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writes:I have a friend that I like. But it could never happen. That's a for sure thing :) we tried it, and it just didn't work. But I'm having a really hard time getting over him. What do I do? I find myself wanting to talk to him all the time and thinking of him constantly, it's annoying! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): I guess i really should be cool with the whole "friends" thing :) he could be a really really good friend. I never thought about it like that. Getting over him will be hard, but it will be worth it. Thank you!
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reader, Teacake +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Yeah, try to cool it and just enjoy the friendship. In time you will find another guy to obsess about. Seems us humans have a problem with becoming obsessed with the object of our desire. This is going to happen to you your entire life. Hopefully when you're older you'll meet a man who is as passionate for you as you are for him.
All I can say is you need to accept this as a part of life and realize its going to happen a lot. By the time you're 30 you won't even remember who most of these guys are! LOL
I've found old journals of mine about how crazy I was for someone and for the life of me I couldn't recall who the heck I was so infatuated with!
You'll have a lot of crushes. Have fun with that and just realize that not everyone you are smitten with is someone you should be with. REAL love only happens a couple of times in our lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): You like him, I'm guessing he likes you? What exactly can be preventing this relationship. Why cant you two just be friends? That is a sure way to find out whether you are right for each other. Hang out, do some things together, just because hes not your boyfriend, doesn't mean you can't see him or talk to him!
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