Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 28 June 2010: Yes you are young and you want to have fun. But you are also in a relationship. Unless your bf understands it is open then this is cheating and is wrong.
Tell your boyfriend that this is an open relationship and what to expect.
Just because ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and gave him the wrong idea...
Q. Recently I've gotten to know this guy, "Sean". We became really good friends quite quickly. Yesterday, I was in his house. His older (18) brother was there. We had a little bit of drink on us but his brother's pretty cool and wouldn't tell hi...
A. 28 June 2010: Don't worry about it for now. He's in Spain for a while. I suggest moving on because he might get a girlfriend in Spain.
The only problem with your ages is that he is legal age while you are not.
When he comes back just act normal and stop ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he delete these pics?
Q. Well, i have been with my boyfried for nearly a year and a half now, and we have been through alot of stuff together but always seem to stay together. i just wanted to ask one thing well, tonight i was about to look at his photos when he snatched...
A. 27 June 2010: It's not the fact that he has the pictures is big sign but because he hid it from you is.
I suggest letting it go but watch his behavior more closely.
Follow your gut feeling!
Good Luck!
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Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 27 June 2010: No honey, cheating for kids is not acceptable. You are a teenager...not a kid anyway.
You are cheating on your bf...how would you feel if your bf went out with other girls and kissed them?
If you don't feel bad and you still want him then te... (read in full...)
Why didn't he delete these pics?
Q. Well, i have been with my boyfried for nearly a year and a half now, and we have been through alot of stuff together but always seem to stay together. i just wanted to ask one thing well, tonight i was about to look at his photos when he snatched...
A. 27 June 2010: I agree with Oregongrl1
check the dates
also the fact that he was hiding them from you is a very bad sign.
i would reconsider your relationship and have a talk with him... (read in full...)
Odd situation with work supervisor
Q. A couple of months ago, we had a new district manager start at my work district. We spoke a few times and he seemed like a really nice person. About a few weeks later, i was on a shift and he came over and started helping me with my work, i thought ...
A. 27 June 2010: I think you just forget about him and move on.
Like bernard said he might have a wife at home.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm lying to avoid sex
Q. Okay so I have irregular periods always have and my boyfriend of 5 years knows this, sometimes my periods are longer then usual and heavier then usual...but now hes starting to think im lying about being on my period just to avoid sex with him! He ...
A. 27 June 2010: easy....prove it to him that you are on ur period. Just show him. He'll never accuse you again.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Ideas for an atypical date?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a bit, we're both in college and I want to do something that isn't a typical date. I want us to sneak out of our houses at night (trust me not to do anything bad and whatnot) but to watch the stars or ...
A. 26 June 2010: I agree...watching the stars sounds good. Maybe try doing this on a beach if you live near a beach...if not a lake or something similar.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why do guys not show feelings?
Q. I was wondering why is it that guys do not show feelings. They act cold and like they could care less. Me and my boyfriend recently broke up 2 months ago. We spent a lot of time together and got close. We had a lot of good times together. I know I ...
A. 23 June 2010: Everyone is human...even guys. So yes they go through what we do.
But it sounds like your boyfriend was already over you at the time of the break-up.
Move on...and enjoy life. He is the past...embrace the future!
GoodLuck!... (read in full...)
Does his texting mean he likes me?
Q. he's txting and he tells (good nite sweet dreams) every night. Does this mean he likes mii more than a friend?...
A. 23 June 2010: Maybe but it doesn't prove it
I would hint to him or maybe get a friend to ask how he feels about you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Are these signs my shy boyfriend reciprocates my cravings?
Q. I can't hold in my feelings for my boyfriend any longer. These dreams I'm having are obviously uncontrolable...and these dreams are also causing my feelings for him to grow stronger! I'm having, like, sudden "cravings" to kiss him and cuddle w...
A. 23 June 2010: So if this person is in a relationship with you then you should go for it! He is after all your bf. This is what couples do.
If you are feeling nervous tell him what you plan to do before you do it...or maybe ask him....for example "what would yo... (read in full...)
How do I get through to him?
