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I don't want ex, but don't want anyone else to have him either

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Question - (28 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have been broken up with my ex for a few years now and we have remained friends. The problem is, I dont want him but I dont want anyone else to have him either. Help. Is this normal? Any advice?

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):

Toria agony auntYes this is normal and I think most of us feel like this, I'm not sure if its because we want them to always just want us or whether its just a territory thing that person was always yours now he may end up being someone elses.

You need to move on and let him move on, if you care for him at all you will want him to be happy even if that isn't with you.

Good luck :o)

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntYes it is VERY normal unfortuantely.

THe only thing I can suggest is to try to move on with your own life. I presume it was him that ended the relationship, so you have to move on for the sake of your own happiness.

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