How can you tell if a guy likes you from reading body language?
Q. Hello everyone I've heard that you can tell if a guy likes you from body language... but I don't know the signs.... so if anyone out there could tell me anything about this subject I'd really apppeciate it :) thanks ...
A. 18 November 2008: A lot of boys and men are going to like you during your life. Don't chase them, but smile and say hello. If they really like you they will ask you out. If they are shy, I have found out that if they like you enough, they get over that shyness.
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Does size matter?? I want to be a porn star!
Q. Hey everybody, Im a 16 year old,latino And im measuring at 7 1/4 Umm well I have a lot of questions to ask well I want to know if im "big" enough to be in porn? Also my penis has been growing rapidly I was a 5 1/2 just 6 months ago is this normal?...
A. 18 November 2008: This can't be for real? Why on earth would you want to involve yourself in such a negative world? Were you molested as a child?
TO be as young as you are with that sort of goal is very sad. Better you think of something to do with your life tha... (read in full...)
Please help, I am worried over the porn I looked at.!
Q. I am a 15 year old girl, I have a boyfriend of almost a year and yesterday we got close and when we were kissing and things I told him what I would do with other girls partly to excite him but mostly because at that moment I would have and I wanted ...
A. 18 November 2008: Even if your boyfriend doesn't believe this, no one in real life has sex the way you see it in porn. It is all fake and actually stupid. Girls and women don't ever respond to men and sex the way you see it in porno.
Unfortnately I think a lot of b... (read in full...)
Simple question, but I need help! "How do I get a girlfriend"
Q. how can i get a girlfriend ...
A. 18 November 2008: You might be suffering from peer pressure. I'm just amazed that children so young are already worried about romantic relationships.
You will be better off emotionally if you use your youth in developing true friendships that don't involve sex. You... (read in full...)
How do I seduce him without being embarassed?
Q. my boyfriend stopped in the middle of having sex last nite, complaining that im to quiet in bed, and because he doesnt know if im enjoyin it he doesnt enjoy it! he wants me to be more dominating in bed, but i cant change the way i am! Im just scared ...
A. 18 November 2008: Maybe he has been watching too much porn? Your not even 20 years old! Maybe its a good thing you aren't the expert in bed that he thinks you should be. Maybe its possible that his demands are making you feel more closed up than free to express ... (read in full...)
He broke my trust and we've been working on things but I can't stop snooping.
Q. 8 weeks ago I found out that my husband of 4 years had been visiting a transvestite for bondage (no sex/kissing/touching) sessions. Quite a shock as you can imagine. The last couple of months have been an emotional roller coaster and complete hell ...
A. 17 November 2008: Obsessing is very hard to put aside once you've been shocked. The obsession won't go away, but you will have to force yourself to stop snooping. It is not easy at all. There might not be a way to bring you the comfort you seek and that you are in ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin! Help!
Q. I am in my late 30s and have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger I was painfully shy and suffered extreme anxiety in social situations. I have now overcome a lot of my shyness and have gained a lot of confidence just through life experience, ...
A. 17 November 2008: I've never ever thought to say this but since you have so much anxiety about it and don't have new people to experiment with, is it possible to visit Amsterdam with some friends and have your first time with a working girl?
You could probably... (read in full...)
My friends tell me to run from him but I don't see him in that light at all...
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a little dilemma. I met this guy online and we hit it off from the very first meeting. I told him from the start that I was not looking for anything serious and just wanted someone to have fun and a casual relationship wit...
A. 17 November 2008: I think this is called rebounding. Its easier to get over someone with someone you don't have a real future with.... (read in full...)
She says he won't get to see his child if he ever leaves him.
Q. I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his ...
A. 17 November 2008: Talk to your mother.... (read in full...)
Is this a serious relationship or am I just going to get hurt?
Q. I'm wondering if the relationship is going anywhere with my guy. He has told me he doesnt want a girlfriend in the past but I wonder if things have changed. We have been dating 7 mths now. We are exclusive and everything feels like I'm in a ...
A. 17 November 2008: Just ask him straight out, are we a couple or not? Is this a relationship or not? You said you don't want a girlfriend but you act like I am, so what gives? Try to do this with humor!!
Tell him you need to know because if you aren't his girlfrie... (read in full...)
I have feelings for another man - what do I do?
Q. i am a 30 yr old female. Married with 1 little girl. My husband is a preacher and we married young. He is 2yrs yonger than me and we got married when I found that i was pregnant. Now I have met some one who I feel is the one for me. My husband also ...
A. 17 November 2008: I hate to say this and I have never thought this before, because the children always come first, but a child needs to have happy parents who love each other.
