This woman keeps flirting with my fiance right in front of me, what should I do?
Q. I know there isn't anything I can actually do about this but maybe someone who has gone through this can tell me what I should do. Basically I need to know how to best handle a situation where this woman flirts with my fiance right in front o...
A. 20 April 2013: I have to agree with Sage and Cerberus.
SHE isn't doing it to get YOU mad, but because he RESPONDS positively to it.
YOUR gripe should be with your BF, not her.... (read in full...)
Does my bf have to look or think of other girls in order to get hard to have sex with me
Q. I feel like my bf of 3 years is talking to people about me and i tink that its bad things .... i think hes secretly calling his ex gfs he called his ex gf when we first started dating i didnt know about it then one day he got all dressed up ...
A. 19 April 2013: Why do you even want to be with a guy who tells you up front that he isn't attracted to you no longer, that he has to look at other women to even have sex with you?
The guy is tearing you down. He is trying to make YOU feel bad about yourself... (read in full...)
I'm depressed. I had an abortion 2 years ago and still haven't gotten over it
Q. Two years ago I had an abortion. I don't agree with abortions, and I didn't want to at the time but my parents wanted me to and my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me with my friend. I really regret what I did, there isn't a day that goes by ...
A. 19 April 2013: Does the university have counseling? Maybe that would be a good place to start. Or go see your GP.
Having an abortion is a life altering experience for most girls/women and many people don't understand that. However it is a FACT that you can't ch... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is staying friends with his ex no matter how I feel about it!
Q. Sorry if this is quite detailed and long I just really need some help! Well in a month I will have been with my boyfrind for 2 years, its a happy healthy relationship apart from one thing - his ex and still best friend. Its not just the fact ...
A. 19 April 2013: Wow, you really need to get over being so petty.
I am NOT a fan of people staying friends with an ex for the most part, but some people are able to pull it off without it being more then an actual friendship. Since she is part of a larger group of... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is over but I'm mad that he didn't even have the decency to end it. He just stopped contacting me
Q. I was dating this guy for a month, and we were sleeping together. We both went away over the Easter break and he said before we left that'd we'd see each other afterwards. Then when we both got back I texted him to ask if he wanted to meet ...
A. 19 April 2013: Meh, seems like he is just a noob.
My advice, forget about this one. If he gets back in touch tell him to go fly a kite. At least you didn't waste more time with this one.
Maybe wait a little while longer before sleeping together? So you... (read in full...)
Girlfriend sexting and texting nude photos to other men
Q. hi my girlfriend and i have been seeing each other for nine months.i just found out she has been sexting and sending nude pics to other guys. im crushed but i love her. trust is an issue now.i was given a really lame excuse about it all. its been a ...
A. 19 April 2013: She got mad because not only did she get caught red-handed, but you didn't just roll over with JOY that she is doing this. You dared to question her morals.
Obviously the subject is closed for her, but not for you. How are you two going to fix t... (read in full...)
Has taking the hormone balancing pills done this to me? Have I gradually killed my sex drive this way?
Q. This isn't a relationship problem, but I'm curious about it anyway. Back when I was 18, I started taking a women's hormone balancer. I did this because I always felt I had more body hair than I should, my chest was underdeveloped, and I had an ...
A. 19 April 2013: I think you need to STOP self-medicating and go see your doctor. There can be MANY reasons why your libido have gone down. It can be thyroids, i CAN be hormonal, it can be stress, depression and so forth.
Make an appointment and TALK to you doct... (read in full...)
Being cheated on and the other girl getting pregnant I don't know what to feel?
Q. I've been in a relationship with the love of my life, but with every relationship there is a problem, he kept me a secret for 3 years and always had time for his ex he would never contact me when she was around and told me that she was just really ...
A. 19 April 2013: How can you not see that he ISN'T this perfect guy you think he is or want him to be?
You are his "dirty" little secret and he assumed you are DUMB enough to believe his bullshit. WHY would a young girl have IVF ? So she could be a young "single"... (read in full...)
