A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy who I met a year back in a meeting. He was all sweet and flirty with me, I almost fall for him until I saw he was married. So, I took it cool.Turned out we had to communicate via email for the same meeting business, until we became friends. He has always mentions his family , I ask about them, he talks about things they kinda do together, how many years he's been married, etc.We share jokes, emails, pics or ourselves as friends. He says he enjoys our friendship and emailing. That is really great I keep in touch with him. BUT, I have to make clear he never says nothing bad about his family. As a matter of fact, he says they're very good. What makes me doubtful, is the way he say things, how he acts when I email, the way he cares about me, is not like the way simple pal would do. And his wife doesn't know about me or else she would have place in contact too. I wonder if he really wants friendship as he says or is there any shady going on. I'm asking b/c what if he's really into friendship and I pull away losing a good friend?
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Married men always dream about and crave female attention. Don't take this too seriously. You have no business getting involved with a married man. What do you expect of him? Cheat? Leave her for you? Then what? You are asking for big trouble. Men always crave a lot of women. women tend to want just one man. It is not fair, but its reality.
Leave him alone. His wife has no idea he is doing this and do you really want to be part of hurting a woman who finds out her husband is seeking women outside of the marriage?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 It seems he likes you a lot but won't cheat on his wife. Or, you want him to go further than he wants to. Or both. I think you should spare yourself the heartbreak and move on. You can still be friends, but that's it.
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