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female
age
30-35,
*mmaxbaby
writes:I've been seeing this guy since September, we've been out for lunch, shopping, cinema, dinner and he takes me out in his car a lot.He used to call me and text me all the time, but now things have changed. One time when he picked me up in his car he had loads of girls addresses saved in his sat nav and he forgot my birthday even though I told him the day before, and the night of my birthay he went out for some other girl's birthday which he claims 'he HAD to go, even though he didn't want to'He's not coming out for my birthday because he said his mate gets back from Paris.What do you all think?
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 He is a teenager and is way too young to commit to anyone. I'm sure he likes you a lot, but life to boys and men is like being in a candy store. You can't get mad at them for not sharing your feelings. Girls want one man and boys want the whole candy store.
He is just young more than a player. Its a game at this stage. Experimentation, experience, discovery.
I feel bad for girls at this age to expect that a boy should act like an adult man.... the problem is, adult men tend to contiune to act like teenage boys.
Have as much fun as you can and try try try not to get too hooked on just one boy. But also, don't be a slut because that will only make you depressed - be the girl that they chase and can never have until they prove they are worthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): YES! He seems to be just what you called him...a player and a womanizer! Just move on and count yourself lucky that you haven't invested more time than you already have on this guy. Do you really need the aggrevation and the disappointment?? Is he really worth all the hurt feelings and pain you are feeling? somewhere out there, there's a guy who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. And you will probably meet him when you least expect it! Show this loser that you have more respect for yourself than he does! Drop him before he drops you completely! You deserve better!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 I think he's not serious about you. He seems to have been interested before, but apparently now that is gone.
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