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writes: Should i meet my work mates nephew????Hey Guys hope some one can help! im a 19 yr old female (single) recently in a conversation in work i mentioned that id like to meet mr right and settle into a relationship as most of my friends have boyfriends now and when we go out its mostly couples which leaves me feeling like a goosbery! the next day i was talking to one of my workmates sisters who was waiting for her sister to finish her shift all we were talking about is my university course and nothing else! we were only talking for about 10 minutes. the next time i saw my work mate she asked what i had said to her sister because she asked her was i single and if she thought i would go out with her son (which is my workmates nephew) coz she would love me as her daughter in law! As my workmate was in on the converstion about me wanting to meet someone she keeps trying to get me to agree to let her ask him to go out on a date with me but im not sure if i should. i know i want to find mr right but would this boy be really angry with his mum and aunty for setting him up when he is non the wiser ? plus he is 23 im 19 would the age gap be a problem? i know i have nothing to lose if i go for it but i dont want to be left looking like a fool or hurt the lad in question if i dont like him as this may cause friction between me and my workmate! please help me A.S.A.P i need to get my workmate of my back!thanks in advanceSan xx
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I don't see the age gap a problem it is only 4 years and many relationships have worked on age gaps a whole lot bigger than that.
I would talk to your workmate and make sure that this guy is fully aware and willing for this date to happen as you don't want to go on a date with someone that may not really want to be there.
Once thats sorted I would go for it, you've got nothing to lose from this and I'm sure your workmate is aware that sometimes things don't work out and therefore won't hold it against you if things don't go as well as she would like.
Good luck, keep me posted :o)
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 well the age gap is not that big a deal im 19 with a 40 years old! and you said it you have nothing to lose so agree with it go ahead how else you going to find mr right? if you dont take the risk, youll not going to find him by disagreeing are you! what you could do b4 agreeing is asking your work mate to show you a photo of him,or give you his mobile number if he has a camerea phone he can send you a picyure of him self! then see what you think from there! also if it doesnt work out you could ask to remain freinds with him no harm done then is there!
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reader, fallenman +, writes (28 September 2006):
 It sounds to me like you are not interested in arranged blind dates. Good for you! It takes courage but I would tell your workmate that you don't do blind dates and can catch your own fish when your ready. At 19 your nowhere near being put on the shelf. You've only just begun offical adult life, get out and enjoy yourself while you can.
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