Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 3 December 2016: I'm so sorry the company hasn't done anything to help you. And that he doesn't accept responsibility and act like a decent human being.
Honesty? I'd go back to HR and show them the text where the threatened you. That is ridiculous. And why do I... (read in full...)
Dating has gotten me confused about what I want!
Q. Dating and making decisions... Need advice! I am on a dating site. I agreed to meet two men on there. One I have been writing to for a few days, and we share the same goals in life, he is very handsome, and I can see a future with a man like him. He ...
A. 26 September 2016: Thanks for the update, sorry it didn't pan out.
You "win" some, you lose some.
Both were good men, just not a GOOD match for you.
... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: You are still the one who DID it. YOU stood up to him, YOU told him enough, you told him this is inappropriate.
When you posted your initial question you KNEW it was inappropriate of your co-worker or at least "iffy". So you have good instinct... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I hope the new job situation will work out for you. And I hope your boss (es) will understand that you HAD to go to HR because enough is enough.
Still TALK to your boss about the HR/Bob thing. He should be in the loop.
Seems like you have fo... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I wish you good luck, OP.
And I wouldn't be surprised if this isn't the first time HR have heard about his shenanigans, though they probably won't tell you that.
Do the company have other branches? That is also a possibility. I know it could se... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 23 September 2016: I do think you have to go to HR ASAP. He still isn't accepting that YOU have stood up for yourself. I mean when I read your story he shifts from manipulation, accusations, "forgetfulness" and then to bribing.
Honestly? those are like CLEAR si... (read in full...)
If I'm a good kisser, how likely is it that I'll also be a good lover?
Q. I've made out with 5-6 girls and I think I'm a good kisser because I know women hate men who slober over them and I try to figure out what does it for them and try to make them feel good. I honestly think I get more enjoyment thinking I'm g...
A. 21 September 2016: OP, sex is a road of discovery. One that you take WITH your partner. The better you know your partner outside of the bedroom, the better (most of the time) it will be IN the bedroom.
I know it might be hard, but TRY not to worry that you won't be... (read in full...)
What's her problem with me?
Q. This woman that has lived in the same village as my partner for years. My partner fixes her car. At first he wanted us to become friends together because I am new to the village and he wanted me to make friends here. However, she seems to come ...
A. 20 September 2016: You are presuming she HAS to be nice to you, but in reality, she doesn't.
She isn't your friend nor does she want to be.
What I would do, is talk to your Bf and tell him that you aren't really keen on him playing "knight in shining armor" fo... (read in full...)
Would the average guy spend 1.5 hours in a store or was he lying?
Q. Is it possible for a guy - your boyfriend - to be in a store for 1.5 hours??? The same store??? He was out for awhile and I asked him about it and he said he was at an auto parts store for that long. He said he was browsing. That there were lots ...
A. 20 September 2016: Are you nuts, young lady?
I'm sorry, but calling the store to see if anyone remembering him there? Him having to show you a bill of sales?
If you can't trust him, don't date him.
I do most of my shopping online, but I did spend 2 hours the ... (read in full...)
If I'm a good kisser, how likely is it that I'll also be a good lover?
Q. I've made out with 5-6 girls and I think I'm a good kisser because I know women hate men who slober over them and I try to figure out what does it for them and try to make them feel good. I honestly think I get more enjoyment thinking I'm g...
A. 19 September 2016: I don't think I have ever told a BF that he was a lousy lay (and yes my 3rd BF was NOT very good at all in the sack, he was predictable, uninspired and lazy. ) I never told him. When we broke up there was no point in bringing it up.
And yes I to... (read in full...)
Two years and the relationship has never advanced?
Q. I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost 2years we have not advanced in our relationship yet he tells me he loves me but makes no effort. is it too late to ask him to just be friends?...
A. 19 September 2016: Is it too late? Maybe, but if he doesn't want to invest in the relationship there is no point in continuing. So why not ask if he will consider JUST being friends.
Now he might tell you no, and that just means there is NO reason to keep him arou... (read in full...)
Troubled relationship with a co worker that I don't know how to fix
Q. I'm having a lot of trouble with a woman at work, for the sake of this I'll call her Janet. we used to get on really well and I did fancy a lot her however after 6 months of trying i didn't seem to be getting anywhere and I chose to move on and be ...
A. 19 September 2016: Either go to your boss and have a mediator step in, or simply... IGNORE her.
She seems like she doesn't know WHAT she wants from you, other than you use you as a punching bag. And I would not be OK with that.
