He has been a cheater all his life, do you think he will ever change and finally become a faithful loving husband?
Q. I have a friend who has been a cheater for most of his life. He played a game with two women for about 6 years. The one women he had for about 8 years (she was married), after 2 years he picked up another women, he could keep them separate due to ...
A. 23 November 2008: Right, he's spiritual! LOL He's so full of himself. LOL... (read in full...)
People keep calling me frigid!
Q. I went out with a boy in my year for about 3 weeks and we didnt kiss, and we only hugged about once! He dumped me yesterday because he didnt think that it was going very well. But now everybody in my year thinks that i am frigid and now none of ...
A. 22 November 2008: If he dumped you for not giving him what he wants, he is using you. Most boys his age are experimenting with girls and they will call you names to pressure you to give them what they want.
You are too young to get mixed up with boys and sex. If ... (read in full...)
We can't afford a house as big as I want!
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles, i was hoping for some advice. I am 26 and I have always lived at home with my parents and my sister-we have a gorgeous,huge house with a big garden and front drive and every bedroom has an en suite and i love it.Also as a...
A. 22 November 2008: The bigger the house the more expensive it is to keep up, pay for heating and such, so much more time to clean and repair... nice dream but big houses can be a nightmare.
Why do you need so much space? Do you entertain alot? Is this a way for him ... (read in full...)
My husband is obsessed with a threesome - but even the guy he wants it with thinks it's a bad idea!
Q. Recently my husband has become obsessed with having a MMF threesome after reading various magazines and online sites about it, and he insists we should have it as it will make our marriage stronger. He also wants me to sleep with his best friend ...
A. 22 November 2008: The only thing that makes a marriage stronger is when a husband with serious issues deals with them honestly.
As others have said, fantasy never turns out well. Also, he is full of it to say it will make the marriage stronger. It will do the oppo... (read in full...)
Why do I keep putting myself down if others see different?
Q. Hello, for the last few months I have felt so ugly, and useless. People say the opposite yet I always seem to see the bad side of myself and I don't see it in the mirror! I feel really unloved when it comes to boys, my home life's okay - but there ...
A. 22 November 2008: I think this is normal for girls you age all over the world. The awkward stage from childhood into adulthood. Your body is changing as well as your hormones and other body chemistry.
Try not to compare yourself to others for one. Also, realize ... (read in full...)
Sex sex sex... yet he still jerks off and sends nude pictures???
Q. Something is wrong with this picture, we have sex every night and some mornings, on weekends sometimes 2-3 times a day, yet he jacks off to porn daily and he has just sent a girl he doesn't know nude pics and videos of him jerking it. ...
A. 22 November 2008: The jerking off is normal for all men regardless how much sex they have.
I agree, the sending pix is disturbing.
You didn't say if this is your boyfriend or husband. This guy has problems. The negativity will enter your life and his problems... (read in full...)
Partner's ex pregnant with his baby
Q. I've been with my partner now for 6 years and in june of last year we split up. We were apart for about 12 months..... I had a couple of relationships in that time nothing serious and he also had a brief relationship with someone. During the time ...
A. 22 November 2008: When people sleep around, this is what happens and why its not a good idea to have more than one sex partner.
No easy answer for this. But the parents of that girl are very wrong to do this. She could have protected herself and she didn't. ... (read in full...)
I want to be in love with him so that sex won't be for the wrong reason.
Q. I'm 15, it's been 3 months with the boyfriend and we have had sex once and I know we're going to do it again. I know I have strong feelings for him, I tell myself I'm in love but how do I truly know? Because if I didn't love him I wouldn't have sex ...
A. 22 November 2008: Children and young adults tend to have very strong emotions. Infatuation is usually confused for love. I'm sorry, but you are too young to have sex. Have you seen how many young girls post here about being pregnant at 12, 13, 15?????
Boys your age... (read in full...)
I really like this boy but he keeps giving me mixed signals.
Q. Well I like this guy and I am not so sure if he likes me because one minute he smiles and stares at me the next minute he is moody and doesn't even look at me. What should I do?...
A. 22 November 2008: I just don't understand how children are thinking about romantic relationships so early in life.
Don't take boys seriously just yet. They will like a lot of girls until the day comes that they are ready to settle down.
No doubt he likes you, bu... (read in full...)
My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do?
Q. My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do? He is not willing to seek outside help, doctors said our sexless marriage is because of his weight, as being obese reduces a man's libido, also he suffers from sleep ap...
A. 22 November 2008: I am surprised to hear about this actually as I was under the impression Europeans for the most part didn't have an obesity problem.