I feel like this other girl is ruining my life
Q. Okay so I'll start off by saying I'm 19 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I don't want it to seem like I'm a drama queen so please don't get the wrong idea, I just really need to explain this. I feel like this oth...
A. 19 April 2013: I would not argue about her with the BF again, whenever you even TALK about her you give her power, you make her more interesting.
IT IS OK that you don't like her, but I would rather just ignore her or use the "kill her with kindness" thing. J... (read in full...)
Why, if we have no contact, does my BF show up as number one in my "people you know" on my FB? Does it mean that my ex-Boyfriend has been recently viewing my profile?
Q. Why is my ex-boyfriend consistently the number one person in my "people you may know" on Facebook? i haven't viewed his profile in a long time, and recently he has been the top person on the list every time I log on. We've never been facebook fr...
A. 19 April 2013: Does any of your other friends know him? If so that can be why, OR if you were friends before it CAN pop up as "people you may know". No sure why it does this if you unfriended him, but I have seen it before.
I wouldn't worry about it since he... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend now claims he wants to be friends but I don't
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago but at school he always stares at me and i'm trying to get over him but it's impossible bcoz he told me that he lied to me so many times and i dont rlly know how to handle it. what should i do? he said we ...
A. 19 April 2013: You don't HAVE to be friends with him because you used to date. If you DO NOT want to be friends just ell him that and stick to it!... (read in full...)
Caught boyfriend in a lie, should I confront him?
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend bought a Fleshlight and lied to me about it. I have no problem with him having one, it's not an issue. I do have a problem that he lied about what he got in the mail. I understand he was probably too emb...
A. 18 April 2013: I would just sit him down and tell him;" look I don't care that you got yourself a flesh-light, but I would appreciate that you don't LIE to my face in the future" "I would LIKE to be able to feel like I can trust you. "Now if you don't want t... (read in full...)
Is her attitude about marriage something I should worry about now?
Q. This is a simple question, but it might have a complex answer... My girlfriend and I have been dating 2 years. Recently, we were talking casually about marriage. Not about us getting married, just the topic in general. She said "You know, ...
A. 18 April 2013: When I was her age I was pretty sure that I would NEVER have kids, nor marry. However 20 years later, here I am with 3 kids and a 15 year marriage .... (read in full...)
Precautions for Recieving Oral if Prone to Urinary Tract Infections?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been talking about taking our relationship a bit further. He is a bit older than me and knows that I want to take things slow and wait on full out sex. I'm still a virgin, but he's pretty experienced. The other night he told ...
A. 18 April 2013: Dental dams. look them up. Use them. Problem solved.... (read in full...)
I use plenty of lube but still bleed after anal
Q. I am male and I am straight but like to do anal with a dildo when I'm jerking off but every time after I bleed a little and I use plenty of lube is this ok?...
A. 18 April 2013: You can develop anal fissures, tears and bleeding can lead to infection and so forth. Use something smaller (and not til you are healed up again). If you continue to bleed see your doctor.... (read in full...)
GF sister keeps making a pass at me, HELP
Q. i am 30 my girlfriend is 22 we got a good relationship but her sister keeks hitting on me the more she dose the more i think about it but she is 14 help me...
A. 18 April 2013: 1. tell your GF and 2. tell the sister that she needs to knock it off. My guess is that she feels safe "practicing" flirting with you. Basically you are her guinea pig. And honestly, BE the freaking grown up.... (read in full...)
Our son's friend lied to his mother about being teased at our house. How can we handle this?
Q. I have a 12 year-old son. Recently we had a friend of his, whom I'll call Joe, over for dinner with a lot of other people. The next day Joe's mom texted my wife and said that Joe didn't like being made fun of at our dinner table. I think my wife ...
A. 17 April 2013: Tell your wife anyways, so she won't find out about it a roundabout way.
And then maybe Joe needs to NOT come over for a while. I would guess once he misses being around your family he will talk to his mom. If not, I'm sorry to say, his loss. I ... (read in full...)
