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I need to learn to say no and I can't seem to do it

Q.   I need to learn how to say no. I generally end up saying "yes" to everybody and stretching myself thin to keep my promises. I'm working on my dissertation at the moment and there's a company that really wants me to translate and write content fo...

A.   28 May 2015: Good for you! For a "first step" in being an adult woman and learning to set boundaries and tell people no, you DID great! It does get easier with age!... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   27 May 2015: Again STOP obsessing over HER sexual past, it REALLY is NONE of your business. TRYING to make sense of it, IS not your job or business. You even KNOW how it UPSETS her to go OVER AND OVER this thing, so what is more important? FOR you to be "r... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   27 May 2015: Society is SO focused on sex these days. She might have had MANY reasons to have sex. Women OFTEN have different motives than men, that goes for sex too. And like Cindy said SHE even explained it to you. She felt ugly and boring. And don't for... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   27 May 2015: Let me quote you: Well 1 more question then honeypie, if 80% of women don't orgasm from penetration. Doesnt it say a lot for the 1 guy that got her close with penetration alone? Nope. She may NOT be in the 80% first of all, second of all, h... (read in full...)

He seemed to treat our date as if I was on his payroll

Q.   Hi everyone Please let me know if you think i am crazy but i went on a day out recently with the boss of a large firm. This guy has been flirting with me for ages and i agreed to go with him and his staff. I did seek assurance that i wouldnt be...

A.   26 May 2015: It would be a total no-go for me too. Having a SECRETARY text you? That is just impersonal as can be. And honestly, HE couldn't call you when you were "lost" he HAD time to GIVE others your phone number so THEY could call/text you, so WHY couldn't... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   26 May 2015: There are women out there who go a life time without an orgasm through sex. They "think" it's their fault, but in reality these women haven't found how to ACHIEVE an orgasm with a partner, mostly because they presume that INSERTION is how you get ... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   26 May 2015: EVERYBODY lies. It's a fact. Let me quote: Leonard Saxe, Ph.D., a polygraph expert and professor of psychology at Brandeis University, says, "Lying has long been a part of everyday life. We couldn't get through the day without being deceptive." ... (read in full...)

I like her, my friend likes her and she's with someone else. Do I wait?

Q.   So it's the end of my first year at university and I realise that I like this girl on my course. She's a year younger than me, but I deferred last year to take some time out and do other things. I've only known her for about five months. The othe...

A.   26 May 2015: So BE her friend. Don't have ulterior motives when making friends, it usually backfires or worse ruins a friendship. Having a crush on someone happens, we have all BEEN there, but that doesn't MEAN the other person feels the same way or that you... (read in full...)

My ex is confusing me.. Why is he still explaining himself?

Q.   Me and my ex broke up a week ago. I ignored him and his texts since then but he keeps msging me. Today he msged me asking why i was ignoring him... So i said he made his decision. I respect it but I'm not settling for any less than what I want (he ...

A.   26 May 2015: I agree with Cindy. He is missing the attention you were giving him, and HE still wants that. He can't seem to understand that you DON'T want something half-asses either. He might also feel guilty that he hurt your feelings and want to feel LES... (read in full...)

Should I allow my boyfriend to keep his ex in his life?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years but I don't think we should be together anymore. I've tried to end things on a few occasions lately but I can never just stick to my guns and cut all ties with him. I did love him a lot at one...

A.   26 May 2015: Let him go. Someone who is OBSESSED about his ex rarely makes a good BF. He isn't going to "give" her up if he is still into her. After you break up if he STILL shows up at your house/work. Tell him it needs to stop or you WILL get a restrainin... (read in full...)

Boyfriend of 10 years wants kids and I don't

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over ten years and everything is great - I love him and I know he loves me. But the problem is that he wants kids and I don't. We started dating when we were teenagers so it really wasn't an issue ...

A.   26 May 2015: I have to agree with chigirl. If she knows 100% that KIDS is NOT something she wants, and the BF knows 100% that HE wants kids this is a total deal breaker and not fair on either of them. Not fair that HE should give up the change of having k... (read in full...)

Should I tell my ex's girlfriend that we made out and had oral sex?

Q.   I was recently in my ex's hometown and we hung out even though he has a girlfriend. He called me as soon as I got to my hotel and we had drinks. Within two hours we were making out, and fooling around (oral sex, boob sucking, dirty talk) he wanted ...