Is this post for real? Why would you ask strangers about a medical, emotional, psychological problem?
You see... (read in full...)
Would a married man say he loves his family and still flirt or sweet talk to a girl?
Q. There's this guy who I met a year back in a meeting. He was all sweet and flirty with me, I almost fall for him until I saw he was married. So, I took it cool. Turned out we had to communicate via email for the same meeting business, until ...
A. 22 November 2008: Married men always dream about and crave female attention. Don't take this too seriously. You have no business getting involved with a married man. What do you expect of him? Cheat? Leave her for you? Then what? You are asking for big trouble. Men ... (read in full...)
Is This guy a player/womanizer?
Q. I've been seeing this guy since September, we've been out for lunch, shopping, cinema, dinner and he takes me out in his car a lot. He used to call me and text me all the time, but now things have changed. One time when he picked me up in his car...
A. 22 November 2008: He is a teenager and is way too young to commit to anyone. I'm sure he likes you a lot, but life to boys and men is like being in a candy store. You can't get mad at them for not sharing your feelings. Girls want one man and boys want the whole ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend more than life itself...
Q. I need help... I'm in love with my best friend, but she has a boyfriend. I love this girl more than life, but I don't know how to tell her. I don't know if I should tell her face-to-face, or keep telling her in letters. I keep trying to tell her ...
A. 22 November 2008: You are both very young and even though this seems like the most life changing crisis of all time.... it is because you are still changing and have not yet matured enough to realize everything for the rest of your life doesn't depend on this girl.
... (read in full...)
I'm not myself at all since me and my boyfriend split up.
Q. Hey guys, I have a major problem.. Ever since me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up [about 2 months ago] i havent been myself at all.. I still love him very much but right after we broke up, he got together with this slut. We used to be be...
A. 21 November 2008: There is no real magic answer for that Sweetie. I'm much much older than you and I'm in the same boat. Been looking on line for answers and there aren't any. Emotions have a life of their own. If only there was such a thing as a real magic wand.... (read in full...)
Help me reprogram my wife!
Q. My patience is wearing thin, so I figured I’d ask the readers here for some advice. First, let me start out with some facts: I’m 32 and married. My wife is 26 and pretty awesome. I have few complaints about her. She’s warm, kind, and genuinely lo...
A. 21 November 2008: wish my guy had been more like you! oh well, good luck... (read in full...)
Went too far?
Q. I started seeing a guy that is friends with my ex boyfriend. But the other issue is he dates my ex's sister. They all know about us. It's been going on for 8 months now. What do I do? Initially I wanted revenge with my Ex. I want to break it off but ...
A. 21 November 2008: Never try revenge again and never try to make someone else jealous. As you can see it causes a lot of troubles and drama. Also, its not very nice to use others in the scheme because they get hurt as well when they find out something unkind was going ... (read in full...)
Help me reprogram my wife!
Q. My patience is wearing thin, so I figured I’d ask the readers here for some advice. First, let me start out with some facts: I’m 32 and married. My wife is 26 and pretty awesome. I have few complaints about her. She’s warm, kind, and genuinely lo...
A. 21 November 2008: Try massaging her for at least 30 minutes if not an hour. Kiss her all over. I have no idea if you are erotic in bed or a one trick pony.
Is it possible she was molested as a child?
Think about pleasing her rather than your needs. Maybe you... (read in full...)
My husband had a child with another woman, is there any hope for us?
Q. I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and ...
A. 21 November 2008: That woman is a bitch if she knew he was married. I feel sorry for that child. I feel very badly for you and your children to have to deal with a coward of a man.
This is not an easy situation. Its up to you of course since you love him, love nev... (read in full...)
He has been a cheater all his life, do you think he will ever change and finally become a faithful loving husband?
Q. I have a friend who has been a cheater for most of his life. He played a game with two women for about 6 years. The one women he had for about 8 years (she was married), after 2 years he picked up another women, he could keep them separate due to ...
A. 21 November 2008: You have to be kidding (yourself that is). This is a really messed up asshole and unless you have a magic wand, I suggest you run away like hell.... (read in full...)
Are some guys REALLY afraid of commitment?
Q. There is this guy who Im seeing. We're not official yet because he says he will feel pressured in the relationship and he just got out a 3 year serious relationship. I know for sure that I wont sleep with him until I have a commitment but I feel ...
A. 21 November 2008: Men are usually ready for commitment if they can't live without you.... (read in full...)
Is this just friendship or are we dating?
Q. Ok, so I just broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago. I'm going out with this new guy..a male friend of mine who I've kept in touch with for months. He knows a lil about my ex. We're going out to watch a game this weekend..is this...