My crush just split with her cheating boyfriend. Should I make my move?
Q. I am a 19 year old guy with a crush on my female friend. We have always jokingly flirted but I've started to really like her. She missed a week of uni and when she came back she told me that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for four months and ...
A. 16 April 2013: I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou ! If you want something more then a roll in the hay with this girl, LET her GET OVER the ex first. BE there for her and hold back those hormones.... (read in full...)
His friends are rude to me and know too much of my personal business
Q. How would you deal with your boyfriends friends being rude to you? I've found that I'm not really comfortable at all around my boyfriends 5 main best friends. They all make very rude comments to me and even just make rude comments about our relation...
A. 16 April 2013: This is not them being bad friends, it's your BF who sucks. He shouldn't SHARE intimate personal details that you have told him. THAT should stay between him and you. He is disrespecting YOU and your relationship. You need to talk to him about ... (read in full...)
How to seduce a man in his early thirties?
Q. I'm nineteen and I have a huge crush on a man who's thirty one.. Whenever we're together it just feels right but I can tell we both keep questioning the age difference and it's kept us from moving forward. How can I seduce him and get the ...
A. 16 April 2013: Is he single? If not - walk away now. Chances of "seducing" him into a relationship is slim. What I would suggest is that you GET to know him and let him get to know you (and I don't mean in the sexual way). He might like you as a person, but ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is annoyed with me all the time!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years is annoyed with me all the time, whatever i do makes him angry, im scared even to talk to him. I already have a lot of problems work realted stress, my family issues and i dont want my bf to give me hard time now. I...
A. 16 April 2013: Have you talked to him? How it makes you feel? I can't even imagine having a relationship where I would have to walk on egg-shells around my partner. It's not healthy at all. I think there is something else going on besides you "irritating" him... (read in full...)
Husband cheating, left me. How do you go on after this?
Q. im soooo hurt. i dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this betrayal. my husband of 15 years was caught red handed with a 23 year old. and now he has packed his stuff and told me he does not love me anymore.... i dont understa...
A. 16 April 2013: I agree with Auntie BimBim. Cancel creditcards that are in both your names, change the locks, and so forth. Also find a lawyer. Secondly. Your anger is directed at the wrong person. This young woman didn't come ruin your marriage. She didn't s... (read in full...)
My bridesmaid bought a shoe a size too big. I'm worried about how she's going to wear it for a couple of hours???
Q. I'm getting married in May. I'm having a bit of an issue. I told my bridesmaids they could pick out whatever shoe they wanted. One of my bridesmaids bought a shoe that is a size too big. I know you can stuff a shoe to make it fit correctly. However ...
A. 16 April 2013: I think the flip flop idea is great, but honestly SHE is the one who has to wear the too big shoes, so I really wouldn't worry about it. If she tried them on and can walk in them it's fine. But the added touch of flip flops is nice of you.... (read in full...)
Gave my GF herpes, She now wants nothing to do with me!
Q. okay last October, i met a female photographer (39y.o) at a venue while i was out by myself supporting a friends band. I was married at the time and was at the venue to see my friends band and also take photo's of the band as i had begun a new ...
A. 16 April 2013: I'm sorry, but to be frank, you didn't "accidentally" transmit the STD, you CARELESSLY transmitted it. You KNEW you had it since 2002 and you should have been upfront with her. You WAITED til you thought you had an outbreak, AFTER having had sex w... (read in full...)
I like a girl who seems more affluent than me?
Q. There's a girl I really like. I met her working with her last summer at a summer job. She seems pretty nice and sweet and thinks I'm every bit as such and we chat on Facebook every once in a while (not frequently), we get along fine and she's ...
A. 15 April 2013: I agree with Cerberus, it's much more about whether YOU can handle it then anything else.
Besides it's NOT her money, it's her parents.
If you two share common goals, hobbies, likes & dislikes I think the socioeconomic background means... (read in full...)
What should I read into her comment?
Q. Ok, So I was seeing this girl which I worked with for a while, we started just running together after work, which lead to us sleeping together and going out, dinners, concerts etc. She has children but she had them at an early age, I wanted t...
