Should I wait for him to come back
Q. i got this guy, he has been the one helping me out when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me on his birthday. i have been doing crazy things that night because i didn't want them to see my sadness, but this guy, let's call him *john* he knew what i feel ...
A. 7 March 2010: Will he come back? if he does then he will just leave again.
Should I stop waiting? YES! Don`t get another bf until you are over him. If he tries to get back with you ignore him...once he has you again he will just dump you again.
Is it really ... (read in full...)
I love him and want to believe this is all a "joke" but it has gone too far
Q. So i have a really complex situation, and don't know what to do.. The problem is my boyfriend has been talking to another girl on skype and facebook. He tells me when he talks to her and what is said. But thats not exactly the truth. See, h...
A. 7 March 2010: I know you don`t want to hear this....and I will try to be gentle about it.
He is cheating on you.
He wrote that he doesn`t want you....he wants her.
If he goes to Italy he will have sex with her.
He does not love you.
I`m sorry, y... (read in full...)
I don't understand many things about sex yet.
Q. im 13 and i dont understand many things about sex yet. i havent had the talk yet and i really dont wanna have it. i would rather ask on the internet so i am. 1st question is it normal for someone my age to masturbate? because i do all the tim...
A. 7 March 2010: Don't feel stupid about asking these questions. I knew nothing until I was 16.
First Question: Yes it is very normal. About other sex toys...i`m not sure as I don`t use them. That doesn`t mean you are not normal for using them.
Second Questi... (read in full...)
In love with a meanie?
Q. I went to homecoming last night, and it was amazing. We were dancing like crazy and the whole place was crowded. A guy in my geometry and bio class is when grade above me, and he's always been mean to me...but he's stopped since 4 weeks ago...He's ...
A. 7 March 2010: I'm glad you didn't go out with him and he didn't have a chance to really hurt you.
I hope you find a nice caring guy.
:D... (read in full...)
Head over heals for my coworker!
Q. what do y9u do if youre working with someone you adore and they dont know-its not as easy to tell them as they have a casual girlfriend but im head over heels in love with my work friend-what should i do...
A. 26 December 2009: This co-worker has a girlfriend. He is not single. How would you feel if you were in his girlfriend's shoes? Keep it to yourself and move on. There are single men out there. Good Luck! :)... (read in full...)
Should I walk away if he got another girl pregnant?
Q. hello im just wondering what i should do.my boyfriend of 5years got another girl pregnant an it hurts me soo much cause i was there an he didnt want me to have mine.but allowing this girl to have her baby.he say he love me an want to work it out wit ...
A. 25 December 2009: I agree with CaringGuy, I think you should walk away now. He has a baby with another women and now that women and their baby will come first. You deserve better then this. Good Luck and if you ever want to talk just e-mail me.... (read in full...)
Although the sex is terrific, I never orgasm with him. Should I bring this up with him?
Q. How or would you tell a man that although the sex is terrific, you don't have an orgasm with him? With another man, I can climax multiple times, but the sex seems mechanical. With the first guy, I am satisfsed more although I never cum with h...
A. 30 November 2009: It seems like the problem is not sex but your relationship. I would talk to him about your relationship and try to work on it til it is secure and you are relaxed.
Once you fix your relationship then sex should be better as well and there wo... (read in full...)
Could this really work?
Q. I recently discovered I'm bisexual and now I've got a crush. There's this guy at my school who is good looking and really friendly towards me, he's one of my favourite people in the world. I always felt some form of love for him, even before I ...
A. 23 November 2009: I'm glad to here that! :)... (read in full...)
Likes me, or likes me not?
Q. I am 16 years old and there's this guy that hangs sround me a lot. He sometimes does stuff that makes it seem really obvious that he likes me, but I don't know how I can tell for sure. For example, my sophmore class went on a field trip and we ...
A. 11 November 2009: I'm sorry to say this but you do nothing about it now. Forget about him and move on. He is in a relationship, how would you like it if some girl tried to steal your boyfriend away?
