Likes me, or likes me not?
Q. I am 16 years old and there's this guy that hangs sround me a lot. He sometimes does stuff that makes it seem really obvious that he likes me, but I don't know how I can tell for sure. For example, my sophmore class went on a field trip and we ...
A. 11 November 2009: I'm sorry to say this but you do nothing about it now. Forget about him and move on. He is in a relationship, how would you like it if some girl tried to steal your boyfriend away?
Good Luck and I hope you find a nice single man soon.... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mam to let me date him again?
Q. My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm so glad it worked out for you! :)... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?
Q. their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm sorry to hear that. Be careful about going back with an ex. They are an ex for a reason.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?
Q. This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated ...
A. 6 October 2009: You need to talk to her and explain how you feel. Try and work something out.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Now that I'm pregnant, he doesn't seem around anymore! How can I get through this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I am expecting a baby In December. Our life used to be great together, we would have so much fun and i felt so loved and cared for. We spent all of our time together and he treated me ...
A. 6 October 2009: You need to talk to him and explain how you feel. I know you tried already but if you can't get through to him I would reconsider your relationship with him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
We aren't together, but I still feel let down. What should I do?
Q. Im really attahcd to a guy that lives about 2 hours away. Im going to university next year and il be living about 20 minutes away from him. Im so attached to him, i think about him all the time. I met him at a festival and we got on so well, inst...
A. 6 October 2009: I agree with Lola1, he is not interested in a relationship right now. He will simply use you if you sleep with him.
Move on and find someone who is looking for a relationship.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Once we had sex he changed.Does he see me as nothing?
Q. Okay there is this guy that I really like. If you've read one of my similar posts I stated that he was ignoring me. I gave my virginity to him and afterwards he started ignoring me. I told him that I really liked him but he doesn't want to hear it. ...
A. 6 October 2009: Like all of the others have said, he is using you.
This is what will happen if you have sex with him:
He calls/texts for sex
you agree and have sex
he ignores you for a week or two
then he calls/texts again for sex
and then ig... (read in full...)
What's the best way to reaffirm "we're just friends"?
Q. Hey guys (aunts!), A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, and then a few months after that a guy who I got to uni with broke up with his girlfriend too (except his break up was really complicated etc.) Anyway, basically we weren't really g...
A. 6 October 2009: Keep reminding him you two are just friends.
For example, your such a good friend, I'm glad were friends, you have been such a helpful friend...etc.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Should I carry on trying to take things further?
Q. hi. I know this might sound a bit stupid but i am totally unbearablely obsessed with this guy. We don't know each other very well but we have been going to the same hockey club for 1 or 2 years and he's recently started at the same school as me. ...
A. 5 October 2009: Get to know him and see what he is like. You might realize that he is not the guy you thought he was. Once you get to know him and become friends you will not be so nervous around him and will have more of idea of who he is interested in. ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mam to let me date him again?
Q. My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that ...
A. 5 October 2009: Do you know how your ex feels about you? Talk to him to see if he is wants to get back together with you. If he doesn't want to then you will have to move on. Now about your mom, can you give her proof that he is 16? Some form of ID or get his pa... (read in full...)
When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop?
Q. When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop? or well I mean, I'm just waiting for him to ask me out but he hasn't yet... I am pretty sure he has a huge crush on me because he is always doing these things: We were sitting at dinner yester...
A. 5 October 2009: Try doing things that show him you are interested too. It also could be he is too nervous too ask you out. Why not ask him to go to the movies with you? Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Am I too boring? Is this why guys don't like me?
Q. I am a bit confused. I am almost 20 and i have yet to go on a date. I also have never held hands, hugged, or even kissed a guy before. I consider myself to be fairly attractive...kind of plain. I'm what most people would consider to be a goody ...
A. 5 October 2009: Don't put yourself down. You sound like a nice person with good morals. If any guys interest you at church why don't you try to get to know them and see how that goes. Meet with people that have morals close to yours and people you can get ... (read in full...)
Could my fantasy happen or is it just wishful thinking?
Q. Thanks for taking the time to help. Ok so at my center of work there's a woman who fancy's me, I think... I am woman and I have only been with men, the thought of another woman turns me on but I have never acted on it.. I am dating a nice fe...
A. 4 October 2009: Talk to her, get to know her, spend time with her. Show that you care and when you feel ready open up to her. The sooner you tell her how you feel the better.
I hope things work out for you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Likes me, or likes me not?