A. 15 April 2013: Seems like she took your Happy Birthday as a way to get beck to your NSA thing you two got going.
She likes you enough to hang out and screw you, but not enough to date?
Have you asked her if she is interested in dating you? Could be she thi... (read in full...)
I seem to be the only one on the "team" who does any work
Q. Hey! This isn't a relationship question, but I need advice and I didn't know where else to go. Sorry! I’m in college at the moment, and basically the person that lives with me does the same course, and last semester I ended up giving him liter...
A. 15 April 2013: I would just STOP letting others ride your coat-tails. YOU are not responsible for them passing or failing THEY are. The only thing YOU are responsible for is YOUR work and YOUR grades.
These people are USING you, that is not friendship.... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but don't want a sexless passionless relationship
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him very much, but I'm not happy with our sex life. When we first started dating he was really hot for me and couldn't get enough of me, but it has tapered off drastically. We have sex maybe ...
A. 15 April 2013: You really need to talk to him about this.
Let him know YOU desire him and miss the fantastic sex you two had in the beginning. ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for this person to slip their friend a sleeping pill, passing it off as herbal medication?
Q. Hi Everyone, I was recently hanging out with an old acquaintance and we were chatting about dates we'd had with other people. This guy then proceeds to tell me that he and a friend were hanging out at his house and he wanted to go to sleep and hav...
A. 15 April 2013: It's wrong. Absolutely. If you want to give a person something to help them sleep you TELL them what it is, you don't pass it off as something else. WTF would he have done if the sleeping pills reacted in a negative way to any medicine that person ... (read in full...)
First time sex and a big member.
Q. My boyfriend has an abnormally big dick and it is physically too big for me? -I've sat on it lubed up and it would take alot of force to make it go in, were both still virgins but feel ready, how do i go about making this as less painful as possible...
A. 14 April 2013: I think it will be OK as LONG as you can relax and he can enter slowly and stop if needed.
Like some posters suggested, maybe start with gentle fingering, I'm not really a fan of you having to insert dildos, I don't think that is necessar... (read in full...)
Slept with him before I discovered he was in a LDR
Q. My problem is that I slept with a guy a few times before he told me he has been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He keeps telling me he really likes me though. The problem is I really like him too. I know I wouldn't ever be able to ...
A. 14 April 2013: He probably IS just using you for sex. So block his number so he can't call or text.
How do you lose your feelings for him? OPEN your eyes and see how he treats YOU and his LDR GF. Is that really a decent guy? A guy you want to be with? Someone ... (read in full...)
I met this guy and I like him. Would meeting for coffee be a good idea?
Q. Hi people! I met this guy on Friday night, he was really nice and we talked/had alot of drinks together. I ended up back at his house for a drink - note we were both drunk but i was sober enough for it not to go any further (i am not like that at ...
A. 14 April 2013: Well, it can be that he took the :" I don't want to come to your place, but go for coffee" - as you not being all that into him or he isn't sure what to do now.
Since you only just met Friday I would give him a couple of days to call you. IF he is... (read in full...)
What does it mean when guys seem interested, yet then cancel dates at last minute for stupid reasons?
Q. Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy seems excited to see you but then cancels on you for a stupid reason? So there's this guy I met in high school and we liked each other alot back then and admitted we liked each other. We were also good fri...
A. 14 April 2013: It means he is interested but..... you are NOT his first priority.
HE KNOWS you have a crush on him, so he also KNOWS that you will probably stick around even if he treats you like that.
So it's really UP to you if you want to be treated this ... (read in full...)
It's my wedding. I've been polite to her and it didn't work. How should I deal with this very demanding clingy wedding guest?
Q. I'm getting married later on this year; abroad in Switzerland (my partner is from there). Now I have a couple of my friends coming over for the wedding from the UK- which I'm happy about with the exception of 1 person... Basically this friend of mi...
