Does she have feelings for my brother over me???
Q. I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i ...
A. 1 June 2010: Did you talk to your brother about this?
It sounds like you are being used and the girl is playing along.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why can guys not learn to communicate properly???
Q. I have this guy who is a friend we mail/text back and forth almost on a daily basis, then today outta nowhere he is like an anti christ . . He is hung over but surely thats not going to change him into a nasty piece of work is it???? Why is it...
A. 1 June 2010: Hi,
I know how you feel. Try not to let it get to you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I am really certain that this is the one for me, but am afraid I may be wasting my efforts and will only lead to heartache in the end.
Q. I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I really like her, no wait; I'm falling in love with her. She knows how I feel, but maybe not to the extent of my feelings. She also knows that I want to date her and she’s told me she really likes ...
A. 1 June 2010: She is not ready for a relationship so you should move on.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad?
Q. Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad? I have been married for over 17 years, I've cheated and my husband has cheated. He has lost two jobs over woman that he cheated with and he talked to several woman on a computer. We have been to church f...
A. 31 May 2010: Maybe you are afraid of him cheating so you want to catch him in the act to prove it. Of course I could be completely wrong. Maybe you want him to mess up so that it makes you more innocent then he is.
Though you did mention leaving him. So you s... (read in full...)
Is there ever really a good time to have a baby?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He has a son from a previous relationship. We have mentioned children in passing on many occasions and both agree we want them, however we have never made any solid plans. We did sort of agree last year ...
A. 30 May 2010: I think you should wait until he has a job!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Was it a terrible idea to send my ex a picture of us when we were together?
Q. My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what ...
A. 27 May 2010: I don't think the picture was a bad thing.
Good Luck!
Feel free to contact me if you need to talk.... (read in full...)
I am back with my boyfriend after I cheated on him, but the other guy doesn't appear to have got the message!
Q. i was with a guy for nearly a month who i cheated on my current bf with when i went on holiday last year, but yesterday(25/5/10) my current bf just knows the way to my heart and won me back, so i get home, tell the other guy its over in the ...
A. 27 May 2010: I agree with CaringGuy!
ignore him and forget about him!
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"My boyfriend said that porn is disgusting but I found out he watches it"
Q. Dear Cupid, A few day a ago I found out that my boyfriend had been looking at a porn website when he stayed over at his friend's house. I heard it from both of the people he was with at the time and apparently he wanted to look at the lesbian ...
A. 27 May 2010: I think he is embarrassed. You should try to contact him.
99% of the male population like porn so I wouldn't be surprised if lied to you to make you happy.
I don't think porn is serious...cheating yes but not porn. Try to forget about it ... (read in full...)
I don't talk to him as much as before am I loosing him?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few weeks. The thing is he used to be my best friend and we were so close, we used to talk for hours, joke around and stuff. But now he doesn'talk to me as much, acts awkward and doesn't come to see me at school I a...
A. 26 May 2010: I think you should talk to him.
It might be because he is uncomfortable being in a relationship with you because you were best friends. He might not know how to react.
How long ago did you start being in a relationship with him? When did hi... (read in full...)
He's still have his profile in a Dating ste where we met. Was it a smart decision that I broke up with him?
Q. "OP's Own title"I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I had found out that he is still keeping his old profile in an internet dating site where we met. And the worst part he viewed one of my "fake" profiles that i created to caught him. ...
A. 26 May 2010: I'm glad you are looking out for yourself and that is a good thing. Do not take any crap from anyone.
People do make mistakes and if he is willing to fix the mistake I think he should have a second change. He did say you could delete his profile ... (read in full...)
Now that our son is born he has kicked her out and swears he will do whatever it takes to get his family back. Am I wasting my time?
Q. I have been married for almost 2 years and have a 2 month old son. My husband told me when I was 4 months pregnant that he "loved me but was not in love with me" and left. He said that "I deserved better" and many more cliched statements. I ...
A. 19 May 2010: I wouldn't let him back in right now. Let him prove it!
I am wondering if he had this planned the entire time and thought he would go back to you once the baby is born.
I would move on but I know it's not easy where you have a baby with him. I... (read in full...)
Is he being a player?
Q. Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is ...
