Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 3 December 2016: I'm so sorry the company hasn't done anything to help you. And that he doesn't accept responsibility and act like a decent human being.
Honesty? I'd go back to HR and show them the text where the threatened you. That is ridiculous. And why do I... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: You are still the one who DID it. YOU stood up to him, YOU told him enough, you told him this is inappropriate.
When you posted your initial question you KNEW it was inappropriate of your co-worker or at least "iffy". So you have good instinct... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I hope the new job situation will work out for you. And I hope your boss (es) will understand that you HAD to go to HR because enough is enough.
Still TALK to your boss about the HR/Bob thing. He should be in the loop.
Seems like you have fo... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I wish you good luck, OP.
And I wouldn't be surprised if this isn't the first time HR have heard about his shenanigans, though they probably won't tell you that.
Do the company have other branches? That is also a possibility. I know it could se... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I do think you have to go to HR ASAP. He still isn't accepting that YOU have stood up for yourself. I mean when I read your story he shifts from manipulation, accusations, "forgetfulness" and then to bribing.
Honestly? those are like CLEAR si... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Yes, be prepared. but also.... if they ask you to leave because they don't want to deal with this, GET it in writing. Take it to a lawyer. SERIOUSLY. Because THAT is totally MESSED up attitude from their side. And IF that is their attitude, it's NOT ... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Before you go to HR - WRITE down the whole story from start to "end". Add dates and times if you can. It's easier than going there nervous and THEN have to explain it.
I think going to HR would be a good idea. I didn't really think he would be... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 14 September 2016: Good for you OP!
You grew a set, didn't you?! At least you didn't let him intimidate (which I think was HIS plan when he cornered you). Instead, you stood up to him and gave him VERY sound and rational reasons as to WHY you don't want to be his "... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: Good for you!
I don't think it's weak to not want to have that conversation face to face. After all, you know yourself and you have had a glimpse of him and he seems VERY persuasive.
My guess is he will do one of 2 things:
1. try and pret... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: No one is "annoyed" with your lack of spine here :) maybe you are, though?
It's OK that you are not comfortable with confrontation, but if he doesn't "get" the point of yu pulling away you might have t obe blunt. And you know what? it's OK to be... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: I think he has noticed that you are pulling away and that is why he is now "stalking" you or latching on to you. He doesn't feel confident that you are so easy to manipulate as he had first thought. So you ARE on the right track.
You might no... (read in full...)
How can I explain to my friends that she's a great girl, despite what I said earlier?
Q. When I was 9 years old I moved to a new town and my neighbour kissed me on the cheek and said that I was her boyfriend and she has pretty much been my life since then. We dated for as long as I can remember, she was my first kiss, first girl I t...
A. 12 September 2016: Talk to her, be honest. And in the future?
Don't date her, just stick to being friends, if possible.... (read in full...)
Should I stay at this workplace and ''prove'' myself or accept one of the offers I've received from other car dealerships? My manager here is difficult.
Q. I need help on a career decision.. Sounds bad right? Well I have been working for a car dealership for about 5 months now. They were looking for young people with little to no car sales experience. I had a lot of experience selling other pr...
A. 12 September 2016: You have to decide what you WANT to do.
Do you want to do sales or do you want to be in a job you didn't CHOOSE to take, but took to be helpful and learn something?
Why do you think the guy before you quit? Was he/she supposed to do sales and ... (read in full...)
Should I stay at this workplace and ''prove'' myself or accept one of the offers I've received from other car dealerships? My manager here is difficult.
Q. I need help on a career decision.. Sounds bad right? Well I have been working for a car dealership for about 5 months now. They were looking for young people with little to no car sales experience. I had a lot of experience selling other pr...
A. 12 September 2016: You have to decide what you WANT to do.
Do you want to do sales or do you want to be in a job you didn't CHOOSE to take, but took to be helpful and learn something?
Why do you think the guy before you quit? Was he/she supposed to do sales and ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Have had a workplace crush on a guy for 2 years and it's ongoing.
Q. I have been having a huge crush on my male coworker. Sometimes I feel he drops hints and signs of liking me too. He always smiles when he sees me and always says hi. I've also always felt him staring at me from afar and across the room. He's so ...
A. 12 September 2016: First, do a little sleuthing. SEE if he is single.
Second of all, consider the pros and cons of an office romance.
Here are some links you can look at and get an idea of those pros and cons.
http://www.sirlistalo... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend is so clumsy
Q. I have met a guy who seems to put his foot in it all the time. He was married for twenty years and has been divorced two years. His wife left him for a very wealthy man. He said they grew apart. They have two children under 13 and his children adore ...
