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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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14 June 2010: In order for aunts and question askers to see who they are getting advice from, I will continue to write some more about me, and where I come from. The things that I draw on when giving advice, what type of experience I have in life. This arti...
How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 3 December 2010: Congratulations on getting a gorgeous girl in your life, I wish you and your new family a happy Christmas and all the best in the new year :) It is a lovely name you have given her as well.... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 9 June 2010: If you saw her in person it would have been even harder. You didn't do anything wrong, you gave a lot too soon, before you knew if it was safe. And now you got hurt. But we all do. What caused the trouble was her family, and the distance, remember ... (read in full...)
How do I win my girlfiend back after drunken kiss with another woman?
Q. I need to know how to get my girlfriend back after I drunkenly kissed another girl at a bar. I didn't call this girl, didn't text this girl, didn't even know this girl. I got extremely drunk and acted like a total idiot and lost my girlfriend's ...
A. 8 June 2010: Alright here's a guess at how you can do this. Call her. That would be the best. Then you say "I want to make up for what I did, and I hope we can be together again. But, I need to tell you something. You said that you want to sleep with other men ... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 7 June 2010: "Now she ran out and moved and said she had enough, she was out of here, and good bye to me."
She broke up with you!!! Give it a week to see if you hear anything from her, if not then LET IT GO! Do you understand now what you should do? You shou... (read in full...)
How do I win my girlfiend back after drunken kiss with another woman?
Q. I need to know how to get my girlfriend back after I drunkenly kissed another girl at a bar. I didn't call this girl, didn't text this girl, didn't even know this girl. I got extremely drunk and acted like a total idiot and lost my girlfriend's ...
A. 7 June 2010: Nononono... you're not telling her she CANT sleep with other men while she is single. She is free to do whatever she pleases. But you can tell her that if she does, you will not want her back. Because you have a right to not take her back. That is ... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 7 June 2010: You rushed in too fats with so many things yet to be discovered. Your relationship with her was at a risk from day 1, not ever having met her in person, not knowing if her family approved... And so many risks that you ignored. Be more careful with ... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 7 June 2010: Only 3 months! You have come on way too strong for this girl. After only 3 months, you should take things a lot slower! You love her and want to move to her after only 3 months, all fair, but the relationship has barely started! 3 months is not ... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 7 June 2010: If you haven't heard from her in a week then it's over. ... (read in full...)
I want to be in love with my pregnant girlfriend again, but I can't handle her past..
Q. My gf is 6 months pregnant and we just broke up a couple weeks ago cause i stopped loving her the way i used to and i confessed on why. Last summer we broke up for good reasons and on bad terms, we both were wrong. But i was devastated. but right ...
A. 7 June 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help-with-forgiveness.html
This is your other post on the same question.... (read in full...)
My online 'Juliet's' parents are trying to break us apart!
Q. My relationship start off long distanced online. We started cam dating just a few days after we met on a website. She confessed to me that she loved me and wanted to try dating. I accepted and fell in love with her also. We had no real problems ...
A. 7 June 2010: It's up to her. If she really loves you and wants to contact you, she will find a way. If you don't hear from her however, assume the relationship is over. Find a woman who is willing to fight for you. ... (read in full...)
How do I win my girlfiend back after drunken kiss with another woman?
Q. I need to know how to get my girlfriend back after I drunkenly kissed another girl at a bar. I didn't call this girl, didn't text this girl, didn't even know this girl. I got extremely drunk and acted like a total idiot and lost my girlfriend's ...
A. 7 June 2010: I agree that sleeping with someone is very different from a one time kiss while drunk. At the same time I understand her desire to take out her anger on you with sleeping with other men. Its just that it is a bad way to release anger as she is not ... (read in full...)
Help with forgiveness...
Q. My gf is 6 months pregnant but we just broke up a couple weeks ago cause she was not feeling as loved as she used to with me. I started to let my resentments towards her get the best of me. We broke up last summer on bad terms and right after she ...
