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What do I do so that I'm better for him than she was?

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Question - (8 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, basically my fiance's ex girlfriend squirted when she orgasmed and he really pleased her and she really pleased him, I was a virgin when I met him although I'm not now, but I still feel inadequate and I can't compare to her. What do I do so that I'm better for him than she was?

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2007):

Skeez agony auntHello hun.

I dont think you should worry about his ex being able to squirt. You know not many woman can actually do it. Possibly under 20% can so i dont think it should really bother you as its completely normal to not be able to.

And if you want to try better, why not indulge yourself with the 'karma sutra' or other sex books and get some tips and new techniques you and your fiance can try out.

Dont comapre yourself love to somehting so small as that.

Your both getting married so theres obviously somthing he loves about you.

Like i said. share an afternoon where you both can read a sex book and when he points out a position he likes the look of tell him tht you can try it out that evening.

goodluck

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A female reader, Gemini1506 United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2007):

Ask him what he likes and see if he wants to try new stuff. but make sure your comfortable with it. But you must be doing something right if you two are getting married. You probably already fulfil him sexually as well as romantically

Best of luck

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