Q. I am 16 years old and there's this guy that hangs sround me a lot. He sometimes does stuff that makes it seem really obvious that he likes me, but I don't know how I can tell for sure. For example, my sophmore class went on a field trip and we ...
A. 4 October 2009: It sounds like he is interested. You could try to test the waters by light flirting etc.
Good Look!... (read in full...)
I'm getting bored with my LDR just talking to him on Skype
Q. hey guyyss..i really need ur help ok so im 16, and im dating a guy (also 16).. we have been doing this LDR for 1 or 2 years now. *he lives in the usa and i live in another country...* but we saw each other of course (the summer one year ago,...
A. 4 October 2009: I understand, you can't have a relationship if you are not in each other lives. You are getting bored because you are not getting the attention you deserve from him (msn & e-mail don't count) and it's not his fault because he lives too far away.
... (read in full...)
Can people really change??
Q. Hey!! Ok where do I begin!! I have been going out with my boyfriend on and off for over two years!! The first year was a joke because we kept fighting and he was'nt faithful but over the last year he has really changed!! He really does love me and i...
A. 4 October 2009: I think you should trust him since his behavior backs him up and yes people can change.
I hope this helps, Good Luck!
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Is a live webcam session something I should reasonably be upset about?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14. I am 20 now. We have a 3 year old son and have been living together for 4 years now. The other day he accidently left his computer signed onto a porn site. I do not have a problem with him looking at porn, ...
A. 4 October 2009: I agree with Old Guy, this is cheating!
How you want to confront this is your choice but where he has done this in the past then you should consider ending it.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My online guy of a month wants to marry me! Is it really meant to be?
Q. OMG..I have a problem I'm so confused idk what to do..so here I go!! Ok I met this guy through the internet and we have been talking for a while now close to a month but we talk on the phone and txt and send pictures of eachother but you see he ...
A. 3 October 2009: DO NOT MARRY HIM! You don't know him and never met him.
Why didn't you meet him yet?
Warning bells are screaming to get away from this man.
good luck.... (read in full...)
Why am I embarrassed to introduce him to anyone?
Q. Is the fact that I am embarrassed to introduce my boyfriend to my colleagues, friends, etc. a bad sign? He is a super sweet guy but his grammar is not great, and he is a little rough around the edges. I did introduce him to a very close friend of ...
A. 3 October 2009: Yes it is a bad sign that you won't introduce him to your friends...etc, due to embarrassment.
I don't know why you feel so embarrassed, after all you did say he is a super sweet guy. Perhaps because he is rough around the edges and his grammar ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him, but he can be quite a strange character!
Q. we have an age gap of 14 years and hes being the elder one. We met through a commom friend and before he knew she was getting married he used to give her little hints. She is brazilian and i am caucasian. I went out with him once already and we kept ...
A. 3 October 2009: Hi yellowmarshmallow,
I understand you are in love with him but I don't think it is a good idea to marry him. Like you said, you still have dreams to pursue.
Listen to your mother on this. (Also it's not a good idea to get involved with so... (read in full...)
How do I get my friends to like my new guy and get along with him?
Q. Any advice would be helpful please... I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now. We get o n great and always have fun when were together.After we went for lunch yesterday we went back to his house. There was nobody home when we got ther...
A. 3 October 2009: Hi Lovernotafighter, You need to talk to your friends. Explain to them how you feel and if they were good friends they would at least put up with him. Though it does concern me that they all dislike him and find him untrustworthy, I hope y... (read in full...)
We both love each other but are with others, what should I do?
Q. me and this boy,he is one year older, were going out for about 2-3months. everyone knew we were meant to be, but rumors got to me, and my trust in him started to fade, so we ended it. then he realised how much he loved me and how much he wanted me ...
A. 3 October 2009: Hi, I think that you need to break up with your boyfriend. You are not over your ex and it is not fair to him. Now, the reason why you broke up with him is because of rumors. Rumors cannot be proven and are usually made up. Of course, rumo... (read in full...)
What do you reckon he wants?
Q. Hey everyone! just need some advice here. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost seven months now. It is long distance but nothing terrible and over the summer I broke up with him because he was acting as if he wanted out himself ...
A. 29 September 2009: It sounds to me like he wants to keep you a secret. So my guess is that he has a girlfriend where ever he is at and is cheating on her with many distant relationships.
I could be wrong but it sounds like this is the case. Get out of the relation... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?
Q. their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...
A. 29 September 2009: First you need to figure out your own heart. Who do you want? Concentrate on the guy you want. If you can't choose then you need to back off all of them.