As for her talking behind y... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to break this off?
Q. Hi guys, This could be a bit of a long one but ill try not to waffle too much. Bit of a backstory: Got myself into a huge pickle with a girl, we're not speaking anymore but we were doing for 2 years, it started out both of us wanting somethin...
A. 19 September 2016: N91, I think you have to DO you.
If being friends and being friendly is NOT something you feel you can deal with or WANT to deal with, tell her and then stick to that. She can't "make" you be her friend, but you CAN cut the contact if you so desir... (read in full...)
What's her problem with me?
Q. This woman that has lived in the same village as my partner for years. My partner fixes her car. At first he wanted us to become friends together because I am new to the village and he wanted me to make friends here. However, she seems to come ...
A. 19 September 2016: I think she has a crush on him. And she is somehow trying to assert her "I have known him longer" kind of "dominance" which is kinda weird.
She has a BF, but "needs" your BF to fix her car. So she likes playing "damsel in distress" with him. Alm... (read in full...)
I'm married. Should I be trying to contact my school crush from many years ago?
Q. Hi I'm about to reach my 30. I'm married and have a child. Living life happily with lovable wife. Recently, I got the contact of a girl who was my classmate in middle school. I had a crush on her but it was untold as my family moved out of tow...
A. 19 September 2016: So you would be OK with your wife doing this?... (read in full...)
I'm feeling hurt after finding a photo of my Gf giving a kiss to an older guy at an outing with work colleagues. How do I get over this?
Q. i found a picture of my girlfriend kissing an older guy at a bar. My girlfriend an i have been dating for almost 6 years now and i always let her know that i do not mind her going out to hang with co-workers or friends. She never goes anywhere so...
A. 19 September 2016: I would be upset too if I were you.
While I question a bit that she can't remember the photo and the kiss... but she can recall that nothing else happened... that makes no sense.
So to me, she doesn't WANT to remember it or it's hazy.
I ... (read in full...)
Some advice please on how to ensure that things do not go any further and do not lead to sex? Because I don't want that until I'm older
Q. I am 13 years old, female and is currently in a relationship of 4 months. My boyfriend and I haven't gone any further than straddling and French kissing until yesterday. No clothes were removed but there was grinding involved. And to be complete...
A. 19 September 2016: Good for you for realizing that it IS easy to get tempted to do things you are not ready for, but also for trying to ensure it won't happen again.
I'd say one thing is to talk to him. Make sure HE knows the "grinding" was an on off and won't ha... (read in full...)
If I'm a good kisser, how likely is it that I'll also be a good lover?
Q. I've made out with 5-6 girls and I think I'm a good kisser because I know women hate men who slober over them and I try to figure out what does it for them and try to make them feel good. I honestly think I get more enjoyment thinking I'm g...
A. 19 September 2016: First off, PORN is not sex. Get that in your head right away. What you see is NOT reality. It's fake. Even if it claims to me "amateur" or what not. Most of it is FAKE.
To be a good lover you have to KNOW your girl and what she likes. That WIL... (read in full...)
What can I do about my very controlling aggressive abusive husband? I want out of this abusive marriage
Q. Hello i have a very serious problem. My husband is very controlling and he has been disrespectful to my Mom and my children. He has called my daughters stupid bitches and he calls my son a dumb mf. He says thats just the way he talks but i hate it!...
A. 19 September 2016: Set money aside, look for a woman's shelter that takes women WITH children. When you feel able, pack your stuff, your kids stuff and leave. (make sure you have ALL important documents, like birth certificates, SS cards, marriage certificates etc. If ... (read in full...)
My LDR is stressing me out. I do want to keep the relationship. What can I do?
Q. My relationship is stressing me out. To give a bit of background. I was with my ex for 7 years and he cheated. Left me for her. I was single for 9-10 months when I got with my current boyfriend. We've been together 8 months now. Everything w...
A. 19 September 2016: So it's "your fault" for being "OH SO special" that he cheated on you? Sexting another woman/man is not OK in a relationship, you KNOW that. And HE should know that. He doesn't even take responsibility by puts the "blame" on you. That is as low as ... (read in full...)
I'm married. Should I be trying to contact my school crush from many years ago?
Q. Hi I'm about to reach my 30. I'm married and have a child. Living life happily with lovable wife. Recently, I got the contact of a girl who was my classmate in middle school. I had a crush on her but it was untold as my family moved out of tow...
A. 19 September 2016: You aren't looking for friendship. Be honest.
Have you told your wife about this? Because SHE is the one that needs to be OK with it, not strangers on the Internet.
