I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 23 October 2009: :) np... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 22 October 2009: I'm glad the problem is solved. Remember to be careful of stds and pregnancy. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.
Q. Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I w...
A. 22 October 2009: Have you tried talking to a counselor or maybe taking therapy to help you? I hope everything goes ok with you and your baby!... (read in full...)
I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?
Q. im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?...
A. 21 October 2009: I agree with softtouchmale2003. I couldn`t have said it better myself! :)... (read in full...)
How would you tell if a guy thinks you look good without him saying anything?
Q. Today I was walking to the bus and my best friend Rob was sitting there as always waiting to talk to me. I sat down across from him and he started talking to me. Today was different though he kept playing with his hair and he always faces my way. ...
A. 21 October 2009: When he stares go to him and talk to him. I think he likes you if he looks at you so much. He could be shy with his feelings.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Should I continue and see where things go?
Q. I met this guy at a concert and we instantly connected. He asked for my number and called me the next day.. we talked for hours each day and when we weren't talking we were texting. We just really got to know each other and it seemed like we had a ...
A. 21 October 2009: Wow...you just met the guy...try not to overwhelm him. Take it easy. There's no need to rush. Relax and see where it goes. If you feel like he is not interested then break it off. But wait a while and let things take place. Give him a chance to ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: If you don't trust anyone's answer on this my advice is to call the police station and ask them. Do it using a payphone or something like that if you wish to be anonymous.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: I'm sorry, because you are 15 I thought you were a virgin. Since you are not a virgin then I am sure you know all of the risks of having sex. Anyway, yes I know for a fact that the law clearly states it is illegal. ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: Yes it is illegal. Better answer? lol But really you should wait. Like degrassi already said there is other risks. Like STDS and pregnancy. I am slightly worried about the fact your mother is fine with it. Just one time having sex can change your ... (read in full...)
I'm just not sure about this...?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...
A. 21 October 2009: Please wait til you are legal enough to have sex. Jail plus the title your boyfriend would get is not worth the risk. ... (read in full...)
What could she be talking about?
Q. A friend (female) of mine is being very cryptic... my boyfriend and I spent time with she and her husband a few months ago, had a wonderful time and have not seen them since. She (friend) was extremely intoxicated and was licking my boyfr...
A. 21 October 2009: Ask your boyfriend about it. It could be that she meant she has feelings for your boyfriend and wants to put that behind her.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
We like to do it in unusual places, is there something wrong with that?
Q. My lover and I are into finding unusual places to be together. We like the risk, but are not all out into public displays. For example, the other night we met in a neighborhood park (it was empty, dark and away from homes, but at the same time it ...
A. 21 October 2009: Just don't get caught and like CaringGuy said alot of people do it.... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my boyfriend that I'm in love with my best friend?
Q. How do I break it to my boyfriend that I am in love with my best (guy) friend? Background info: I met my boyfriend and best friend around the same time (2005-2006ish). I met my boyfriend on vacation in another country. I have family who live ...
A. 21 October 2009: Well first of all I would break up with your boyfriend. You both have different ideas and wants. (I agree that you are you young to be a mother. Enjoy life.)
I would then try again with your best friend and see how that goes.
Whether you w... (read in full...)
He said "'I just want you to want me". What does that mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says 'I just want you to want me'? Yesterday I was talking to this guy who i had been dating on and off... we were talking about one of our guy friends and he said he felt happy we were having that talk. He then said he ...
A. 21 October 2009: I agree with caring guy. He wants you to love him and wants you to want to be his girlfriend.
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She has lied the whole time, should I still be with her?
Q. Hello. Just wondering if I could get some advice please. I met a woman on a dating site and she told me she has not had sex with anyone for over 6 years. She told me she did not bother due to being cheated on in a previouse relationship. I t...
A. 21 October 2009: Wow, that's quite the lie. Have you talked to her about it? Is she willing to change and stop lying? Would you be able to forgive her even if she did change? Whether you go back to her is up to you. There is no wrong or right answer here. Follow ... (read in full...)
I know it won't work but he won't let me leave.
Q. I need help! This is my situation. I've been dating an older man for about a month and a half now. He's thirty three and im only nineteen. A short time before we started seeing each other he had just broken up with his girlfriend of three or more ...
A. 21 October 2009: You need to leave. I know this is hard but you will never be happy unless you do. Tell him gently but firmly you need to go your separate ways.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Feelings for my husband's brother but not an affair...
Q. Hi, I don't really know what to say.. A bit of background on this situation. My husband (married for 2 and a half years) and I met in Hawaii in 06 and he immediately fell in love with me. I didn't have feelings for him for about a year. His br...