A. 21 November 2008: One day at a time. Sounds like starting off as friends future unknown. Always best to get to know each other before it goes to another level.
Things started off like this with the man who ended up breaking my heart. I now regret that I didn't k... (read in full...)
How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off?
Q. How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off? I have a very good friend, that is single for at least the last 12 years. He is 50, in excellent shape, very handsome man, takes really goo...
A. 21 November 2008: I don't think there is any solution to this. I'm sure she would love to be hairless more than he wishes.
She might have a hormone imbalance and need to see a doctor for blood work. She actually might have a high level of testosterone for a female... (read in full...)
I bought eye concealer instead of foundation, can I still use it as a foundation?
Q. Hi all, This is a beauty question. I have just spent a fortune on a max factor concealer and went home and put some on my face only to realise it's eye concealer!!! Does it matter if I use it on my face i.e chin, jaw line area as I'm unabl...
A. 21 November 2008: Concealer is very heavy and will look very odd. Why did it cost so much? Max Factor here in the US is really cheap. Do you have department stores in your area that offer to do your make up for free? They do this here in order to sell their products. ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?
Q. Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found th...
A. 21 November 2008: Women hate the idea that they can be so easily replaced. They hate the idea that you had as much pleasure with someone else, something they hoped was something special just between the both of you. If you can enjoy another so quickly, then she feels ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off?
Q. How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off? I have a very good friend, that is single for at least the last 12 years. He is 50, in excellent shape, very handsome man, takes really goo...
A. 21 November 2008: Well, I have to admint, hair on a woman's chest would be a turn off for most men unless they are head over heals in love love love.
But your friend sounds like a guy looking for any reason not to really get involved, fear of intimacy and they rea... (read in full...)
Am I just out of my mind here? Am I just kidding myself?
Q. I am terribly attracted to this woman that I have working for me and have asked her out but she refuses to consider it. I own a very small construction company and she is my only employee. She's worked for me for a little over a year and in this ...
A. 21 November 2008: As a woman who has been in situations where a man was more interested in me and I didn't share the interest, it made me very very very uncomfortable to be around these men.
It doesn't sound like she is burning for desire for you.
--have as... (read in full...)
Does the guy I love love me or my best friend?
Q. I like a guy very much but I don't know whether he likes me or not?? My friends say that he likes me. He always talks with me. If I couldn't understand anything he helps me. He always sees me and he always listens what I talk to my friend.... his ...
A. 21 November 2008: Young boys like all cute girls. I wouldn't call it love if no one has a relationship yet.... (read in full...)
We are doing well but now my husband decided we would move to another city and "make it big". How can I convince him that we should stay where we are now?
Q. I'm 25 and my husband's 26. I've got a 5-year-old son from a previous relationship. I'm in a job which I enjoy, I've only been doing it for 5 weeks now. My husband's in a well-paid job too, which pays him a very good wage. He's been doing it fo...
A. 21 November 2008: I can tell you this because I grew up in Los Angeles and it takes years and years and years to "make it big" in L.A. You need to "know people" the right people in order to get anywhere. I can't tell you how many people I knew who were there for the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always brings up his ex-wife in conversations, I don't know how to react to this?
Q. my boyfriend is recently divorced. I know he loves me and I know he was unhappy and lonely in his marriage which is why he left. I also understand whether a person had been happily married or not, it still becomes habit/rountine to be with that ...
A. 21 November 2008: I had the same problem... everything was referenced to his ex as he hadn't resolved his feelings. You said, recently divorced so he found someone (you) as a buffer and comfort while he goes though this. Not fair to you - I might keep dating and tell ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. I am a girl of 17 and I have a brother in law who is 8 years elder to me, he really likes me and I too like him, is the age difference between us too big. By the time he finishes medicine and settles down as a doctor he would be around 30 and I ...
A. 21 November 2008: this can't be for real... (read in full...)
Are there any good websites for sexy positions that aren't completely trashy?
Q. I was wondering if anyone could suggest a good website that teaches different sex positions. I want to read something sort of informational, and all I keep finding is kind of nasty websites. Thanks for the information!...
A. 21 November 2008: Also the Indian classic - Karma Sutra. Erotic and not trashy at all.... (read in full...)
I can't tell if the guy I am interested in feels the same way.
Q. I just moved to a new city and quickly became friends with someone in my building. We have a lot in common and I find it easy to talk with him. Anyway, after a month of snippets of conversations, he asked for my number so we could hang out s...
A. 21 November 2008: Unless you have a crystal ball that really works, no one knows the future. Just have fun and don't think about the end result. Just enjoy it for what it is. It might develop into something more or it might not. He will let you know if he wants to ... (read in full...)
