Is he really struggling to let go of me?
Q. Heya My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me on Sunday. He's 23 going on 24 and I'm 16 years of age. Anyways, he broke up with me because he had got back with his ex girlfriend. He was with her for 2 and a half years. But then a few months ...
A. 16 November 2008: Tell him its really too bad but he can't have everything he wants. He has someone else and he is a father, so he better grow up fast and take care of his family. You are too good for him!... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: I know my take on things is not the popular though these days but I don't think you are born that way. I also think that people are still young and trying to find identity. I think its normal to have a crush on someone your same sex, but its also ... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi R. I'm a straight female but I think being uncomfortable about it could perhaps indicate that you were molested as a child and might want to deal with all the shame and feelings of mistrust and betrayal that most often is the history of gay men ... (read in full...)
Lately I feel like I am just watching my life through a glass wall.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 (18 tomorrow) I am usually outgoing and optimistic but lately I feel like I am just watching my life through a glass wall. I've had this feeling before a few times since I was about 15 and it leaves me drained. I'll have maybe an hour ...
A. 14 November 2008: I think I know what you are describing even though no two people feel these strange emotions the same.
Could you feel like you don't really fit in and don't have deep connections with others? Alienated sort of? YOu could just be a very sensitiv... (read in full...)
Every time he is near I just want to grab him, hug him and kiss him.
Q. FORBIDDEN LOVE! Ok. Away back last year I liked this boy. He is only 3 months older than me but is in the year above me at school. As soon as I started talking to him I fell in love. He was the first guy I really felt this way about. He is jus...
A. 14 November 2008: Why would you want to be with a boy who you already know is a user? Chances are this guy is going to break your heart. Young boys don't stick around too long anyhow.
Best to be friends and play very very hard to get. Boys / men always want the... (read in full...)
Is she acting too needy or just lacking in social sophistication?
Q. Should I stay or should I go? I've been dating this gal for only a week. A little background, we are both mature adults 40+. She is nice, attractive, and seems to have a good career. The problem here; is she acting too needy or just lacking in...
A. 14 November 2008: A friend of mine met a man who acted in this way, but she decided to give it a go and see what happened. In her case she was ready for a relationship and he calmed down once he knew they were a couple.
But the difference was they had mutual c... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.
Q. I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my bes...
A. 14 November 2008: You didn't ask him to leave her? I'm sorry to be so blunt but women have no business hooking up with men who are with someone else. You just enable men to think its okay to cheat.
Women need to walk away from men who are betraying their partner ... (read in full...)
I hung out with her a few times, but now I'm seeing her friend. Should I bring up my concerns?
Q. Alright, let me start with a little back story here. I met a girl (A) through a few friends of mine, we hung out a few times, I never really felt "it" with her, so we just became friends. A few weeks back, a friend of hers (B) from home came t...
A. 14 November 2008: Triangles are nasty things and never turn out well for anyone. You and B were wrong and there is no way out of that. This is so common and yet everyone who starts the triangle acts as if they have never heard of such a thing or the trouble it ... (read in full...)
Should I write him a note to ask if he's okay?
Q. Two months ago while doing my daily walking exercise I saw a man standing in a corner with his dog and he smiled and said hello, I said hello and we and my daughter continued walking and on our second round we bumped into him and the dog barked at ...
A. 14 November 2008: Men hate notes. Women love writing notes. Men have told me they rather talk face to face than have a note.
When you see him next just offer your phone number and tell him to call if he might want to go out sometime. Doing that helps give you conf... (read in full...)
I need guys, men and life-experienced women to help me!
Q. I have prob. My mums best friends son is unpredictable. He stares at me in his rearview mirror and then looks away.Took few pix of me secretly. He and I confessed of our feelings in the past but funny that evening I was told in confidnece by my mu...
A. 14 November 2008: He probably does fancy you but if he has a girlfriend do you really want to send the message that its okay to have girls behind her back?
Women and girls are sort of at fault for why men and boys are pigs. Females don't respect relation... (read in full...)
My much older girlfriend is pregnant and moving away. should I marry her?
Q. My brain says its wrong but my heart says its right: I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 43. I have only had one girlfriend before her and this relationship is way better. We have been going out 15 months. The last month she was offered a new job ...
A. 13 November 2008: What would you think if your mother was in love with one of your friends, got pregnant and your friend wanted to marry her and she thought that was a really good idea?