Q. I'm having big issues with my boyfriend. We've been rocky for about a month now. We've been dating for over two years and a half. We've never had problems before and now everything is just falling apart. The problem is that he has changed a lot. I ...
A. 23 June 2010: You already did everything as you said. I would let him go...he is not the person you fell in love with now.
He said he would change and still nothing. Let go and move on.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How do I prove my innocence?
Q. How can i prove that i am 100% innocent and am telling the truth to my boyfriend? I stupidly lied to my boyfriend of almost 3 years in a panic because i thought that he would think there was something going on between someone else when there wasn't. ...
A. 23 June 2010: Wow....sounds like your bf is unstable...does not trust you...and is controling you.
My advice is to confront him...tell him you don't know the kid and it was nothing. You lied because you were scared of what he would think. Tell him in a confid... (read in full...)
How do I stop period cramps?
Q. Wot can one do to stop period cramps....
A. 23 June 2010: You cannot stop period cramps...
But I find that taking a hot bath helps alot. Any time of heat helps me.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Are his angry outbursts a red flag?
Q. Hello, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been officially dating for one month but casually seeing eachother for about 5 months. in the beginning he told me he used to be very promiscuous. at first he told me he slept with 18 girls then in the ...
A. 19 June 2010: Ask oldersister is right. You need to tell you parents and leave.
keep us updated!... (read in full...)
So ashamed of my body that I can't go to the pool with them
Q. Hi ! I have 15 years old and i have a problem! My problem is that my school guys are always trying to "catch me", that makes me feel pretty and hot and thats great but you now what they say: "behind clothes we can find a worse thing" and i think th...
A. 19 June 2010: Don't feel ashamed. You are young and your body has not grown yet. I'm full grown and I am very slim with not much a figure. But I have a pretty face plus I smile alot. Which attracts many men and my fiance thinks I am the most beautiful girl in the ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I walk away?
Q. I met this girl on the Internet. She lived in a different country. We started just as friends. When we started as friends she was in the process of breaking with her boyfriend of 2 years. They loved each other very much but the boy's parent won't ...
A. 19 June 2010: I think you should move on. She is not ready for a relationship and the last one didn't work out because her parents refused her two year bf. It is very unlikely her parents will accept you.
Good Luck!
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Are all men carrying sexual baggage like this?
Q. I have been together with him for about eight years now. For almost seven of those years I did not know how to have an orgasm through penetration alone because I was a virgin when we met and did not have sexual experience. We had to use my hands ...
A. 19 June 2010: Wow...you are in a very unhealthy relationship.
First of all as long as you enjoy sex and are satisfied then there should be no concern.
Second your boyfriend is insecure and has even gone as far as to accuse you of cheating. He does not trus... (read in full...)
She kissed another guy
Q. my gf and i have been dating for 16 months and she met his guy a few days ago a her summer theatre thing an now he wont stop bgging her about a kiss and a couple days ago he stared tuching her like on the waist and butt and this pissed me off. i ...
A. 19 June 2010: Move on...you don't need a girlfriend like that.
I wouldn't be shocked if she slept with another either.
You deserve better!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin our friendship!
Q. Hello, I'm 14 years old, and live out in the country. So i've gone to the same skool as my most favotie guy friend. This guy friend of mine is SUPER amazing. He's everything a girl would dream of. I talk 2 him like 24-7. We tell each other things, ...
A. 16 June 2010: Your in a hard spot....maybe try getting a friend to see how he feels about you so that you don't risk making it awkward...
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with a girl!
Q. ok so my bf asked me if i would do sexual things with another girl while hes watching.. idk whats that called but i have been intrested in that (we are both 18) so he said if i wanted he could try and find someone for me to do stuff with. but then i ...
A. 16 June 2010: He was asking for a threesome. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it. It will just have to be one of his fantasies....trust me....if your not 100% comfortable then you will regret it.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?
Q. ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ...
A. 16 June 2010: I'm glad things seem to be working for you. Just be careful not to get hurt!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?
