I want to get my mate's mum naked!
Q. most will think this is fake but thats your opinion. anyways i was at my friends house and i slept over. the next morning we had a soccer practise so when we got back he went to have a shower first. while he was upstairs i was downstairs playin ...
A. 2 December 2008: Sounds like a lot of trouble. Get some girly magazines.... (read in full...)
How do I start a new life?
Q. How do i start a new life. Iam 24 years old i still live with my parents, I dont have a job, And i have never had a boyfriend. I'am not ugly but I'am not a super model either. I went to a community college I'am massage therapist but i havent ...
A. 2 December 2008: Not to worry! These are normal fears after leaving the security of school life. You will make many friends throughout your life.
You have a perfect skill actually. You can get a little store front and have your own business if you like or you coul... (read in full...)
They seem too friendly and she already has his number, should I be worried here?
Q. I tried to make it clear what happen but it becomes quite long. Thank you for reading it. I am mid 20 and she is early 30. We started our relationship after we chat online for 2 years. Things are great at first and since we live quite far, we me...
A. 2 December 2008: If she is hooked on on-line relationships something is wrong with her. She is obviously trying to make you jealous, but it also seems she lost interest in you because things became real in the real world. She sounds like a manipulator who cant deal ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 2 December 2008: It is to your credit that you feel ashamed. You have a conscious about this and that is good. You learned a very hard lesson and I imagine you will never befriend a married man again. Don't be so hard on yourself in this case. You know what you did ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my brother to watch him masterbate?
Q. Hi, hope u can help bit of a dodgy question but I walked into me older brothers room hes 15 and cought him touching himself. We both freaked out but it was to late and he came, he insists that he didnt but i saw it, he was shouting at me a...
A. 2 December 2008: For some women watching men masturbate is very exciting. But this is your brother and that would be incest. If there is a boy you like, it would be better to ask him. That actually would be better at your age than having sex.
Naturally your bro... (read in full...)
Need to end relationship, want to minimise hurt.
Q. Hi I've been dating now for 5 months, a girl i met online of all things, we chatted for a very long time as friends before dating. Things have got very close, we have told each other we love each other and i do love her to bits, its a distance r...
A. 2 December 2008: 5 -6 months seems to be the time where men more than women know if things will go to the next level or not.
Maybe ask her if there are things about you she isn't too happy with so that she has the chance to realize you aren't the one for her.
... (read in full...)
How can someone change like this into a complete dickhead?
Q. I had a boyfriend of seven months. We split in june 08. He promised me the world told me he loved me and would never leave me and i thought that he meant every single word of everything he ever told me. I had never felt a love like it and feel i ...
A. 2 December 2008: What you experienced happens all over the world sweetie. Its known as - getting to know someone. Everyone puts on their best self in the early days. Little by little the true self comes out, whether its good or bad.
It takes years sometime... (read in full...)
The other guy...
Q. Hi, who ever reads this, my name is kurt. I recently got into a relationship several months ago, 9 to be exact. His name is bob. We met on craigslist. What was supposed to be a one nite thing turned into a 9 month relationship. THE PROBLEM: ...
A. 2 December 2008: What a mess and total drama. Sounds like you got mixed up with a narcissist hedonist. Too bad you have feelings for this guy. He is out for himself. Best you look at reality and move on. What is to love about this dude? He knows the right words? ... (read in full...)
Lump in vagina, is this normal?
Q. Sorry this is so explicit :-/ On the upper side of my vagina (that is, the side where my urethra is) I have a huge, long lump that begins about 1" below where my urethra hole is and ends where my cervix begins. I have always had this lump, but I...
A. 2 December 2008: I had something like that and it was a paulap however that is spelled. Just a weird growth, can be removed with string!
Like a lasso pulled on it and that's all.... (read in full...)
Feeling Lost -sorry for the length
Q. Hello, I seem to be troubled with my g/f and mostly our sex life. We've been together for almost 8 years and just had our second child. I love her very much and thought about marriage several times. We had great sex were both of us were satisfied. ...
A. 2 December 2008: Do you massage her often? Sometimes a woman needs her man to help rid her body of physical stress. After a while with you giving so much to her she will feel more in the mood?
Its hard to say what is going on since none of us are there. Just rea... (read in full...)
Will this rumor ruin my chance of getting back with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of two years just recently broke up. we tried hooking up for a while but I decided we shouldnt hook up with out dating. Im still deeply in love with him and would do anything to get him back. now the problem is, theres a rumor ...
