Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 3 December 2016: I'm so sorry the company hasn't done anything to help you. And that he doesn't accept responsibility and act like a decent human being.
Honesty? I'd go back to HR and show them the text where the threatened you. That is ridiculous. And why do I... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: You are still the one who DID it. YOU stood up to him, YOU told him enough, you told him this is inappropriate.
When you posted your initial question you KNEW it was inappropriate of your co-worker or at least "iffy". So you have good instinct... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I hope the new job situation will work out for you. And I hope your boss (es) will understand that you HAD to go to HR because enough is enough.
Still TALK to your boss about the HR/Bob thing. He should be in the loop.
Seems like you have fo... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I wish you good luck, OP.
And I wouldn't be surprised if this isn't the first time HR have heard about his shenanigans, though they probably won't tell you that.
Do the company have other branches? That is also a possibility. I know it could se... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I do think you have to go to HR ASAP. He still isn't accepting that YOU have stood up for yourself. I mean when I read your story he shifts from manipulation, accusations, "forgetfulness" and then to bribing.
Honestly? those are like CLEAR si... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Yes, be prepared. but also.... if they ask you to leave because they don't want to deal with this, GET it in writing. Take it to a lawyer. SERIOUSLY. Because THAT is totally MESSED up attitude from their side. And IF that is their attitude, it's NOT ... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Before you go to HR - WRITE down the whole story from start to "end". Add dates and times if you can. It's easier than going there nervous and THEN have to explain it.
I think going to HR would be a good idea. I didn't really think he would be... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 14 September 2016: Good for you OP!
You grew a set, didn't you?! At least you didn't let him intimidate (which I think was HIS plan when he cornered you). Instead, you stood up to him and gave him VERY sound and rational reasons as to WHY you don't want to be his "... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: Good for you!
I don't think it's weak to not want to have that conversation face to face. After all, you know yourself and you have had a glimpse of him and he seems VERY persuasive.
My guess is he will do one of 2 things:
1. try and pret... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: No one is "annoyed" with your lack of spine here :) maybe you are, though?
It's OK that you are not comfortable with confrontation, but if he doesn't "get" the point of yu pulling away you might have t obe blunt. And you know what? it's OK to be... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: I think he has noticed that you are pulling away and that is why he is now "stalking" you or latching on to you. He doesn't feel confident that you are so easy to manipulate as he had first thought. So you ARE on the right track.
You might no... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 10 September 2016: Hey, if it helps to talk it through with all of us here at DC, go for it! Having a sounding board is good.
But take the advice given to heart, consider it and If you find that it FEELS right, USE it.
YOU do not OWE him squat. Yes, you work to... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 9 September 2016: I agree, STAY clear of him.
If he suggests another outing tell him no thanks, that you PREFER to keep it professional and also DO NOT share any more tidbits about your life or past other that the little casual things people will share with a s... (read in full...)
We met online. Am I being irrational about his actions? Should I be hurt ?
Q. I met a man a few weeks ago on a dating site app. He definitely came on strong and we texted quite a lot til I agreed to meet. I am very attracted to hm and likewise. He has some issues, recent divorce, job changes, relocation but seems very hea...
A. 29 August 2016: Yes and no.
It's only bee na few weeks. I don't see that he HAD to take you because YOU were free that night after all, or that he HAD to cancel his plans. Obviously it was a party with friends/family or people he knows well and wanted to spend ti... (read in full...)
Is my fiancee is ruining my chances of having a family?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for three years and engaged for one year. We live an hour and a half drive away so I commute to see him every weekend. My problem is I am tired of waiting for him to set a wedding date. I am going to be...
A. 28 August 2016: I don't see HIM ruining your chances. It's been over 3 years with no progress towards kids, family and living together. Did you not bring this up before? and if you keep getting the same vague answer, you kind of HAVE your answer.
HE is happy wi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has time for his family and friends, but not for me and our daughter. How do I stop feeling like a single parent in this relationship?
Q. Hiya everyone I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. He is 29 I am 30 the problem is he never spends any time with me. We live together and have a 1 yr old daughter but everytime we plan [something] he can never be bothered going or his ...
A. 28 August 2016: I'd choose BEING a single mom over this.
He isn't going to change, you might as well accept that right now. The whole "changing" for a few weeks" is him PLACATING you, so you won't kick him out.
You mention you two have a daughter, but yo... (read in full...)
I want to have sex without a condom but I'm not taking birth control pills. Will emergency contraceptive pills after sex work just as well to prevent pregnancy?
Q. This is a contraceptive related question. I wanna have sex without a condom, i'm also ovulating and i'm currently not on the pills. If i use plan B pills after sex can it be equally effective ? Or will there be a chance of unwanted pregnancy....