A. 19 May 2010: I agree with raiders,
move on please. He's not worth your time. I suggest then when he asks are you dating is to tell him none of your business...in a polite way.
Maybe he will learn a lesson from this because no-one deserves being dumped for... (read in full...)
Pictures of his ex on his bedroom wall! And porn-type ones with her on his phone and computer!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just under 2 months, and when i was over his i noticed on his phone and computer he has porn like pictures of him and his ex and a photo of her on his bedroom wall. so i gave him time to delete them etc. but he didn...
A. 19 May 2010: He is not over her. My suggestion would be to leave. This is also unhealthy behavior which dirtball has mentioned.
You don't deserve this kind of treatment from your boyfriend!
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
"My kids dad died 5 years ago but I can't stop thinking on his friend"
Q. Hi I m 24 year old single mom, my kids dad died 5 year ago n when this happened his close friend was there to pick up the pieces, even tho we hadn't spoke much before. we grew extremely close, he brought me out to dinner,took me places, introduced ...
A. 19 May 2010: Well if you feel this way about him I would suggest to try dating him and see how that goes.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Pregnant, feeling alone and trapped, with no job!
Q. im 18 years old. i feel so down and depressed, been up and down for a year now. i spend most my life crying stuck in my room. i have no job, eventhough i try everyday to get one and have been failing at them all, im pregnant, and i have a boyfriend ...
A. 13 May 2010: My advice to you is:
Be considerate of your bf's job.
Talk to him and explain how you feel without putting any blame on him.
Do you have friends? If so spend time with them.
Spend time with your family.
pamper yourself....like take a ... (read in full...)
How do I ask him, who that blonde girl was in his car?
Q. Hello, I'm in my 20s and not really had that much experience with guys and have slept with only 3 men. Anyway ive been on-off, seeing this guy who the other week said he sees me as a good friend. He's 10 years older then me. Anyways, we first...
A. 11 May 2010: "He has said that he was seeing other girls, but have never believed him as i have been sleeping with him along with other foreplay things."
He IS seeing other girls. Just because you have been fooling around with him does not mean you are in a... (read in full...)
Is this guy a player or what?
Q. hello, its been a while now that iv been texting a guy who is 6 years older than me. when he first txt he wanted to know if im single. today i found out that he has a girlfriend and a baby boy. he always ask me out but iv refused till now. should i ...
A. 11 May 2010: Why would you want to go out with him knowing he is in a relationship and has a baby with this person?
Do you really want to be the other women?
Are you really so heartless that you don't care about his girlfriend and the pain you would cause ... (read in full...)
I'm bi-curious, should I give it a try?
Q. okay so i just found out my friend is a lesbian. i am totally grossed out. she has asked me to get physical with her but i said i dont know. i then had a dream the other night that we had sex and i liked it. i kind of want to give it a try now. what ...
A. 23 April 2010: If you want to try it then go ahead. Just make sure that your friend knows your intentions and you mean nothing by it and might not like it etc...
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Was my husband cheating with her?
Q. My husband is a van driver who took a female rider to a church function they got back and sat in the van for 10 or so mins in the dark with no light in the van or on the streets. I got a strange feeling in my gut something happened between them. He...
A. 23 April 2010: I think you should keep an eye on them. You have no proof so don't accuse him of anything. Do they hang out together alot?
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Snooping in fiancee's facebook account made me discover he cheated!
Q. I recently did a bad thing and snooped in my fiance's facebook account. I read a message in there that said that he had sex with a girl whilst on a boys weekend away. This happened a week after we met (we'd only been on one date) and we weren't ...
A. 19 April 2010: I don't think this is cheating where you were not together and had been on one date. Forgot about it and trust him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no confidence
Q. My boyfriend has very low self confidence. He's always putting himself down. Calling himself ugly. He's also very inexperienced sexually. These are all huge turn offs. I usually go for the confident guys that aren't scared to put there hands down my ...
A. 14 April 2010: Take a deep breath....and relax. :)
Now, you want him to be confident? Then make him feel like it! Tell him how good looking he is...all of the time....even out in public. Stare at him (the kind stare that says "your soooo sexy) Make him think he... (read in full...)
His going to stripper bars makes me feel inadequate
Q. Ok so I knew my boyfriend went to strip clubs but until a few days ago I had no idea how much. I was ok with it when I thought it was like 1 or 2 times a month but its more like 3 times a,week!! I was devastated. It makes me feel like im not enough ...