My guess is your wife has no clue. So why not see how she feels? No?... (read in full...)
Dating has gotten me confused about what I want!
Q. Dating and making decisions... Need advice! I am on a dating site. I agreed to meet two men on there. One I have been writing to for a few days, and we share the same goals in life, he is very handsome, and I can see a future with a man like him. He ...
A. 18 September 2016: Well, #1 was a dud in the match in reality. Like you thought he was "too good to be true". Which I'm not surprised over really, he is a successful lawyer, that takes confidence and self-assurance, which can come off as arrogance. Think about it, his ... (read in full...)
I'm married. Should I be trying to contact my school crush from many years ago?
Q. Hi I'm about to reach my 30. I'm married and have a child. Living life happily with lovable wife. Recently, I got the contact of a girl who was my classmate in middle school. I had a crush on her but it was untold as my family moved out of tow...
A. 18 September 2016: Just stop the contact. The fantasy with this girl is over.
Invest all those thoughts and emotions into your marriage and your wife.
HOW would you feel if your wife was pining after some silly school crush 18 years later?
Grow up, OP... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Yes, be prepared. but also.... if they ask you to leave because they don't want to deal with this, GET it in writing. Take it to a lawyer. SERIOUSLY. Because THAT is totally MESSED up attitude from their side. And IF that is their attitude, it's NOT ... (read in full...)
Dating has gotten me confused about what I want!
Q. Dating and making decisions... Need advice! I am on a dating site. I agreed to meet two men on there. One I have been writing to for a few days, and we share the same goals in life, he is very handsome, and I can see a future with a man like him. He ...
A. 17 September 2016: GL on date with #1 !!... (read in full...)
How do I go back from a bad first impression?
Q. I said something without thinking and now someone at work is offended. I feel so stupid because I didn't even realise it could be offensive. But a TV presenter introduced himself to me and also made it known that he was a presenter. I didn't ...
A. 17 September 2016: Eh, so what?
You didn't recognize him BIG freaking deal. Girl, all you did was bruise his "wittle" ego. Don't feel bad about that. Maybe he is used to being "fawned" over.
When I worked in London (at a big 5 star hotel) we had MANY famous gues... (read in full...)
How can I find a way to trust my boyfriend? Because I feel I can't trust him
Q. PLEASE HELP ME. I am at the END of my rope. I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and I just CANNOT trust him no matter what. No matter what he says or does. I CANNOT trust him. I CANNOT DO IT. It is making me paranoid, jealous, ins...
A. 17 September 2016: You want something you can't have, an absolute guarantee that he won't turn around and cheat on you.
It's not going to happen. He can make ALL kind of promises to you (just like he undoubtedly did to his former partner of 10 years).
Words a... (read in full...)
Is my fiancée (f/40) losing interest in maintaining our relationship?
Q. Hello Would appreciate any advice on an uneasy feeling I have about my fiancée. We've been together for 4 years, very happy, a great match in almost every way. When I proposed to her in January she was ecstatic. I mean this lady couldn't have be...
A. 17 September 2016: Talk to her. Be honest and open.
My guess is it's about her parents, she wants to help out but also be able to do things with you and your future.
So in order to figure out what's up, how to support and help her you will HAVE to talk to her.... (read in full...)
I met up with someone from a dating site, didn't like her and don't know how to tell her
Q. There is no way to say this without sounding bad but here goes: I met this girl on a dating site and she said her profile that she was looking to 'casually date with possibility of more' she even said she wants to talk 'awhile' before meeting i...
A. 17 September 2016: I'd just call her and tell her: "Annie, it was nice to meet up, but I don't feel there is a spark from my end, and I don't want to waste YOUR or my time pursuing this, so I'll wish you good luck and I hope you met the guy for you".
You don't NE... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 17 September 2016: Before you go to HR - WRITE down the whole story from start to "end". Add dates and times if you can. It's easier than going there nervous and THEN have to explain it.
I think going to HR would be a good idea. I didn't really think he would be... (read in full...)
He says he can't date for two years
Q. Hello. i'm a freshman girl in high school and I honestly have liked this kid for the past few months now. We started talking a lot and things started as very little friends to flirting all the time. He calls me beautiful, i'm perfect, i could be a ...
A. 17 September 2016: He probably is telling the truth. My teens have classmates who can't date for a couple of years. I think the parents hope to prevent teen pregnancies and drama.
So for you, I'd advice you stop flirting and stick to being friends.
