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writes:Okay, so I met this guy back in Jan and we got together twice, and talked on the phone every day or every other day, then he went away on business. While he was gone we would still talk over the phone every day or every other day and he would even tell me to come up there to see him. Now a week ago, he was telling me he was trying to come back down to see me for V-Day but then found out he couldnt. Now heres the thing, since then he hasnt called me or texted me or anything, its like he disappeared. Now I called him the other day to see what was up and we chatted for a bit and said he would call me back later because he was busy. Now of course, no call back that night or any day after that. Sent him a txt on V-Day just to be nice and no response back either. What's your opinions on the situation? I want to call him and ask him whats going on because for me, my feelings are being played with but I'm not sure how to ask him over the phone. I personally dont understand how a person can seem so interested you and then the next day *POOF* utter silence. My friends think he might have done something with any other guy and he may be feeling guilty but I dont know. So any help with this situation will be much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): Something is definitely up, it could be any number of things ranging from another guy, death of a loved one, under pressure at work etc.
It's not very nice of him not to tell you whats going on but maybe he needs a bit of space to sort out whatever it is he has going on.
I'd leave it a few days and then ring him, ask him how he's doing, he might explain to you whats been happening and if he doesn't just ask him if he'd like to meet you again anytime soon. That way you should be able to guage where you stand with him without sounding needy or desperate.
If he doesn't sound too eager or says he can't without giving a good reason then you can assume he's not interested anymore.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Maybe "he's just not that into you".
Or maybe he's got another boyfriend.
I don't know, any answer you get will just be speculation.
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