Good Luck and I hope you find a nice single man soon.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is the only woman I've slept with. Will I regret having missed out when I'm 50?
Q. I have been with my GF since I was 18. Now I'm 28. I've never had sex with anyone else. Lately, I'm finding myself very tempted by many women I see and finding myself capable of getting their attention. When I'm 50, will I regret never being wi...
A. 10 November 2009: Wow you need to really slow down and think about what you are saying. You want to have sex with other girls because you are afraid later when you are 50 you will regret not sleeping with alot of girls? Do you plan on dumping your girlfriend to sleep ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mam to let me date him again?
Q. My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm so glad it worked out for you! :)... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?
Q. their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm sorry to hear that. Be careful about going back with an ex. They are an ex for a reason.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
If he ejaculates quickly does that mean he is cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and i use to be sexual active but no longer... Well if we do.. he ejaculate very quickly (in seconds). I kno he feels back but i always told him it was alright. Dont worry its not a big deal, it can be fixed. I just love him so much ...
A. 25 October 2009: Usually the guy will look better (not worst) if he is cheating. He would be trying to lose weight not gaining it. I really don't think he is cheating on you. I would suggest to him to see the doctor (have a blood test maybe) to see if anything is ... (read in full...)
Since the divorce, my bipolar ex has made life hell for me!
Q. I am in dire need of help!!! I am a 47 year old female. I divorced my bi polar husband and we have been seperated for five years. I have not moved past the pain of the divorce. I have not accepted it and regret it. My husband was the love of my ...
A. 25 October 2009: I am sorry you went through this but you are better off then you were with your husband. You also need to get over it. Have you tried seeking help for that?
You need to relax. There is no need to have to be in a relationship right now-espe... (read in full...)
In love with a meanie?
Q. I went to homecoming last night, and it was amazing. We were dancing like crazy and the whole place was crowded. A guy in my geometry and bio class is when grade above me, and he's always been mean to me...but he's stopped since 4 weeks ago...He's ...
A. 24 October 2009: Are you sure you are in love and it's not just a crush?
Anyway, I would be very careful. He was mean to you in the past and now all of sudden nice? Sounds like he might have intentions to use you.
Don't do anything with him you will regret ... (read in full...)
If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?
Q. If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?...
A. 24 October 2009: It depends on the person. Some people say yes and other people will say no. It all depends on what you think is a virgin. ... (read in full...)
Will my gf be put off by my problem I think I'm not what she thought I was
Q. hi. Ive been with my gf for about 3 months. ive known her for years and shes always really fancied me. Iv always suffered with acne and i dont go out when i get a bad flare up. Most people dont realise i have bad acne because i dont go out when...
A. 24 October 2009: If she really likes you then she won't be put off by your acne. And like you said you are getting treatment for it. Just be yourself around her and everything will be fine. Just don't act depressed around her.
Don't worry, everything will wor... (read in full...)
He tells me to call but he never picks up
Q. hello everyone,i went on a date with a guy that i really like and we had a great time.He said he had a ball.We talked on a regular basis for two weeks and then he jus stopped so i waited a couple days and called him we talkin until the morning he ...
A. 24 October 2009: Completely agree with CaringGuy.
Let him call you and take it slow.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is it me or am I right to think he is lying?
Q. hi maybe i am thinking to much of this one so i would be grateful for any outside views. my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago, it ended once i found out, he is flirty by nature but i knew that when i first met him. he doesnt really have clo...
A. 24 October 2009: I agree with CaringGuy.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants oral, but I have memories of being forced...
Q. I am 19 years old now, and have met a guy I really like. He wants me to move in with him, and I am really looking forward to it. But I am really troubled about it to. Since living with my Mom at home, I have had the excuse not to do to much sex ...
A. 24 October 2009: I am so sorry you went through that.
I'm glad you are out of that situation now.
Whether or not you want to tell your boyfriend is up to you but at least let him know why you are uncomfortable giving oral. Tell him you had a bad experience a... (read in full...)
Could this really work?