A.   26 May 2015: You are GLAD you didn't let it go to far? Are you kidding? You KNEW he has a GF and you still engaged in sex. Yes, ORAL sex is STILL sex. And why do you think you all of a sudden needs to tell his GF what you did with HER BF? To me it seem... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my inlaws who show up unannounced every day and won't call first?

Q.   I'd love some advice/opinions from anyone that has a tension-filled relationship with their inlaws. I really don't know whether I'm overreacting and over sensitive as I've been made to feel I am. My inlaws are eccentric types. They're the typ...

A.   26 May 2015: Have you considered telling your husband to go visit THEM a bit more often? Maybe that will curb them from coming to your home daily... Honestly, it would drive me up the wall to have people just show up. My friends knew that unless you CALLED f... (read in full...)

I like her, my friend likes her and she's with someone else. Do I wait?

Q.   So it's the end of my first year at university and I realise that I like this girl on my course. She's a year younger than me, but I deferred last year to take some time out and do other things. I've only known her for about five months. The othe...

A.   26 May 2015: She has a BF and THUS she should be off limits. I have to say it's a REAL douche-bag move befriending a girl and then hoping her relationship falls apart so you can swoop in, talk about vulture behavior. Focus on your education. IF yo... (read in full...)

My sister slept with the guy I liked and she knew I liked him!

Q.   Hi hope you can help me out , I've liked this lad for a few years he used to come into where I worked and I used to see him on the weekends at the pub he's slept over mine a few times and we've kissed but I'd just split up with my boyfrien...

A.   26 May 2015: I have to say, what you sister did was shady. But.... HE knew who she was and HE went home with her. He isn't some great prize you called dibs on and lost. He is a dude who will sleep with anyone willing... He slept with you, now your sister..... (read in full...)

I need to learn to say no and I can't seem to do it

Q.   I need to learn how to say no. I generally end up saying "yes" to everybody and stretching myself thin to keep my promises. I'm working on my dissertation at the moment and there's a company that really wants me to translate and write content fo...

A.   26 May 2015: I agree with WiseOwlE PUT your education first. A shitty dissertation is worthless. POUR your work into making THAT a great one. As for this dude, if he is not a person you see often, but he calls/texts - I would tell him, HEY why don't I get ... (read in full...)

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

Q.   Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

A.   26 May 2015: Good Lord, why are you bringing up a "penis size" 15 years later? She might actually not remember the actual size, she might not GIVE a fly's FART about some past lovers penis. She brought it up 15 YEARS AGO - GET frigging over it! You may n... (read in full...)

Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !

Q.   I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...

A.   25 May 2015: Congrats on the new job! And good luck!... (read in full...)

We've come to the understanding that whatever was our relationship when he got on the airplane! What do you think?

Q.   My husband and I have been married about 2 years. On April 8th I took him to the airport because he had a friend buy him a ticket out and he told me he couldn't handle my crazy life. Since he left I have gotten an awesome job, and I am making the ...

A.   25 May 2015: I have to agree with Auntie Bim. HE now has a LOT to prove. Not only to you and your daughter but TO your family. I would NOT let him just waltz back into the home. No, he has to GET a job and START all over with you. That means dating (ye... (read in full...)

Seven days later, is there a reason he hasn't asked me for another date?

Q.   So I went on a date with a guy about a week ago. He picked me up, and we went out for a few drinks and came home relatively early because he had work the next day and had already been at a dinner. When we were both in the car together, we kept ...

A.   25 May 2015: So did you TELL him whether you were doing something the NEXT day or not? My guess is you didn't, so he might think you weren't that interested and thus didn't ASK you out again. People seem to get their wires crossed a little because they don... (read in full...)

Should I stay away from where he works?

Q.   I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and ...

A.   25 May 2015: I'd find another watering hole to be honest. I don't think he was really looking for a GF and since you slept with him several times, he didn't think you were too serious either. Personally, neither of you did anything "wrong". There was no clear... (read in full...)

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

Q.   I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

A.   25 May 2015: I will echo mystiquek's post. LISTEN to Abella. TAKE charge. IT is UP to you to STOP this cycle of abuse, don't forget you have a little boy who will watch and later copy what he see going on. He will think being ABUSIVE to women is the norm. An... (read in full...)

What was my G/f (who I'm in a Long Distance Relationship with) doing at 4:00 AM and why is she evading my question?

Q.   Hi there, I'm not sure how these things work so I'm just going to post the situation and hope for a response. My girlfriend attends the University in Liverpool and I'm home in Coventry, it's been like this for about a year now and the long distance...

