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writes:well, i have been best pals with someome for a long time, but recently she has changed. I phoned her the other day and asked if she was coming out and she said that she had homework and didnt want to and that she was already planning on asking someone else to go out (a guy), so she would prefare that. i was really upset but eventually just forgot about it. i phoned her yesterday and asked her if she was coming out and she said no because she was getting a fake tan done so i was like ok. and i phoned her 5 mins ago and asked her if she was coming out and she said she didnt feel like it and she was getting an other fake tan done. I havent done anything wrong so i dont see why she is being like this!! when she does come out all she talks about is guys and uses me as a shoulder to cry on which i dont mind but she never asks how im feeling when i have been really depressed lately. she just dosent seem to care anymore.I need someone to talk to aswell and she is the only friend i really have, i dont know what to do!!!thank you in advance!!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): cry on her shoulder and watch for a reaction from her. Maybe she feels she's ready to start dating and feels you are a good enough friend for her to talk to. If she's not willing to listen to you, you need to tell her that. I have very few friends myself.
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reader, Hanna +, writes (23 September 2006):
 she has got to the point where she feels she is ready to date, when she comes to you again maybe you should tell her how you feel. next time cry on her shoulder and watch for her reaction to your feelings.
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Sounds like she is using you as and when she wants you.
Stop calling her and putting the effort in leave it to her to contact you and when she does try blowing her off a few times and let her see what it feels like.
Once you've done this and you finally meet up with her explain to her what she's been doing and how it has been making you feel, hopefully this should wake her up to what she has been doing if it doesn't then respect yourself and try and make new friends because this one is obviously no good for you.
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