Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?
Q. lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...
A. 26 September 2009: I am so sorry to hear that. Why? :(
If you want to talk about it just send me a message.
If he dumped you cause you explained how you felt then he's a jerk and you don't deserve him.
I hope things get better for you.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to move on so quickly?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and recently separated from my husband. I asked him for some space and he asked me for a divorce. I found out that after only a week he has had sex with another woman whom he hardly knows. He said that it was his way ...
A. 23 September 2009: Yes, if he really doesn't love you and wasn't happy.
Don't worry about it and don't let it bother you. He made it clear he doesn't want you anymore and it is time for you to move on.
I hope you find someone who makes you happy.
Good L... (read in full...)
What should I do about him?
Q. hi i am a 20 year old female and have been seeing my boyfriend for four years. we broke up about 11 months ago and things got a little crazy between us with fighting and that but about two months ago we ended up what i thought was patching things ...
A. 23 September 2009: Do what you want to do. You have many options.
You can just wait it out hoping that he will change his mind soon and want to be in a relationship with him. (Keep in mind that might never happen and he is probably happy with still having you but ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about dating again...
Q. Recently divorced, I have started dating again. I have only ever been with my ex husband. After having children, my body has changed a lot and I am worried about dating this new man who has never dated a woman with children. Any advice?...
A. 23 September 2009: Just be yourself.
If he really likes you then everything will work out fine.
Good Luck :)... (read in full...)
Help!!! Is he losing interest?
Q. okay..so my boyfriend is the type that needs to talk to me every single day.. and more then once. He always makes sure we communicate one way or another..and he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me everyday. this past week, he was away on ...
A. 22 September 2009: Talk to him about it. Explain how you feel. I hope this helps..
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of tatoos and should I get one?
Q. Ok I need some opinions. Well, my family was talking the other day, my dad had two sisters, and a brother. Well one of his sisters passed away and so his other sister and brother talked about them all getting a tattoo that their sister had. Well it ...
A. 22 September 2009: Getting a tattoo is something you have to know you want or else you really will regret it.
If you are 100% sure you want this then and your parents agree then go for it. :)
But a little bit of a warning, the feet/ankle is one of the worst spo... (read in full...)
Does he want to get caught?
Q. Married lover just asked me to come to his place while his wife is out of town, and children sleeping. First time he has asked. I think he wants to get caught. I think he wants to push the matter. I am debating continuing the relationship. ...
A. 21 September 2009: Ok let me get this straight, you are in a relationship with a MARRIED man and you are wondering if you should continue to be with him cause you think he is taking too many risks and wants his wife to catch you two having sex?
First of all what do ... (read in full...)
Do his comments reflect what he'll think if he sees me naked?
Q. This is going to sound really silly but here goes. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and the other day we were bumming around watching tv when a song clip of Rhihanna came on. He made some comment about her having really fat thighs. ...
A. 21 September 2009: Like you said he is only trying to compliment you.
I'm sorry that your ex gave you such a low self esteem on your body.
Don't let it get to you. This guy sounds like he really likes you so seeing you naked is not going to chance his feeli... (read in full...)
I need some tips on anal sex!
Q. Hi Aunts. I hope no one will be offended by my question. My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex. I like the idea and am excited about it but I am just secretly worried that there will be p** on him or that it would smell or there might be ...
A. 20 September 2009: Lots & lots of lube!! Relax...if you tense up then it will hurt. go very very slow and have him enter you very slow....also lots of foreplay before hand! Maybe try getting him to do normal sex for maybe 5 minutes then have him try doing anal.
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I am concerned about my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. I am a christian and have been talking with someone for 2 years. He wants to have a good time for instance driving out to the country and stay for a night at a resort. I really dont want to do that. Should i give up on him and try to find someone ...
A. 18 September 2009: I think you should break up with him. You are lonely and want attention and you are having doubts about his honestly.
Unless you really love him then talk to him instead and tell him how you feel. Hopefully that will solve things.
But mov... (read in full...)
I discovered he is married!
Q. He told me he was divorced. I just found his myspace page. And his wife's myspace page. both updated within the past week. both listed as married. i am sick and angry. really angry. i suspected. do i confront him? i haven't heard from h...
A. 18 September 2009: I don't think you will get another response from him.
I don't know if you two were dating or in a relationship but I am glad you know. I am sure you wouldn't want someone in your life that lies about his relationship status. These types of men a... (read in full...)
He was so rude on while texting me but was the opposite in person...