A. 12 September 2016: I think he is clueless, not callous. He is immature, not mean.
And I think there were more reasons than marrying a richer guy. I think your BF is suffering from a severe case of "foot in mouth", CONSTANTLY. And sorry, OP there is no fix for that... (read in full...)
How can I better control my emotions when I'm hurt during tae kwon do tournaments?
Q. Hi, i need help with stopping myself from crying when i get hurt. I was doing a taekwando tournament, i am a white belt and the person i was sparring with was a black tag. She battered me and punhed me in the face and head till i fell to the floor. ...
A. 12 September 2016: How?
Be OK with crying.
There is no shame in crying.
Be OK with losing to someone with more experience.
There is no shame in that.
I guess some of your tears were partly because of the pain, surprise and "embarrassment" in getting your ... (read in full...)
When does an age gap become too big?
Q. How big do you think age gaps in relationships should be? In all kinds of relationships: friendships, romantic relationships, sex buddies. Do generational differences get in the way? When does an age gap become too much to relate to someone in ...
A. 12 September 2016: In general, I don't mind age-gaps at all, but... I think they are rarely appropriate for MOST people under 25.
Unless we talk maybe 1 year age difference, after age 18 maybe 1-3 years.
Why do I say 25? Well, at 25 most people will have had SO... (read in full...)
He's 30, and acts like a teenager. Doesn't want to do family things with me. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone ive been with my boyfriend for 3 year now we have a daughter together. Lately i dont feel the same way about him. The problem is his mate is always at our house. I finish work on a weekend on a morning, get home, and his mate is ther...
A. 11 September 2016: Why not BE a single mother then? Kick him out (or move out) and take care of you and your daughter. (and file for child maintenance).
He is acting this way because he thinks it's OK and because he has gotten away with it this long.
Having ... (read in full...)
Has our phone relationship been all lies from the start? Will he call again? Three years and he's never taken me out
Q. dear cupid, i been talk with this man over 3 yrs on the phone. we never went out. we talk about going out and now he tell me he's sick over past month and half i ask him does he want me to stop call him he told me that a good ideal i the one to ...
A. 11 September 2016: 3 years and all you have gotten is YOU calling him?
That is neither here nor there. Never meeting up in 3 years is suspect behavior and I will tell you why I think that. IF he was KEEN on you, to get to know you, be around you I would PRESUME ... (read in full...)
What does it mean? I'm 18 and don't want to date anymore. Haven't felt a connection with last 4 people I dated
Q. Well the last few days I have been thinking and I realize I don't want to date anymore... It's crazy because everything in my life feels like it's slowing down. I know what a guy wants in a relationship and what I want, but never have I not wante...
A. 11 September 2016: Rebounds is not a "cure-all" for a broken heart. And I think maybe you are learning that too. partner are not like shoes, just get a new one and you are good to go!
And perhaps these 4 people you dated in the span of 6 months were not really t... (read in full...)
I have nothing in common with my work colleagues. How do I get out of spending time with them? Any coping strategies that might help?
Q. I'm a fairly new member on this forum but thought I would post as there seem to be some people who talk a lot of sense when posting on here. I would be interested to hear your views on my situation.(Apologies in advance for the length of the post...
A. 11 September 2016: Of course, his wife doesn't like it, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to do it. It's manipulation in a base form. She is trying to get you to do what SHE deems is the "right" thing by making you feel bad.
That doesn't MEAN she is right.
... (read in full...)
Should 13 year olds date 16 year olds?
Q. I'm a 13 year old female and I'm dating a 16 year old guy.. I think I'm in love but I don't know if that's wrong. I mean my friends say that we are cute and my parents say that it's wrong because of the age difference. All I wanna know is if it's ...
A. 10 September 2016: I think it's not a good thing. A 16-year-old boy/girl should be MORE mature and thus want to date a peer, not a person 3 years younger.
Would YOU date a 10-year-old? Seriously? My guess is no, right? So apply that to a 13-year-old and a 16-year-... (read in full...)
Should I be upset my toyboy wont spend my birthday with me?
Q. Ok here goes ive been having a long distance relationship with a guy since March because of distance we see each other at weekends. I'm 40 hes 29. Which i worry about but hes okay about it. Its my birthday in 2 months but when i brought it up it...
A. 10 September 2016: Did you write the headline calling him your toy-boy? If so... he is a glorified F-buddy, FWB and not a partner.
His friends are more important to him than you. That isn't about age, that is about HIS priorities in life.