A. 2 December 2008: So many things to say but one that comes to me is, its really sad that you chose to think the worse of me and see me in such a negative light.
Then something like you rather he heard it from you than by those doing the gossiping. That you trusted ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? I feel like I need a manual to read this guy!!
Q. Hey everybody, thanks in advance for your opinions so i guess i wondering what is going on with this guy i am seeing... so he 10 years older, and we met through a mutual friend, we met mid september we hung out every weekend he was ho...
A. 1 December 2008: Don't call or text him anymore! That is the biggest mistake women make! Let them chase us and I can tell you by all the men I know, if they are interested in a woman, they do what they can to get her. Men really don't like women doing the chasing. ... (read in full...)
How can I get closure with him so that I can get on with my life and be happy?
Q. I recently had a boyfriend leave me without giving a reason. He just stopped talking to me. We had a disagreement on the phone the last time we spoke (political in nature, not personal), then nothing. We were together a year and 4 months, never ...
A. 1 December 2008: Unfortunately, closure happens on its own timeline. I'm in the same boat really. Thing is, there is really no such thing as closure because the only thing that would make you happy is for things to work out with him.
Grief is the worst of all emot... (read in full...)
All I want is to be able to have her half the time.
Q. Well here it is. Me and my girlfriend of 5 years had a baby last year. She just turned 1 last week. For a while had been using meth. My girlfriend found out about 4 months ago. In a way I thank god she did or I would morelikely still be using. But ...
A. 1 December 2008: Wait it out a few months as you have your whole life ahead of you to prove your a fit father. I would stop pestering her for now. Keep up with the visits and let her know that in about a year from now you will pursue the issue again because you want ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend or kiss. I'm 29 and nobody wants me.
Q. hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the ...
A. 1 December 2008: Low self-esteem is a turn off for men more than being overweight. I agree with the others. Get in shape and you will have more self confidence. I have a problem being shy too and I guess men tend to feel more comfortable with women who express ... (read in full...)
How can I tell her that I love her?
Q. She's 25, and very beautiful. I'm 32, and not. We met at a summer school being held at a university. I have been deeply and desperately in love with her for nearly two years. No matter what I do the feeling does not fade. I made a clumsy pass at ...
A. 1 December 2008: What you are experiencing is called limerance. We confuse it for love since we become possessed by a person. That isn't love... but none the less you have strong feelings that you are unable to deal with.
Eyeswideopen is correct. You will scare he... (read in full...)
...so does he like me?
Q. There is this guy I really like! I was wondering if he likes me to. We go to the same church and school. At church he doesn't talk to anyone but his parents. But almost everytime I look at him he is staring at me. 2 weeks ago I was talking to one of ...
A. 1 December 2008: He sounds shy. When a boy can't keep his eyes off of you, its because he fancies you!
He also might not talk to anyone at church because he doesn't want his parents knowing his private business and taking a chance for them to give unasked for opin... (read in full...)
Why do I get like this, almost uncomfortable, when I become close with a guy I like?
Q. Hi guys, i have an issue! Basically, I don't know why or what it is, but everytime I grow close to a guy that I really like and that really likes me, I start to become weird. For example, I am CRAZY over this guy i know, and he is crazy about me...
A. 1 December 2008: I think you are describing anxiety. Its fun to fantasize about the future, but reality never seems to work out the way we dream it should. Just take it day by day and enjoy each encounter. Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to and ... (read in full...)
16 and never been kissed, I feel so upset...
Q. arghhh. im 16 and have never been kissed. its really putting me down as all of my friends have and they are starting to sleepwith their boyfriends. its really upsetting me that i cant get anyone. :(...
A. 1 December 2008: When you're young you forget that you have your entire life ahead of you. Don't feel you have to rush just because everyone else is doing it. Don't even discuss this with others and they won't know you aren't doing the same.
It will happen w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me to reschedule meeting my friend, will I feel he controls me if I do this?
Q. I have a real dilemma and I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been through a rough patch due to lack of communication on both our parts, but we had a real heart to heart today and have patched things up. It turns out that one of the ...
A. 1 December 2008: Is it possible to meet the friend over the weekend and do both? If it is one chance situation that your friend is unable to reschedule, then perhaps your boyfriend is being unreasonable and controlling.
Does he not understand that you made a p... (read in full...)
I'm in relationship with a married guy
Q. I'm in relationship with a married guy for five years, but now he went back to his wife with the excuse that he got a new job in the county the wife is and now they live together, he want our relationship to continue and promised me that he is ...