A. 7 June 2010: Start a new life together? Aren't you supposed to be too occupied with preparing for the baby to sit and think about these things? She wants to be with you. You want to be with her. The thing standing in the way is her going back and forth with the ... (read in full...)
Should I hold out and wait for this one guy when so many others want to date me?
Q. ok, so i love this one guy but he left for basic but I still really love him. But there are a lot of other guys that want me but i dont know what to tell them because I dont know if my guy is going to stay with me....
A. 7 June 2010: Are you unwilling to be single? Don't date the other guys just because you can't have the one you really want. If you are not interested in them just tell them so. Better to be alone and waiting for the right one, than locking yourself up in a ... (read in full...)
Move in with him and set a time limit for marriage?
Q. I'm 27, my boyfriend is 26 and we've been together for almost a year. The relationship is serious and we've been talking of living together. I believe that a woman should not live indefinitely with a man unless they're planning to marry. I told hi...
A. 7 June 2010: The easiest would be to lower your beliefs here and just live with him and see how it goes. Why shouldn't a man and woman live together without being married? Sure you and him have been doing "outside of marriage" things that according to beliefs ... (read in full...)
I would like to know if online dating has actually brought up good kinds of dates for those of you who have used the service
Q. Hello everyone, I would like to ask advice from those who have had experience with online dating. After being in a "serious" relationship for a couple of years and suddenly finding out that my boyfriend was a liar who kept things from me, I was cr...
A. 7 June 2010: I don't know much about online dating sites. Because I never used one, but I have heard that people on there can want very different things, so make sure your interests and expectations are the same. However, I did meet my current boyfriend online. ... (read in full...)
What do you do, when you're in Junior High and your boyfriend wants to do more than you feel comfortable with?
Q. My bf keeps wanting to go far butvi just laugh it off what should I do? I mean he's a great kisser and super sweet and lots of fun but I don't want him to go that far with me we r still in jr high :/...
A. 7 June 2010: Say no. If he can't accept it, show him the door. ... (read in full...)
Suddenly , 4months into our relationship, he now lets me know that he has a child!!
Q. Okay Im in a four month relationship. I am 20 years old. I found old yesterday my boyfriend has a five year old child. I am blown away by this and devastated. I feel too young to be with someone who has baggage but I also feel tricked that he waited ...
A. 7 June 2010: Everything points to the direction that you do not want to be with him. I agree it was a lousy thing to do, waiting for this long before he told you the truth. He was scared that you will leave him if you knew about his son, and was probably hoping ... (read in full...)
How important is the "spark"? Can a relationship work without it?
Q. I have a question about the "spark." For those of you who are in good stable happy relationship, do you still feel a spark after years and years of being together? I am wondering how important this spark is. I'm with a guy and we have admitted...
A. 7 June 2010: I've never been in a relationship without the spark so I don't know... When I dated a person and there was no connection/spark/great delight in it, I stopped seeing them. Are you happy? Are you in love? What exactly is "the spark"? Do you click? Do ... (read in full...)
He's gay, but his dad doesn't know and has banned me from staying because he thinks there is something going on!
Q. hi, my friend is gay(lets call him alex) and he is going out with a guy that lives quite far away and every few weeks he's boyfriend (lets call him danny)comes to stay with him, anyway when danny comes to stay i usually go to stay round alex'...
A. 7 June 2010: You shouldn't tell him they are gay, thats for sure. This man doesnt even want a guy hugging a girl in his house, and thinks bad of it. He probably wouldn't allow Danny and Alex to see each other if he knew they were dating. So either you skip out ... (read in full...)
Forgot my pill, what should I do?
Q. This is just an enquiry - basically I'm on the pill and have been for a few years now - I forgot to take the pill after a night out and it slipped my mind as I was on my period shortly after. Now when I finished me and my boyfriend had an accident ...
A. 7 June 2010: What type of pill are you on (name please) and what does it say in your instructions? In my leaflet it says when I can skip pills safely (if I've pushed my period a few days back or so I can stop the pills at any time in the second "packet" I use, ... (read in full...)