A. 28 August 2016:
Are you kidding? You want to USE emergency contraceptive so you can have "bare-back" (no condom sex).
Do you realize WHAT the Emergency pill DOES to your body? It's not a gummibear we are talking about.
My advice? Don't. It's as foolish as p... (read in full...)
How can I get some truth from him? I just don't want to be the wife who got cheated on
Q. Our son asked me and my hubby what we were doing tomorrow, i said we didn't know yet and see how the Weather is, our son said about a place that his girlfriend as been too and he mentioned this a while back too about her going there. Hubby said he ...
A. 28 August 2016: I think IF he had cheated 18 years ago, he would NOT have volunteered that information that he saw this place. It would have been SO much easier to omit the truth.
And it was 18 years ago! Of course he doesn't remember all the details! I lived in... (read in full...)
Would this be a good way to lose my virginity? How would I ask?
Q. Is this a good way to lose my viginity? My friends gave me advice for this: have him go down on me until i orgasm, and then we have sex and he gets off and I possibly get off more. I love the idea, but I've never had a guy go down on me either. ...
A. 28 August 2016: One thing I also want to point out...
Not every guy wants to go down on a girl. So have a set notion a to how you think it should go down may not work.
Why make it a hook-up? Why do with with someone you don't really give two F's about?
It... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is insisting I sell my house
Q. I'm a women in her late 40's and my boyfriend of 5 years is in his mid 50's. Both of us have been married 2x's and we both have children in teen's and early 20's. I own my home and he lives in a family member's extra home in a different city. He ...
A. 28 August 2016: Good for you OP!
Glad you came to the same conclusion on your own.
My dad and his lady-friend do NOT live together, they spend 4-5 days of the week together at either house, and then a couple of days solo. I think that is how they both like i... (read in full...)
Never had a date. Should I pay someone to go on a date with me?
Q. I've never been on a date before, and I've never had a girlfriend. Of course that means I've never been intimate (never had first kiss or sex). I'm very awkward and I'm not very attractive aesthetically. So far no woman has been interested in go...
A. 28 August 2016: If you do it as a "personal experiment" I don't see the harm, only that you might be wasting your hard earned money on an experience that WILL give you a skewered view of women.
Someone who is there to provide a "girl-friend experience" is not a... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is insisting I sell my house
Q. I'm a women in her late 40's and my boyfriend of 5 years is in his mid 50's. Both of us have been married 2x's and we both have children in teen's and early 20's. I own my home and he lives in a family member's extra home in a different city. He ...
A. 27 August 2016: What in the World?
That is the most MESSED up thing I have read today! Why on Earth should he even HAVE a say whether you sell your house or not?
I'[m pretty sure you KICKED him out for a good reason back in the day and the HOUSE did nothin... (read in full...)
What compels him to still be asking about me considering we broke up so long ago?
Q. I'm just wondering what compels an ex-boyfriend to ask an immediate family member "how you are" almost 16 years after you broke up? I am led to believe that said ex asked specifically about me, and his current partner was present when he asked. ...
A. 27 August 2016: Curiosity? Being polite? Using you as a "subject" to initiate polite conversation?
A friend of mine recently told me she had run into my last "ex" and that he had asked about me. Now I didn't ask about him, because honestly? I don't give two figs... (read in full...)
Never had a date. Should I pay someone to go on a date with me?
Q. I've never been on a date before, and I've never had a girlfriend. Of course that means I've never been intimate (never had first kiss or sex). I'm very awkward and I'm not very attractive aesthetically. So far no woman has been interested in go...
A. 27 August 2016: Do you mean an escort?
To me that is just not a date. That is a FAKE date with a person who will be faking interest because she is paid.
Have you tried any online dating?
Are you currently working? Do you have any hobbies? Do you have fri... (read in full...)
Would this be a good way to lose my virginity? How would I ask?
Q. Is this a good way to lose my viginity? My friends gave me advice for this: have him go down on me until i orgasm, and then we have sex and he gets off and I possibly get off more. I love the idea, but I've never had a guy go down on me either. ...
A. 27 August 2016: Your friend wants to have sex, that is why HE mentioned it.
Why would YOU want your first time to be with someone who is JUST a friend? You DO realize that having sex doesn't mean he will want to date you afterwards, right?
Why not wait till... (read in full...)
Why are certain men likely to act the way he is being towards me?
Q. I decided to cancel a 2nd date with a guy because i dont think hes worth giving a 2nd date . The reasons being he lies and he lies a lot , He told me he was 'fishing' this weekend so couldnt do the 2nd date this isnt the first lie hes told me hes t...