Q. Hi, i am just confused a bit..if anyone can help. I saw my ex the other day which at first I tried to avoid because I am still too hurt about our break-up and upset that he ignored my IMs and text messages and even my last email. I really feel he...
A. 18 September 2009: You shouldn't feel guilty for leaving him outside of your house so soon. He hurt you and you are still suffering, he brought this upon himself. I am curious as to what you will do now. Will you continue to ignore him and move on? Or will you acce... (read in full...)
How do I improve the outcome of the month break? I want to get back with my ex!
Q. my boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago... he said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. he also said that he needs space and when we were in the relationship that i smothered him, and i didn't give him enough space. he said t...
A. 16 September 2009: My advice is: I think you should try and get over him. There are many reason why I suggest this. What if he finds another girl and starts to have feelings for her during that month apart? What if he starts dating other girls or gets a new... (read in full...)
What is this behaviour should I just forget about him?
Q. My brother had a roommate over the summer who I met the night before we left to go home. We had a good connection while at dinner, and he made an effort to understand more about what I was saying and the like. Nothing conclusive, but I felt this ...
A. 15 September 2009: He sounds like he has issues with women and relationships.
He probably was hurt by an ex and is still suffering. He does seem to take a liking to you though.
Why don't you try contacting him more and get to know him. Keep it friendly tho... (read in full...)
Should I say hi to him?
Q. okay, i'm crazy about this guy. last year, i had a class with him and we would talk and joke and i'd be so nervous talking to him. then summer came and we didn't talk anymore. i saw him driving all the time and i know he saw me too. but he doesnt k...
A. 15 September 2009: No, you would just end up interrupting the class or teacher...not a good idea and would only embarrass you when the teachers snaps at you.
Say hi to him in the hall or another time when he is not busy. But do find time to say hi and ask how he i... (read in full...)
Does he still like or is he just using me as arm candy?
Q. So all summer me and this guy have been talking nonstop and we knew we liked eachother so we started dating....about a week later he broke up with me and said things were moving too fast (even though all we did was kiss and i was definately NOT ...
A. 15 September 2009: He sounds like he is confused and is commitment shy. I don't think he is using you but at the same time I wouldn't stick around waiting for him to make up his mind.
Tell him how you feel about him, what you want, and everything you are thinking... (read in full...)
We both cheated I don't know wether to forgive him or forget him
Q. Well I recently found out my bf had been cheating on me a couple times with another girl. They never had sex but got close to it. I found out and broke up with him. But I also cheated on him once, only I just kissed the other guy. But I feel its ...
A. 15 September 2009: You were both wrong in cheating with each other. You should remember he forgave you when you cheated which shows he really wanted you and it was only three weeks! Most guys would have dumped you like you did with him. Now on the other hand, yo... (read in full...)
Out of the 3 men, who seems more like relationship material?
Q. Which guy seems more like relationship material? SAM- my ex who i was in a relationship with a year ago. i was in love with him. he is gorgeous, smart and shares my similar sarcastic, smarky humour. doesn't know exactly what he wants at times t...
A. 14 September 2009: SAM- No, he is an ex for a reason. ANDREW-He sounds sweet, not after you for sex, and treats you like a princess. MATTIHAS- You love him and he loves you. If you think that it can work out with MATTIHAS then go for it. You both love each... (read in full...)
I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice.
Q. I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice. My b/f never compliments me on how I look. If I get my hair cut. He never says a word. If I come home with a new colour. Nothing. I can ...
A. 14 September 2009: Let him know how you feel! Tell him how hurt you are by this. If he still continues to ignore you I would dump him and get someone who gives you the attention you deserve! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why do I always wait for my FWB to make the first move?
Q. I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. Since it began, he's always been the one to call/text me about wanting to hook up, which I hadn't noticed until he pointed it out to me recently. I don't have feelings for him, nor do I see ...
A. 14 September 2009: Probably cause like you said you are not interested in him in a romantic sense so you feel no need to seek him out and make the first move. Are you sure he feels the same way about you? It sounds to me like he is hurt by you not contacting him. ... (read in full...)
I have not seen this person in 5 years and it is completely crazy that I ever would want to see him again.
Q. When I was 21 years old I met someone who has somehow preoccupied my thoughts for the last 8 years. This person is confusing and hateful but has everything someone like me could ever want though I am sure many would say he is out of my league. I ...
A. 14 September 2009: "this person is confusing and hateful" Do you really want to be with someone like that? My opinion is that you had a fantasy about this person that you need to let go. You have not seen him for 5 years so you don't know that much about him. ... (read in full...)
We flirt when she's not around, and he likes me too!