If his friend's birthda... (read in full...)
I have nothing in common with my work colleagues. How do I get out of spending time with them? Any coping strategies that might help?
Q. I'm a fairly new member on this forum but thought I would post as there seem to be some people who talk a lot of sense when posting on here. I would be interested to hear your views on my situation.(Apologies in advance for the length of the post...
A. 10 September 2016: All I would do is say, I'm sorry I have other plans. It's REALLY none of their business what you do in your spare time - it is YOUR spare time.
As for Christmas? I'd show up if there is a dinner and leave once you have had enough of socializ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend has been chatting inappropriately with other women and even worse, with his ex... And has painted me like a monster in front of her!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and long distance for almost 1 year. Up until a few days ago, I thought our relationship was amazing. I considered this relationship the healthiest, most honest, and loving one I've ever been in. H...
A. 10 September 2016: Let him go.
He isn't going to stop doing this and he isn't going to stop lying to you and about you.
He "said" he didn't sleep with anyone so what? He is emotionally cheating ON you. He isn't done with his ex.
You shouldn't HAVE to go thr... (read in full...)
Neighbors won't share parking spaces
Q. Hi, my question is not a relationship question but I need your suggestion. I live in a 2 floor apartment. The first floor neighbors are a couple in their early 30s. We didn't have a parking and I wanted to leave few months ago for this reason but my ...
A. 10 September 2016: Not childish at all, TALK to your landlord and have YOUR parking spot clearly marked.
Have you Landlord tell them not to park where YOUR spot is.... (read in full...)
He's so ready to give up on our affair. What should I do? He's married, and he's unjustly accused me of being unfaithful
Q. Hello everyone I need advice on something I've Been messing around with this married man for about 2 years. I haven't spoken to this man in 3 weeks over the labor day weekend I believe he seen me talking to another man an now he is acussing me o...
A. 10 September 2016:
"I believe he saw me talking to another man and now he is accusing me of cheating on him"
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That was just his excuse to dump you and distance himself. My guess? The jig was up, the wife suspected something going on and thus he dumpe... (read in full...)
Can people tell when they're "the mutton dressed as the lamb"?
Q. Just in case people are not familiar with the term “mutton dressed as lamb" - it refers to older people who try to appear younger (and usually fail dismally). And it's most often applied to women who wear clothes that are aimed at a much younger ...
A. 10 September 2016: Dress however you want. Dress with class and confidence.
Honestly, though? I have seen women in their 40's dress in "Forever 21" (clothing store in the US catering to under/around 21's) and look better doing it than women in their 20's. And I ha... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 10 September 2016: Hey, if it helps to talk it through with all of us here at DC, go for it! Having a sounding board is good.
But take the advice given to heart, consider it and If you find that it FEELS right, USE it.
YOU do not OWE him squat. Yes, you work to... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this? He broke up with me due to the lifestyle of my Uncle, who died 23 years ago.
Q. Hi, My friend of 1 year 3 months decided to break up with me because of "society" as he says. Because my family background doesn't match up to his expectations,my uncle(my dads sister married him)the uncle in question,who died 23 years ago was a ...
A. 9 September 2016: Stop reaching out to this pathetic, judgmental and shallow man. PLEASE.
It's not like you can change your past, or that o your uncle and quite frankly someone who would judge you on whom your uncle is, is an idiot.
Honey, BLOCK the guy from fur... (read in full...)
What sort of outcomes have others experienced after taking allergy shots? Hesitant about this option suggested by my therapist.
Q. I have been debating something for awhile now whether to get allergy shots are not. I've suffered from allergies for awhile now. Hives and Seasonal Allergies. I get a lot of sore throat, itchy eyes and nasal congestion. I have been taking nasal sp...
A. 9 September 2016: My oldest daughter gets the shots. She has no allergies till we moved from Europe to the US and thankfully they are not as severe here in the North as they were in the South.
She has no side-effects.
TALK to your doctor. Have your allergies t... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 9 September 2016: I agree, STAY clear of him.
If he suggests another outing tell him no thanks, that you PREFER to keep it professional and also DO NOT share any more tidbits about your life or past other that the little casual things people will share with a s... (read in full...)
I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but she is convinced I've been unfaithful. Do we have any chance of getting back together?
Q. My Girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her. Throw me out, saying I've no respect, can't really love her and I've lied. The thing is I haven't cheated I had a weekend with my brother and we stayed in a hotel up in London. I didnt tell her I was s...
A. 9 September 2016: Who knows?
I'd met up and see what she has to say. And If she and you can TALK about this without it blowing up into a fight, maybe you two have a chance.
