Is anybody NOT cheating?
Q. Does anyone know TRUTHFULLY of any couples who have never cheated on their partners of say over 5 years in a relationship. I despair all my friends are saying their partners are cheating not jsut the men women too. Is anyone faithful these days ...
A. 12 July 2008: I have been in a relationship for a little over a year. With talk of the future and marriage when i finish school, i know this is the woman for me and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. Before this relationship, i never had a regular ... (read in full...)
Can there be love BEFORE sex?
Q. Whilst sex is an important part of life can a man fall in love with you before he has had sex or vice versa. I think ive fallen in "love" with a man but we havent had sex-is it possible I havent known him long but I do have these feelings B...
A. 12 July 2008: Of course it is possible! Why would people save their virginity till marriage, if this wasn't the case? If you feel you're in love, that is all that matters. You don't have to have sex to those feelings legitimate. IF you fall in love before you ... (read in full...)
I'm black, he's white. HE still to this day hides our relationship from his parents whom he still lives with. He says they are racist.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years I am 26 he is 25. I met him right after a previous serious relationship with a person I had a child with. My daugther was three months old when we met through work and we hit it off really well. ...
A. 20 May 2008: He's ashamed of you! DUMP him now!... (read in full...)
Have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.?
Q. have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.? i sometimes do with my brother while watching porn....
A. 20 May 2008: do you look at what the are doing while you are doing yourself? if so, then you might become dependant on the image of someone else jerking off. that's gross!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?
Q. I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is ...
A. 20 May 2008: Mixing masturbation and porn together is a recipe for disaster! You will become dependant on porn to get yourself off. Trust me... you don't want that at all! Try to watch less and less porn. There isn't anything wrong with using a toy to help you ... (read in full...)
We've been together for more than 10 years but I'm determined not to forgive his infidelity, what do you think?
Q. I found out my husband had an affair a year and a half ago. The only reason it's over now is because the other woman ended it. The whole thing lasted about a month. He was angry that she hurt him, not sure if he tried to win her back or anyt...
A. 20 May 2008: holding grudges and being stubborn about forgiveness, is totally unhealthy. It's like a heavy weight that will hold you down from rising to new and better places in your relationship
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My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.
Q. Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...
A. 20 May 2008: Don't choose porn over your girlfriend! All the images and actions you see in these films or pictures, are redundant. It's the same thing over and over again. Most women do not want their man to lust after other women. When you indulge in porn, ... (read in full...)
For those who do not believe in sex before marriage for religious reasons: where would you draw the line in a sexual activity?
Q. A question for strict religious people out there... I am an atheist and I just wondered where in sexual activity someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage (for religious reasons) would draw the line? Would it be using your hands? Oral? Or ...
A. 19 May 2008: chlez83 is correct. You might as well wait until your a junior in college before you start dating! Kiss and nothing else. You shouldn't provoke each other by touching each other's genitals.... (read in full...)
Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?
Q. Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does ...
A. 19 May 2008: Since the scientific discovery and explaination of the female orgasm in the Freudian erra, people have come to realize that sex and love are not connected. Love or being "in love" is not a requisit to experience sexual pleasure. Today, it's all ... (read in full...)
My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?
Q. My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I ...
A. 19 May 2008: LAUGH OUT LOUD! You are 26+ years old and don't know that it is perfectly normal for a health male to have an erection in the morning? Geez!... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?
Q. I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...
A. 19 May 2008: It isn't unusual for kids that age to experiment, but more are doing it now than ever before! I think is because of so many sexual suggestions in the media that they are exposed to.... (read in full...)
My husband caught me having sex with my cousin
Q. Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...
A. 19 May 2008: This situation my be great for the adults involved, but you have to think about the confusion it would cause amongst the children. We don't live in ancient times were cousin on cousin relations and marriage was common. It's very taboo even though ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset that my husband sends over 100 text mesaages a month to her?
Q. I am afraid that my husband of 21 years is having an emotional affair with a women at work. I have confronted him several times only to hear shes married, its nothing quit sweating about it, however, he works 5 to 5 and he tells me hes has no time...
A. 19 May 2008: Your husband is cheating on you! It may not be a physical relationship, but he is being unavailable to you emotionally and socially! He would rather share his feelings and talk dirty with another woman, so that is definatley cheating!... (read in full...)