Q. hi. i like my bffs boyfriend. WE always flirt when shes not around. i really like him and he says he likes me to...what should i do!!!!!...
A. 14 September 2009: Stop! I know you like him but this is your best friend's boyfriend. How would you like it if you had a boyfriend and she flirted with him behind your back?
cut contact with him, avoid him as much as possible, get over him, and find a guy who isn'... (read in full...)
He ignored, cheated and still ignored
Q. Sorry this is long, its just i really need advice: My bf and I had been together nearly 2 years and we lived together for a year and half. Exactly 6 months ago he had to move bk to the US from UK and ended up getting a job in Aspen. Everythin...
A. 14 September 2009: Yes you did the right thing but he needs to know why. You need to contact him and tell him that it is over.
Then cut contact, avoid him, get over him, and find a guy worth your time.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
How can someone who says they love you leave you in the dirt?
Q. In April I found out that I was with child. I knew who the father was because I had not had sex with anyone but him. He was the first person that I ever sleep with and the same goes for him. We were each others first. We always stayed in touch with ...
A. 14 September 2009: I'm sorry you know this jerk but am glad you know he is not worthy of you.
I hope you find someone who is. :)... (read in full...)
How can someone who says they love you leave you in the dirt?
Q. In April I found out that I was with child. I knew who the father was because I had not had sex with anyone but him. He was the first person that I ever sleep with and the same goes for him. We were each others first. We always stayed in touch with ...
A. 13 September 2009: He doesn't love you. When you really need him he's not there. Just forget about him. You will be better off without him tearing your heart apart.
Cut contact, avoid him, and get over him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Did he cheat?
Q. if he stayed out all night the same day he called his x did he cheat? he said he was at his moms because she was leaving the country for a month ...
A. 12 September 2009: You seem very uphappy with him. I would just break it off and get over him. You need to have trust, respect, and care for each other. You know he lies so trust is out. He drinks too much which makes you lose respect in him. And if ... (read in full...)
Why did he run back to the ex and behave like he did?
Q. hi im currently 29 weeks pregnant and me and my ex partner got together 15 months ago he had come from a broken marriage and i came from a broken relationship i fell pregnant straight away not planned but we decided to keep it at 26 plus 4 weeks i ...
A. 12 September 2009: I know you don't want to hear this but it is better if you get over him. He went back to his ex means he cheated on you with his ex. What a horrible women his ex is. Who ever would go back to her has issues. You could try and give him a c... (read in full...)
He left me for another man!
Q. my bf and i've were 2gether for a year and half and i love him i do i really do but he says that the feeling is not mutual he likes men.... he is gay.... i felt like i wanted to pass out. what am i going to do he left me for another guy! am I that ...
A. 12 September 2009: NOOOO! Don't think that! You did NOT turn your ex-bf gay. He was gay before you even met him. You are NOT useless. He lied to you because maybe he himself was ashamed by being gay or he didn't want his parents to know. It happens all of the time.... (read in full...)
Scared my eating disorder will return!
Q. i'm 4 months pregnant with my 2nd baby(planned), me and my fiance are both over the moon. I'm very excited and feel very blessed to be carrying our second child. I love being a mummy to be 10 month old little boy. He's my whole world and I love him...
A. 12 September 2009: Get some professional help if you are that scared. Not eating is depriving your baby of food and you will starve him/her. Think when you are eating you are not just feeding you but him/her as well. After you give birth you can go to the gym to lo... (read in full...)
How can I get talking to him?
Q. Okay, I don't really know where to start but.. I've liked this guy for a year and we still haven't spoken he's in the year above me at school (i'm 13, he's 14). He smiles at me around school and looks my way when we're in mixed year assembly...
A. 12 September 2009: Just go up to him and say hi and mention something that happened today and ask a question. For example: Hi, lunch was really good for once don't you think so? or Hi, the lecture was sooo boring. I rather be at the beach! What about you... (read in full...)
Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.
Q. Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever ...
A. 12 September 2009: Hell NO! Personality is everything! You can tell your Mother and friends that you adore your boyfriend and when they insult him they insult you to. Let them know talking this way about him is not acceptable! I met my boyfriend over the intern... (read in full...)
I'm dependent on him, but he cheats on me
Q. ive been in dysfunctional relationship. the problem is with myself already. i am financially dependent on my partner. he always betray me, he always cheated on me. i cant move forward or i cant get out in this relationship. i always tried to escape ...
A. 12 September 2009: You are not stupid so stop telling yourself that. You need to get some more self esteem and get this jerk out of your life once and for all.