A. 14 April 2013: Honestly, and you can call me mean I would uninvite her if she can't comprehend that YOUR wedding is about YOU and your new husband - NOT her going on holiday.... (read in full...)
He's still with his girlfriend, so why is he still seeing me? Does he like me?
Q. I was seeing a guy about 3 years ago and we never broke it off In bad terms we just fell apart .. So he ended up with someone and i was really happy for him so last year i messaged him and we spoke about the past and he asked if he could come ove...
A. 14 April 2013: Why are YOU still seeing him?
Why are you settling for being second best? Obviously if he REALLY gave a damn about you he wouldn't have a GIRLFRIEND too, now would he?
I think he sees you as an easy lay. Someone nice to keep around for sex a... (read in full...)
Were her remarks a harmless joke? Or a hint that she likes me? Because I really like her.
Q. A harmless joke or a hint that she likes me? Was a bit shocked when I bought my new friends [two girls] at uni, a cute little dessert back from the canteen, for one of them to say 'aw, you're so sweet' and then 'I think I love you, I'm not even jok...
A. 14 April 2013: I agree with YouWish. I think you are reading more into it then what's really happening.
However, next time be faster on your feet and ask her out.
... (read in full...)
Married for nearly nine years, together with my wife for eleven and a half years and I've fallen for a 20 yr old girl
Q. Hi, I have been married for nearly nine years and together with my wife for eleven and half years. Recently the marriage has been going through a lull and I fell for a 20 yr old girl. We get on really well and cant stop wanting to be together...
A. 14 April 2013: Marriage takes work, not every now and then but all the time, if you WANT it to work.
Blaming you actions on a "lull" in the marriage is pathetic and quite honestly stupid. How on Earth will CHEATING on your wife make the marriage better? Less bor... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of filling for divorce because my husband never backs me when his friend disrespects me!
Q. I am 50year old woman who has been married for 19 years. My husband isis a retiree. We have a 16 year old autistic son. Since the beginning of my marriage, my husband's best friend has been a thorn in our marriage. His best friend is a 70 year old ...
A. 13 April 2013: I have to agree, he seems to prioritize his "friend" over his family.
I have to say I heard nothing about love in your post, so maybe? this marriage have run it's course?
I would contact a lawyer and get some advice.... (read in full...)
Am I a sugardaddy or is possible for a relationship with a woman 20+ younger than me?
Q. what are your opinions of an older man getting with a younger girl and getting her pregnant? i met a girl who is 20+ years younger than me. we have talked and not having any children of my own, she said she is in love with me and will have a baby ...
A. 13 April 2013: So you are still married? And you are cheating on your wife with the younger girl, because she might want to give you an offspring?
Why not divorce your CURRENT wife, let her find HER happiness and THEN you can look for YOUR happiness to. STOP str... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 13 April 2013: I have to agree with SVC, you can compete (nor should yo u really HAVE to).
I would just cut the contact with him and move on. ... (read in full...)
Fiance gets it all in the bed but I am left wanting?
Q. Hello everyone, well I'm getting married in a month. My fiance has proved he's not cheating. Of course I still have trust issues. But that's not the problem today. My problem is he is a little selfish in bed. Whenever he wants sex or a BJ, he gets ...
A. 11 April 2013: Honestly I don't believe in "making" others do things (sexually especially) that they don't like to do.
However if you are not satisfied, you need to address that. And there are usually more ways then oral to get satisfied as a woman.
YOU cho... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 11 April 2013: You know that if you DO end up marrying this guy, his daughter and ex wife will become a permanent fixture in your life, right? It sounds like the daughter and ex are emotionally black mailing him though. I mean what did they do BEFORE he showed... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 16 March 2013: crying123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question
One more thing guys what should I do with all of his stuff he is begging me to keep it and just wait patiently until he comes home. He only packed for a week everything is here... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 11 March 2013: Is this the first time in 5 years he has spend time with his daughter like this?
If so, I think you need to chill a little.
However if he is staying WITH the mom/daughter and not in a motel, I would find it a little odd for him to stay so l... (read in full...)
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