A. 27 August 2016: Why are certain people like this?
Because they SIMPLY don't care. They do what THEY want to do and screw everyone else.
BLOCK the loser and let it go. Don't waste time or energy wondering WHY he is doing it, it's irrelevant.. HE is irrelevant... (read in full...)
Should I be trusting my Girlfriend? Any guidance on what to do?
Q. I'm coming up to my third anniversary with my girlfriend but recently I feel uncertain as to whether I truly trust her and I don't particularly know how to approach the subject. I hadn't really questioned my trust in her until a recent excha...
A. 27 August 2016: Seems like you two have severe communication issues. You mention more than once that something cropped up and then "you moved past it" but never discussed it. That isn't really true. You CHOSE to not confront her or TALK about it, but you haven't ... (read in full...)
Is it likely that my GF thinks of nothing when she masturbates? Is she telling lies? I'd like to spice things up.
Q. I've been trying to spice things up and find out what turns my gf on but she told me she doesn't think of anything while she masturbates. Is she lieing? ...
A. 27 August 2016: It's highly likely that she doesn't think of anything/anyone in particular.
And it's highly likely that she is just very private about IF she is occasionally thinking of something. And it's TOTALLY her right not share that with you, if she does... (read in full...)
Is it worth the risk of rejection to ask him out?
Q. There is a cute guy at work. His shift starts as mine ends, but we usually end up talking for 5-15 minutes anyway. He could just be friendly, but Im interested in more. Should I ask him out? Reason I hesitate is that he is younger than me by 10 ye...
A. 26 August 2016: Hehehe it's OK maybe you will learn something that can make asking him out easier.
... (read in full...)
Is it worth the risk of rejection to ask him out?
Q. There is a cute guy at work. His shift starts as mine ends, but we usually end up talking for 5-15 minutes anyway. He could just be friendly, but Im interested in more. Should I ask him out? Reason I hesitate is that he is younger than me by 10 ye...
A. 26 August 2016: Have you done a little sleuthing on FB? if you have his name? Might give you an idea if he is single or not without having to ask.
Or you can go the "easy" route and ask him if he wants to grab dinner/lunch when you both have a day off (if that... (read in full...)
He gets mad when I do, and mad when I don't share my feelings!
Q. I find myself continuously letting my boyfriend know that it feels as though he would rather spend what little free time we have with anyone else doing anything else as long as I'm not around. It hurts my feelings and it feels like he pulls me in ...
A. 26 August 2016: Sometimes it's all about HOW you express yourself to him, do you make it seem like HE is at fault or do you try and express your feelings without pointing fingers?
Now I'm not saying you HAVE to walk on eggshells when talking to him, but sometime... (read in full...)
Is it worth the risk of rejection to ask him out?
Q. There is a cute guy at work. His shift starts as mine ends, but we usually end up talking for 5-15 minutes anyway. He could just be friendly, but Im interested in more. Should I ask him out? Reason I hesitate is that he is younger than me by 10 ye...
A. 26 August 2016: How long have you two been talking?
Have you "discussed" whether you are both single? IF you know his name, maybe do a little sleuthing? Has that ever been the talk of something (hobby or whatnot) that you could suggest you could go do, or a mov... (read in full...)
Should I have to put up with this man staying at my home?
Q. Could you stay with your partner if he invited his brother to stay at our home after finding out the brother had an affair with my daughter in law (my son's wife) in our home?...
A. 26 August 2016: Don't attend family functions where she and the BIL will be at? OR suck it up for the grand babies.
Fortunately there are NO rules that say you HAVE to love your in-laws or WANT to be around them.
Personally? I'd stick with suck it up for t... (read in full...)
Is it still my fault that she ghosted me for being a nice guy?
Q. So some time ago, around eight months ago, i was ghosted by a woman i treated with kindest, but a lot of you put me down saying i deserved what i got, so i found out some things about her i didn't know about. One thing she told me she has only bee...
A. 26 August 2016: Move on already, OP You CAN NOT change the past. And you need to accept that others MAY not see the situation the same way as you may have intended it to go down.
SHE (or you, or anyone) can END a relationship/courtship at ANY TIME, for any reas... (read in full...)
Should I have to put up with this man staying at my home?
Q. Could you stay with your partner if he invited his brother to stay at our home after finding out the brother had an affair with my daughter in law (my son's wife) in our home?...
A. 26 August 2016: Could I stay with my partner? Sure, but the BIL would be out on his ear. Just because I think he is a piece of crap for doing it. However, as much as you want to be momma-bear and protect your son, this is between YOUR son, his wife and your BIL. ... (read in full...)