Can you go to your family or friends for support?
As for the money, make a plan, you can even safe up... (read in full...)
Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?
Q. lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...
A. 12 September 2009: Explain to your boyfriend that you are feeling left out and that you would like some more attention from him.
As for your friend. Tell her exactly how you feel. If she is your friend she will back off and give him some space.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Did he cheat?
Q. if he stayed out all night the same day he called his x did he cheat? he said he was at his moms because she was leaving the country for a month ...
A. 12 September 2009: Maybe.
Try calling his Mom and find out if he was there. If he wasn't there then he lied and 99% he cheated.
If you can't contact his Mom then try asking somebody who would know. If you can't do that then you could try calling his x and asking... (read in full...)
I want him to be part of our daughter's life after he gets out of jail ...
Q. My daughters father was brought up in an insane household.. honestly his mother believes in all types of religions and his father would cheat. when i found out that i was pregnant with my daughter he left and started dating numerous other girls. i ...
A. 11 September 2009: I agree with softtouchmale2003, bringing this man into your daughter's life is very dangerous.
He hit you while you were pregnant. How do you know if he will do it again? What if he hits you in front of your daughter or worst hits your daughter... (read in full...)
Don't know if it was rape.. it was my boyfriend.
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and have had sex before.. a few nights ago we were alone at his house and he was drinking. I was sober, and we were in bed. This is so nerve racking and embarrassing to say.. We were ...
A. 11 September 2009: It sounds like he is really sorry since he poured out all of the alcohol and my advice is to believe him.
What he did is unacceptable and he understands that so I think everything will work out for you two.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
Opinions please. Do you think he wants to get back together?
Q. My ex broke up with my 3 weeks ago. He then said he really wanted to see me. So I met up with him, but he didnt have anything overly 'important' to say. We chatted and laughed a fair bit etc. He asked me if there were any other guys in my life and I ...
A. 10 September 2009: Yes, it sounds like he wants to get back together with you.
But do you want to get back together with him? Remember all of the nasty things he did...can you forgive him for this? Has he said sorry and you felt he truly meant it? Are you sure he ... (read in full...)
Husband who lies and gambles
Q. I am so confused as what to do with my marriage. My husband and I dated for about over 3 years before we got married. We moved in together after a year of dating. After a couple of years I started noticing that our bills weren't being payed on time ...
A. 10 September 2009: Wow...your in a bad situation. However you can't allow him to continue like this. I know you tried to talk to him and he got defensive but you really need to get it through to him that this has to stop. You've paid up your part of the rent and it's ... (read in full...)
Don't know if it was rape.. it was my boyfriend.
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and have had sex before.. a few nights ago we were alone at his house and he was drinking. I was sober, and we were in bed. This is so nerve racking and embarrassing to say.. We were ...
A. 10 September 2009: He was hurting you and you asked him to stop and he didn't. Yes that is rape. Do whatever you think feels right. You need to talk to him about this before you do anything. This is bothering you and he needs to know what he has done is wrong.
... (read in full...)
Me and my bestfriend, who I have feelings for, have just moved in with another girl and she's all over him! What can I do?
Q. I've lived with my best friend for a few years now and have had a crush on him for a long time. Nothing has ever happened between, we've just always been there for each other and a very close. We recently moved into a new apartment with another girl ...
A. 5 September 2009: You are acting as if you are jealous of her and that's not healthy. Try to become friends with her and see how that works out.
Now about this best friend of yours. I imagine that it would hurt you so much if he had a girlfriend or worst if he ch... (read in full...)
Is it a bad sign if your boyfriend has pictures of his ex but not you?
Q. Is it a bad sign that I am not in a good relationship if the guy I have been dating for almost 4 months still has pictures of his ex on his computer and facebook but none of me anywhere? I can deal with him having pictures of her on his computer but ...
A. 5 September 2009: Yes it is a bad sign if he has pictures of her and not you. Does it show on his fb that he is in a relationship and does it show that he is in a relationship with you?
You need to tslk to him and confront him about this before you decide to break... (read in full...)
B/f & I fight all the time, it becomes physical
Q. My boyfriend and I always had a fight because of misunderstandings. We used to yell and speak out harsh words and insults to each other until now. Our relationship stayed long for one year and nine months now, but we still fight ang it seems like ...
A. 4 September 2009: Wow....he is hitting you?? That is abuse! It needs to stop NOW! The relationship needs to end or both of you need to go to counseling and work it out. The verbal hurt also needs to stop but the physically needs to stop now... You didn't ima... (read in full...)
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