Q. ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ...
A. 11 June 2010: Your best option is to confront him. If he refuses to be in a relationship with you then stop having sex and move on. I know it's hard but the more you keep allowing this the more it will hurt.
Good Luck!
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Should I cry my eyes out or just act like I don't care?
Q. I started seeing my ex again about 5 months ago and i found out a week ago that he is still with his girlfriend and she is now 10 weeks pregnant !! Wow i cldnt tell u how sad and devistated I'am... I really loved my ex and thought that maybe he came ...
A. 9 June 2010: Calm down hon,
Unfortunately he is your ex. He's in a relationship and is expecting a baby. He does not love you and you will not get him back.
My advice is to cut contact and ignore him. Your only option is to move on.
Though I am won... (read in full...)
How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?
Q. ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ...
A. 9 June 2010: If he broke up with you for that then he needs some professional help. He has not healed from his Mother's death making him very insecure and not a healthy person.
Though it confuses me why he blames himself and seems to think you are better o... (read in full...)
How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?
Q. ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ...
A. 9 June 2010: I'm sorry hon but you cannot lose something that is not there. You are not in a relationship with him. You are nothing more then a fuck buddy.
Forgive me for being so blunt but you sound like a sweetie and it troubles me to have you be used thi... (read in full...)
Old enough for a baby, but he's unemployed and we still live at our parents...
Q. ok heres the thing my partner is well broody for a child im 29 and hes 26 . weve been together for 3 years and both think we could do this have a child . hes not working at the moment but looking and im working . im worried and i know i shouldnt...
A. 7 June 2010: Please wait!
Until;
1. You both have a steady income.
2. You have your own place (with enough room for a child)
3. You are able to pays the bills
Otherwise it will turn into a disaster!
Good luck! ... (read in full...)
How do I fix these problems and spice up the bedroom activity?
Q. ok i have several questions.... my boyfriend broke up with me in october but still calls me and texts me and we sometimes hook up. I asked him why he keeps comming around. he says he loves me/ What should i Do??? also we have awsome sex but i can't ...
A. 6 June 2010: So...let me try to understand this....
Your boyfriend broke up with you. Making him your ex. Yet he still comes over for sex because he loves you. I'm guessing you are still not in a relationship and he is still you ex.
This problem needs to... (read in full...)
I'm gutted after learning my wife has been cheating for years
Q. just found out my wife has been cheating for years i feel everything i held to be true is false too many feelings she blames me could that be true...
A. 6 June 2010: It's not your fault she cheated on you.
There could be two reasons why she cheated on you.
1. Something from your relationship with her was missing.
2. She is just one of those people who cheats.
Now, you should figure out which one ... (read in full...)
We agreed to take a break, but now my girlfriend doesn't want to get back together
Q. So about 10 days ago my girlfriend and I, of over 2 years, broke it off. It started with a fight where we both agreed that we need some space to cool off... then, for her, it turned into space for our relationship. She is questioning our ...
A. 6 June 2010: Yes, I think you are chasing a catch-less fish.
I know it hurts but she is moving on...and you should too.
Learn from this but don't put all of the blame on you. Use this to make your next relationship better.
Good Luck!
One mor... (read in full...)
He says that when we meet we wont have sex but would I do other stuff
Q. Started talking to this guy online...he asked me for my number and since I'm shy it took me a while to give it to him. He calls daily and 80% of the conversation kissing me and holding my hand...would I kiss him and hold his hand if we were toget...
A. 6 June 2010: He is looking for sex.
Have you met him in person before? I don't think so, it's not the best idea to give your information to people over the internet. Better to know them before you give your number out.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Ladies, please tell me what she's thinking, is there a chance for us?
Q. Ladies only please. And no negetive remarks. There's this girl. We were in a good relationship. We laughed, had fun together and had some good times. Like a month and a half back she broke up with me because she said that she wasn't ready for a ...
A. 5 June 2010: My advice is to move on. She clearly does not want to be in a relationship with you but does not want you to be with another girl.
Move on and find some friends!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Do I ask him?
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been dating this guy for a few weeks but I'm not sure if he really like me like he says he does or if he is just interested in sex. He takes me out to dinner and movies. He always pays. But every time we get together it alwa...
