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We pulled-now he wants to date me but I prefer being single. If I pull with him agaim..am I leading him on?

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Question - (28 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i like this boy, and we are really good friends. last weekend we were at a party and we pulled quite a few times, and because i was his first pull [and him mine] people are saying that he wants to go out with me, but hes too shy to admit it. the problem is, i dont really want to go out with anyone at the moment, because im more than happy single, but there are more parties coming up and i wouldnt mind pulling him again, but i dont want to lead him on. am i being too harsh to him? what should i do?

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):

Toria agony auntI would also like to know your definition of 'pulling' as I'm quite sure it isn't what I define pulling :o\

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006):

well im under 20 and i have some idea of what pulling is, but im not even sure becasue ive never heard that word used in this way!! someone explain!! :)

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2006):

helpful girl agony auntseriously hun, maybe not pulling him because that is leading him on. maybe looking for other people or if your happy being singel? why bother you can go to a party and enjoy your self with out pulling lads! try staying freinds with this lad but dont flirt round him! and if he likes you but is to shy to admit it thats actually a good thing because you can pretend you dont know as he hasnt told you him self yet if he wasnt to shy hell be constantly harraseing you which is a bad thing!

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (28 September 2006):

Ponungalungb agony auntNow, for all of us over 20, what is "pulling"?

I've got a couple of guesses, but I'll keep them to myself. LOL.

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