A. 1 December 2008: I just can't find it in me to feel bad for a woman who gets involved with a married man unless you didn't know that from the start.
Men are dogs because there are too many women out there interfering and trying to steal a man from the other wo... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner that his best friend kissed me? We all live together.
Q. I am in somewhat of a dilemma. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years now. We moved in together and recently his best friend moved into our house too. All was fine until his best friend kissed me. Nothing major I'd say but its made it ...
A. 1 December 2008: I would only tell him if the friend tried it again. Let that guy know that he is behaving very badly and it is not acceptable and should he try that again you will inform your boyfriend. Perhaps he won't try again and the problem is solved. But ... (read in full...)
What does this mean?
Q. I'm going to make this as simple as possible. I used to like a girl who I was very fond of. But it was not recipricol, she was not interested. So I let her go and moved on... to my surprise she wanted to remain friends so we became friends, ...
A. 1 December 2008: I would move on and do not contact her or respond to her emails. Don't waste your time to explain anything because it doesn't sound like she would be respectful of your feelings. If you cut her off without a word then you regain your power and ... (read in full...)
How to improve a relationship that is falling apart due to unbelievable stress and hard times
Q. I would like someone to tell me how to fix a relationship with my partner thinks that I am the one to start every argument. He has not noticed any of the things that I have improved upon in our relationship, and he thinks that he has changed ...
A. 1 December 2008: This is a very very difficult situation with no magic solution. Being together 24/7 is difficult enough without all the problems you speak of.
For one thing, ask him if he really believes he would be better off alone in this little hovel. This sit... (read in full...)
Do I wait 6 months to get back with ex?
Q. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, won't go into detail, but it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because he thought at the time we wanted different things. He has just contact me and apologised for being stubborn and said he feels really bad ...
A. 1 December 2008: Love is always a risk. So far what he has said and done seems honest and reasonable. Nothing wrong with thinking things though before making a decision. I think its normal to have time and space apart to think things over - to make sure you aren't ... (read in full...)
Broke up with boyfriend today, he has punished me for telling the truth!
Q. Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex ...
A. 1 December 2008: Very tough situation. If you are really really torn you should tell your current that you don't think you have got over the ex but you love him too. Tell him that you want to make sure you really are over him and if its okay for you to talk to him? ... (read in full...)
Is My Friend Being Used?
Q. I have an aquaintance, a 51 year old guy, who in my opinion is being made a fool of. 3 years ago His wife of 25 years left him for his best friend. He met a woman around his age shortly after. They have been on and off for about 3 years.... it's alw...
A. 1 December 2008: He is a big boy and doesn't need help because he will only resent you in the end and see it as meddling. Stay out of it unless he asks for your opinion.
Does he know about all this criminal activity? If not, print it out I guess and mail it to hi... (read in full...)
He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he ...
A. 30 November 2008: You can wait it out and see if this changes or tell him how uncomfortable this makes you and tell him that if he isn't finished with her, its not fair to you and you will have no other option than to look for someone else.
Sorry this is happenin... (read in full...)
I'm truly in love with a guy I hardly know!
Q. I have a serious problem, its not like most problems posted here. I'm in love with a guy I hardly know. I think it is love at first sight. I know cheesy, but its true. I can never stop thinking about him. I miss him everyday I wake up. When I ...
A. 30 November 2008: What you are experiencing is all fantasy. You have no idea what sort of person he really is other than what you imagine.
This is very common and all things about love are a mystery and no way to ever know anything even if the other person s... (read in full...)
My ex massively betrayed me, how do I get over this?
Q. I was with my ex for a year and thought we were totally in love. Then all of a sudden he started acting strangely, distancing himself from me. I suspected he was cheating and finished it. A few weeks later his ex girlfriend contacted me saying they ...
A. 30 November 2008: Hopefully 6 months from now you will realize how happy and grateful you are that he is out of your life! He will always cheat on her and it will be her problems, not yours. I guess you might see if you can feel sorry for her that she ended up having ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my in-law, how can I get this out of my system??
Q. I have a big problem, this is a taboo topic. for the last two or so years I have developed feelings for my sister in laws husband.I am now totally in love with him I cant stop thinking about him,I try my hardest to stay away from family functions...
A. 30 November 2008: LOL, men always seem so much more appealing before you have the encounter. Listen to what she complains about and ask yourself if these are appealing qualities?