A. 5 June 2010: Yes, ask him.
I suggest not to have sex with him until you are in a relationship otherwise he is just using you. The fact that he didn't respond to your friend sounds fishy too. Like he is trying to string you along.
He doesn't sound li... (read in full...)
Can a girl like you after saying I think we should be friends?
Q. "OPs Own Title" Do you think its a possibility that a Girl who wants to be just friends. After being friends for long while hanging out and all that stuff that makes her more comfortable around you. That she can like you again? I mean I guess yo...
A. 3 June 2010: I think she just wants to be friends. You should move on.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why Do I keep looking Back if he said he doesn't care?
Q. Well, I really Love this Guy. He is Emo. And I do not care what anyone thinks of it. I am not Emo, At all. We have Never gone out. He was Never My Boyfriend. He is thee Most Amazing Person I have Ever met. There is NO one who is even clos...
A. 3 June 2010: Move on sweetie.
He doesn't care for you and you deserve better then this.
You shouldn't get involved with "emos" either. I have nothing against them and use to be friends with one. The problem with them is that their behavior and thinking is ... (read in full...)
Is it relatively normal to be doing this in a relationship?
Q. I have a girlfriend that I love a lot and would never heat on her. I've never even thought about it or anything like that. I feel guilty now if I watch porn, or masturbate thinking of someone else. Should I be feeling guilty or is it still ...
A. 2 June 2010: I don't think this is anything to worry about. This is normal and it sounds like you really care about her. She is lucky to have such a caring bf!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How far will she go?
Q. I have been with my wife for 9 years now I have always thought of her as very sexy -- at times she can wear outfits that make me crazy. But as of this last year she has started to wear outfits that show more then the norm. At first it was fun, I ...
A. 1 June 2010: Explain to her in a gentle way that you feel uncomfortable with her dressing this way in public. Do not fight or blame her!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I have been cut off and sit now like an idiot not knowing what to do!
Q. Quick and to the point, if someone is going thru a rough patch in their lives personally and emotionally and claims they love you more than life itself, then when they have a temper tantrum and slapped you of which they've never done before, the...
A. 1 June 2010: Break up with him and move on. He is not ready for a relationship and is becoming cold and physical abusive. (I know he only slapped you once but this is where it starts!) You don't want to go down this road. He has already cut 90% contact so there ... (read in full...)
I have a fear of eating with acquaintances!
Q. Before I explain my problem, I'd just like to clear up one little thing: I don't have an eating disorder, I'm a healthy weight, and I love love love to eat, most of the time. With that in mind, even I'm finding it difficult to believe tha...
A. 1 June 2010: I have the same problem, I do not like to eat in front of people I am not comfortable with even if they have food themselves.
My advice is to learn the proper eating manners, take it slow...one bite at a time, and like chigirl suggested get use ... (read in full...)
I need advice regarding an overbearing mother!
Q. It's a bit like daja vu! I was on here just over a year ago with exactly the question!! My boyfriend and I split up because his mother didnt like our relationship, but we worked through that issue and became close again but it was in 'secret'. ...
A. 1 June 2010: I'm sorry, this must be so frustrating for you.
My advice is to move on. He's not ready to be in a relationship and he has not independent from his mother yet. It's not fair to you that he treats you like this. He should stand up to his mother b... (read in full...)
Totally confused about everything in my life...
Q. So I'm a guy and I'm 15. I live a very boring life, in fact i have no life at all and no TRUE friends. It sucks. It's pretty lonely and sad. And lately I've been getting a real desire to find someone to call my own. To be in love, to fall in love, ...
A. 1 June 2010: Relax, you are only 13-15. I didn't find my love til 19 and I never dated before either.
You are still so young...you should try to figure who you are before you go wanting a relationship. I know you want to be loved-everyone does.
I would... (read in full...)
Does she have feelings for my brother over me???
Q. I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i ...
A. 1 June 2010: Did you talk to your brother about this?
It sounds like you are being used and the girl is playing along.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
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