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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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14 June 2010: In order for aunts and question askers to see who they are getting advice from, I will continue to write some more about me, and where I come from. The things that I draw on when giving advice, what type of experience I have in life. This arti...
How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 3 December 2010: Congratulations on getting a gorgeous girl in your life, I wish you and your new family a happy Christmas and all the best in the new year :) It is a lovely name you have given her as well.... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: But it's so much fun :D... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: If anyone read my answer to Celiaaletta about how to compromise on the porn issue, you will see a lot of variety and possibilities. A man can get by without porn. Women get by without porn. Porn is only one thing that adds to the experience of ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: There is tons of compromise to be made. One example is that the guy and girl talk about this first, decide how important this type of stimulation is to him, and have the girl pick out what he can watch. Maybe she only has a problem with certain ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thanks, I realize now it was badly worded, but you got my point. Thank you. ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: I don't see how compromise should be excluded however. If a hypothetical relationship is otherwise brilliant I'd say you are lucky. Is it worth giving up a guy over? Not if the guy thinks porn is worth giving up the girl. If both want each other ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: I'm still rooting for the article writer. She is not the one with the problem here, and I don't have a problem with porn either, so personal attacks aren't called for. However, from our viewpoint (take that I understand what the OP means), porn has ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 13 June 2010: Yeah, I guess. Never had that situation happen though, so it's hard to say. ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 12 June 2010: Not saying you guys aren't educated, but I need to inform you of one thing. A vibrator is not the same as a dildo. Why should a woman use a vibrator when a guy is offering his penis? Well because his penis doesn't vibrate, doesn't focus on the clit, ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 11 June 2010: Aside from the main point, I want to jump in at the male anon who wanted opinions about women giving up vibrators if men gave up porn. I hardly see how they are the same. Women can give up porn if man gives up porn. Women can give up the vibrator if ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 8 June 2010: Does it still smell like burnt flesh down there Q?... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 6 June 2010: Sex is nice. It is quite lovely in fact when you have the right person. But listen to the other aunts and uncles here, they are giving you great advice. I in particular liked what MsBehavin says, but everyone is giving you great advice. I have to ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: The text got a little mixed in my last post, what I meant was that the two decisions needed to be made separately is whether or not you wish to know the identity of the father, and then what to do with the child. ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: As for my personal opinion:
I also wonder, is it possible to have a DNA test taken while the fetus is in the womb? I believe that you will always wonder who the father is. Even if you have an abortion or not. I believe if you have an abortion, you ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: It took me a while to dig up this, but I think you should read it. I don't mean to be discouraging, or to promote other webpages, but it was written by a woman who was raped, got pregnant, and had the baby. Perhaps it could offer you some insight. ... (read in full...)
Infatuation gone crazy....?
Q. I'm massively infatuated with a guy I recently met. Oh yes let me mention that I'm in a relationship with a guy I have been with for 4 years, which isn't going great at the moment. This guy however was just gorgeous, the exchange student at my co...
A. 5 June 2010: Does your boyfriend know? His picture as your background, I think it would be best if you took that down and didn't make it so obvious. Especially if you want to kill these feelings, feeding yourself little "treats" like that of him, and constantly ... (read in full...)
Why is my family so cold to me?
Q. Dearest Cupid and Everyone here, I don't exactly know what i need here. All i know is, im looking for a chance that somebody here can tell me why life is always like this. I have a lovely and understanding children, not living together with me...
A. 5 June 2010: Every one of us holds a dark secret, if I can call it that. Some thing, or things, that are dark, deep, hurtful, and cause us great pain. Everyone has something that hurts inside of them. So you are not alone in that respect. Even though people can ... (read in full...)
If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me?
Q. If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me...? I was driving yesterday. and noticed a car sort of behind me and then noticed it was my ex with his new gf in the car. He was about to pass me until and get in the turning lane...
A. 5 June 2010: Why do you care so much? I think you are the one who hasn't moved on. Your ex's reaction is normal. I've moved on from my ex too, but I could only do so by cutting all contact with him. And yes, even though it's been around 2 years, when I see my ex ... (read in full...)
My last attempt for this love.
Q. This is a long post but my question is how do you start trusting a compulsive liar? My ex and I were together for a year and a half and 9 months of that she was pregnant with my son. I was supporting all of us so we didn't have a lot of time and ...
A. 5 June 2010: You said you know you can both get past this, but the question is: does she want to get past it? Or does she want to move on? It is impossible to make a relationship wrk when only one part wants to work on it, and the other will do anything to ... (read in full...)
I graduated, he's still in high school, and I feel like I'm missing out
Q. So i've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. I'm 18 and just graduated high school. He is 17 and now a senior in high school. I love him dearly with all my heart but i feel like i'm missing out on something like theres something else ...