A.   25 May 2015: Maybe she got up to pee at 4 am. Maybe she couldn't sleep after your conversation, either way, WHY do you think she OWES you an explanation of why she was up? I know LDR can be stressful, but you are going overboard here with trying to control ... (read in full...)

Anyone have experience with bondage and the use of needles?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and are into bondage and S and M. She mentioned the other day about getting more into the pain factor as she called it. So I asked her would she would be interested in and she had seen some videos ...

A.   25 May 2015: I would say, don't. Get some clamps (there are some made SPECIALLY for this purpose that don't break the skin). I don't think it's safe to "play" with needles and I don't think it's very hygienic either. ... (read in full...)

Should I be settling down?

Q.   I'm 23 years old and I still like going out and enjoying myself. All my friends are settling down with their boyfriends, moving in together or having children. I just don't feel ready for all of this! I still live at home with my parents although I ...

A.   25 May 2015: I didn't "settle down" til 27. Didn't have my first child till 30. I have no regrets there. I got to get an education, have a career, travel, enjoy life as a single (and as a GF). WHAT is the hurry?... (read in full...)

The woman I love shows verbal abuse and tells me to leave her but I love her!

Q.   I am in a relationship with this woman for over 2 years but the past few months she has been an emotional wreck she lost a loved one and her job nothing really worked out her..because of which I have been subjected to verbal abuse like "asshole" ...

A.   25 May 2015: Let her go. No MATTER how much you love her you can't fix what's going on with her. It's NOT you, it IS her. She has spend the last two year abusing you instead of dealing with her issues. Maybe she is now ready to deal with them, but NEED to ... (read in full...)

A man I chatted with online showed up unexpectedly at my home and now I am creeped out. What should I do?

Q.   Hey all. So a year ago I met a guy online on an Expat blog through travel groups. Groups that travel together and have lots in common. In the group we had all planned to go to spain but i cancelled it because the booked date was my mum's birthd...

A.   25 May 2015: Keep a log of what he has done, said, texted with dates. I would send him ONE single text. IT should state that you WISH no contact with him, any further contact FROM him will be forwarded to the police as you will regard it as stalking. NO more.... (read in full...)

He seemed to treat our date as if I was on his payroll

Q.   Hi everyone Please let me know if you think i am crazy but i went on a day out recently with the boss of a large firm. This guy has been flirting with me for ages and i agreed to go with him and his staff. I did seek assurance that i wouldnt be...

A.   23 May 2015: Wow, he couldn't be BOTHERED to seek you out himself or CALL you himself? Seriously? Honestly, I'd just be polite but NOT waste ANY MORE time on him. No wonder this guy is single...... (read in full...)

His words say one thing and his actions another.

Q.   My boyfriend of almost 7 months and I are having problems. We've never fought before and we have had an amazing relationship. We were constantly together all last semester then he graduated but we constantly hung out even then. But now since school ...

A.   23 May 2015: I would consider this relationship to be OVER. Everything he does is to push you away. He doesn't HAVE the nuts to break up with you. You can't date a guy for his "mannerism" when everything else he does (like not wanting to see you before y... (read in full...)

Is she trying to test me? How do I respond? My online Gf sent me two pictures of herself. She wants comment, but one picture is very unflattering.

Q.   I asked my gf to send me her new pictures (of herself). I met her online. The problem is she send me two pictures. One is good and the other one is looking bad. She asked me that how those pictures look, to me. I'm really scared to say that "t...

A.   23 May 2015: I agree with WiseOwlE If she DOES want to talk about the "BAD" picture point out the nice parts (I'm sure there are some) and avoid the negative critique.... (read in full...)

Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests?

Q.   Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests? I fell out with a guy I had a brief fling with. He is one of these smooth talkers, who likes to chat the women up - so I said I couldn't cope with his flirting around etc anymore. So anyway, we fi...

A.   23 May 2015: Laugh it up, I mean seriously? Your have SUCH powers that you make other women reject him too! Quite occult! Stop trying to reason with him. You do not OWE him any explanations or ANYTHING. So stop trying to contact him. It's about as USEFUL a... (read in full...)

If they arent legally his, should they be his heirs?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 years, living together for 7, with no plans for marriage. That part is fine with me actually. I have 2 sons who are currently 15 and 18, so BF has pretty much raised them and is their Father figure. ...