A. 14 April 2010: Ask him to stop
Go to the stripper club with him
forget about it
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If this doesn't help then consider dumping him. No man that loves you would do this if he knew that it hurts you, and he knows!
G... (read in full...)
I take care of the kids, pay for everything, and he tells me he wants a girl on the side??
Q. i wanna to leave my husband because im not happy all we do is argue and i tired of it i support him my two kids and his son every time i turn around im paying for something like child support he can't think for him self i have to do every thing ...
A. 14 April 2010: Divorce him! ... (read in full...)
I gave him a hickey -- now his mom doesn't want him to see me.
Q. Hi I have a problem I gave my bf a hicky on his neck and his parents found out and now his mom thinks I'm a prostitute and he not aloud to come over any more because his mom thinks I'm a prostitute but I love him and now he can't come over how can I ...
A. 14 April 2010: How old is your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
Love Letters to an Ex
Q. OK, let’s be real. Love letters to exes don’t really work, do they? Have they ever worked? I wrote one, but haven't sent it yet. Maybe it will work for me, as I know people who have gotten back with their ex and have had successful relationships ...
A. 30 March 2010: I suggest you send it then if nothing happens move on.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to go to a guys house on a second date?
Q. BIG question...What's appropriate for a first or second date? I went to dinner with this guy for our first date and now, he wants me to come over his house and he admitted that he was really attracted to him and joked we might end up in bed or ...
A. 30 March 2010: He wants to take you to his house to have sex with you. If you don't want to have sex with him (I suggest to wait until you know him better plus he will respect you more if you wait.) then make this clear to him and do not go to his house. Keep the ... (read in full...)
He was bummed, and seemed disappointed. What can I do to help our budding relationship?
Q. So the other night this guy who I really like and me had sex for the first time. I was a little confused because I couldnt tell if he was enjoying it or not... it was hard to see any facial expressions in the dark but I could feel that he was ...
A. 30 March 2010: You did nothing wrong. Usually when someone is on top they get more tired then the person on the bottom. He was only tired. :)... (read in full...)
I'm not over him and Facebook isn't helping. Should I delete him as a friend?
Q. there is this boy i like and we went out for a week and then he ignored me for a whole month, and then he came back and was like i'm sorry. he wants to get back together. I really like him ALOT. however, he's like you know what type of relationship ...
A. 21 March 2010: Hi,
I'm sorry you fell hard for this jerk. Even you know that he doesn't want to be with you. He only wanted sex and when you refused he now wants nothing to do with you. Delete him and move on. You don't need someone like that in your life.
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How do I prevent him from wanting to end it?
Q. im 13 me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 months now.i realized dat hes a little horny all the time but is a little shy about feelings. we kiss a lot but i dont think he likes doing it. i feel like he is starting to loose interestt of me. ...
A. 11 March 2010: I'm sorry but I don't think he loves you. He probably has you around so that one day you will have sex with him...then he will have nothing to do with you.
I know it hurts. Try talking to him about how you feel and if he doesn't listen dump him... (read in full...)
My relationship just ended but I don't care..?
Q. My relationship of 2 months just ended about an hour ago. For some reason I am not at all upset. I don't know what to make of this. I was trying to make it work up until he decided it just wouldn't, but it was more because I was scared of being ...
A. 11 March 2010: This is a good thing. Don't be upset....you didn't want him and why should you cry over someone you didn't even like? Don't be afraid of being alone. Be happy because it's over and you can relax. Hang with your friends and have fun. You should ... (read in full...)
His little sister is invading our relationship.
Q. Okay so my boyfriends sister is coming home from living with friends. She butts in our relationship and is very needy of him. I don't like to share and feel like im competing. She also uses him and he accepts it because that's his younger sister. ...
A. 9 March 2010: I understand more....
I misunderstood you as being jealous. My apologizes.
Again talk to your boyfriend. Talk to your bf and explain you are uncomfortable with her and you feel like you have to compete to get some attention.
Do you mean ... (read in full...)
Please read! Crazy about my best guy friend
Q. Hi guys ne advice wud be appreciated. In short, i love my best guy friend and actually ended things over a year a ago with my ex of 5 years coz my feelings were so strong. My friend ad a gf but they drifted apart. We both have anxiety but are ...