A. 5 June 2010: What do you want out of a relationship? If you're just in it for fun why not stay since he's a good guy. If you're looking to be married.. Im not sure, you were the one who said you were too young though. So no one is asking you to "settle" ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 5 June 2010: Doh. We're talking about tools to escape things that bother you in life. Get released from the worries you sillywilly. Plus I don't think any vasectomies are really performed with scissors, I believe they use surgical knives? ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Now, why would you go up to any girl and tell her you are a virgin? That stuff is for when you have already gotten a girlfriend! That is private information you should not share with the rest of the world. Like, no one who's had sex goes around ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 5 June 2010: lol, of course Q. Maybe you want to get lubed up instead so you can slip away without cutting any cords?... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: "Of course I have to lie to everyone I know that I have been in a relationship "once", because for a guy my age to be a virgin... that is a social death sentence"
Don't lie. I was thinking, when you wrote that" what is worse than a 25 year old... (read in full...)
Single... or settle???
Q. I am 19 years old and me n my fiancee, who is 25, have been together for a year and a half and we just had a baby, we have been talking about marriage for over a year now and i am not sure if we should. i am doubting if he is the one for me. I'm not ...
A. 5 June 2010: He will always be the father of your child. I think it is best to be honest with yourself. Sure, he is a good catch! But maybe not for you. What I fear is that for now you might be able to find peace settling with him, but later down you will grow ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I want it to hurt during sex?
Q. Hi, Is it weird that i want it to hurt during sex? I like the thought of being handcuffed and forced to do what my boyfriend wants and give him all the control. Is that normal? I feel like a freak sometimes cause it seems like i get turned on by ...
A. 5 June 2010: Does the word bondage ring a bell? Or S&M? Check it out, it sounds like it's right up your street. Not weird at all. It's a bit out of the regular comfort zone, but there are plenty like you out there in the world. My guess is we all like this type ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 4 June 2010: Yes, the snipp sound was there. Kinda like a larger version of the scissors they use to cut ribbons with when opening a new bridge or tunnel or something :) And yes, I saw a red ribbon as well being cut, haha, so it was impossible not to laugh. In a ... (read in full...)
How high of a risk is pulling out?
Q. How high of a risk is it having sex with out a condom but not cuming in her and I wipped it off be for I put it in her ...
A. 4 June 2010: Has there ever been done a test on this? Are there statistics out there? They should make a questionaire asking how women conceived, then we would know how many % got pregnant from the "pull out method".
Quite a few I would assume. ... (read in full...)
Is an orgasm important in a healthy relationship?
Q. Hey, to keep it short and simple i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. when discussing relationships with my friend the other day she said that orgasms were needed to have a healthy sex life and considering i've never ever ever ever ...
A. 4 June 2010: Nah. Its not that important. Sex and intimacy is impportant, and sometimes we just get that feeling and we gotta have it. But, for women, an orgasm isn't all there is to it. Well aside from the women who get it all the time I can guess they'd find ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 4 June 2010: Great article, it was a good read. Well argumented.... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 4 June 2010: I tried imagining a giant pair of scissors cutting the cord between me and things that I worry with. I know you didn't say they had to be huge, but in my head they ended up as gigantic either way. The result was that I went from feeling worried and ... (read in full...)
If you take a week off the pill and bleed, will you get pregnant?
Q. Hi guys, Just wondering. Am on the pill but i wondered if when you take your week break can you bleed but still be pregnant? Thanks...
A. 3 June 2010: What pill are you on? If you use your pill as prescribed you will be protected 100% of the time. It will normally be described in the instructions that come with the pills, so read those carefully!
For the pill I am on, Microgynon, it really d... (read in full...)
Do I orgasm or not?
Q. I have a query! actually im confused and shy about it. and it ay sound like im stupid bt i have to clarify. iv a bf from 5 yrs. we have sex once a week or so, but the thing is i dont know if i have orgasms. i cnt find out. i lubricate and often a ...
A. 3 June 2010: That is not an orgasm. An orgasm is an extremely pleasurable feeling spreading through your body. Not some slime. For many women, natural lubricant go hand in hand with having an orgasm, so many get soaked after wards. However, the body juices ... (read in full...)
He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?
Q. hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning ...
A. 3 June 2010: It means he is taking the relationship to a new level, by slowly allowing you to keep some of your things at his place permanently. ... (read in full...)
Really in love with my ex-boyfriend's brother...could it work?
Q. I've read other posts similar to this but have not found a clear answer to my question. I'm completely in love with my ex's brother, what should I do? I believe, you can't help who you love and I think it's only natural for me to be attracted to ...
A. 3 June 2010: Be careful, this is not just any man, and this affair involves a lot of extra complications. So take each and everything into consideration. How people will react depends on their personalities, so I can't say things will be problem free. How old ... (read in full...)