Going away for a weekend and not even bother to tell your partner is.. at best inconsid... (read in full...)
Are we just wrong for each other? Should I stay or should I go?
Q. What to do if I love the man I'm with, but unhappy in the relationship? I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months now. We met at a friend's party and clicked immediately. We have similar views on a lot of important things like family, social i...
A. 9 September 2016: You can love someone and NOT want to be with them. I do think in your case it's a matter of not being as good of a match as you had hoped. While you two get along on certain things the fundamental ones you don't.
I think having a partner who is w... (read in full...)
I've lost weight and now down to UK size 12. How do I get out of thinking bad about myself when subjected to Fat Shaming?
Q. Im writing this because I'm so tired of being body shamed all of the time. Growing up I was a size 8, but then I left school, started a new career, had a baby and the weight creeped on. At my heaviest I went up to 15 stone size 16 which is very...
A. 9 September 2016: By accepting that you WERE fat but that you took steps to get healthy.
MEN (and women) who slut-shame and body-shame do it because they themselves feel like crap about themselves. It's sad, but true.
So keep that knowledge with you. Were these ... (read in full...)
What if my body turns him off? Should I wait until I’m more comfortable with my own body?
Q. So I like this guy so much, he's very handsome and has asked me out on a date. I really enjoy being with him and things are advancing and all but i am really self aware of my shape, i have always struggled with my body , i am 5'1' and i weigh ...
A. 8 September 2016: I agree with Aunt honesty.
He CAN see your body, maybe not all the little things YOU don't like, but he isn't going to care.
Do you want to put your life on hold to get more comfortable? And how do you propose to fix this? Are you willing to m... (read in full...)
Feeling robbed, hoodwinked and conned. my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. what are my options?
Q. Hi, I suspect this might be an old chestnut but its new to me so please bear with me. In a sentence...my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. On the rare occasions we do, it feels like she is being contrived, dutiful and fra...
A. 8 September 2016: So my guess is she is MUCH younger than you? Which, believe it or not, might factor into things.
The birth of your son might also have left her feeling less inclined to sex.
I think the best thing you can do is find a couples therapist and ta... (read in full...)
My eight year old son is such a handful. What action should I be taking to address the problems I face?
Q. I just don know what to do. My. Son spends school holidays with his dad who lives abroad, My son is eight. every time school holidays approach i'm exhausted and really stressed because he's such a handful. I have some health problems too and...
A. 8 September 2016: Is he in any after school groups? Sports (even with asthma he can find a sport that works for him, perhaps?).
What he needs is structure.
I think it's kind of normal when a kid moves between two household and countries that there ARE some r... (read in full...)
I can't shake off these feelings of hurt. What do you guys think?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend a little over a year and we moved in together despite my fears and objections from my family. I've been badly hurt and I admit, I hurt others too. I considered myself unlovable and hurt men who claimed to love me. My cur...
A. 8 September 2016: I think it's kind of normal to have mementos of past relationships. I think (at least for me) the line is drawn at nude photos, those are just not OK to keep.
I have a box in the basement with old photos, there are some of my ex BF, some trips we... (read in full...)
My Cheating Girlfriend.... What do I do?
Q. So here it. As I write this my girlfriend is at 35,000ft with the guy she has been cheating on me with on their way to Tenerife. I had been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. For a couple of months now I had suspected she was cheating a...
A. 8 September 2016: Set her e-mail address to go into your spam folder. But before you do that, I'd send her a VERY short e-mail telling her to not contact you again as you want nothing to do with her. That SHE made the choice to cheat, lie and stab you in the back and ... (read in full...)
Should I move out while my mother fights cancer?
Q. I have a poor relationship with my mother. She is very abusive both mentally and emotionally. I find her to be very manipulative, provocative and incredibly aggressive. She always says and does things to upset me on purpose. I don't trust her ...
A. 7 September 2016: You can not STILL care for her while living elsewhere?
I understand why you feel it's your obligation to take care of her, but I don't think it's your obligation to take any more abuse.
Unless your new place is far from her house I suggest ... (read in full...)
Should I say anything to my best friend about her new relationship?
Q. Just wondering what people's thoughts are on this. My best friend has been single almost constantly for 10 years and obviously at times this has got her really down and I've often had to pick up the pieces. She saw a guy briefly for about three ...
A. 7 September 2016: I would not say anything unless she asks.
Ignoring the otherwise "usual deal-breakers" is HER choice. Now she might find later on that disregarding these standards/deal-breakers might not be a good thing. But for now I'd let her figure that out... (read in full...)