Would you be comfortable having an 18 year old raising your brother or sister a... (read in full...)
Should I fight it and try to win him over?
Q. Hi agony aunts/uncles! I am in love with a wonderful boy! He has captured my heart, but it turns out that he is with someone else! Should I fight it and try to win him over? Or just accept the fact that I am lonely, unlovable and having no chance...
A. 13 November 2008: You are too young to make such absolute statements. You wouldn't want a girl to take your boyfriend from you just because she loves him? He is with someone and that is hard to accept.
You are just starting out in life. You just can't be with him... (read in full...)
Now that she is dating my friend we hardly speak.
Q. Its wierd right. I have this friend that i was really close to and had great laughs with. But then she started to date one of my friends and now we barely speak. I havent done anything wrong. What has happened?...
A. 13 November 2008: She probably feels uncomfortable because she knows she hurt your feelings. You will find another girl and when you do you won't even understand what you liked about her. Kids are as fickle as adults. People come and go. People can be rude and ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him even though he has a child?
Q. I recently just found out that my fiance has a 2 year old daughter. Me and him used to date back in 2004 and I have known him since I was 14. After hurricane Katrina we broke up because we relocated to two different states. Last October he moved to ...
A. 13 November 2008: Hi there! I'm still here in New Orleans. Drama drama drama! Sounds like the best thing is to find a boyfriend who doesn't have children because they are forever and will always be a problem for you. The other girl will always be in the picture and ... (read in full...)
How can I consider marrying him with this set up he has in place?
Q. I've been with my divorced boyfriend nearly two years. He has two kids fom a marriage who live with their mother. I had nothing to do with his divorce. I accepted he had kids and that he seen them and paid for them. However two years later it's ...
A. 13 November 2008: THen your feelings are correct! He is taking advantage of your generosity and love for him.
Cut off ties and don't explain anything. He needs to learn to treat women decently and not use them for his convenience. If you feel sad and duped this ear... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a blowjob! Help!!!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob and I'm more then happy to but I have no clue what I'm suppose to do... tips/help please and do guys like to finish on their girls? or in privacy...
A. 13 November 2008: Funny you wonder about this because I recently got an ebook about all the ways to do that. If you are interested in that and don't mind sending 5 dollars with paypal, I can send it to you. There are no pictures, just a lot of written techniques. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals, what is happening here?
Q. Hello my name is Ana and I would like some views about this, I posted this a couple of days ago and I would like to have some other views. My boyfriend of 9 months is a very very good man, I feel that with him everything is always so perfect, he ...
A. 13 November 2008: Relationships and romance are usually more important to women and usually men are too logical, rational and don't understand why women get upset all the time.
Just relax and don't tell him about everything that upsets you and you will see that... (read in full...)
How can I consider marrying him with this set up he has in place?
Q. I've been with my divorced boyfriend nearly two years. He has two kids fom a marriage who live with their mother. I had nothing to do with his divorce. I accepted he had kids and that he seen them and paid for them. However two years later it's ...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello! I am single so this is my opinion.... he really doesn't have time for a relationship with all that responsibility and pressure.
I'm sure he cares for you a great deal and wishes he didn't have all the troubles. Its always best to date men... (read in full...)
My much older girlfriend is pregnant and moving away. should I marry her?
Q. My brain says its wrong but my heart says its right: I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 43. I have only had one girlfriend before her and this relationship is way better. We have been going out 15 months. The last month she was offered a new job ...
A. 13 November 2008: What she has done is very wrong to you and to the baby. She is the one in control and will have 2 children to look after. Do you have a job that can support the child?
THe baby needs an adult male to raise him/her. I'm sure you are a very lov... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want a baby at such a young age?
Q. is it bad to want a baby at such a young age? i feel myself really wanting to be a mum and i don't know why. i had a pregnancy scare a while ago and i was actually happy about it. me and my boyfriend are very happy together and i just reli want a ...
A. 13 November 2008: The question I have for you is to look at your friends - then look at their parents - who would you rather have take care of you if you had the choice to make before you were born?
... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 13 November 2008: If you have not had sex you are STILL A VIRGIN! Girls that use tampons are still virgins if they have never had sex.
The doctor did nothing wrong other than being insensitive. YOU ARE STILL A VIRGIN, don't worry! Okay? ... (read in full...)