A.   23 May 2015: 70,000 in the rears and he is not in jail? Does he work ( the father) if so you should AT LEAST get his tax return each year, but what I don't get is how he can be OUT and OWE that much. Have you consulted with Child Support Services lately? ... (read in full...)

Is it true that you might not deliver a healthy baby after age 35?

Q.   Hi everyone. Ive got this problem thats get on the way of my life when i think of it. Ive lost my boyfriend 2 years ago from suicide so since then i haven't had anyone in my life. Im so in need of love as im scared i might end up alone or without ...

A.   22 May 2015: The older you get (after 35) the bigger the risk the pregnancy is. For you AND the baby, but it's still a LOT lower risk at 35 than 40+ I had my youngest at 35, she was smaller then my first two (about a pound) and was born earlier (about 2 weeks)... (read in full...)

Wife of 5 years says her heart was always with someone else

Q.   I’m just devastated by the news that I just received, and just wondering if I can get perspective from other men and women. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, together for 7. I accepted her 2 children from her previous marriage with op...

A.   22 May 2015: Sorry, I'd divorce her. But I would encourage her to find a job asap THEN divorce her, so you don't have to pay alimony on top of child support. THIS was NEVER about you not being good enough, not spending enough time or any other excuse SHE used... (read in full...)

He talks about kissing and I get nervous. Is this a sign of attraction/

Q.   Hi all, I am 25 years old and recently, I met a guy on an online dating site. I am taking caution and so far, I find his personality, mindset, and attitude decent enough to continue getting to know him. But I am unclear as to why I get nervous an...

A.   22 May 2015: Is being nervous a sign of attraction? No, not in this case I think you are nervous because he IS jumping AHEAD with things when you BARELY know him and have NEVER met. Let's say you met face to face and he is NOT at all attractive to you (or vice ... (read in full...)

Am I evil because I want a second opinion from another counselor?

Q.   My bf and I have started seeing a couples counselor again. It was my idea because I thought us having guidance was a good idea. However, the issues I brought up I wasn't happy with the counselor may not have seen the whole picture. Straight up, I ...

A.   22 May 2015: If you don't feel the counselor is HELPING, request a new one. Other wise you are wasting your time and money. It's not about being evil. Finding a counselor who can SUPPORT you BOTH is vital, one that takes sides? is not doing his/her job IMHO... (read in full...)

If they arent legally his, should they be his heirs?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 years, living together for 7, with no plans for marriage. That part is fine with me actually. I have 2 sons who are currently 15 and 18, so BF has pretty much raised them and is their Father figure. ...

A.   22 May 2015: I think IF you are so fine with NOT being married, you should be FINE with him giving his RELATIVES (nephews) the second life insurance and stocks/bonds/whatever. It doesn't matter HOW much the nephews make or have. That is actually besides the ... (read in full...)

The guy I've been talking with for two years or my crush?

Q.   I went out to eat breakfast with this guy(J) I met since orientation in college. We had such a good time. Well problem is that we had each others number but didn't text each other at all. Also, I am talking with someone(X) for almost 2 years but ...

A.   22 May 2015: EDIT : I wrote: Which is kind of superficial and really very serious. More like a pen-pal (only with texting) ---------------------------- Should have been: Which is kind of superficial and really NOT very serious. More like a pen-pal... (read in full...)

He just stopped responding. Should I text him?

Q.   There's this guy I like a lot and we were both at a party and we danced the entire night together and we kissed too. That night after we separated, he snapchated me which I responded to for a while and then a day later he texted me and we talked ...

A.   22 May 2015: Why do you think YOU did something wrong? It seems girls have this nothing if a guy is in hot pursuit, THEY must have done something wrong. If you want to know what's up CALL him or TEXT him. Don't play those little "I don't know what to say... (read in full...)

The guy I've been talking with for two years or my crush?

Q.   I went out to eat breakfast with this guy(J) I met since orientation in college. We had such a good time. Well problem is that we had each others number but didn't text each other at all. Also, I am talking with someone(X) for almost 2 years but ...

A.   22 May 2015: I have to say for now? I'd pick neither. You have known X for 2 year and never gone on a date? He has never asked you out? And most of your communication is through texting, if I get you right. Which is kind of superficial and really very serious.... (read in full...)

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

Q.   HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if...

A.   22 May 2015: You think this is a case of WHO is the "most wrong"? It's not. What she did was questionable and for many a total deal-breaker - you don't "talk" about a guy running his fingers up your thigh for giggles and grins. IT IS a form of cheating. It... (read in full...)