I am to embarresed to ask my boyfriend to give me oral, I have never experienced it before.
Q. i lost my virginity to my boyfriend who i have been going out with 8 months. however he will not give me oral in the bedroom, he has told me he isn't against it, he just doesn't want to. i give him oral, and he does pleasure me in other ways, but ...
A. 3 June 2010: Talk to him about it. And I mean not just a random comment, sit him down when you two are alone and you know you will not get disturbed, and then talk about it. Maybe he is just nervous because he has never done it before, maybe he is worried you ... (read in full...)
He would date her if he was single! Should I be worried?
Q. hey everyone! my boyfriend of 5years told my best friend that if he was single he would totally date this girl let's call her X! and he asked my best frend if this X is single! should I be worried?? and my boyfriend and this X text each other.a...
A. 3 June 2010: We all think things about other people, fantasize about other people, and just because we are not single we are not blind. So what, he asked her single status, it could have been pure curiosity. I don't need to have been in similar situations, I ... (read in full...)
He would date her if he was single! Should I be worried?
Q. hey everyone! my boyfriend of 5years told my best friend that if he was single he would totally date this girl let's call her X! and he asked my best frend if this X is single! should I be worried?? and my boyfriend and this X text each other.a...
A. 3 June 2010: And, yeah, if you confront him about this it is a clear sign that you don't trust him. Because if you did trust him you'd know he's not into anyone but you. And for the record, you heard this not from him directly, but from said best friend. Your ... (read in full...)
He would date her if he was single! Should I be worried?
Q. hey everyone! my boyfriend of 5years told my best friend that if he was single he would totally date this girl let's call her X! and he asked my best frend if this X is single! should I be worried?? and my boyfriend and this X text each other.a...
A. 3 June 2010: If I was the one to say "If I was single I'd date her/him" you would have had nothing to worry about. In my head that just means "if I didn't already have someone who is better, she/he could be a close 2nd runner up". ... (read in full...)
What do I do about a boy who I like that acts like he likes me but has a girlfriend?
Q. *OP's suggested title* Dear Cupid, I have a huge crush on a boy in my school. We use to be normal friend a few talks here and there. But now we hang out in our classes all the time. I sent him a flirty facebook message one time saying he should...
A. 3 June 2010: He is probably unaware that you are reading so much into these little signs. All the boy does is basically being nice to you, while you being in love read so much more into his actions.
He has a girlfriend. So he likes someone else more than you... (read in full...)
Can I find a guy who doesn't flake after being so loving? My ex'es can't stand me.
Q. I need some advice to feel better and see hope for the future. I've only had two relationships and both lasted about 6-8 months each. Both of the guys were so nice and caring when we were dating - literally, they would have done anything for me,...
A. 3 June 2010: My first two serious relationships went in a somewhat like direction. They loved me, then loved me not, then loved me, then loved me not... I don't talk to them. In fact I am not friends with any ex'es. For some this is possible, for others it is ... (read in full...)
People need to try harder! Or am I just being harsh?
Q. I'm a single 20 year old man, about to head to university in september and I'm having trouble. I have trouble maintaing relationships with people...I mean I have friends, I'm well liked and very sociable, but I can be very negative. People...
A. 3 June 2010: CindyCares raises a good point. Be an example to yourself and others, and respect that others lead their life as they will. You can never change people, your only true power lies in giving inspiration. And, people will not get affected or change ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend
Q. Hey so I still have my foreskin on my penis, and my penis head the skin on it has been pealing off what is going on? I think it is this Lichen Scleroses. what do I do I'm scared to have sex with my girlfriend....
A. 3 June 2010: Don't have sex with your girlfriend unless you use condoms, then go see your doctor! Self diagnosing and treating yourself is a bad idea, so go see your doctor. Having sex with your girlfriend now is probably also a bad idea, you don't know what is ... (read in full...)
What can we do to stop the itching?
Q. my sex life here lately is non existent .Because my girl is experiencing itching problems in and around her vagina .My question is what can we do to stop the itching .Doctors just don't seem to help her they keep saying all kinds of different things ...
A. 3 June 2010: What are the doctors saying, and why do you think people who are not educated on the topic will be able to provide answers when you have seen several doctors? Im sorry, but this is a blind shot. What have the doctors already said, and has she taken ... (read in full...)
Why Do I keep looking Back if he said he doesn't care?
Q. Well, I really Love this Guy. He is Emo. And I do not care what anyone thinks of it. I am not Emo, At all. We have Never gone out. He was Never My Boyfriend. He is thee Most Amazing Person I have Ever met. There is NO one who is even clos...