I met a man online, he says that he loves me but at times he just switches off.
Q. I met this man via chatting..He is a scorpio by the way. After some days he proposed his love for me stating that he meant it by his heart n soul n is just waiting for my reply. We exchanged numbers n got to know each other well n after some days I ...
A. 13 November 2008: Never trust a scorpio! LOL I know from experience. They are in love with every woman they meet!!!! Love is impossible when you don't know someone, its all about fantasy and has nothing to do with real life.
Stay off meeting men on line. Everyone... (read in full...)
How does one go about getting an abortion?
Q. hia. im 15 and im pregnant. im so terrified. i dont want to keep the baby and want an abortion. can i go throught with an abortion with out my parents finding out?...
A. 13 November 2008: You really need to tell your parents because you have no idea the hell you will feel after the abortion. I was in the same situation when I was 18. It is the most lonely thing a girl can ever go though especially by herself.
You will also not feel... (read in full...)
Why do guys and girls never understand each other?
Q. Why do guys and girls never understand each other? I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help......
A. 13 November 2008: The age old question that has both sexes baffled!
LOL If you are interested I have about 5 ebooks I could send to you for a small fee on that very topic. You can check out the ebook yourself if you search - catch him and keep him - I have a few... (read in full...)
He says I'm overreacting to his drug use...
Q. hi, i seem to be at a dead end with my new relationship and suppose i need feedback and a little advice on what exactly i should do. ive been in a relationship for 5 months now and he is great he is very affectionate, wonderful lover, interact...
A. 13 November 2008: Run as fast as you can! You are old enough to know what drugs do to people and relationships. He will drag you into a lot of negativity. Have you ever heard of anyone's life improving because they use drugs?
Don't see him at all. Just tell him... (read in full...)
A Christmas present for my boyfriend that doesn't cost anything...
Q. ok. so my boyfriend told me he already knew what he was getting me for christmas. So i told him that i wanted to get him something for him too, and then he said that he didnt want anything. So i told him i was gonna get him something anyway, and he ...
A. 13 November 2008: The music is a good idea. What about making some cupcakes and decorating them? Simple and personal is always best.... (read in full...)
How can I stop laughing so much I wet myself?
Q. hello everyone.... This is a kind of embarrassing questions but here I go. I love to laugh and I have really funny friends... well If I laugh too much I tend to wet myself... is there anything that can be done about this ??? thanks ...
A. 13 November 2008: I'd ask a gynecologist just to make sure you don't have weak muscles or something like that. Birdy is right though, use the liners. Do you drink a lot of soda? If so, cut down on that.... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling these doubts or suspicions about my wife?
Q. Maybe, I am crazy. Recently, my wife's cousin came over to visit from Florida. He stayed with us for 4 days and I felt something that I never felt before, like nervousness. My wife noticed it and she asked "Are you jealous of my cousin?" I replied ...
A. 13 November 2008: Sometimes cousins are closer than siblings as far as things in common and being comfortable together.
I really doubt your wife or he, have romantic feelings! LOl Not to make fun of it since you seem upset, but if they seem close like brother ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 13 November 2008: YOU SAID - becuase his figers were onside of my stomach.i felt it!
That is standard procedure for an exam. That is how they check your ovaries!... (read in full...)
How can he say I'm his girlfriend then turn around and say he's single?
Q. I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. ...
A. 13 November 2008: I agree, find out if they are from before he met you. If he is still looking around then run run run away from him. I made the same mistake and have not been able to let go of a man that went on as friends with benefits for almost 5 years! I may ... (read in full...)
Is he really struggling to let go of me?
Q. Heya My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me on Sunday. He's 23 going on 24 and I'm 16 years of age. Anyways, he broke up with me because he had got back with his ex girlfriend. He was with her for 2 and a half years. But then a few months ...
A. 13 November 2008: He is only 24 and that is very young to be a father these days. He isn't trying to hurt your feelings. He is a man with an ego and doesn't want to fact the responsibility of being a father at such a young age.
You need to leave him alone! There is... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 12 November 2008: He was a little insensitive but that's about it. They use their fingers to check for internal growths. That is part of the procedure. Next time go to a female doctor if it makes you more comfortable. She will do the same thing, but no doubt be more ... (read in full...)
He went to a prostitute and didn't get an erection???
Q. My friend went to a prostitute for the first time at the age of 19 but he did not feel any thing during the foreplay and also did not get an erection, could you please tell why? and is this an indication of physical problems in future?...