Is my internet boyfriend better as just a friend?
Q. For almost seven months now I’ve been in an internet/long distance relationship with a man 3000 miles away. Back in March, he came to visit me for a week and it was the best week of my life (we did everything we could possibly do in a week ...
A. 7 June 2010: I take it that your parents will not like the mere fact that you are in a relationship in the first place, and then since they are traditional they will not like that you met him online.
I think you will just have to jump into uncharted waters o... (read in full...)
How many is too many? She's had 10 sexual partners in 3 years
Q. Hi all, I am 21 yrs old and I'm seeing a new girl right now. We've been dating for quite a while now, but she said something that concerned me. She is 21 also and lost her virginity at age 18 and has since gone off and had 10 sexual partners since ...
A. 7 June 2010: If she's a good girl she wont be comparing you to her past partners.. No one does that unless they are meanies. And if she is a meanie you would be able to tell by her not being nice in other situations as well. What I mean to say is, if she ... (read in full...)
How many is too many? She's had 10 sexual partners in 3 years
Q. Hi all, I am 21 yrs old and I'm seeing a new girl right now. We've been dating for quite a while now, but she said something that concerned me. She is 21 also and lost her virginity at age 18 and has since gone off and had 10 sexual partners since ...
A. 6 June 2010: Maybe she had 10 partners in the last 3 years, and then only 1 more partner from now on (ps, that would be you yes)? What if she had 5 partners in 3 years and then 5 more partners after you.. that also makes the same number of partners.. Which one ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend admitted to me that while on holiday he visited a brothel
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now, and he was going away on a family holiday for 2 days. When he came back i didnt see him because he had to go straight to work when he got home, but that night he texted me saying he had went to ...
A. 6 June 2010: jmtmj said it, and I second.... (read in full...)
Will taking this job kill our relationship?
Q. So I'm in a bit of a tight spot here, I'll quickly explain my situation first. Currently, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl that lives the next state over. We started dating last year until I ended it in February, but now we've re...
A. 6 June 2010: I don't think she is "denying" you the right to take this job. What she is saying is that she doesn't want this to be the end for your relationship and she fears it will be. As long as you make up a good plan for how often and how long you will ... (read in full...)
My new guy kissed me and then said he doesn't want the drama. What gives?
Q. i just recently started talking to a guy that i knew from a few years back. we were hanging out in front of his house just talking when he kissed me. funny thing was that at that moment, the father of my son was passing by and he stopped, stared at ...
A. 6 June 2010: He sounds paranoid, but that might come from a bad experience with an ex bf in the past. Until he is ready to move on, just leave it at that. Just funny how he kissed you only to 5 min later say it's not for him... Red flag: instability and easily ... (read in full...)
Is it strange for someone my age to have no experience and not be on the pill?
Q. I feel like there is something wrong with me, I am really embarrassed by sex and get shy talking about it so much so that I have always ignored the fact. I have been tryng to face my shyness and have started fooling around with guy eg kissing,...
A. 6 June 2010: You only go on the pill if you are in a long term relationship. The pill takes around a week before it works so is not for unplanned sex. The pill also has a lot of bieffects so that it is not advised to be on it when you are not sexually active. ... (read in full...)
Teenage daughter having an affair with a married man
Q. Please help, my 19 yr old daughter is having an affair with a married man. My daughter has been babysitting for a local family for the last 2 summers. Recently I was looking at pictures on her computer and I noticed pictures of the family she ...
A. 6 June 2010: Kick the daughter out. If she claims to be a grown up she can live on her own and see if she gets by with what her sugar daddy pays her to baby sit. Really. Your home, you decide who enters, and you should not allow this man in your home again. ... (read in full...)
NO BC pills..should I just use condom and take morning after pill too?
Q. Hi, I need some advice my boyfriend is going to Afghanistan at the end of this month, we have been going out for while but haven't had sex yet, we have decided to have sex before he leaves. The advice I need is that I am currently not on...