Am I just out of my mind here? Am I just kidding myself?
Q. I am terribly attracted to this woman that I have working for me and have asked her out but she refuses to consider it. I own a very small construction company and she is my only employee. She's worked for me for a little over a year and in this ...
A. 21 November 2008: You have to know at this point in your life that dating turns to other things and makes things a lot different. You start expecting things from each other.
She probably doesn't want to risk loosing her job!!!!!!!!! Dating would change things c... (read in full...)
I feel disrespected by her.
Q. I have been seeing my bf for about 8 months. We have a strong relationship i think, and stay with each other 5-6 nights a week. My hairdresser and him hooked up a few times before him and i met. She is best friends with his ex girlfriend. They...
A. 21 November 2008: Maybe he is just trying to make you jealous? This does sound like typical bitch behavior on her part if she knows he has a girlfriend. Its a tough call. Some women have a natural way to keep their man in line and draw boundaries so that other women ... (read in full...)
I have a friend that I like but it could never happen. How can I get over him?
Q. I have a friend that I like. But it could never happen. That's a for sure thing :) we tried it, and it just didn't work. But I'm having a really hard time getting over him. What do I do? I find myself wanting to talk to him all the time and thinking ...
A. 21 November 2008: Yeah, try to cool it and just enjoy the friendship. In time you will find another guy to obsess about. Seems us humans have a problem with becoming obsessed with the object of our desire. This is going to happen to you your entire life. Hopefully ... (read in full...)
What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings?
Q. What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings? And, in watching a movie, which would make him more comfortable: watching a movie in a theater or at his house? He's a very shy ...
A. 21 November 2008: Love WHile you Were Sleeping! That is a good suggestion because its light hearted and funny.
Another movie that is quite the opposite and might make you cry -Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - its about loving someone so much who hurt you... (read in full...)
Should I move away and forget her or should I get an apartment here and give her time?
Q. I'm hurting and I don't know what to do. I was married last year to a woman who is difficult. I knew this going in and hoped that she would become a kinder person. I endured physical and emotional abuse from her, but the frequency of the events ap...
A. 21 November 2008: This scenario seems to be everyone's story and I wonder if such a thing even exists that two people love each other mutually and will be happy ever after? LOL They love us, hate us, love someone better. The story of cupids arrow piercing the heart ... (read in full...)
Can a married woman love a man for 51+ years and not see him?
Q. Married in 1956, yep that long ago. Now after that long ago, I found out that my wife called a guy she dated and was intimate with prior to our marriage. First she said she loved this guy and was keeping in contact, after a lot of talking she then ...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh, I didn't notice that he demands to speak to her. That is RUDE and unacceptable.
You might have to tell her if she wants to talk to him so bad to move out of your home this minute and go be with him.
I didn't quite get it reading it the f... (read in full...)
Can a married woman love a man for 51+ years and not see him?
Q. Married in 1956, yep that long ago. Now after that long ago, I found out that my wife called a guy she dated and was intimate with prior to our marriage. First she said she loved this guy and was keeping in contact, after a lot of talking she then ...
A. 21 November 2008: She might be trying to resolve some very old feelings that have been haunting her in a way that she might not have felt she completely moved on?
I doubt she is going to leave you and start up fresh. But it seems everyone has at least one unresolv... (read in full...)
Was I played a fool or is there still hope to fix this?
Q. Hello all, I have some problems that are really wearing on me concerning my ex boyfriend. I'd like some input on what his feelings might be because I'm completely lost. We've been broken up for three months since he cheated on me and broke it off...
A. 21 November 2008: Most boys at 18 are very very immature and are not ready for a real love relationship. Men need many years to grow up. Girls desire love, we are wired with that at birth. By the time you are 25 you will probably have no memory of him at all. Just ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to find the words to end things... he treats me worse than poop!
Q. I don't even know how to start this I'm soo extremely depressed about my life. I'm not sucidal but at times I wish I could drop off the face of the earth... I have two kids 1 and 7... girl and boy... it's gotten to the point that they even irritate ...
A. 21 November 2008: You're right about being a target of abuse - tough call since you have to have contact with them. Someone here will have some good advise no doubt. Best to you!... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 21 November 2008: Patsy - a person who is easily manipulated or victimized : pushover ... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 19 November 2008: Yes, this is cheating. And he is leading you on. Men hardly ever leave their wives so what do you want exactly? You hardly know him, he is a sneak, he won't leave her but he will use you... so how is this going to work out in a positive way?
You a... (read in full...)
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