Does she just want to move in for sex??
Q. I have been having sex with my girl friend for last 3 months. We both love lot of sex and we both get it..but since recently my gf is asking me if she can stay with me living together...but im worried is this just because of sex or does she needs me ...
A. 30 April 2008: Laura1318 shouldn't emply that women aren't interested in sex! That's totally false!... (read in full...)
Moving in with my fiancee was the biggest mistake of my life...and now I only love her as a friend.
Q. Don't know what to do with the situation that i am in at the moment. Im with my fiancee 2 years, we're engaged about 12 months now, but 6 months ago we decided to buy a house and live together. I feel its the biggest mistake of my life. I dont rea...
A. 30 April 2008: If you are unhappy now, things aren't going to get any better. She is a very dominant person. She wants to run the show. If that's not the type of relationship you want, then you should get out now! Don't set yourself up for a life time of ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and have developed a tense brooding state and a sort of unusual complex since my mother touched me sexually!! Please advise.
Q. Hi friends I am virgin guy in my twenties. Please read this carefully and come out with a good solution. I discuss with my family all my problems. I was a bit tense those days due to my job and also feeling alone.There was whitewashing going on...
A. 30 April 2008: Why are you sleeping in the same bed as your mom at this age?... (read in full...)
My gf talks to her ex by phone several times a day and sees him on a weekly basis. She also maintains friendship with other ex'es. Is this acceptable?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months and we get along very well. We both love each other and talk about moving in together. I am experiencing some problems with my girlfriend and her friendships with her ex boyfriends. She has had ...
A. 30 April 2008: My GF talks to her ex. He actually still has feelings for her, but she has moved on with me. I know they were good friends before dating, so i don't mind if they remain friends. She doesn't hang out with him, just phone conversations. He live 4 ... (read in full...)
Masturbation came up in one of our conversations, and he -FLIPPED OUT??
Q. this is basically a question for the men, although ladys your advice is Greatly appreciated as well. So ive had sexual relationships, with my current partner. Everything is going great, problem is that i dont get to see him to often because ...
A. 27 April 2008: He's crazy! Masturbation is normal for both men and women. I bet he relieves his self when he hasn't seen you in a while, so why should he want you to suffer? You should have the right to relieve yourself too! Since he knows you do it now, he ... (read in full...)
My new wife was not completely honest about her sexual past...how can I look at her the same way?
Q. I am married and recently me and my wife had another conversation about previous partners and experiences. I say "another" conversation because the answer this time around is much different than the first time we talked about it when we were dating. ...
A. 27 April 2008: What she did with these other ppl has nothing to do with the person she is inside. You should have married her because you love the person she is. I know you feel hurt and betrayed because she lied to you, but time will heal the pain you feel and ... (read in full...)
Should choose to stay with the boring girlfriend I love, or go for the fun friend or the hot ultravixen?
Q. I am 23 years old and am currently in a bit of a pickle. I have a girlfriend who I love very much and we have been in a relationship for the past two years. A year ago, I slept with a close friend of hers. I am still seeing this friend and we have ...
A. 27 April 2008: Sleeping with other girls it what made sex with your girlfriend become boring! All your sexual energy and creativeness is being focused in physical relationships with other girls. So by the time you have sex with your girlfriend (who you claim you ... (read in full...)
What do you women see in men?
Q. This is a thought that I as a young, single, male have had for ages. I've never been in a relationship before so forgive me if you find this ignorant. I am absolutely head over heels about the female, the way they behave, act, look etc. From m...
A. 27 April 2008: You don't need to understand why women are attracted to men! Just be greatful they are, cause if they weren't, you would never get to be with one (they'd all be lesbians). It's written in their DNA to be attracted to men just as it is apart of the ... (read in full...)
Is he just doing it wrong or am I just not equiped to feeling that down there?
Q. hi, ive been sexually active for a year now and it has all been with my boyfriend. Im 18 and hes 19 and he has had alot more experience then me. But he hardly ever gives me oral sex. I give him oral sex every second day we arent havin sex becuse i ...