Can this disagreement with her be resolved? She has a perfect life. What's her problem?
Q. Dear Cupid I got in a big fight with my friend who just got engaged. She was mad over something small and I say engaged people have no reason to be unhappy about anything. Engaged people should be in a state of heavenly bliss. I'm still waiting ...
A. 26 August 2016: Are you for real?
She isn't allowed to be unhappy about things because she is engaged? Seriously?
Where in the World do you live? The Enchanted Forest? Where all happiness comes from a man only?
I think you are being unrealistic and a shitty... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 25 August 2016: I'd go. But I would keep conversation to work/casual, nothing about your love life (none of his business).
If he starts talking about problems with his wife, the whole my wife doesn't understand me or other bull crap to try and make you feel sor... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always says other girls are hotter!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i love him so much and i truly believe her loves me just as much in return but he will always say how other girls are hot, and if i say someone is hotter than me he doesn't deny it he normally just says ...
A. 25 August 2016: Of course it's normal that you feel upset. However it's also normal that we ALL notice good looking people, however your BF is kind being a jerk and immature about since he HAS to tell you everything. What's the point in that? To make YOU feel bad? ... (read in full...)
Is my ex boyfriend taking advantage?
Q. Am I being taken advantage of?. My ex boyfriend started doing some painting in my apartment. He has done two days work so far. He doesn't decorate for a living. He just said he would help. He got in touch with me on facebook, after not contacting me ...
A. 24 August 2016: So tell him there was no agreement to paying anything as you have no money, and that you want no further contact.
Then you BLOCK him and cut him off. If he shows up at your door, don't open. If he persist call the police.
No should mean no. ... (read in full...)
Is my ex boyfriend taking advantage?
Q. Am I being taken advantage of?. My ex boyfriend started doing some painting in my apartment. He has done two days work so far. He doesn't decorate for a living. He just said he would help. He got in touch with me on facebook, after not contacting me ...
A. 24 August 2016: What a mess.
1. Paint your own walls, it's not hard at all.. (after all your non-decorating ex can do it, so can YOU).
2. if you need carpet laid, PAY someone who KNOWS how to do it. So it will be done right, THAT is a cost you won't regret.
... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable wanting to take things slow after our breakup?
Q. Hello to everyone... So I'm looking for some advice... My girlfriend and I had been together for six....almost 7 years. Anyway... We broke up and things got a bit messy. There were a lot of horrible things said.... She was hurting... I wa...
A. 24 August 2016: Wanting to make something work is great, but only IF there is something to work with. That is, someone who is honest with you and willing to figure it out, not fabricate answers they think they other one wants to hear.
Wanting to work on a relati... (read in full...)
I'm still blocked, does he still hate me?
Q. Hi - I had a bad fall out with a guy who I discovered was two timing me. He got annoyed because I found out a lot of things about him and made sure people knew about it and so understandably he blocked me! Two years later - I have moved on...
A. 24 August 2016: I agree with Auntie BimBim
He probably haven't thought much about since he blocked you. Sort of "out of sight, out of mind".
Doesn't mean he HATES you as you put, he just doesn't want anything to do with you. And maybe that is for the best for... (read in full...)
Intimacy question, boyfriend doesn't want to be intimate with me
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months who is 33. He is the one who asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are great , he is sweet and nice. However, whenever it comes to intimacy. He wants me to stay over at his place and we just cuddle. He a...
A. 24 August 2016: Talk to him.
As Janniepeg pointed out, there could be a plethora of reasons why he hasn't pushed for sex or deeper physical intimacy than cuddles.
Only way you will know, is if you ask him.... (read in full...)
How do I stop going into a panic while waiting for medical test results?
Q. Need help! I am terrified of tests and physicals. It took all I had to go in recently to my doctor because of prolonged menstrual bleeding. My doctor ordered ultrasounds and other tests. I went through them but panicked and cried the whole time...
A. 24 August 2016: Definitely consider talking to someone professional.
Part of my OCD is that I worry about EVERYTHING. I go through scenarios like you wouldn't believe it over little matters, CONSTANTLY.
I got a pap-smear result back that said cell changes and... (read in full...)
My family doesn't trust my girlfriend
Q. Hi. I am in a bit of a tough situation. I love my girlfriend very much and she really is amazing. She supports me, makes me laugh and is generally brilliant. The problem I have is my parents don't like her. They have trust issues with her (I don't...
A. 24 August 2016: Have you sat down with your parents (alone) and asked them what it is they don't like?
If they can't pinpoint REASONABLE issues, I'd tell them that YOU will date her regardless.
