B/f & I fight all the time, it becomes physical
Q. My boyfriend and I always had a fight because of misunderstandings. We used to yell and speak out harsh words and insults to each other until now. Our relationship stayed long for one year and nine months now, but we still fight ang it seems like ...
A. 4 September 2009: Wow....he is hitting you?? That is abuse! It needs to stop NOW! The relationship needs to end or both of you need to go to counseling and work it out. The verbal hurt also needs to stop but the physically needs to stop now... You didn't ima... (read in full...)
Why was my ex so nasty to me?
Q. I am so fed up at the minute and can't understand why my ex is being so nasty to me. We recently split up after an arguement and never spoke about it afterwards. About two weeks before we split up someone had left a voice mail on my phone telling me ...
A. 4 September 2009: I know you are hurt from his reaction but like you said it is over now and it doesn't matter.
You ex is nasty cause he either feels guilty or hurt. Guilty is probably the reason.
Just try and forget it and stop contacting him.
Good Luc... (read in full...)
How can I stop picking fights and holding grudges against him?
Q. this is a very long story n i dont mean to bore anyone so i guess the shortest way of saying it is this: i met a guy 4 years ago, he was a friend from the beginning and the more we hung out the more friends we became, but for some reason i felt th...
A. 4 September 2009: Wow...what did he do to you to cause such a grudge?
If nothing then it could be because you are blaming him because you like him. Maybe you don't want to have these feelings for him but you do and hate him for it.
Another thing it could b... (read in full...)
What's the best way to approach him and why is he behaving like this?
Q. Hey everyone. I really like this guy I’ve been speaking to on the internet for a while. We speak every day online and get on well. I see him a lot more now coz we go to the same college. He’s a really shy guy and he’s told me that he has trouble w...
A. 4 September 2009: Wow...your not the only person who is confused...
Does he act this way with everyone else?
If he does he has some major issues with ppl contact.
But that is still no way to treat you!! Ignoring you is rude no matter how you look at it.
T... (read in full...)
Do you think he's interested? If so tips please?!
Q. I'm currently a senior student at school and today I've been noticing glances from this cute guy in my class. About 6 times actually in a 30 min period. He sometime kept looking at me but sometimes quickly looked away. When I laugh he would look at ...
A. 4 September 2009: No I don't think you looked weird :) You should try and talk to him.
Just go up to him and ask for his name...or if you know it say something like "your Jake Fiddles right?"
Don't use Jake Fiddles use his actually name ;) lool
Good Luc... (read in full...)
Wasting my time and he isn't that interested?
Q. I have been dating a great man for a for a few months now and just recently, a friend of mine mentioned that he was back on the dating website we meet on and he is active. My friend had signed up when I told her how wonderful it was meeting him, she ...
A. 3 September 2009: It sounds to me like he is just using you. There is no need for him to be on a dating site while he is dating you--that alone is reason enough to stop seeing/contacting him. He is also not contacting you alot and he doesn't phone you. This makes me ... (read in full...)
He was obsessive about calling but now he's not calling!
Q. Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can ...
A. 3 September 2009: You don't trust him and your not happy that alone is a very good reason why you should end your relationship.
On top of that though he has a ex-wife and a child and I can only imagine how hard that must be for you to deal with.
And he is tex... (read in full...)
My friend likes the same guy that I do, and I don't want to give up either of them!
Q. Dear Aunts, I've liked this guy for a year now and i think he likes me to because every time i speak to him he has a big smile on his face hes always looking at me in class,his brother is my brothers friend and according to his brother h...
A. 30 August 2009: First of all you need to talk to your friend about your feelings with this guy. I know you already did but it seems like she didn't fully understand. The both of you need to come to an agreement.
Maybe both of you try to date him and see who he c... (read in full...)
I'm suspecting my fiance's loyalty to me
Q. Hi Everyone, I recently found out that my fiance is a member of an online dating site which really upset me.I glimpsed at the lap top and his e-mail box was open and there it was.I hope I am overreacting but he always told me how he doesn't ever ...
A. 30 August 2009: I don't think you are overreacting. he has a profile on an online dating site?? There is no need of that while he is your fiance. You should confront him about this immediately. He needs to delete his account.
Now as for the ex-wife, I wouldn't... (read in full...)
Please tell me to go see a doctor immediately..
Q. Hey, another probable. This is kinda embaressing. Emmmm, today i have noticed after going to the loo, that the water was all bright red!!! This has never happened before. Lately its been difficult going to the loo. Well not diffficult, more...
A. 27 August 2009: Go see a doctor NOW!... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy really even likes me?
Q. i started working at lunch with this one guy and began to like him. well after awhile i lost intrest becouse i thought he didnt like me at all. so i ended up get his number from a frined didnt call or text him just kept in my phone just because. ...