A. 3 June 2010: I think you keep looking back because you are desperate to belong to someone, and he is the one you wanted. He rejected you, but you refused to give him up. The only way to stop looking back is to make yourself stop! You just have to draw a line ... (read in full...)
Is he just being mean?
Q. If a guy like you does he pick on you and then says joks or is he just being mean???...
A. 3 June 2010: I believed thats how boys use to act when they like a girl... at age 6-11. Of course, come act that way a bit later on, and don't stop until they hit 24. Some, and very few luckily, stop even later and are usually not that lucky in love, although ... (read in full...)
Our first time, and I want him to feel good too!
Q. me and my boyfriend are both virgins, and I happen to be very tight. we were talking about taking it hard but slow the first time so he doesn't hurt me. he said since we'll be going slow, he probably won't cum. how can I make him cum while going ...
A. 2 June 2010: Stimulating his penis will make him cum... But like I said, focus on YOU this time around. For him it will most guaranteed be all pleasure while you are the one who will have pain. So let him bother with himself this time around. Then after you get ... (read in full...)
Our first time, and I want him to feel good too!
Q. me and my boyfriend are both virgins, and I happen to be very tight. we were talking about taking it hard but slow the first time so he doesn't hurt me. he said since we'll be going slow, he probably won't cum. how can I make him cum while going ...
A. 2 June 2010: Hello! First off, how old is your boyfriend and what is the laws in your country about how old you must be to have sex?
Second: your boyfriend will feel good, do not worry about that. He doesn't need to have an orgasm in order to feel good, an... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to ask him to leave his girlfriend for me?
Q. Okay, so There's this girl (let's call her..Rebecca). So a couple years ago, Rebecca started going out wit hone of my close friends (Tommy), and after a month or two him and I got closer. It eventually lead to us kissing, talking, and touching. Th...
A. 2 June 2010: Best of luck!... (read in full...)
I know this is my problem and not his, but I really don't know how to handle this!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for four months now, and it's the best relationship I've ever been in. I'm 23 and he's 31, but we have connected in a way that I've never experienced before and he says, neither has he. I was with my ex for four years an...
A. 2 June 2010: " he didnt want to meet him and didnt want to know if I spoke to him or met up with him. Fair enough. I said the same about his exes, and in particular the last girlfriend he had"
You said to him you didn't want to know about it if he was in conta... (read in full...)
Sex is so painful with my new husband... how can I broach this subject with him?
Q. hi please i really need you guys to answer this and help me as i am becoming depressed and dont know what to do.. i have been married for almost a year now, me and my husband had sex only the first nite but not properly... after that i have been...
A. 2 June 2010: Alright, if the problem lies with you being too tight there is hope! Don't give up, I have a few more tricks up my sleeve. But first I have to stress how important it is that you include your husband in what is going on. Even if you want to work on ... (read in full...)
Sex is so painful with my new husband... how can I broach this subject with him?
Q. hi please i really need you guys to answer this and help me as i am becoming depressed and dont know what to do.. i have been married for almost a year now, me and my husband had sex only the first nite but not properly... after that i have been...
A. 2 June 2010: You didn't quite answer all of my questions. How long did it go between each time you had sex? If it went several weeks you might as well have tightened back up again and the whole point is lost. You need to have sex regularly. Perhaps your hymen ... (read in full...)
what sort of person would I look like faking a pregnancy and abortion?
Q. A few years ago i done something really stupid. I lied to my ex and told him I was pregnant to stop him splitting up with me for another woman he had met. I was totally in love with him and really didnt want to lose him. However, the plan didnt ...
A. 1 June 2010: I suggest you don't tell your ex. Don't come forward. But, tell your current boyfriend what happened back then, so that if he hears the rumors he will know what to think. Try and leave your family out of it. I'd not tell your family unless you knew ... (read in full...)
Sex is so painful with my new husband... how can I broach this subject with him?
Q. hi please i really need you guys to answer this and help me as i am becoming depressed and dont know what to do.. i have been married for almost a year now, me and my husband had sex only the first nite but not properly... after that i have been...
A. 1 June 2010: You should definitely see your doctor if you do not find a solution to this problem. A sexless marriage so young is not good, not for him, you, or the marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. But before I can help you you need to tell ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to ask him to leave his girlfriend for me?
Q. Okay, so There's this girl (let's call her..Rebecca). So a couple years ago, Rebecca started going out wit hone of my close friends (Tommy), and after a month or two him and I got closer. It eventually lead to us kissing, talking, and touching. Th...
A. 19 May 2010: So, you like cheaters. I must say I honestly think you can do better than be the second dish to some lousy guy who disrespects his gf. Poor Rebecca winded up with cheaters, thats honestly not YOUR fault. I say ditch this new guy. If he likes you so ... (read in full...)
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