I want to shut my brother out of my life but my family will not give up on him? How do I still shut him out?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am not after romantic relationship advice, but family relationships. I have a brother. I will start from the beginning so you can advise knowing absolutely everything there is to know. He went to the army when he was 17 and was ...

A.   22 May 2015: I would cut the contact and NOT be there to listen to the GF complain. SHE is choosing to STAY with him. YOU can't fix that and you CAN'T fix your brother. At family gathering I'm sure there are plenty of other people to talk to besides him. I'd... (read in full...)

What is he trying to imply? He sent me back a message saying ''love,love,serve''

Q.   I wrote this man and said we are attracted to each other, he wrote me back and said love, love, serve. I know that is a tennis term, but what does he mean?...

A.   22 May 2015:  I think he was trying to be cute, but.. he i also saying that the NEXT move is yours.. So.... Ask him out?... (read in full...)

Its going on 2 years, we've never met and he won't respond to my questions of "what are we"

Q.   So I've been in this Long-distance "relationship" for more than over 1 yr., almost 2. I'm 21 and he's 26, we met on an app and have been talking ever since. Yes we have seen each other so there's no cat fishing here. He lives more up north and I ...

A.   22 May 2015: I can tell you what you have. You two have a fantasy. You chat and videochat, sexy phone chats.... but that doesn't make it more REAL. 2 YEARS and NEVER having met in person makes it a fantasy. You HOPE that if you met in person all the backgrou... (read in full...)

Where does all of my boyfriend's money go? He gets angry when I ask him

Q.   I love my boyfriend. He loves me. We've been together for a year and lived together since 3 months of dating. I lost my last boyfriend who I lived with my all heart to a drug problem I was helping him fight for years. My boyfriend was with one girl ...

A.   22 May 2015: Have you found a job yet? If not get out there and find one or.. at least LOOK for one. Sit him down and tell him ,hey since we are ONLY living on one paycheck (his) don't you think we should make a budget so we won't end up with no food, water or... (read in full...)

Can someone explain this co-worker?

Q.   My male co worker refuses my help with at work. I don't really ask him if he needs help but if I walk by him he will wait for about 5 or 10 minutes until someone else comes along. It's really simple things too, like can I help watch his class or ...

A.   22 May 2015: My guess is he is uncomfortable with asking you, because you are "newer", younger or because you are a female. Leave him be, if he won't ask you for help, THAT is on him. I'd say be professional and STOP offering to help.... (read in full...)

Why after all this time - does he still show such hatred towards me?

Q.   Hi, I've heard about men and women falling out on bad terms due to affairs, jealousies etc - but can someone please explain the hatred still shown to me by this guy? The thing is - I am single and got close to a guy who fancied me, last year, n...

A.   22 May 2015: Why waste time trying to figure out what his ISSUES are? He obviously didn't LIKE rejection and didn't understand why YOU didn't want him and WHY you thought it was any of your business what chick he pursued after you. Leave the whackado... (read in full...)

A girl texted me saying that my b/f asked for her number. I don't know how to talk to him about it

Q.   I need to speak to my boyfriend about something that has previously caused problems in the past in our relationship. The problem is, and it may sound stupid, but I don't know how to tell him. Basically, a girl has messaged me and said that my boy...

A.   22 May 2015: Just tell him:" So this chick Anna texted me to inform me that you asked for her number a few weeks ago and it quite frankly baffles me." Tell him:" To me asking FOR and giving out your number usually means you WANT to talk to someone, or because ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of my boyfriend's mother blaming me when he does something wrong

Q.   I'm tired of my mother in law (MOD NOTE: technically boyfriend's mom..they aren't married) I have been living with her for 2 years now but one thing she does in particular annoys the shit out of me whenever my boyfriend her son posses her off I get ...

A.   22 May 2015: Why are you living with your BF's mother? Maybe that is the root of her anger, not the episodes of your BF doing dumb stuff....... (read in full...)

Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !

Q.   I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...

A.   6 April 2015: If you have 40K in the bank, why not look into a room mate situation? Where you rent a room instead of finding your own place (yet). Then keep looking for jobs even perhaps one you may not have considered to do - something to HELP you not dig too ... (read in full...)

Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !

Q.   I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...

A.   3 April 2015: You say you are trapped, is that because you CAN'T live on your own? You have no place/income? ... (read in full...)

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