a kid's room?
Q. This is a question to all parents I want to know what do u think of the concept of a) knocking on you kids door before entering their room? 2)How do you get them to open up to you more,what if they are constantly texting,do u check their...
A. 22 March 2013: I agree with C. Grant on A. Yes, I think it's a GOOD thing to knock first. Just because they are 9-13 doesn't mean they should have a little bit of privacy. And I DO think it instills the sense of common courtesy like C. Grant said.
B. How do y... (read in full...)
I'd like to return his parents' kindness but he's telling me not to
Q. My boyfriend informed me a couple days ago that his mother is planning on giving me a basket for Easter. This will be the first time in ages since I got anything for Easter. My boyfriend doesn't get along with parents, especially his dad. Anyway, I ...
A. 22 March 2013: Maybe send them/or bring some flowers? Tulips perhaps? They kind of say Spring, big time :)
I think that would be a nice gesture on your behalf.
YES, you don't HAVE to do but I think it's rather nice and respectful if you do.
Why doesn't he ... (read in full...)
How would you react to a $20 engagement ring from a well-off guy?
Q. Hello everyone, My boyfriend proposed with a ring that he paid 20 dollars. If he was earning a low income, I would not be asking for advice. However, he drives an expensive car, has about 50 pairs of shoes, good job, etc. should I be upset? Am I ...
A. 22 March 2013: LOL @ Cerberus
Cats are awesome.
And I agree, If he normally likes expensive things, I'd wait it out a while too. I just can't imagine a guy would do this and be serious. ( the $20 ring I mean).
OP did you say yes? How was the rest of his ... (read in full...)
How would you react to a $20 engagement ring from a well-off guy?
Q. Hello everyone, My boyfriend proposed with a ring that he paid 20 dollars. If he was earning a low income, I would not be asking for advice. However, he drives an expensive car, has about 50 pairs of shoes, good job, etc. should I be upset? Am I ...
A. 22 March 2013: Yes, I would be offended. I wouldn't EXPECT a $5,000 or $500,000 ring, but a $20? ring from a guy who has a decent job? I find that a joke.
He might be testing you to see how you react and to be honest I would tell him you find it a little d... (read in full...)
Pre-occupied with the fear that I might have HPV
Q. Hi there, Hmm I don’t know how to start this off it is probably going to sound crazy, but anyway when I was younger I went off of the rails I suppose and was incredibly naïve, so much so I ended up having unprotected sex with two rather questiona...
A. 21 March 2013: I agree that you ought to talk to your doctor, I'm sure he won't judge you either.
HPV can't be tested by a pap smear unless you have A. an outbreak or B. genital warts.
However if you HAVE HVP ( the non-wart version) abnormalities in... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife?
Q. Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife, she's got a lovely arse and she's the only person I want it with, we have been together for 20 + years and have a fantastic sex life, I'm just wondering if my penis would be too big for her, it's 6 ins but ...
A. 21 March 2013: The question is not if it is normal for YOU to want it, the question is, DOES SHE?
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I can't accept that my husband was in prison for a sex crime but the families all give me a hard time!
Q. I've been married 20 years, my husband has been a troubled person for the majority of those years, we now have 2 adult children. 6 years ago my husband was sentenced to 6 years in jail shortly after his conviction, I learned that he was doing time ...
A. 21 March 2013: You can forgive him, his family can forgive him, but that doesn't mean that you are BOUND by your vows to stay with him nor to stay married.
The fact that you are not EVEN privy to the case of which he served 6 YEARS in prison for, makes me think... (read in full...)
"The one"???
Q. How do you know if someone is "the One"? Just generally....
A. 21 March 2013: I don't believe there is only ONE out there for each of us. That would be rather catastrophic, wouldn't it?
I DO believe that someone can have an instant attraction which can lead to a great connection and long term relationships. But like any... (read in full...)
He broke up with me -- and is laying a guilt trip too
Q. I think my boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me. I'm not sure how I feel... part of me wants to bawl my eyes out. But part of me feels calm and sort of relieved. I love him. But he's crazy. He's massively stressed out. He works t...
A. 21 March 2013: I don't thin ky ouare looking at it all wrong at all. He DOES WANT the housekeeper/maid/nanny/sex partner but on his terms only.
Now if you had said you EXPECTED a (let's say) a 25,000 engagement ring I can kind of understand where he is coming f... (read in full...)
Am I her last option? Am I making a wise decision to marry her?
Q. This is going to be a long one. Please take time to read and help me. I recently started dating my best friend's sister. She had two past relationship, I was a virgin and she is my first. She told most of her past, hearing it all made me cringe a...