This is not the case with you. Seems like you are in a marriage not based on love and... (read in full...)
I feel resentment towards her for breaking my heart in this way.
Q. I fell in love with a girl around 6 months back. On one of the first few times I met her. We became good friends and I asked her out a few weeks ago, she said no. It was heart-breaking to say the least and I think about what I could have possi...
A. 17 November 2008: She sounds like she is just very out-going and affectionate. She is not responsible for other people's feeling about her and there is no way anyone knows what someone else is really feeling.
She didn't make you love her, you did. Just like all... (read in full...)
What's happening to this world?!
Q. What's happening to this world? Every time I'm here everyone is talking about sex, even 10-11 year olds, what happened to childhood? I didn't even know what sex meant when I was 10, there must be something to do, I can't take seeing some girls ...
A. 17 November 2008: I agree,its very disturbing how young these children are with all the sex. Its not about being open minded, or being judgmental, its a serious problem and these children are obviously very confused, immature, have no parental guidance, and are ... (read in full...)
We've been having an afair for 12 years and now he is gone. What do I do?
Q. well here goes i am new on here. I had in affair for 12 years im married he has a live in girlfriend with the same woman for 12 years. the affair came so stressful i did everything i could to hold on to him. Well he started to make up excuses with ...
A. 17 November 2008: If you think you're getting back at him by telling his wife, all you are doing is hurting someone who has been betrayed by him and would only hurt her, not him.
Maybe she found out? Its really sad to spend so many years with a man who would ne... (read in full...)
Deeper then deep friendship with gay friend
Q. Hi ok quite long story here basically I have an incredible feeling like I’m in love but I’m not sure I am? I know I love my best friend in the normal way who is male, however inside I think we both know it goes much deeper, I have always been frie...
A. 16 November 2008: You will ruin the friendship for sure. Also, he can never be the man you want him to be. He will never give up on men, is that the sort of lover/relationship you want?
You have a crush basically and that will pass in time, especially when you... (read in full...)
She says she feels controlled by me... do you blame me for feeling the way I do?
Q. How to deal with a girlfriend that has feelings of being controlled, but upsets her boyfriend by having what appears to be flirty or inappropriate relationships with previous sexual partners or new male co-workers. Also when asked to refrain from ...
A. 16 November 2008: She sounds like an immature slut.... (read in full...)
Can a Straight guy have interest in kissing/making out with other guys??
Q. Just a little question that im interested in peoples' opinions on - ESPECIALLY MEN. Okay, can a straight guy be interested in kissing/making out with another guy? I personally think that no straight guy can have interest in doing that, but...
A. 16 November 2008: Yeah, I think if you do it once out of curiosity that might be normal. But if you do this one more time, you are headed for the gay life for sure. But, having sex with the same sex is gay, or bi. But no way straight.... (read in full...)
What do I do and how do stop behaving like some clinging, needy female.
Q. Please help. I have met a man I have fallen for in a big way. It started as an affair, yes he's married. I don't think I'm a fling, my gut feeling tells me that. He tells me he is deeply unhappy, they don't sleep together, she has no interest in him ...
A. 16 November 2008: Obsession is very hard to deal with. But you need to get a grip. You MUST tell him that unless he actually plans to leave his wife you can no longer be involved with a married man.
This is just as much your fault as his since you chose to get invo... (read in full...)
Help - my older step brother wants to have sex with me!!!
Q. Hey, I'm 15, umm last night I was looking after my little brother and my younger sister who were both upstairs sleeping. I came downstairs to wait until my dad and step mum got home and my older brother (17) was watching tv so I decided to watch it ...
A. 16 November 2008: You MUST tell your father about this. It is his duty to protect you. This boy has problems and he needs to be put in his place. Hopefully this will not cause problems in his marriage, but YOUR FATHERS FIRST OBLIGATION is to YOU!
This boy needs to... (read in full...)
How can I make this girl, who turned my friends against me jealous, in a positive way? I
Q. this girl i know made all my friends agaisnt me. well she was my bestfriend. we got into a fight and now she went to everyone one of my friends and told them things that she said about them bu insteas acused it all on me. i know im innocent but what ...
A. 16 November 2008: I'm much much older than you and I've had this happen recently as well. I was dating a man across the street and 2 people in my building decided to turn him against me. These people are in their 40s!
Its never easy. Its very nasty when people d... (read in full...)
Any males out there, who can tell me what this man is about?
Q. I met this guy in the beginning of September and we exchanged numbers. We kind of texted each other a little back and forth throughout the month. He mentioned to me that he wasn't looking for a relationship. In October I went over to his house ...
