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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I went out with a boy in my year for about 3 weeks and we didnt kiss, and we only hugged about once!He dumped me yesterday because he didnt think that it was going very well. But now everybody in my year thinks that i am frigid and now none of the boys will go out with me. Some people are really intimidating and can make me feel embarrassed when they keep calling me frigid. The thing is i am not frigid i just never saw my bf alone to be able to kiss/hug him.Please help me be able to get a bf again!
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 If he dumped you for not giving him what he wants, he is using you. Most boys his age are experimenting with girls and they will call you names to pressure you to give them what they want.
You are too young to get mixed up with boys and sex. If you are uncomfortable its because you are young and smart! Tell him if he wants sex, get a hooker because you are waiting for someone special. Calling you names is disrespectful and he is hoping to make you feel bad just to give in. Stay strong! You know you can.
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (22 November 2008):
 The right boy will not be bothered by silly rumors and things people say. You should never do anyhing you don't want to becuase other people are saying you should.
You have plently of time for all the hugs and kisses in the world with the right boy.
You will find each other and it will be wonderful.
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (22 November 2008):
 I think maybe you should just give it some time. If a guy likes you, he won't not ask you out just because you didn't kiss your last boyfriend. It shouldn't matter.
You'll get a boyfriend again don't worry
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