Getting over a crush or attraction isn't easy at all. Best to just enjoy the feelings... (read in full...)
If she's not interested, why doesn't she tell me so??
Q. Hi all, well i sent a question in last week regarding a girl i had dated a few times, and got some great advice on what to do. Well since then she has been in contact with her friend on a social networking site. Her friend asks her how shes doin, ...
A. 30 November 2008: IF you dated only a few times its easier to walk away with your pride intact. No relationship to break up, no drama to deal with. She might be feeling uncomfortable about things and rather not say something that might hurt your feelings.
I kno... (read in full...)
I'm dreading Christmas! Whatever I think about planning I almost get anxiety attacks! What would be the best thing for me to do during this holiday?
Q. Christmas is coming and I'm dreading it unfortunately. I do have a lovely boyfriend who is caring and loving and loves me to bits, but he is lazy, undermotivated, etc. He hasn't achieved very much when it comes to career...he doesn't work at all.H...
A. 30 November 2008: If you might want a day to yourself to relax and maybe watch a movie and not make a big deal out of Christmas, why not request they go without you? Some people feel lonely because they have no friends or family to be with, but you have that and it ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me to have sex with him if I don't really want to, but he also complains if he doesn't get any at all! I can't win! What am I supposed to do?
Q. My question is whether you should have sex (in a relationship) when you don't really want to? In all my relationships, after the first few months my sex drive has gone down quite a bit (I hear this is fairly common), but my partner's hasn't. ...
A. 30 November 2008: Maybe ask him to masturbate instead of sex when you are there if that doesn't bother you.... (read in full...)
Should I call him even though I got his number from someone else?
Q. I know this boy n he comes over n we huge out all the time, but I got his new number by someone else. Should i call him if his not the one that give me he's number? And should a girl get upset when a boy don't call as much as she does?...
A. 30 November 2008: Girls make the mistake of calling boys TOO MUCH! Some people might not like it if you call, so you are right to question if its okay or not. It really depends on the boy. But, I wouldn't call just to play it safe. Let him ask you for your phone ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?
Q. I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...
A. 30 November 2008: ITs embarrassing for sure for a parent to know a child does this, but from what I hear from people I know, some children start even earlier.
I would start with explaining that her body will be going though many changes and tell her about menstrua... (read in full...)
I feel like life is too short and too precious to just "put up with." I want fulfillment!
Q. I just have to get this off my chest, and if you can help me, I will be so grateful. I can take an honest answer, whether or not it is the one I want to hear, as long as you genuinely want to help. When I was in college, I struggled to fig...
A. 30 November 2008: I think a lot of people have the same thoughts. You are by far not too old to peruse any dream you want! What is it that interests you? Traveling to shop and open a store with those things? Pastry chef? Private eye?
Just tossing things in the a... (read in full...)
Does he really likes me or am I another one of his conquests?
Q. I met a military guy 2 months ago, he's leaving in January, so I have this single month left to do something. When we met I notice he's too much out there, like a player kinda thing. He kept looking at me a lot and he even asked me if I was a ...
A. 30 November 2008: You already know the answer and I guess are having us support you in staying away! A player is a player and you will feel horrible after he's had you. Let him suffer and don't cater to his ego.... (read in full...)
He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!
Q. Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...
A. 30 November 2008: I wish I had some actual words that would bring you comfort. I know the pain you speak of. Its shock and grief and so much more. There is nothing anyone can do to make the pain go away. If there was, there would be websites all over the place with ... (read in full...)
I need to draw a wedge between them...
Q. Hi, I'm Peridot. I was in a relationship with this great guy, but now it's somehow falling apart. I don't know how to get him back... And plus, there's this girl, who is trying to make problems between me and him purposely. She calls him up, chat...
A. 29 November 2008: I've been in a similar situation and the more I tried to show him that she was making trouble, he would side with her. The best thing is to get away from them both and tell him to get back with you when things between them are over and to please not ... (read in full...)
I just had my hair cut and I HATE IT!!!
Q. Well... This probably will seem like a really dumb problem.. but I need help. It's not really a relationship question either, but I hope you can help anyways. About a week ago, I went and got a haircut, before I went in, my hair was down past my...
A. 29 November 2008: That is my life story! I grow out my hair for years and then go for a trim thinking it will just take the dead ends off and I can't even keep track of how many butcher jobs I've had.
I have very curly hair and getting the right cut seems near imp... (read in full...)
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