Q. I recently discovered I'm bisexual and now I've got a crush. There's this guy at my school who is good looking and really friendly towards me, he's one of my favourite people in the world. I always felt some form of love for him, even before I ...
A. 24 October 2009: :) Keep me updated on what happens.
Good Luck!
... (read in full...)
Do you think the situation is unsolvable?
Q. I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit ...
A. 24 October 2009: I agree with Ask oldersister, you should listen to her advice.... (read in full...)
How to live with a liar and a cheater? Do they change?
Q. I love my husband and my 3 children dearly. I thought we had a happy family in 23 years. We are both French and live in US. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school. One day I found out my husband had a mistress in Asian in years. He went to ...
A. 24 October 2009: And you can't forgive him then you need to let him go. (They only change if they want to. Usually be staying they won't change.)
Good Luck!
(If you feel he is really trying then give it a little more time and see how you feel.)... (read in full...)
Do looks matter?
Q. Does look important when you want to appraoch someone ? I don't feel confident at all because I'm not a good looking guy. I really want to know if look matters or not in a relationship....
A. 24 October 2009: I think if you keep your appearance nice (Clean clothes/body, hair brushed, shaved or facial hair kept neat..etc.) and you are considerate, kind, patience, caring...etc. (Being a gentleman in other words.) Then THAT is what matters.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Losing interest in an LDR?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I d...
A. 24 October 2009: LSR rarely work out because of this reason. You could try to find a way to have more contact (I mean face to face) or leave the relationships. You won't be happy being in a relationship where you rarely see the person.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so insecure?
Q. Hello, I really need some help. I've been dating a guy for just under 3 years and I love him very much. We get along great, don't have too many disagreements and we've had an excelolent friendship throughout the relationship. I really love this...
A. 24 October 2009: You are either going to have to trust him or leave him.
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but you have no other options.
Has anything happened (e-mails) since then?
Keep your eyes open.
Don't get engaged/married until you completely trust h... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I might be pregnant?
Q. The last 3/4 days i have noticed brown discharge. My period is not due for another 10 days. I never get discharge a week or two after my period. I get some either on the day its due or towards the end of the period. Never just randomly. ...
A. 24 October 2009: Since this is unusual for you to have the brown discharge then I would suggest to go immediately to the doctor to figure out what is going on.
There is no such things as 100% birth control so yes you could be pregnant.
Take a pregnancy ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my lying husband?
Q. I have been so upset about my husband lieing.He would lie even when I seen it for my self.I left him for four mouth,well I went back to him about 2mouths ago.I thought I may have made him lie and it was all me.For a mouth now I that every thing go ...
A. 24 October 2009: "I love him but I cant keep going on this way."
I my advice is to break up with him. You can't trust him and without trust a relationship will not last.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is he only with me because he likes my stuff?
Q. I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all. Whenever he comes to my house hes always on my laptop which i understand since he doesnt have a computer at his house, and he likes to check his email and so ...
A. 24 October 2009: "I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all."
"I told him all this, and i told him it bothers me and he just said "yeah, yeah. yeah"
I only have one option for you in this case. Break-up with hi... (read in full...)
Could this really work?
Q. I recently discovered I'm bisexual and now I've got a crush. There's this guy at my school who is good looking and really friendly towards me, he's one of my favourite people in the world. I always felt some form of love for him, even before I ...
A. 24 October 2009: He could be confused about your e-mail. He's not a mindreader and probably doesn't know what you are talking about. If I had just read the e-mail and not your question then I would have confused.
You can try again but this time make yourself... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex after 4 years together?
Q. Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex when my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years on and off? My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me for the non-sex part and than wants to get back together with me. We had around 5 breakups. Each ...
A. 24 October 2009: There is nothing wrong with not be ready. However, you said you were afraid of sex? Did you have a bad experience or something? Why are you afraid of sex?
You should explain to him you are scared and if he doesn't respect that then he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Old friend only seems to contact me when he wants sex or am I missing something?