A. 16 November 2008: As a female who has been though this I can tell you, this is friends with benefits and it will never change. You will think he might come around, but they hardly ever do.
You made the fatal mistake of sleeping with him and gave your power away. Me... (read in full...)
Is he really struggling to let go of me?
Q. Heya My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me on Sunday. He's 23 going on 24 and I'm 16 years of age. Anyways, he broke up with me because he had got back with his ex girlfriend. He was with her for 2 and a half years. But then a few months ...
A. 16 November 2008: Tell him its really too bad but he can't have everything he wants. He has someone else and he is a father, so he better grow up fast and take care of his family. You are too good for him!... (read in full...)
How to break the attraction with my boss friend at work cautiously?
Q. (Is he trying to turn my head or is he serious? and Is it possible to love someone when you are married? Is the background and past posts to this post. Thanks for answering! I saw him yesterday and immediately he wanted one of our 'hugs', ...
A. 16 November 2008: I would be very matter of fact about this. Tell him he is married for one thing, that you respect other women and refuse to be toyed with. That his behavior is not professional at all. That your job is very important and he needs to respect you and ... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: Confidence is always attractive to a woman. Some girls are attracted to shy boys with a lot of problems because they want to help them. But confidence and helathy self esteem, is always attractive.
Male or female, no matter how attractive you are,... (read in full...)
Could I have caught something?
Q. Hi I asked a similiar question last week but am still confused. I had anal sex a few weeks ago and the morning after I had normal sex with my guy, both times we didn't use a condom. Could I have caught something still despite ass to pussy sex being ...
A. 16 November 2008: Bacterial infections are very possible if he didn't wash. Always use protection and you never have to worry about that. And change condoms too after anal.... (read in full...)
Should I forget my first love who gave me drugs, and go the the perfect guy for me?
Q. ok so we have a friend of the family and since forever iv always had a crush on him when we meet up id get all exited and not sleep the night before. the problem was he live miles away and so i only ever saw him 2-3 times a year witch was a prob...
A. 16 November 2008: NEVER involve yourself with a man who uses drugs. Nothing ever good comes out of it. They lie, cheat, steal and treat women badly. Perhaps you are afraid of a healthy relationship?... (read in full...)
He broke up with me for this other girl but we have met twice for sex and I can't forget him!
Q. Im having real big trouble getting over my ex, we are still friends and talk everyday, we've even met up to have sex twice(I KNOW ITS WRONG)he then goes and says to me that you have to move on, the think is hes always the one who rings me first ...
A. 16 November 2008: Cut him out of your life and let him realize that he lost a good thing. Men get too used to keeping women waiting around for them. If he can't decide, you decide for him.
Just tell him you aren't interested in a man who treats you this way. The... (read in full...)
My best friend and my girlfriend are getting to close to each other..
Q. My english is bad but i hope you can understand the thing..i have the same problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they dont have nothing right now but theyt are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts ...
A. 16 November 2008: If they were both your friends they would not be acting in hurtful ways toward you. Is she trying to make you jealous? Is he in competition with you?
That sort of behavior is common all around the world as you see by a lot of the posts here. Tr... (read in full...)
Ashamed of my appearance
Q. Please help - due to a irrational fear of dentist when I was younger, I did not get the neccessary dential work I needed to correct the over crowding with my teeth which has resulted in vampire looking teeth. I am now ready to correct the problem ...
A. 16 November 2008: Ummm.. are you saying that the teeth on the side overlap a little? Actually, I have always wished my teeth had done that! LOL I like that look a lot. David Bowie has this as do a lot of famous people in music and acting. Cher's teeth used to do that ... (read in full...)
Dealing with the aftermath of liars!
Q. Hi, I am feeling pretty raw right now, so my question may be a bit jumbled. I am 36 my now ex partner is 33, tonight I found her cheating with a so called friend (44) - I was desperately in love with the girl, Felt more for her then I did for t...
A. 16 November 2008: Think it over for a few days. Not sure what you are wanting to know. If you are wondering to drop both people, YES! Neither of those people are our friends. Cut ties with both and out your energy into you child. To expose your son to all that drama ... (read in full...)
Why won't they let me just live my own life?
Q. I'm 20 and a Muslim and come from a traditional family. I don't talk to my dad even though we live in the same house and don't have a good relationship with my mum. In our culture, the family name comes first so you shouldn't do anything that brings ...
A. 16 November 2008: I guess it depends on what country you live in where help is available. I've heard much about girls in your situation. New ways vs old ways. There is nothing as strict as the Muslim religion and girls are basically nothing and honor is everything. ... (read in full...)