A. 12 November 2008: Perhaps your friend is sensitive and needs an emotional connection with a woman. I think that is a very good indication that he is not interested in sex just for sex.
It is a good idea to forget about prostitutes ever again as that can lead to ... (read in full...)
I am just over 13 weeks pregnant and can't seem to come to terms with the prospect of being a single mum.
Q. I am just over 13 weeks pregnant and can't seem to come to terms with the prospect of being a single mum, but at the same time have already developed a bond with my baby and know that I couldn't bring myself to have it aborted. The father is ...
A. 12 November 2008: Are his parents interested in helping you? The child will be their grandchild and perhaps they might want an active role in what is now a family matter.
He is obviously too young to be a father even if biology made things otherwise. Hopefull... (read in full...)
Seeing recent ex with a new man and I felt my chest had exploded!
Q. Thanks to anyone who reads this, cos I kinda just freaked out! I saw my ex with her a new boyfriend that I didn't know about. It caught me completely off guard and I felt like my chest exploded. She definitely saw me and we've been broken up f...
A. 12 November 2008: This is a normal reaction. Every human goes though the same thing. This doesn't make it any easier for you of course, but I can assure you that you are young enough that in a few years from now you might not even remember her. You aren't interested ... (read in full...)
Are there any laws that state about age gap dating?
Q. Are there any laws that state about age gap dating? person A is 16 person B is 37 can you help?...
A. 12 November 2008: Obviously by your question you know that its wrong for an adult to have interest in a child.
"Dating" would suggest that you might be interested in a relationship that leads to caring. When an adult sets their sights on a child, that is being a ... (read in full...)
I had sex with her, she is due to give birth soon, don't know if it is my child, what to do?
Q. o, i slept with my brothers girlfriends sister and she is due to have her baby next month, however has not mentioned it could be mine as she now has a boyfriend who has admitted he doesnt think it is his? Do I approach her? What do i say?...
A. 12 November 2008: DNA test... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking of this older man.
Q. Hi there I am 19 years old and I am in love with a man that is 40 years older than me, he is married and has children. I don't know what to do, I have a boyfriend that I also love, I want to be with them both, but I know I can't. I can't stop ...
A. 12 November 2008: Older men, married men love their ego boosted by a pretty, innocent young girl. He is going to hurt you and his entire family in the end.
Just realize if he is leading you on, flirting in ways that you think there is a chance.... he is manipula... (read in full...)
I have 5 kids and I am cheating on my husband
Q. need help...now iam still in a different mood that i have slept with another man and iam married with 5 children.the problem that iam still worrying if my husband find out and i dont want my family to split...what iam goinh to do ...
A. 12 November 2008: If your family comes first you need to end it NOW or else you will have never ending pain for the rest of your life as it will cause total chaos for all in the family.
Try what you can to get more passion your love life with your husband. I doubt ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me?
Q. How can you find out, why your husband don't want sex with you? Is there a good question to ask? And what can you do , if you don't find it out? How to read his mind? And ,what if you can't find it out... How long can you wait an answer, or solut...
A. 12 November 2008: Since he is your husband you could tell him how much you love him and crave his body in your softest voice, while holding his hand and looking into his eyes. Then kiss his mouth just a little to see how he reacts.
You might want to be a little m... (read in full...)
I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!
Q. ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...
A. 11 November 2008: NO! It would not be good for her at all! Don't try to rationalize what is arousing for you would do her any good at all. She is a child. You already know that is considered molestation. You said you know its WRONG. Yes it is.
Any sexual advance ... (read in full...)
Should I say no when he proposes and just wait for another man to enter my life?
Q. Hey, I have two friends who are both inerested in having a relationship with me, I genuinely love one of them the mere fact that we share very many things in common, he is reserved, composed and above all a phlegmatic which I am as well and when nex...
A. 11 November 2008: Just stay friends with them both and have a good laugh. They are both immature and it sounds like no one in this situation is ready for marriage!
Why do you have to make this decision so soon? They both sound like boys not men. Way too young fo... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?
Q. My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...
A. 11 November 2008: Sounds like your mother is just as abusive. I feel very badly for you! The sooner you can cut ties with those cold hearted people the better and so everything you can to become independent. Don't let them know what you are doing. Ignore all of them ... (read in full...)
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