A. 6 June 2010: Using a condom is actually safe enough. It's nothing wrong with condoms being defected. The problem is that teenage moms didn't use the condom... You shouldn't use the morning after pill as it is only an emergency contraception. You can buy it and ... (read in full...)
Husband cheating says he gets sucked in by the internet
Q. We have been married 33 years-happily I thought. Last week I discoverded my husband had been chatting online and on a webcam to women. Mostly ordinary stuff but also talk of kissing and brushing hair, etc but not sex. He said it was for friendship. ...
A. 6 June 2010: Unhappy childhood... Yeah, they said Hitler had a happy childhood, but that didn't exactly help. Nor would it excuse his behaviour if he had an unhappy childhood.
The problem is that he feels the need to write off responsibility from himself.... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about meeting my long distance boyfriend for the first time
Q. I'm 18 and I met this 20 years old boy online a little bit more than one year ago. I have really strong feelings for him, in fact I think I'm in love with him and I know he loves me too. We are supposed to meet in one month in Paris ( how romantic...
A. 6 June 2010: Go for it. You are scared not because this is crazy, but because you are taking a huge step. Normally, this step (meeting someone in person) is quite regular, and we do so on a daily basis. Normally, this is the very first step of any relationship. ... (read in full...)
I'm tired all the time! What's going on?
Q. i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best ...
A. 6 June 2010: See your doctor, you sound like you are missing some nutrition or vitamins. It could also be an illness and that this is a symptom. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 28yr old male and sex is painful for me..
Q. hi guys, i am a 28 year old male who was married for several years (seperated last year) and so i've only had a few sexual partners. I am NOT circumsized and basically, sex for me can be very painful because as soon as my foreskin rolls back, ...
A. 6 June 2010: It doesn't sound like it is a problem with the foreskin. But rather an extra sensitivity at the head. I think you should ask your doctor about this. ... (read in full...)
How does a large penis feel? Can a smaller guy satisfy a woman?
Q. I have a question for you women out there who have had a large penis (like 9"). What do you feel when it is all the way in? Is the sensation of being "filled completely" so overwhelmingly erotic to you that you long for it, or is it no big deal? ...
A. 6 June 2010: It is true that after the first 3 or 4 inches there is not much sensation in the vagina. The sensation is more around the edge and the first inches. What really matters is the girth. A larger penis just causes pain and no joy. ... (read in full...)
Help with getting rid of blackheads?
Q. Hi everyone, I have an issue with blackheads. Blackheads are the only type of acne I have, but they're horrible. I have them on my nose, cheeks, forehead, everywhere. They're not really noticeable except up close, but I'm sensitive about them. I've ...
A. 6 June 2010: Some get better with time. Most of the time this is genetical, and you either have it or you don't. You can work on keeping it in check though. Go see a doctor and asked to get referred to a skin care doctor. They will be able to offer you correct ... (read in full...)
Is there realy sexual stimulation in the anal cavity for men?
Q. is there realy sexual stimulation in the anal cavity for men? And how many want or have had the experience that are not gay or bisexual. Can a man realy be interested in that and not have some gay interests? I mean if he isnt some what, then how did ...
A. 6 June 2010: Both men and women can experience pleasure from the anus. The area is sensitive to touch and can be stimulated during sex to get extra pleasure. This has nothing to do with being gay, and has nothing to do with having "gay thoughts". This is about ... (read in full...)
Partner and I have different opinions about money and we're about to buy a house..!
Q. Hi - I am 38 and my boyfriend is 33. We don't have joint bank accounts but, after 5 years we are now ready to make a commitment to getting a house together. My concern is something that has niggled me all along but is now a real issue. My ...
A. 6 June 2010: I say how he deals with his own finances and his own brother is up to him. But he has no right to discuss you economy with his brother. So tell him you will have none of that. And that you do not wish to hear what the brother is suggesting, as it is ... (read in full...)
Attracted to taller women, where do I find them!??
Q. My problem is I am only sexually attracted to to women taller than myself. I have had this fetish since pre-puberty when the 'all boys' school I attended, merged with the nearby girls school. I was about 13 years old and one of the smallest and you...