A. 20 October 2009: You are understand the situation and you already seem like you know what to do. Talk to your husband's brother and clear it up. Then you need to get over him.
You will be much happier in the long run.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to feel this way or am I crossing the line?
Q. My husband's brother is literally the nicest guy I have ever met. He's is genuinely sweet and nice to me when no one else is. I have never in my life been treated so well by someone, not by any friends not by and family members. I've never had a ...
A. 20 October 2009: Just be careful. It's ok to be fond of him and think of him as a caring friend. Anything else is treading dangerous waters.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
What should I do to get this girl?
Q. She says that she doesnt want a relationship right now but things can always change, she says she has feelings for me but doesnt act on them. i dont know how long to continue playing this game but i think shes soo special and it would be tough to ...
A. 20 October 2009: I know it is hard but she doesn't want a relationship right now so you need to get over her.
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My Father is controlling how much time I spend with my bf!
Q. today my dad angrily informed me that my bf and i shouldn't see eachother like we usually do. my boyfriend is important to me, he's my rock, my best friend, my support, and the person who keeps me from going insane. he's downright perfec...
A. 20 October 2009: I know it is hard but my advice is to get a job and move out. Maybe try staying with your bf or a friend's place?
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Should I be more patient? Or is it over for us?
Q. recently, about nine months ago, i met this truly amazing guy in school. i was attracted to him in class immediately before we even spoke to each other, having a crush on him already, and i knew i had to get to know him. i was so nervous that i ...
A. 20 October 2009: I think you should try and move on. LDR rarely work out and it seems like he's not interested.... (read in full...)
Will it hurt the third time?
Q. Oks o i had sex a couple times already. My problem is that on my first time the tip only went in. My second time only the tip but it really hurt and i got scared to put it all the way( i never had put it all the way). Ok so im going to do it my ...
A. 20 October 2009: You should wait until you are ready to have sex. You are not mentally ready if the tip hurts you. ... (read in full...)
Is my mom in a bad relationship? or am I just too sensitive
Q. I'm having trouble deciding if my mom is in a bad relationship or I'm just too sensitive. She started seeing this guy Tim last year and at first he seemed okay. Kind of loud and rude, but fine. I never liked him much but he seemed to make her happ...
A. 20 October 2009: Unfortunately this sounds like a very unhealthy relationship for your mom. Try talking to her in a soothing voice, making her angry will only get her to be protective of him. You need to be on her side. Hopefully she will see sense soon and get rid ... (read in full...)
Does he sound like he wants a relationship?
Q. I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. We talk daily and usually see each other 2 or 3 times a week. When we do get together it's for hours on end. I haven't slept with him and have told him that I'm not ready and he's said he's ok with ...
A. 20 October 2009: Yes it does sound like he wants to be in a relationship. The only way to confirm that you are in one is to ask. Try something along the lines of:
My relationship with you is feel so close, does this mean we are a couple or something?
Hope th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him constantly!
Q. My boyfriend always thinks im after other guys and cheating on him constantly. Ive honestly never cheated on him i love him so much. I go to school and i got a little close with one guy, we would hug longer than other people would or talk just to ...
A. 20 October 2009: You need to talk to him and explain you didn't do anything for him to distrust you. Maybe work something out where he will trust you again. Relationships without trust do not last very long.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?
Q. My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under ...
A. 20 October 2009: It sounds like he has a porn addiction. Try to get him to go seek help on it.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Should I compromise and give him a call or ignore him forever?
Q. I've been sort of seeing this man for the past 5 or so months...we never slept together but the chemistry was so there-it was on a mental level maybe the most intense relationship I've ever had. Part of the reason is he's 15 years older than me ...
A. 20 October 2009: You should e-mail him and tell him his lack of response hurts you. Then depending on his reply (if he reply's) go from there.
But really I would forget about being in a relationship with him. Being his friend maybe if he responds. Though it sound... (read in full...)
Should I be worried he might be cheating?
Q. so here is my question... my boyfriend called me drunk one time.. and his nephew was on the phone because he had me on speaker)and he was talking about this girl named let's call her "b", my boyfriend was like hush boy your about to get me in ...
A. 20 October 2009: Well it does sound like he could be cheating on you. I would keep a close eye on him. For now though you don't have anything to go on except that phone call when he was drunk. Wait and see if anything else occurs. If a second thing does happen (and ... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance or ignore my instincts?
Q. Hey there, ok so here's my problem. I have the strongest feelings ever for my best friend. (he's a guy). I know it's not love but it sure feels like it whenever i see him or talk to him. He just came out of a 1 year relationship so i know he's ...
A. 20 October 2009: Right now is not the best time for him to be in a relationship. If you get together with him you risk being a rebound. Wait until he heals and is over her. Once he stops hurting then try your luck at a relationship. For now just be a supportive good ... (read in full...)