Confused and wondering what is next!
Q. I am a 31 year old guy who has been in a steady relationship for 3 years with a woman who has a young daughter. I have grown close to her and especially the daughter.. The father is not involved in her life at all and never has been so she sees me ...
A. 16 November 2008: She sounds like a spoiled brat.Too much drama. She wants you to take care of her and her cousins? That's what it sound like. Is she from another country? Sounds like a desperate woman who needs a really nice but gullible and naive man to take care ... (read in full...)
Abuse caused our separation, not interested in a reconcilation, how do I tell him strongly?
Q. My husband of 2 years and I seperated in September. He is now begging me to reconcile with him, says he's been going to counseling and feels he is a better person. I really feel I have no interest in being with him again. He was very abusive ...
A. 15 November 2008: The abuse will continue. They are addicted to it. If you have got over him and don't even fancy him much anymore, why on earth try it again?
Have you told him you moved on and are no longer interested? Military men can be very abusive, controll... (read in full...)
Should I express myself to my teacher, I want to know if he likes me, as I think he does?
Q. I'm 16, and i have a crush on my teacher. But it feels like so much more than that. It started last april, when we went on a school trip. We were all in one area in the hotel, and he was sitting down. I was standing not too far from him and i just ...
A. 15 November 2008: Its normal to have a crush on a teacher. They are surrounded b young innocent girls every day - year after year. Its natural for them to find the young girls attractive. He sounds like a decent man for ignoring you. It is illegal and improper for a ... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: I know my take on things is not the popular though these days but I don't think you are born that way. I also think that people are still young and trying to find identity. I think its normal to have a crush on someone your same sex, but its also ... (read in full...)
I'm sick and I need help!
Q. okay, I REALLY need an answer, so here lately for the past week and a half or so I've been really sick, nauseas, shaking, feeling sick sometimes when the car starts moving, etc, what could this be? I had a fever last night but I think its gone now. ...
A. 15 November 2008: why are you asking strangers when you should be asking a doctor? See a doctor! Could be serious.... (read in full...)
How will my reputation be at school if I were to sleep with him?
Q. Dear cupid; I'm a 14 year old girl who is being sought by a 17 year old senior at my high shcool. He is unsure whether I like him or not, I think becuause his friends are feeding him the wrong info, so I don't know how to make him know I really l...
A. 15 November 2008: Young boys are very horny and are going to have sex with as many girls as they can. If you read many of the questions here, none of these young girls are getting the love they are looking for.
A lot of pregnancy's with girls your age. I can tell... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me if he feels the same way I do?
Q. Hi. I am in my mid-20s and I think I'm falling for my old college professor (I'm guessing he's around 50). I had him for several classes. We have kept in touch quite a bit since I've graduated. We saw each other a lot last summer since I was helping ...
A. 15 November 2008: He obviously likes you and is attracted to you but men at his age will only mess with your head should he seduce you. He is probably married or has a relationship. Old men LOVE young girls. He sounds like a lot of trouble down the line.
Its v... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think that I'm too " available" for him
Q. I have a crush on a guy in my class. He told me he has a girlfriend already and said I should find someone better than him. I want to forget him,but I just can't get him out of my head. Nevertheless, I don't wanna forget him, keep hoping one day ...
A. 15 November 2008: He sounds like a control freak if he has a girlfriend, tells you to find someone better and asks you to help him? Big ego and he's playing games.
It is not your responsibility if he gets good grades or not and its a shame you care for a guy who ... (read in full...)
What can I get her as a gift to show her I care?
Q. Christmas is coming, and there is this gal whom I really love. I have fallen for her. I hope there will be something between us soon. So I need to know what can I give her as a gift that will show I care and I look forward to something and she is ...
A. 15 November 2008: You sound like a very sweet and special fellow!
I think most girls might like a handmade card that says she is the best thing that ever happened to you.
What does she like? Don't spend a lot of money on some object that ends up in a box in t... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi R. I'm a straight female but I think being uncomfortable about it could perhaps indicate that you were molested as a child and might want to deal with all the shame and feelings of mistrust and betrayal that most often is the history of gay men ... (read in full...)
Is he really struggling to let go of me?
Q. Heya My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me on Sunday. He's 23 going on 24 and I'm 16 years of age. Anyways, he broke up with me because he had got back with his ex girlfriend. He was with her for 2 and a half years. But then a few months ...
A. 13 November 2008: He is only 24 and that is very young to be a father these days. He isn't trying to hurt your feelings. He is a man with an ego and doesn't want to fact the responsibility of being a father at such a young age.
You need to leave him alone! There is... (read in full...)
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