Maybe find ou... (read in full...)
Dating has gotten me confused about what I want!
Q. Dating and making decisions... Need advice! I am on a dating site. I agreed to meet two men on there. One I have been writing to for a few days, and we share the same goals in life, he is very handsome, and I can see a future with a man like him. He ...
A. 16 September 2016: Number #2 is a waste of your time, no matter how yummy and amazing that first contact was.
He would be a "fixer-upper" for you. Think about it. So many things HE or YOU would have to change. Would you give up your dog? Should he give up living o... (read in full...)
How can I find a way to trust my boyfriend? Because I feel I can't trust him
Q. PLEASE HELP ME. I am at the END of my rope. I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and I just CANNOT trust him no matter what. No matter what he says or does. I CANNOT trust him. I CANNOT DO IT. It is making me paranoid, jealous, ins...
A. 16 September 2016: What has he done that has you convinced he can't be trusted?
Anything?
If he hasn't done anything, there is nothing he can say or do to convince you. You will be better off single.
If he HAS done something to break your trust, was a deal-b... (read in full...)
In a relationship, but kissed a friend ...
Q. I've been with my partner for over two years now, and we are totally in love with each other. The other week I met up with a friend from college and we ended up kissing, not for long though. I can't stop thinking about the moment that we had and I'm ...
A. 15 September 2016: I agree with N91.
If you are OH SO in love with your partner I don't see how this kiss could have happened. It's not like you fell and tripped and your lips met. So take some responsibility there.
And yes, I DO think you should OWN up to what y... (read in full...)
How do I cope with all the guilt?
Q. Please don't judge me! Two years ago I got hired as a live in nanny for a family that I met at a gym. About 9 months after I started working there the father kissed me. There had been some flirting hit I didn't think anything of it until he kissed m...
A. 15 September 2016: All you can do is STOP beating yourself and focus on your future and how to BE a better person.
While it IS a big mistake to make, trust me, EVERYONE makes mistakes. That is how we learn and grow. Especially in what NOT to do again.
So focu... (read in full...)
How do I cope with all the guilt?
Q. Please don't judge me! Two years ago I got hired as a live in nanny for a family that I met at a gym. About 9 months after I started working there the father kissed me. There had been some flirting hit I didn't think anything of it until he kissed m...
A. 15 September 2016: You are young. You got caught up in something you KNEW was wrong but it "felt" right.
And now you are here.
Yes, you were complicit in an affair. An affair with the FATHER of the child you were paid to care for. For me, that is a double whammy.... (read in full...)
Your suggestions please to break the good news
Q. Hi Cupids! So - kind of a fun question for you all. I just found out that I'm pregnant with baby #2, and I'm not sure how to tell my husband. He's gonna be stoked, and I thought that maybe I'd have a little fun with it. Any suggestions?...
A. 15 September 2016: ~congratulations!~
I love the "eviction notice" and the present for daddy ( a pair of gift-wrapped baby booties) or a picture of a positive pregnancy test in a card. Or have your child #1 wear a shirt that says: "I'm going to be a big sister/b... (read in full...)
Dating-site guy left me puzzled
Q. Hi, so now divorced for 9 months, feeling ready to move on, missing companionship, laughter, cuddles, and everything that comes with relationships. So I joined a dating site, and met up with a couple of nice guys but no spark there. Until I met, who ...
A. 15 September 2016: When you went out on that date did you talk a lot about your ex? your marriage? Are you still "entwined" in you ex-husband's life, do you share kids/grown kids with your ex?
If so, I can understand why he might feel like you haven't quite let go o... (read in full...)
What are some tips to keeping a LDR positive and satisfying, considering that he will be moving to a remote area without reliable wi-fi?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going to be long distance for the next couple of months. We will both be in farely remote areas without regular wifi. A lot of tips I've read are based around the fact that you can message or call that person at all hours. H...
A. 15 September 2016: It IS only 2 months.
I agree with Wise, write (as in HAND WRITTEN) letters. I know when my husband was deployed those were his favorites because you can HOLD them and carry them with you. Keep them light, warm and loving. I would also send a d... (read in full...)
I get so emotional I cry about this crush almost every day! How should I tell this single man I have a crush on him?
Q. I have been thinking of leaving my job and returning to full time education to start my career, however, I have been having a big crush on my male colleague for almost three years now. I really like him and he is always on my mind. He is so handsome ...