How can I make this marriage work?
Q. I hope to get a female perspective on my wife's ideas. Our relationship has been very stormy for a few months. Such as: she stopped wearing her ring, says she doesn't want to be married, wants to talk to guy's on the phone in total privacy, is ...
A. 19 October 2009: I am sorry but it sounds like she doesn't want it to work out. Unless she changes and is committed to your marriage then it's not going to work out.
Try talking to her and see if that helps. Be pleasant to her and try not to argue.
If talk... (read in full...)
How do I get over a cheater and end it for good?
Q. To make a long story short, my boyfriend of 4 years is a habitual cheater. I have kicked him out of our home after discovering another affair, but I still find myself thinking of him and wanting to work things out. We remain in contact via phone ...
A. 19 October 2009: First of all you need to give yourself time to heal. Unfortanly you do not have the option of cutting contact with him since you have a one year old child. Since you have a child with him this is going to be difficult but not immpossible. You know ... (read in full...)
Is it heathy for us to get bakc together?
Q. Here's my situation....broke up with my ex over 5 years ago. I've dated a lot since then, but nothing even remotely serious. We've been hanging out again for a few months...I'm almost 30 and I realize that if I get involved now...it means long term ...
A. 19 October 2009: Take it slow. Give her time to heal and make sure you are not a rebound. When you feel she is ready and is over him then try. Don't rush.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if hes telling the truth about not wanting to be with her?
Q. okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year now. he has and ex gf who he was with for a year but that was 2 years from now. we are living together at his moms and she still calls him and wants to hang out and normally he would ...
A. 19 October 2009: That is what is called trust. Either you trust him or you don't. Relationships can not survive without trust.
Though what you wrote here sounds like he doesn't want to get back together with him. He normally doesn't hang out with her and the one ... (read in full...)
I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else.
Q. I'm severely depressed. I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else. My whole routine has completely changed I rarely go out I simply stay in my apartment all day, I've tried to go out once or twice but ...
A. 19 October 2009: Before you go getting into another relationship you need to get out of your depression and enjoy life. Get out, meet new people, and have fun.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Husband has me running ragged and I'm mentally exhausted. How did I let this pile up on me?
Q. I'm mentally exhausted, i've been out of work for 6 months running my fiance's business. I really want to get back to my own job but I have no oompf. I believe I'm depressed. He has me running ragged. Seriously I do just about everything but dress ...
A. 16 October 2009: Calm down. You are not stuck and this can be solved. First you need to talk to your husband about this. If he is willing then it would be a good idea to go to a couple therapy or something similar.
Now if he is not willing to help you through ... (read in full...)
If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?
Q. If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?...
A. 16 October 2009: Yes it does sound like she likes you. Try lightly flirting and see how that goes. :)... (read in full...)
Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?
Q. I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...
A. 16 October 2009: Wow, sounds like you are in a bad situation. Is your brother younger or older then you?
Your family is not supportive of you at all because they insult you and bring you down. My advice is to get out of this situation asap. I know money is a pro... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin! What should I do?
Q. I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I ...
A. 14 October 2009: Considering she is your cousin my advice is to move on and keep the relationship friendly.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I can't forget about his ex!
Q. My boyfriend and i have always had trust issues but we have seen we cannot live without each other,he had a gf while we broke up 2 months ago after being together for 13 months. I never ever expected him to get a gf,but he did and thought i wouldn't ...
A. 14 October 2009: You don't have to forgive him right away. Give it time and take it slow.
He is going to have to earn your trust back. If this seems impossible then you should reconsider your relationship with him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How can I find out what he likes for his birthday?
Q. I have a friend whose a guy and his birthday is coming up in 10 days. He is turning 21. I would like some ideas on what I should get him...Also how can I ask him what his favorite things are or the things he likes without sounding too obvious about ...
A. 14 October 2009: You can try discussing your favorite things etc then ask his. Make a conversation out it.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?
Q. If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?...
A. 14 October 2009: They will let you know, either in bold actions or subtle hints.
Is there someone who you think likes you? What do they say and what is their body language?
:)... (read in full...)
Is there a foundation to launch a relationship from here?
Q. Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet ...
A. 14 October 2009: Well it sounds like there is foundation there. Take it slow and get to know her. Take her on dates and treat her with care.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!
Q. My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad ...
A. 13 October 2009: I know it's not easy but you need to talk to him about this. If you let it go it will continue to eat you up inside and ruin your relationship with him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!
Q. My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad ...
A. 13 October 2009: Talk to him about how you feel. Ask him to stop bad mouthing you. If he doesn't apologize and stop then you should reconsider your relationship with him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
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