A. 27 April 2008: Your boyfriend odviously doesn't have as much experience as you think LOL! He needs take more time to go down on you. He's too busy thinking about getting his turn. IF he really cared about your enjoyment, he would do it as long as it takes for ... (read in full...)
How do I make her see that I let her do all the decision making because mine always trouble her?
Q. hi ive been with my gf for 2 years and sometimes it's like she doesn't give a care in the world about me. She acts very annoyed when i let her decide on what to do and where we go. i do it because that way she is happy. she said something ab...
A. 27 April 2008: You girlfriend want you to participate in the relationship!
She want you to be a man and decide what to do and where to go sometimes. Women don't like when a guy is submissive and a push-over. IF you let her decide everything and get away with... (read in full...)
My wife is not at all interested in sex!
Q. i got married 2 years ago since then i can count the number of times me and mt wife had sex. My wife is not at all interested in sex. She is a doctor too. One day she told she saw her relative having an affair and th next day that relative suicided ...
A. 27 April 2008: Your wife is confused! IF an affair drove her relative to suicide, why would she deny her own husband an intimate sexual relation ship? She wants you to have an affair too? She makes no sense!... (read in full...)
1 year without sex... Do I have a one night stand now?
Q. Approaching a year since I last had sex. I haven't really been tempted to have meaningless sex, or a one night stand or anything, because I'm told that sex is so much better with somebody you love. But after a year of celibacy, I'm really feeling ...
A. 27 April 2008: You don't need to listen to that crap about sex is greater with someone you care for! When you sleep with someone you are in love with, it becomes making love. Making love is a whole different experience. You will have moments when you and your ... (read in full...)
I think I want to do it with him but I think it's becoming an issue!
Q. I've always wanted to wait until I got married to have sex, but I've been with my bf for 3 years (mostly long distance) and I don't think we're going to be getting married anytime soon. I think I want to do it with him, because we've done everything ...
A. 27 April 2008: If you wanted to save your self till marriage, you shoulda set boundaries to how far you would go physically with someone. Doing "everything else" but actual intercourse is not a good idea because you tease your own self and your partner too. The ... (read in full...)
She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control!
Q. I have a problem with my girlfriend of five months. She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control. She has always been very honest about her interest in porn. At first, this didn't bother me in the slightest as I watch a lot of porn ...
A. 27 April 2008: This is interesting! A female addicted to porn. It's usually the other way around. Maybe you should watch it with her.... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?
Q. Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...
A. 27 April 2008: Don't be his girl on the side if you wanna be his number one! He knows you wanna be with him and says he likes you too. Give him an ultimatum, either he dumps his GF or you'll just move on.... (read in full...)
I am succesful and enjoy the company of men but can't find any that don't want to take advantage of me!
Q. i am a twenty seven year old female, i consider myself good looking and slim. i am college educated and i have my own business but....i never have had a boyfriend....EVER!! i enjoy the company of men dont get me wrong but i just can't find a guy ...
A. 27 April 2008: Off course the guys you meet just wanna take advantage. They probably figure that you just want them for one thing since you are totally independant. You need to build a good solid friendship with a guy first. Plus you are an American, and in our ... (read in full...)
Getting Married... but it doesn't feel equal, Is it right?
Q. I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a halfs years. This past December he asked me to marry him. It wasn't that romantic kinda one every girl deserves... just more like well... we should. You want to. Were happy sometimes ...
A. 27 April 2008: Your boyfriend has to show that he WANTS to get married. The feeling must be equally strong between the to of you. If one person is going into this halft heartedly, it there might be resentment afterward.... (read in full...)
How does quitting drinking affect men's sex life? What kind of men would rather masturbate than have sex with the young, sexy wife?
Q. I am with a man who on my watch quit drinking. As he was trying to quit drinking (took him 3 attempts) he stopped having sex with me. From often and exciting sex life it went to nothing. After trying different things, we are still together and ...
A. 23 April 2008: Your husband has used alcohol to get in the mood so long that after he stopped drinking, he can't make the connection anymore. Since you are married, he needs to be a man and give you the attention you deserve!... (read in full...)
He watches porn to relieve tension and then falls asleep on me?
Q. I have been with my partner for over two years, we were engaged but he left me last november and then hit a rollercoaster of getting back together and breaking up. After a few months we both realised we loved eachother so we are giving it one last ...