A. 27 August 2009: ok I understand now.
But I still think the guy is a jerk if he showed up like that!!
Did you make contact with him since?
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I'm dating a man who flirts with other girls at the treatment centre we met at and is always blowing hot and cold, but I still want to make it work. How can I prove my love for him is worth it?
Q. I started dating this guy the day i got out of a treatment center he used to go to meetings in the facility and the things he said were so inspiring!! imagine my suprise that right after we started dating he was still going to meetings not to stay ...
A. 25 August 2009: Don't be afraid, you will find a good guy that loves you for you! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
More advice needed please! Is he just being a smooth-talker when he says he doesn't want sex with my friend unless I'm included?
Q. Hi, want to know under a regestered user name an answer, my hang up is I just dont want him to be more attractied to her than I. He agreed that he would never contact her without me or would he have any sexual activity with her without me, he says ...
A. 25 August 2009: I forgot to ask this question before, When you had the threesome, who did he pay more attention to...you or her?
If it was you then the threesome itself was a big turnon and I wouldn't worry about him being interested in your friend.
Now if he... (read in full...)
I'm dating a man who flirts with other girls at the treatment centre we met at and is always blowing hot and cold, but I still want to make it work. How can I prove my love for him is worth it?
Q. I started dating this guy the day i got out of a treatment center he used to go to meetings in the facility and the things he said were so inspiring!! imagine my suprise that right after we started dating he was still going to meetings not to stay ...
A. 25 August 2009: Instead of you proving your love to him it should be him that is proving his love to you. Do you really want to be with a cheater and someone who treats you bad except when he wants sex?
He says he wants to marry you??
I would stay clear... (read in full...)
I feel like I am too young for a serious relationship!
Q. Hey everyone, Im 15 and have been with the same boy now for 2 years. Our relationship didn't get off to a good start, I'm only seeing that now as at the time I was so 'in love' etc. I just thought he was great and excused everything he done.....
A. 25 August 2009: Yes, I can understand after two years of being with him it would be hard to let him go. Try having s talk with him about his and your feelings. Ask him why are you with me? How do you feel about me? Explain to him how much it hurt when he just ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am too young for a serious relationship!
Q. Hey everyone, Im 15 and have been with the same boy now for 2 years. Our relationship didn't get off to a good start, I'm only seeing that now as at the time I was so 'in love' etc. I just thought he was great and excused everything he done.....
A. 24 August 2009: If you feel like you are too young for a serious relationship then you are. Just enjoy life, you can always fuss over guys later.
Now about your boyfriend. DUMP HIM NOW! He told you that he lied about loving you and only wants you for sex. I h... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I nearly cheated?
Q. okay so im 19. with my bf for 2 years and love him. i went away on a college holiday. all of us were talking about which teachers we fancied the most and the tecahers were there. there was a lot of us doing this just as fun because for some ...
A. 24 August 2009: I'm glad you made the right choice and didn't cheat on your boyfriend. It's hard to make the right choice when you are drunk. Now about telling him. This is a more tricky then normal. I always say be honest with your lover but where you think ... (read in full...)
Me and my husband had a threesome with my friend, he wants to try it again but It's worrying me. What can I do?
Q. Hi, My husbamd and I have been married 6 years we are in our 40's my husband and I have sex and talk naughty about threesomes often it is very hot. about 4 years ago we went to a hotel and I got him a stripper it was hot as hell. there was no invas...
A. 24 August 2009: Tell him no, you don't want it. Explain to him how you feel about another threesome. I am sure he will understand. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
He hides his phone from me and I found condoms in his car when we don't even use them! Do you think he's cheating?
Q. Is he cheating when i find condoms in the car and i know that we dont use them. but he say that they been in there. unused but its the fact that he has condoms in the car.... also is he hinding something from me when he wont let me see his phone ...
A. 24 August 2009: When has he started being protective of his cell? Was he always like that? Do you know how many condoms are in the car? Are any missing? If he just started being protective of his cell then he is hiding something from you. Trust your gut on this ... (read in full...)
Is it worthwhile staying with him or should I break it off?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 9 months. We have broken up once but quickly got back together. When we first started dating, he seemed like he had his life somewhat together. He had a good paying job, an apartment, and he was able to take ...
A. 24 August 2009: If you are unhappy then you shouldn't stay with him. You need to gently tell him it is over and let him go.
Once you have healed you can enjoy life and get somewhere with it. You can't be his mother and take care of him, that's not how a healthy ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me, how can I prepare for that?