Is it fair? Is he expecting me to pay more than my share?
Q. Hi everyone my boyfriend and me have just got a house together we have 2 kids we have lived together for 4 months now the problem is he agreed to pay the rent while I pay the gas electric and water food and things for the kids I have 2 jobs only...
A. 7 September 2016: "Flexibility is a very good thing ,but only if it does not force other people's choices."
I agree. The OP's BF is NOT being very flexible is he? She works 2 job that only adds up to 17 hours a week, given that... it's most likely low paying j... (read in full...)
Is it fair? Is he expecting me to pay more than my share?
Q. Hi everyone my boyfriend and me have just got a house together we have 2 kids we have lived together for 4 months now the problem is he agreed to pay the rent while I pay the gas electric and water food and things for the kids I have 2 jobs only...
A. 6 September 2016: Of course it's not fair!
You sit him down and make a budget with him. If he can't agree to this, maybe you need to reconsider living together with him.
If you don't speak up, nothing will change.... (read in full...)
My Cheating Girlfriend.... What do I do?
Q. So here it. As I write this my girlfriend is at 35,000ft with the guy she has been cheating on me with on their way to Tenerife. I had been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. For a couple of months now I had suspected she was cheating a...
A. 6 September 2016: I'm sorry that must be a crappy way to find that out.
A 7 year relationship is not going to leave no trace or no broken emotions when it comes to a point where you find your GF cheating on you.
Time DOES heal. How long it will take you is impo... (read in full...)
Are women turned off by men who are inferior to them?
Q. Is a man who can't turn a woman on sexually a man who she can defeat in every way? Eg. intelligence, height, size, financial earnings, etc, etc, etc. If yes, does this mean a man should try to be better in every area, without directly competi...
A. 6 September 2016: No.
Simple as that.
If a guy can't turn on a specific woman... it's probably because she isn't attracted to him, be it physically or emotionally.
And no, a man doesn't have to be "better" than the woman or compete with her. UNLESS the SPE... (read in full...)
Are we still friends or is it over?
Q. I am friends with a female at work. we have fallen out a couple of times but have always made up. last week i sent her flowers at work in the hope of she would put me back on facebook as one of friends but it back fired on me and things seem to ...
A. 6 September 2016: It's over, so yes you NEED to accept it.
LEARN from this. Moderate your behavior accordingly in the future. Don't be so pushy. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop ruining every prospective relationship with anxiety?
Q. I have been single for nearly a year now. In that time through one reason or another I have spoken to and got to know 3 different men (romantically) that I have began to like. It always starts off well in that they are attracted to me, we have a g...
A. 6 September 2016: Deal with your anxiety issue first. Right now you may not be "fit" mentally to be dating and thus you self-sabotage the budding relationships over and over.
Get help, deal with it. THEN consider dating.
... (read in full...)
How do we move forward? He never takes me on a normal date.
Q. I love my boyfriend, he is the guy that has been hitting on me for the past three yes so I finally accepted him. During those years we became friends so already he knows a bit more about me. We are four months in a relationship now all has been goi...
A. 6 September 2016: Dates doesn't HAVE to cost a lot of money. A picnic at the park or heck even on campus can be done cheaply and you could both bring stuff.
Many places like museums, cinemas and other "amusements" give discount to students. You two could go Dutch... (read in full...)
Does this woman have stalker tendencies?
Q. I'll get straight to it. I have had the same woman pop up at my apartment because she couldn't reach me via phone, deny me the previously enjoyed privilege of caressing her butt and after months of no communication, send me a birthday text. ...
A. 6 September 2016: It's not rude to be blunt (for the most part) so I wouldn't feel bad about that.
She probably WAS hoping for a guy who would give her whatever she asked for. Or she was testing your limits, either way, good for you to be honest with her and cutt... (read in full...)
Does this woman have stalker tendencies?
Q. I'll get straight to it. I have had the same woman pop up at my apartment because she couldn't reach me via phone, deny me the previously enjoyed privilege of caressing her butt and after months of no communication, send me a birthday text. ...
A. 2 September 2016: Is she a potential stalker?
Honestly? It could be. If she "claims" she wants nothing from you, but hang out.
BUT it could also be that SHE thinks you two are becoming friends and let's face it, FRIENDS hang out. Friends visit each other. She ... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 25 August 2016: I'd go. But I would keep conversation to work/casual, nothing about your love life (none of his business).
If he starts talking about problems with his wife, the whole my wife doesn't understand me or other bull crap to try and make you feel sor... (read in full...)
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