Q. hi, i have known this guy for about 20 years, im 37, he is 33. when we were younger we always met and flirted, and kissed a few times, but neither of us was single, so nothing happened. we both fancied each other but it never went beyond flirting. ...
A. 23 October 2009: It sounds like he is just using you for sex. I would stop having sex with him and see if he is still interested in you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
First he rejects me, now this. I'm confused, is he playing games with me?
Q. Ok so this guy knows I like him, I asked him out like 6 months ago and he rejected it by saying its because he doesn't really know me, but he showed signs of interest before so thats how I went to ask him out. Now that fall quarter has started he's...
A. 23 October 2009: well, this is unusual. Since you asked him out and he rejected you then my advice is to move on. Get over him and meet other guys.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 23 October 2009: :) np... (read in full...)
Nothing I do is good enough!
Q. Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...
A. 22 October 2009: He has zero respect for you and in a relationship you need respect. Talk to him about it and see if that works. If it doesn't then stop trying to please him until he respects you. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I wanna lose weight... fast.
Q. I wanna lose weight... fast. What is a way I can lose a lot of body fat and tone my body up fast?...
A. 22 October 2009: Talk to your doctor and set up a rountine for exercise and a healthy diet for yourself. And like satindesire said it is unhealthy to lose weight fast. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?
Q. Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...
A. 22 October 2009: I think it is fine. It's not like you are a minor. If he makes you happy then his age doesn't matter unless it bothers you?... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 22 October 2009: I'm glad the problem is solved. Remember to be careful of stds and pregnancy. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I hate the 'terms' we are on. Do I stay or move on?
Q. I had been seeing this guy for a little over 2 years. Back in July he had told me it was over. It ended because during the 2 years I was seeing him, he was engaged then got married, and well yes i was the other woman. Him and his "now former ...
A. 22 October 2009: First all you need to think is he really worth it.
While he had a girlfriend and then married her he had an affair with you.
--How can you trust that he won't do the same to you?
You waited years for him only to have him marry another girl.
-... (read in full...)
Need birth control and have no way to get it..HELP!
Q. I need help! I know I said im 18 but im realy 16 but I need help. I need birth control and I cant ask my mom or anyone for them?? I need advice! please help someway. My mom's outa the question ...
A. 22 October 2009: I can't see where you are from but do you have a pharmasave near you? They sell them.... (read in full...)
The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.
Q. Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I w...
A. 22 October 2009: Have you tried talking to a counselor or maybe taking therapy to help you? I hope everything goes ok with you and your baby!... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: If you don't trust anyone's answer on this my advice is to call the police station and ask them. Do it using a payphone or something like that if you wish to be anonymous.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: I'm sorry, because you are 15 I thought you were a virgin. Since you are not a virgin then I am sure you know all of the risks of having sex. Anyway, yes I know for a fact that the law clearly states it is illegal. ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: Yes it is illegal. Better answer? lol But really you should wait. Like degrassi already said there is other risks. Like STDS and pregnancy. I am slightly worried about the fact your mother is fine with it. Just one time having sex can change your ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: Please wait til you are legal enough to have sex. Jail plus the title your boyfriend would get is not worth the risk. ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mam to let me date him again?
Q. My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that ...
A. 5 October 2009: Do you know how your ex feels about you? Talk to him to see if he is wants to get back together with you. If he doesn't want to then you will have to move on. Now about your mom, can you give her proof that he is 16? Some form of ID or get his pa... (read in full...)
Likes me, or likes me not?
Q. I am 16 years old and there's this guy that hangs sround me a lot. He sometimes does stuff that makes it seem really obvious that he likes me, but I don't know how I can tell for sure. For example, my sophmore class went on a field trip and we ...
A. 4 October 2009: It sounds like he is interested. You could try to test the waters by light flirting etc.
Good Look!... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?
Q. their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...
A. 29 September 2009: First you need to figure out your own heart. Who do you want? Concentrate on the guy you want. If you can't choose then you need to back off all of them.
Continuing this behavior will only hurt them and will hurt your reputation.
Also back off... (read in full...)
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