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My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?

Q.   My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...

A.   11 November 2008: Sounds like your mother is just as abusive. I feel very badly for you! The sooner you can cut ties with those cold hearted people the better and so everything you can to become independent. Don't let them know what you are doing. Ignore all of them ... (read in full...)

How could I make her love me?

Q.   How could you make someone you love fall in love with you?Ive been dating this girl but had to be separated from her due to business.I've stayed in touch with her through phone.And i knew that i love her in the two months we stayed apart.Now i'll be ...

A.   11 November 2008: It always helps if you make her feel like she is the hottest most beautiful woman in the world. Don't be shy sexually either. Make love to her with as much passion as you feel. Women love being desired. Shy men will never win the girl. If she is ... (read in full...)

I feel he takes advantage. What can I do as I'm so fed up right now ?

Q.   Hello, my problem isnt huge, but i feel like from your profile you can help me with my situation. I am so fed up at the moment and sometimes tearful. Im 29 and live with my boyfriend, and he does absolutley nothing to help me around the house apart ...

A.   11 November 2008: Could you both chip in and hire someone to clean once a week? In the old days.... 50s & 60s - people had hired help and chores were not as big a problem. You could also have laundry done for you somewhere? I guess men are the same all over the... (read in full...)

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

Q.   I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him ...

A.   11 November 2008: Why was your husband being cold and distant in the first place? Women need hot sex just as much as a man does. If your husband has been more of a friend then it makes sense why you would be so carried away. If the sex with your husband was just... (read in full...)

I think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. Should I talk to him about it or simply just move away.

Q.   hi, have been seeing this guy for 2 months but never been to his place. yesterday he took me to a lodge. i think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. should i talk to him about it or simply just move away. he doesnt answer my...

A.   11 November 2008: Drop him now before you get too attached. Married or not, he is not acting like a man who is interested in a relationship. I would just say point blank, if he isn't married something is wrong and don't get into an argument. Stay focused on what is ... (read in full...)

Fiance distant while I am in Iraq

Q.   Ok here's my deal. I am in Iraq and I have been with my Fiance for almost 2 years I try my hardest to call IM and email I even text and send her flowers once a month to let her know she is still on my mind and in my heart. the problem is she ...

A.   11 November 2008: She obviously is a bit self-centered if she doesn't understand that you are serving your country at the moment and that her silly feelings are inappropriate. I would not at all put any effort into being considerate to a girl who is as selfish ... (read in full...)

Depressed since he dumped me! Help!

Q.   I had my first real boyfriend for a long time and then i cheated on him with his friend and i dont know why really. But then he broke up with me and he is going out with this slut and i just want to him to be with me again and ever since we broke up...

A.   11 November 2008: Live and learn! You messed up big time. Cheating is bad enough and with his friend? Hopefully you learned a lesson. You'll get over this. Leave him alone for now. If he did that to you, you wouldn't forgive him. Just send him a note saying h... (read in full...)

If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?

Q.   im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?...

A.   11 November 2008: masturbate is really the best solution. If you get into a habit of prostitutes you will have a hard time later in life finding a love relationship. Women will find you disgusting and not want to have anything to do with you. Think about the ... (read in full...)

Help! What should I do about my sister?

Q.   My sister (who's 5) was being abuse my dad (now in jail) (my mom died 2 years ago). When I was growing up my dad (or mom) never laid a hand on me not sure what chance when I move out. I really had no choice but to her take in. Ever since my sister ...

A.   11 November 2008: Poor girl. You are a wonderful brother to be so concerned. Let her know that what happened to her is not her fault. Absolutely find a therapist who knows about this. Check at different websites to find the right help. There are a ton of sites if you ... (read in full...)

Love and Torture

Q.   Ok. I have a problem. I am SOO madly and deeply in love with two people. One is an old teacher of mine who moved to NC but I still keep in contact with him and the other is this boy a year younger then me. I wanna tell the younger boy that I like ...

A.   11 November 2008: Your feelings for the teacher will pass eventually! I remember as a kid always being in love with a teacher or some older man though out my life. That is a part of being human. I can promise you that when you are an adult you won't even remember ... (read in full...)

I found out my boyfriend send a video of him jerking off to his ex!

Q.   So last week my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and he had his laptop. He signed into his email and plainly let me see his password. To tonight I decide to be nosey and just look in his email. I'm really paranoid about the things his ex ...

A.   11 November 2008: If she isn't out of the picture you will have many heartaches to look forward to. I know from experience that men don't like to let go of previous women as well as collect new women. If you leave him now and don't even tell him about the email, y... (read in full...)

Is it possible to be friends with a teacher without it looking suspicious?

Q.   Hi. I have a bit of a situation. My chemistry teacher this year is awesome. Probably one of the coolest guys ever. While he is incredibly gorgeous, I don't want to date him ever. He's really become like an older brother to me this year. We're always ...

A.   11 November 2008: It is highly inappropriate and unprofessional for a teacher to have friendships with students unless it is in college. This guy sounds like he is a bit of a control freak. He knows that is wrong to behave this way with a student and no doubt he does ... (read in full...)

Will this girl I'm dating make my depression worse?

Q.   I've started a relationship with a girl that has major depression problems. She started different but every time I see her now she just cries and says how she wants to kill herself. She takes medication and sees a psychiatrist. I don't want to end ...

A.   11 November 2008: Don't blame yourself for anything. You sound like a caring compassionate fellow. Depression is a horrible thing to go though. She probably thinks you don't like her much either since depression makes you feel so ugly and hopeless. Depression is... (read in full...)

Am I being cheeky asking him to sacrifice this?

Q.   Hey There, can someone help me. My partner and I welcomed a baby boy last week. I am 2 stone overweight since the pregnancy.... His Mam called down this evening with a pressie for him, a floatation, which is basically a relaxation therapy thing ...

A.   11 November 2008: Does his mother know about the naked women? That's a very mean-spirited thing to do if she is aware of that. He is being highly insensitive and selfish if he goes! He is a married man with a child and has no business hanging around naked women. Y... (read in full...)

Do I have to choose between my family and the love of my life...

Q.   I've been apart from my ex 3 months now, he's tried so hard to make it up 2 me and I'm very very confused, he stole from me which I still can't get my head round but I love this guy to pieces, I wanted to marry this guy and start a family. I was so ...

A.   11 November 2008: Sounds complicated. If he has admitted that he stole and is making amends and dealing with his issues, I don't see why you shouldn't give him another chance. Things will be a bit uncomfortable for a while but if you both love each other, time hea... (read in full...)

Get together with this older woman and risk breaking my ex girlfriend's heart?

Q.   I went away in May with my girlfriend and her Dad. I'm 18 and so is my girlfriend. Her Dad invited a 42 year old friend and her son and she brought along a 31 year old friend and her two kids. The friend with two kids is very attractive and talked ...

A.   10 November 2008: A 31 year old woman who seduces an 18 year old boy has serious problems. She is a pedophile and predictor. I'm sure you are a cool guy, good looking and all of that, but she knows a lot more about life and what she is doing is messing with your ... (read in full...)

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