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anonymous
writes:Hey guys,I have a major problem.. Ever since me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up [about 2 months ago] i havent been myself at all.. I still love him very much but right after we broke up, he got together with this slut. We used to be best friends and now he said he wanted to stop talking to me for a little so his girlfriend wouldnt get mad at him. The last time he talked to me, we had this deep conversation and he told me that at times he still does like me. but what am i supposed to do? I've tried my VERY hardest to get over him, i really have. I've tried to like other people and had a few people interested in me, but none of them worked out, ive felt that i cant be happy with anyone else.. I feel like he's ruining my chance at happiness.. he hurts me, but then comes talking to me. I dont understand.I've been constantly depressed and not myself.. i need some advice on what i can do.. I really do love him.. but im sick of being sad and hurt. what can i do to finally get over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): Every time we leave a relationship, we leave a changed person because we've had a unique experience with another human being that we've (hopefully) learned from. To not "feel like yourself" after a breakup is totally normal! It's one of the discomforts of change, and I think it's important to not date seriously until that discomfort passes and you've grown into and embraced who you've become since your last relationship. A couple of months is not a very long time. Be patient, focus on your goals, and you will feel at ease in no time.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (21 November 2008):
 There is no real magic answer for that Sweetie. I'm much much older than you and I'm in the same boat. Been looking on line for answers and there aren't any. Emotions have a life of their own. If only there was such a thing as a real magic wand.
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