A. 6 June 2010: Lots of tall women in Norway, and Scandinavia I assume. If you like to travel. Learn the metric system though, as we speak in cm and m. Im taller than you btw, but I am also one of the taller women here. However there are several that are taller ... (read in full...)
Do some women have their menstruation while pregnant?!
Q. Hi all! :) I would just like to know.. According to teachings about the menstrual cycle.. It was clearly stated why women can not have their periods while they are pregnant and now on the internet when its asked.. People say its possible to have you...
A. 6 June 2010: What is in books is not always in real life. I keep saying that women can have menstruation while pregnant, because my mother told me that she had her menstruation while pregnant with me, thus not realizing she was pregnant until 5 months in.
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Why do most men like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis ...
A. 6 June 2010: Q, as in, a society is more than the sum of the individuals? ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always cheat on me?
Q. Im 18 and i have a baby girl....guys tell my im sexy all the time im always faithful in my relationships but its like no matter what i always get cheated on why is that?...
A. 6 June 2010: You keep picking the same type of man. The wrong one for you. Try and see a pattern in the way you pick a partner, and the type of man you get involved with. Maybe it is the group of people you have around you and maybe you need to meet new sorts of ... (read in full...)
Will someone interpret the Bebo dialogue I had with this boy?
Q. Okay so there's this guy, well we would flirt a lot, then again he flirts with a lot of girls. So he texted me for the first time the other day, this is kind of how it went: W= him B=me W: hey B:hey W:how's your summer been? B: fun so f...
A. 6 June 2010: ily?
I don't think he's interested in you as more than a friend. Not that confusing. He didn't really say he was interested. Guys aren't that confusing really, but women love to over analyze. ... (read in full...)
Why do most men like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis ...
A. 6 June 2010: *list... (read in full...)
Why do most men like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis ...
A. 6 June 2010: So, you want a man to have the top package... haha, oki that was a little funny :D Package...
So, what do you want the full package to be like in a man? Do you have a lost of qualities and description?
As for the boobs, there is just so much ... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant for the first time, I need help...
Q. I need a little bit of help. I am 17, and...well...there is a posabillity that I may be pregnant, and I am scared to death. I don't know what the signs are, and I dont know what to do to find out if I am pregnant are not. Me and my boyfriend had sex ...
A. 6 June 2010: You dont feel anything this early on. Wait until you get your period. Then take a pregnancy test just to be safe. Some women are pregnant and still have their periods. But by that time a pregnancy test, bought at the pharmacy prescription free, will ... (read in full...)
The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!
Q. hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my ...
A. 6 June 2010: Morning after pill, take it fast! You have 72 hours from the time you had unprotected sex and until you can take the pill. It is an emergency contraception, you can get it at pharmacies without prescription. If you take the pill in time, you will ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 6 June 2010: Sex is nice. It is quite lovely in fact when you have the right person. But listen to the other aunts and uncles here, they are giving you great advice. I in particular liked what MsBehavin says, but everyone is giving you great advice. I have to ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: The text got a little mixed in my last post, what I meant was that the two decisions needed to be made separately is whether or not you wish to know the identity of the father, and then what to do with the child. ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: As for my personal opinion:
I also wonder, is it possible to have a DNA test taken while the fetus is in the womb? I believe that you will always wonder who the father is. Even if you have an abortion or not. I believe if you have an abortion, you ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 5 June 2010: It took me a while to dig up this, but I think you should read it. I don't mean to be discouraging, or to promote other webpages, but it was written by a woman who was raped, got pregnant, and had the baby. Perhaps it could offer you some insight. ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Now, why would you go up to any girl and tell her you are a virgin? That stuff is for when you have already gotten a girlfriend! That is private information you should not share with the rest of the world. Like, no one who's had sex goes around ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: "Of course I have to lie to everyone I know that I have been in a relationship "once", because for a guy my age to be a virgin... that is a social death sentence"
Don't lie. I was thinking, when you wrote that" what is worse than a 25 year old... (read in full...)
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