IF they point out things that you might have ignored because ... (read in full...)
I sent flowers to a girl at work and I didn't realise I had done so. Can the friendship be saved?
Q. I'm looking for some help and advice. I'm friends with a co worker at work who is a female, we agreed to just talk at the workplace instead of facebook as she says gets overwhelmed by receiving messages. I did something I'm not proud of and sent her ...
A. 23 August 2016: So, will you talk to your therapist about getting "tools" to deal with your impulsive side?
And will you APOLOGIZE to the girl? And then LEAVE her be?
You come across as very smart, intelligence is great, but... it's not your IQ most people w... (read in full...)
I sent flowers to a girl at work and I didn't realise I had done so. Can the friendship be saved?
Q. I'm looking for some help and advice. I'm friends with a co worker at work who is a female, we agreed to just talk at the workplace instead of facebook as she says gets overwhelmed by receiving messages. I did something I'm not proud of and sent her ...
A. 23 August 2016: TAKE responsibility for your action. You condition DIDN'T make you do it. You did it, hoping for a different outcome.
GO to work and TELL her the flowers were a peace-offering for having offended her in the past with the whole NOT respecti... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable wanting to take things slow after our breakup?
Q. Hello to everyone... So I'm looking for some advice... My girlfriend and I had been together for six....almost 7 years. Anyway... We broke up and things got a bit messy. There were a lot of horrible things said.... She was hurting... I wa...
A. 23 August 2016: I agree with Ciar,
Don't make it a "double-date" or nothing. If you BOTH are hoping and looking for a reconciliation, it's between the TWO of you.
Why not start out with something short, like a lunch ? SET an allotted time and MAKE each other ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find love? I've tried everything and nothing works!
Q. I have been chasing guys for the last five years and I've come to a point in my life that I feel like I can't even go on a date anymore- I've tried online and that didn't work- I've tried going out a lot - that didn't work to meet men with my just ...
A. 23 August 2016: I think until YOU have found a bit of peace within yourself and have created a life you are happy with, it's going to be hard finding a partner that will "stick".
I have read MANY of your other posts and I have to say they don't sound like a w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend promised to go on a trip with my mother and I but spent the money on other things and said he couldn't go!
Q. My Bf of 3 years and I planned at trip with my mother. My mother lives overseas and while I was doing the application process to be able to bring her to America we planned to make a trip the 3 of us to welcome her. It was 6 months ago. The time ...
A. 23 August 2016: He shouldn't have said yes, to going on the trip and then go blow the money on "junk" just so he doesn't HAVE to go.
I think I would just enjoy the week's vacation and not think about it. You and your mom will probably have more fun without ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to be so close to a female cousin of the family?
Q. I recently had this discussion with my BF and would like to seek everyone's opinion: We were recently at a family gathering where I met a lot of my BF's family members from out of State for the first time. He introduced this 15 year old girl to...
A. 23 August 2016: I think that is for the girl's family to decide if they are OK with or not.
Just like YOU can decide for YOUR daughter what you feel it right.
Do I think it's "disgusting" because they are cousins? No, not really. Many people have a crush ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about a second date with him any more, my feelings have changed!
Q. im not 100 % sure what to do and thats why im here . A year ago i went on a date with a guy we both wanted the same out of life then , the date was good and we got on well but he always had an excuse for cancelling a 2nd date ( always a 'family ...
A. 23 August 2016: I would call it off and say thanks, but no thanks.
I don't see why you should waste any more time on this one.
And the the "flakiness" might be due to social anxiety, it might also just be due to him talking to SEVERAL girls, disinterest and ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't want me to spend the weekend at his place and now he's not responding to my texts! Help!
Q. Dear Cupid I am dating a guy for past 5 months, we meet every weekend in his place. Its not perfect, but its good, he doesnt like talking in phone or texting, so i dont usually call him over the week, even if i do its rare that he picks up the cal...
A. 23 August 2016: I think you should consider the relationship over.
He can't REALLY be bothered with you and criticize you for things most people do, like toss in a bed they are nor familiar with and/or talk in your sleep.
And what is the point of dating someon... (read in full...)
My long-lost love has contacted me after 40 years but I'm in a relationship and he's married
Q. A love from 40 years ago contacted me on my birthday via e-mail. We have been sending e mails back and forth for a week. Now I am dying to call him but I am afraid because I am with a relationship. He is married. We went separate ways because ...
A. 22 August 2016: Cut it off. No more communications. Don't live in the past and play with people's feelings and fantasies.
He is married and NOT looking to rekindle the past, he is just unhappy and bored and figured YOU would "entertain" him a bit.
OR are ... (read in full...)
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