A. 9 March 2010: He doesn't want to ruin the relationship he has with you. He values you as a friend and is afraid to lose that.
He is not ready. So don't push. Avoid hugging and kissing or any sexual contact. Give it sometime and ask if he wants to go further.... (read in full...)
Topsy turvy or bottoms up?
Q. okay, well i've been with my bf for nearly a year and ive always been bottom and i love it like that, ive never even thought, fantasied or considered myself to be on the top side of sex it just doesn't do it for me, but now my bf wants me to top him ...
A. 9 March 2010: To be honest I never imagined it at first either. I tried and found it very hard. Could hardly do it. As time when on kept trying. I'm alot better now....nowhere near perfect....lol
I think you should give it a try though. Eve if you find it hard ... (read in full...)
Separated married man want me to move in with him.
Q. Alright, I need a little help here. I've been dating this amazing guy for six months. We have discussed moving in together after my lease is up. I have another few months before I have to give notice as to not renewing and another couple after ...
A. 9 March 2010: I agree 100% with Frank B Kermit.
don`t move in with him til he is divorced! ... (read in full...)
I'm too "sensitive" when she's talking to other guys.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months total with a couple of break ups here and there. When we first met, she had a boyfriend, but he wasn't the best person. he was a player, and barely made any effort to see her and it was a ...
A. 9 March 2010: Break up with her! She cheated on you many times and will continue to do so. I`m sorry but she is not going to change for you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
His little sister is invading our relationship.
Q. Okay so my boyfriends sister is coming home from living with friends. She butts in our relationship and is very needy of him. I don't like to share and feel like im competing. She also uses him and he accepts it because that's his younger sister. ...
A. 9 March 2010: You sound very jealous of his little sister. Why do you feel like you need to compete? This IS his little sister. This is a family member (who is younger) that he loves. You need to accept that. He is always going to love and be there for his little ... (read in full...)
Is this lack of a father figure or something else???
Q. I'm 17 - 18 in a couple of months. It's taken me a lot of courage to start writing this, because I am very, very embarrassed about what I'm going to say and I feel like such an awful, twisted person. I have always had confidence issues, paranoia ...
A. 8 March 2010: Have you considered having therapy? It sounds like you have issues that relate back to your father and pretending to have another life is not healthy. Advice that will be given will not fix the problem. I suggest going a therapist.
Good Luck and... (read in full...)
His mom is always butting into our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and his mom seems to always be butting into our relationship. In our first few months of dating, she already tried to break us up because she was jealous that there was a second woman in his life. (she ...
A. 8 March 2010: It sounds like his Mother had problems letting her son go. she was probably hurt and scared. So naturally she hated the thing that was taking her boy away from him. Which is you.
It seems now that she is sorry and is trying to make up. I know it ... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking about my best friend's boyfriend???
Q. i recently had sex with my best friend's boyfriend, they have been together for 10 years and have 3 children, we bumped into each other on a night out and a few friends came back to my house, everyone went around 5am and her boyfriend stayed to ...
A. 8 March 2010: I'm glad you know what you did was wrong. Please don't do this again. You know your best friend will be in so much pain if she found. It's bad enough he cheated but with her BEST friend makes it ten times worst. She trusted you both and you both ... (read in full...)
First relationship is a bit confusing and compicated!
Q. Well, I'm in my first 'proper' relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and we are both virgins. My boyfriend is a few years older than me and i was suprised when he told me he was a virgin and i have mixed feeling ab...
A. 8 March 2010: You are not ready for sex as you said so yourself. Talk to him and explain how you feel. If he cares about you he will understand. Don't rush into sex. It's your first time and you don't want to regret it. Take it easy and slow. When I decided to ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to come back
Q. i got this guy, he has been the one helping me out when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me on his birthday. i have been doing crazy things that night because i didn't want them to see my sadness, but this guy, let's call him *john* he knew what i feel ...
A. 7 March 2010: Will he come back? if he does then he will just leave again.
Should I stop waiting? YES! Don`t get another bf until you are over him. If he tries to get back with you ignore him...once he has you again he will just dump you again.
Is it really ... (read in full...)
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