A. 14 September 2016: Don't tell him how you feel. Ask him out for lunch or a cup of tea.
You may THINK you "love" this guy but you OBVIOUSLY don't really know you, you are "in love" with the fantasy you have created in your own head about this guy.
IF you ask hi... (read in full...)
His comments to his friend about this girl make me extremely uncomfortable!
Q. Hi! My boyfriend lent me his cell phone and I found a conversation between him and his friend talking about a girl in his class, in the text he said he had a hot classmate and that he spent all class looking at her, he said he loved her face and ...
A. 14 September 2016: I'd say it sounds like "locker room" chat between guys trying to come off as "studs" and "manly". However, it also shows a lot of disrespect for YOU AND the girl in question.
And I would tell him JUST that.
Ask him if he would be OK if you tal... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong to pay for sex
Q. I have reading the many posts on dearcupid from men who are contemplating paying for sex. I see that most people are against it, like it is the lowest a guy can go. I am at the lowest point in my life now and it will only get worse. I have Marfan ...
A. 14 September 2016: You want to pay for sex, what is stopping you? JUST be aware of the laws in your state/territory/region for soliciting/buying sex.
If you think your life isn't complete unless you insert your penis in a woman, there really isn't much anyone c... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 14 September 2016: Good for you OP!
You grew a set, didn't you?! At least you didn't let him intimidate (which I think was HIS plan when he cornered you). Instead, you stood up to him and gave him VERY sound and rational reasons as to WHY you don't want to be his "... (read in full...)
Does he now not want to see me any more?
Q. I hooked up with this guy i have been meaning to hook up with months ago So i went to his place and things were going on but midway just before the intercourse i stopped and asked him to stop and just left quickly I haven't heard from him yet. ...
A. 14 September 2016: I'm with the aunties and the uncle here...
I bet you HE is baffled a to WTF went down. Did you explain why you stopped and left? Does he know? If not, maybe YOU need to call him and let him know.
If he does maybe he just feel like it's not go... (read in full...)
Please advise!!! What should I do about this situation with my girlfriend??
Q. Okay, so this is my first time posting any sort of question online. I've been on and off this site for years just browsing never thinking I would ever need to post anything on here, but here I am. So here's the issue, me and my girlfriend have bee...
A. 14 September 2016: I'd sit her down and tell her that she needs to pack her stuff and get out of your house.
She was cheating with that guy and was intending on continuing behind your back. And she wasn't even subtle about it (not that it matters).
If SHE put an... (read in full...)
It hasn't turned out as I imagined
Q. I was introduced to this guy three months by a mutual friend. We hit it off instantly. We would often hang out after work and have long conversations. He would flirt with each other. Often I noticed whenever I would talk about what I would like in a ...
A. 13 September 2016: I'd cut him off. Mostly because you have romantic feelings for him and HE would like for you to stick around - I think... as a backup in case this new GF doesn't work out.
I'd venture a guess that he saw you as a friend from the get go, but also... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: Good for you!
I don't think it's weak to not want to have that conversation face to face. After all, you know yourself and you have had a glimpse of him and he seems VERY persuasive.
My guess is he will do one of 2 things:
1. try and pret... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: No one is "annoyed" with your lack of spine here :) maybe you are, though?
It's OK that you are not comfortable with confrontation, but if he doesn't "get" the point of yu pulling away you might have t obe blunt. And you know what? it's OK to be... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 13 September 2016: I think he has noticed that you are pulling away and that is why he is now "stalking" you or latching on to you. He doesn't feel confident that you are so easy to manipulate as he had first thought. So you ARE on the right track.
You might no... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 10 September 2016: Hey, if it helps to talk it through with all of us here at DC, go for it! Having a sounding board is good.
But take the advice given to heart, consider it and If you find that it FEELS right, USE it.
YOU do not OWE him squat. Yes, you work to... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 9 September 2016: I agree, STAY clear of him.
If he suggests another outing tell him no thanks, that you PREFER to keep it professional and also DO NOT share any more tidbits about your life or past other that the little casual things people will share with a s... (read in full...)
Would going to the movies with an older male colleague be a mistake?
Q. Hi everyone, A few months ago, I moved to a new city for a new job. Most of my colleagues are a lot older than I am, and I am basically the 'new' blood being brought in to compensate for those who are going to retire soon. Anyway, I'm new to t...
A. 25 August 2016: I'd go. But I would keep conversation to work/casual, nothing about your love life (none of his business).
If he starts talking about problems with his wife, the whole my wife doesn't understand me or other bull crap to try and make you feel sor... (read in full...)
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