Continuing this behavior will only hurt them and will hurt your reputation.
Also back off... (read in full...)
I still love him, should I tell him?
Q. Hi everyone, i have a problem, ok.... Me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago after a year and a half relationship because he ended...to be honest i dont even really know why, something about me being clingy and moody and jelous of his best gir...
A. 29 September 2009: You do what you want to do. If you really want to tell him how you feel go for it. But my opinion is that you should try to get over him. You don't deserve him if he is talking badly about you to his best friend. If you want him back you need ... (read in full...)
She wants to get married even though she's told me she doesn't love me. What?
Q. She has asked me to marry her even though she hs told me she doesn't love me and that she is not 100% with me. What should I do now? A month ago I read my partner's notes (they were left laying around when I went to her place at her request to c...
A. 28 September 2009: I don't think you should marry her.
1. She doesn't love you.
2. She wrote in her notes how unhappy she was with you and thinking of others.
3. She wants something that you can't afford and will probably cause you to go into dept.
4. Your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont include me in his life
Q. Ok, im gay and im 27, my boyfriend of one year is 21. He is very mature for his age and looks mature.. he works in a corporate enviroment and he is Jewish... Im Russian/Italian. He is so obsessed and concerned about what others think about hi...
A. 28 September 2009: I know you don't want to hear this but my advice is:
Have a clean break and move on.
1. He is cheating with both sexes.
2. He is ashamed of his sexually and is not ready for a gay relationship.
3. He has a mother that is controlling him... (read in full...)
Chemistry yet he likes someone else!
Q. Hey all! Id really appreciate some advice, as i dont seem to be very good with things involving my own life lately. Well im 18 years old, and about a month ago i split up with my boyfriend of a year and 7 months, it had got to the point where i...
A. 28 September 2009: I know you don't want to hear this but this is my advice.
He likes another girl.
He is leading you on, keeping you on the back burner so that he can have you when he can't have her. But the second she comes into the picture he will leave yo... (read in full...)
I love my wife but I think divorce is the best answer
Q. I Really want a divorce, my wife doesnt. im still hurt and in love but i need to move -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- First of all i want to say thank you for reading this and im begging you ...
A. 28 September 2009: First of all you should make your decision based on what you want, not because of what strangers tell you on a advice site.
But I will give my advice to you.
She is NOT over her ex. Your wife is pining after her ex and even to go as far as wea... (read in full...)
Should I wish my ex-girlfriend happy birthday?
Q. Hi this is Zahir Yousafzai from Pakistan. It’s been two months since I broke up with my GF. Her birth day is around the corner and im in a fixed whether to wish her birthday or not. if yes, then I would be more than obliged to hear from u guys that ...
A. 28 September 2009: I remember the last question you posted. lol You really seem to miss/love her. Wish her a happy birthday but keep it short and simple. Oh and there is no need to put your first/last name and where you are from when asking a question. It's ... (read in full...)
My ex was sick and I ignored him was that bad?
Q. My ex and I had just started being friendly after months of being bitter to each other after our break-up. The other day, I asked him thru text about the shop where he bought his car. Then he replied to explain a few things then said to me he is...
A. 28 September 2009: I understand where you didn't forgive him yet for him to understand how you felt but yes you choose the wrong time to do this.
Where you just became friends again you ignoring him will make it much harder now.
You did nothing unforgivable tho... (read in full...)
I want a second date but don't want to be a stalker chick!
Q. I had one date with this guy - in early August. We played phone tag until Sept. 8. He'd leave me a voicemail, I'd call back and leave another voicemail. We just couldn't seem to connect. He used a company cell phone, then he quit his job. He must ...
A. 28 September 2009: Go see him. You are not a "stalker chick" for going to him and talk with him. He might be wondering about you and how to talk to you.
Just go up and ask how he's been. Hopefully you will get his e-mail etc. so that contacting him will be easier a... (read in full...)
Was my exgirlfriend cheating on me?
Q. Hi this is Zahir Yousafzai from Pakistan. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. My gut feeling always had this thought that she was cheating on me. She had a facebook account for almost one year but she disclosed this on me in the first week o...
A. 26 September 2009: 0_0 your calling HER a psycho case? Your are completely obsessed with her! What gives you the right to know her passwords? I'm glad it's over, you were completely controlling her. Even remembering the dates!! Oh and calling a guy dude is... (read in full...)
Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?
Q. lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...
A. 26 September 2009: I am so sorry to hear that. Why? :(
If you want to talk about it just send me a message.