A. 21 March 2013: Seems like the LAST thing you should do, is to marry her any time soon.
If she is still in touch with the guys she slept with (who she claims did nothing FOR her sexually and so forth) then she isn't taking the relationship serious with you.
... (read in full...)
I believe my best friend's boyfriend fancies me...what should I do about it?
Q. I think my best friend's boyfriend fancy's me and I think I like him a little too. He always talks every opportunity to grab some part of me whether it be playfully hit or tickle or flirt a little for example today at lunch I felt someone's leg rest ...
A. 21 March 2013: I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou. You need to tell him to cut it out, IN PRIVATE.
If he doesn't, I would tell your FRIEND that you feel a little uncomfortable with him being so "handsy" around you.
It's quite the mindfuck game he has got going is... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend his lateness is driving me mad?
Q. Hello all I think my bf has issues with time management. He's a lovely guy and he tries his best to spend time with me despite his busy schedule. Sometimes when he says he would call at a certain time, he ends up calling an hour later. I wish he ...
A. 21 March 2013: I would just tell him;" this is important to me. IF you KNOW you are going to be late meeting me, PLEASE call so I can get stuff done."
It may take him a little while to "get" it but I think telling him what you NEED/WANT from him helps a lot more... (read in full...)
I cant move on.....I want him back no matter what it takes
Q. My boyfriend and I had been in a relationship since 13 months. The past three months, we had started fighting a lot. And the week before he broke up with me, I had brought up break up since he would fight on everything. But the fights never lasted ...
A. 21 March 2013: It's only been 5-6 weeks since the break up and you have been CONSTANTLY hounding him for contact, OF COURSE you can't move on.
YOU need to respect his wishes. He DOESN'T WANT to talk to you, he doesn't WANT to date you. I know that sounds h... (read in full...)
He has become 'best friends' with a female co-worker, they text all the time and go to lunch together. If I get upset about it he calls me insecure, but don't I have a right to be in this situation?
Q. My husband and I have been married for six years and he has always had the same job.. Well recently he has started talking about a coworker all the time telling me how great she is. He goes to lunches with her alone and they text back and forth ...
A. 21 March 2013: I think your husband used emotional blackmail in hopes you back off. That whole: "I put in 2 weeks notice" is ridiculous.
Has he previously given you reason NOT to trust him? Do you think he is capable of having a friendship with this chick an... (read in full...)
Surely actions speak louder than words? Is there any hope for this relationship or should I move on?
Q. i have been with a man for 10 years. about 4 years ago I kicked him out because of problems with my mom. she died in 2010. We talk of getting back together but he uses this as a excuse of why we have not. we went on vacation together in 2012. he ...
A. 21 March 2013: Seems like you are his back up plan in case he can't find greener grass.
What exactly is it that he needs time to get over? That you kicked him out 4 years ago? If he is not "over" it by now I don't think he will be any time soon.
Yes, I think ... (read in full...)
Why won't my partner give me blowjobs?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 8 years and she has never giving me a proper blowjob, and by proper I mean that she has never gotten me off while doing it. She rarely goes down on me, and I mean rarely, I'm taking once every year or two. And ...
A. 21 March 2013: Do you take a LONG time to get off when you are getting a blow-job? I swear my husband can keep an erection for a good 35 minutes during a blow-job and as much fun as it is, it KILLS my jaws. So this is not a every day thing for us. However, it does ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy likes you, or if he just wants sex?
Q. Hi to anyone who can help me figure this out. Male agony "uncles", your views are wanted the most. What I wonder is, when do you know if a guy actually likes you, or if he's just after sex? I have this kinda complecated "thing" with a friend of...
A. 21 March 2013: Well, in YOUR case.. He is just using your for sex. He uses the "feelings" he knows you have for him to rope you back in for more sex.
I think it's pretty obvious, that if a guy genuinely care he WANTS to spend time with you and not just horizon... (read in full...)
Do guys think experienced girls are hotter?
Q. Do boys think girls are hotter when they find out that they have 'done stuff' with another boy ?...
A. 21 March 2013: I think it depends on what they WANT from said girl/woman. If they JUST want sex, then yes a girl with a lot of experience is seen as an easier "target". But GF-material, no.
Do go out and sex things up in hopes that boys will find you hotter o... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable with people looking at me
Q. Why do they keep looking at me? I don't understand? So I signed up for the gym a few months ago and diet to help with my self confidence and I've lost a lot weight, toned. Uk size 10 but still curvy with big boobs. I've noticed that the guy...
A. 21 March 2013: Honey you can not control what other people do or say. You can only "control" your own actions.
They look because they can, it's that simple.
I would just ignore it the best you can.
My best friend lost a lot of weight and noticed that ... (read in full...)
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