A. 23 April 2008: You man has a serious problem, he needs to see a doctor! Why is he so tired all the time? He probably masturbates too much during the day and it makes him exausted. He's being inconsiderate to you're needs. He's you man and he's supposed to be ... (read in full...)
I go to church, even though I gave head there, so I've changed! How do I let people know this?
Q. People make fun of me because of my "sex life" but it's passst ;; and i've changed ! in my "lifetime" i've given head to 3 people i have had sex once, but it was in a church, i've gotten fingered 4 times.....and i know it sounds bad but recentley ...
A. 23 April 2008: Who cares if they don't believe you! Christ knows you and knows wat's in you're heart. You don't have to prove anything to them. Just seek the Lord and read Proverbs. If you want a boyfriend, God will send one your way!... (read in full...)
It hurts when he does it from behind..is this normal?
Q. This is very strange for me asking this and have only just found this website but i really need help.last nite my guy took me from behind and it really hurt in which i asked him to pull out which he did but it made me feel a bit sick for a few ...
A. 23 April 2008: It will hurt at first when you start doing it from behind. That's how it was with my grl, but now she can climax from it. You have to do it a little at a time, he must be gentle, and it would help it you're really wet down there. This should be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me to get over my insecurities because I have no real problems, was he right?
Q. a big reason for my break up with my boyfriend of a year is due to my insecurities. I used to be a little overweight in highschool, i was always the funny girl, and never had a relationship. and university is when i really, i guess blossomed and, i ...
A. 23 April 2008: You're boyfriend was harsh! Your insecurities is a REAL problem! It's REALITY in the REAL world! He doesn't understand how you feel. But he should try to reassure you that you are beautiful and that he finds you attractive the way you are. ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend at the end of our relationship I was molested as a child and he didnt care.
Q. my boyfriend and i of one year have been having many problems the last 3 months, he never said it was over, just "this isn't worth it anymore" and "you need to find another guy" but never officially that, we were through. we had another fight and i ...
A. 23 April 2008: He's not gonna show concern for your past now, Duh! you shoulda told him that in the beginning! Maybe he would've been more understanding... (read in full...)
Once we came close to having sex, he backed off . Does he have a commitment phobia?
Q. I am wondering if my ex bf had "commitment phobia". He broke up with me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. Yet one of the first things he said to me when meeting me was "I really want to be in a relationship. I am so over random hooks ups, ...
A. 23 April 2008: You should leave him be. He doesn't know what he wants! That's usually something girls go through... (read in full...)
I've been lying to my boyfriend about climaxing, any suggestions to help our sex life?
Q. I have been gong out with my bouyfriend for 3 years now. I love him to bits anf he is the same with me When we got together we were quite younge and we have grown up with each other however when it came to sex i never managed to have an orgasm. ...
A. 23 April 2008: You're boyfriend shouldn't be upset! He Pops off and the it's over! He needs to get it back up and give you some more until you have your climax! He's being selfish! Don't fake anymore orgasms, tell him what you like. after he comes, tease him ... (read in full...)
We got back together but he seems distant. Am I overanalyzing and pushing him away?
Q. Ok, I'll give you some back story before I ask for advice. My boyfriend and I were together for about a year, we lived together and things were fine. There was never any reason for either of us to have suspicions of cheating and to this day I don't ...
A. 23 April 2008: 45 min drive huh... the drive isn't th problem. My be conflict in work schedules between ht two of you. The important thing is that the time spent together is holsum and good quality time.... (read in full...)
We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...
A. 23 April 2008: You should have seen the red flag the first time girl! If you was uncomfortable with him still keeping contact with his ex, that's what you should say in the first place. He is either obcessed with her or still in love. If he loves you he will ... (read in full...)
We have a lot in common and he's never ONCE treated me badly, unlike my ex'es. Why don't I love him?
Q. I have this AMAZING friend. He has truly proved himself to me that he is amazing. I mean most guys wouldn't bother being 'friends' with me if they knew they had no chance with me, but this guy, he doesn't care, he just likes me for me and really ...
A. 23 April 2008: You do love him! Your just not attracked to him romantically. This is normal. Nice guys finish last, bcuz girls want the nice guy for a friend, not a lover... (read in full...)
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