If he dumped you cause you explained how you felt then he's a jerk and you don't deserve him.
I hope things get better for you.... (read in full...)
Got carried away with a dildo?
Q. Ok well, i kinda got alil crazy cause i have'nt had intercorse with my bf since ever,sooo one night we decided to have phone sex......i kinda shoved the dildo deep in me and i thought i was getting wett but it seems i was bleeding...what did i do ...
A. 24 September 2009: Are you sure it wasn't your period? If it didn't hurt then I don't think it is related to the dildo. It could be a health problem if you are sure it's not your period.
Go to the doctor and explain what happened.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
I cannot stand my brother in-law's girlfriend...HELP!!!
Q. Hello, I have been married to my husband now for about 2 years and have experienced my brother in-laws relationship with his girlfriend..might I add she is by far the most rude person I have ever met! Long story very long but kinda short: S...
A. 23 September 2009: I'm sorry you feel this way but try to understand that she is ONLY a gf and he has no intentions on marring her. Unfortunately you are going to just have to put up with her. I hope things get better for you! :)... (read in full...)
What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance?
Q. What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance? I don't want to know if he wants to go with me or if he already has a date... just whether he'll be there or not. you see, i think i'm interested but i'm not sure so and i don't ...
A. 23 September 2009: hmmm....you could also try
"Who are you going to the dance with?"
"What are you going to wear to the dance?"
"I'm not sure if I am going to the dance...are you going?"
:)... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my girlfriend or keep things going...?
Q. So i have this gf i been with for 8 months. I love her so much but its scary at the same time. from the begging i never planeed to stay with her this long. I heard she was real easy and yea she was, but i never been able to break up with her. yea ...
A. 23 September 2009: You didn't explain before that she wasn't giving you attention. All you said was that she was easy and you didn't know if you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Talk to her about it. Explain how you feel and see if you can work out som... (read in full...)
Is his age that bad and am I a bitch for having an affair?
Q. Well people are gonna think I'm a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but ...
A. 23 September 2009: Be the better one and walk away and it's not your fault if you had sex with him and didn't know about his gf. Your smart and I know you will make the right choice. I feel bad for his gf and child for having such a dishonest man as their bf/fath... (read in full...)
What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance?
Q. What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance? I don't want to know if he wants to go with me or if he already has a date... just whether he'll be there or not. you see, i think i'm interested but i'm not sure so and i don't ...
A. 23 September 2009: "Hey whats up? I'm so excited for the fall dance! I hope to see you there!"
:)... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my girlfriend or keep things going...?
Q. So i have this gf i been with for 8 months. I love her so much but its scary at the same time. from the begging i never planeed to stay with her this long. I heard she was real easy and yea she was, but i never been able to break up with her. yea ...
A. 23 September 2009: Wow, you sound like a jerk. You sound ashamed of your girlfriend even though you know she had a hard life and allowed people to use her. I feel bad for her and hope her life gets better. Do you love her? Do you want to stay with her? If you... (read in full...)
Should I message my ex???
Q. I have a very lengthy history with an ex. We have never be able to work things out between us and we usually end up pushing each other away. Communication has been a big problem of ours as neither of us are good at bringing up things that need to be ...
A. 23 September 2009: First of all you need to break if off with your boyfriend. You are not happy with him and you want to be with your ex.
Second, do what you want. Try sending a e-mail explaining your feelings to your ex and see what he responds with.
If you ... (read in full...)
Do I tell his fiancee about his flirting with me?
Q. I have a bit of a problem at work. It started out with my boss flirting and making suggestive comments. He does this with several people at work. He does it in a playful way, and we have a good relationship, so I didn't mind. As inappropriate ...
A. 23 September 2009: I would tell her. You would be saving her from heartbreak later on when she is married with children and she finds out that he cheated on her.
Other people would disagree saying it's none of your business and it would only cause you problems... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to move on so quickly?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and recently separated from my husband. I asked him for some space and he asked me for a divorce. I found out that after only a week he has had sex with another woman whom he hardly knows. He said that it was his way ...
A. 23 September 2009: Yes, if he really doesn't love you and wasn't happy.
Don't worry about it and don't let it bother you. He made it clear he doesn't want you anymore and it is time for you to move on.
I hope you find someone who makes you happy.
Good L... (read in full...)
Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?
Q. lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...
A. 12 September 2009: Explain to your boyfriend that you are feeling left out and that you would like some more attention from him.
As for your friend. Tell her exactly how you feel. If she is your friend she will back off and give him some space.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
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