Q. I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me, how can I prepare for that? He says he's tired of my insecurities and behaviors (because sometimes I have problems controlling anger or sadness... I cry a lot and yell sometimes). We were talking ...
A. 24 August 2009: No it is not all of your fault! He said himself that he wants to just date and have fun. He sounds like a jerk for saying this to you and you deserve better then that!
I know you don't want to hear this but I don't think he loves you. Everyone... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy really even likes me?
Q. i started working at lunch with this one guy and began to like him. well after awhile i lost intrest becouse i thought he didnt like me at all. so i ended up get his number from a frined didnt call or text him just kept in my phone just because. ...
A. 24 August 2009: Ok...let me get this straight...you liked this guy from work. You thought he didn't like you so you lost interest. But you kept his cell number anyway. You went camping with your FRIEND and she saw his picture and thought he was hot. Your FRIEND ... (read in full...)
How can we make a transition between relationship to friendship? Are we going about this the right way?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend of one year broke up with me recently as he is too dependant on me and needs to experience life and grow up by himself. I support this and am very happy for him. The problem though is that we both still have feelings for eachot...
A. 24 August 2009: He feels that he needs to grow up by himself and he broke up with you over that then he really needs to grow-up by HIMSELF! By being his friend and helping him through this he is still depending on you.
My advice to you is break contact with him... (read in full...)
I'm falling for someone who doesn't want to be tied down in a relationship. Should I stop seeing him?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for a while, i have really fallin for him , but he doesnt want a relationship with anyone , he says he has been hurt by his last girlfriend and doesnt want to be tied down by having a new girlfrind, he says he just wants ...
A. 24 August 2009: I agree with baby duck. It will only hurt you if you stay with him. One sided love will never make a person happy. You want more and he is not willing to give you more so move on. You deserve someone who will love you and want to be in a ... (read in full...)
Mum is being judgemental and treating me like a child
Q. Hey everyone I need some serious help! I'm in my early 20s, going into my last year of university. During the summer months I live at home w/my parents but during the year I live on my own. I've noticed during this summer at home my mom is becoming...
A. 24 August 2009: No wonder your little brother is swearing at your parents and is very disrespectful! Your Mother has gone overboard and has disrespected you and him by invading your privacy. This needs to stop! You need to have a talk with her, you are an adult and ... (read in full...)
How long before its ok to introduce your bf/gf to your friends?
Q. How long when dating someone should you introduce them to your friends...? I've been on a few (3) dates with this particular guy... He is moving this weekend and has friends coming up to see him and spend the weekend with him... then the weekend...
A. 24 August 2009: I think it is too early where it has been only 3 dates. I wouldn't worry about it. And like birdynumnums said he could be protecting you from his friends. Relax and good luck!... (read in full...)
Ex is threatening me and my new boyfriend
Q. i am 14, live with my parents and finding it hard to see my boyfreind. my ex is not happy that im moving on with my new boyfriend, and has threatened me and my boyfriend against seeing eachother. i love my boyfriend but dont want him to get hurt by ...
A. 24 August 2009: I agree with birdynumnums, Contact the police, tell your parents, your bf's parents, and your ex-bf's parents. This should not be allowed and if it continues your ex-bf could harm you or your bf. Your safety comes first! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Can having sex bring on a period 11 days early?
Q. Hi Cupids, Just wondering whether anyone knows if having sex can bring a period on 11 days early? I have a 30 day cycle and after having sex got my period super early. I had no cramps( which I usually get really bad) and none of my other pre-peri...
A. 24 August 2009: It has happen to me before but not 11 days early...I am not sure if sex is the reason why your period came early and am wondering if it really was your period. Was it your first time having sex?... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about fat and calories, can't stop making myself sick!
Q. Hello, haven’t been here in a while but I’m just sick of everything at the moment and I’d rather vent on here than to anyone in person. I really struggle to open up to people and I feel that by telling someone I don’t have the problem, because it’s ...
A. 24 August 2009: My advice to you is you shouldn't hate your body. Find something you like about yourself and concentrate on that. Maybe you have really pretty eyes or nice hair.
You shouldn't worry that much about calories and how much you eat and should c... (read in full...)
I don't totally trust the pill and don't want my boyfriend to wear a condom!
Q. Hi everyone, I wrote a while back with a question about the pill. Now I really do not know what to do. Basically I'm worrying a lot that the pill won't work and I will get pregnant whilst using it. I just cannot trust it no matter how hard I try. ...
A. 24 August 2009: My bf too hates the condoms so i understand where you are coming from. (I hate them too) I've been taking Depo. I trust it and so does my bf. You might want to look into that. But if you really are that worried you should go back to using condoms. ... (read in full...)
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