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*ami3332
writes:I have been having sex with my girl friend for last 3 months. We both love lot of sex and we both get it..but since recently my gf is asking me if she can stay with me living together...but im worried is this just because of sex or does she needs me more...Last christmas we spent a a whole week together in Spain...and we had a really great time...do you think this might be the reason to make her get this decision...what should i do..??? I'm financially stable and got my own flat.just worried will this be a just for sex scenario!!!!
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (30 April 2008):
Laura1318 shouldn't emply that women aren't interested in sex! That's totally false!
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reader, sami3332 +, writes (26 January 2008):
sami3332 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for every thing.. she is moving to my place in next week...ya im gonna manage it..thanks...we are in relation with for past one 1 and half years
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Men want sex, women want love.
You got the sex, she wants more than the sex. She wants to have emotional attachments, more of everything of you .
That question , you will have to ask yourself too.Are you in only for the sex or do you truly love her ?
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Sorry - what's the problem??
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 I think Uncle Phil is being a little cynical and squaring all women away in the same little box.... I loved the picture he portrayed though! Haha...
Well, Women do tend to get a little overbearing sometimes... But that's only because we reeealllly want to...and it would mean a lot to us... prettyprettyplease??? ;)
I've never heard of any man argue against sex... If you want to wait, then fine- but keep in mind that that sort of thing can be viewed as a "step backwards" in most women's minds. It can put more strain on the relationship. Perhaps in this case you can suggest that it be a 6-month anniversary celebration? It'll add a sentimental touch, making it even more special (in turn it'll buy you 3 months to change your mind :P ).
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): You don't say how long you've been together in total, but if it's only 3 months, then I'd give it a bit more time, say 12 months, you'll get to know each other better and any little cracks will start to show.
If she does move in with you make sure she's got somewhere to go back to if things don't work out. A week's holiday is great, other people clean the room and you take enough toothpaste and soap to last the week. It's a well known fact that women use 20 times as much toilet paper as we do - God knows what they do with it - emergency breast implants perhaps? They also spend what seems like half the morning in the bathroom while you're outside with your legs crossed. Before you know it she'll be dictating when it's time to go round with a duster and the hoover, whereas before you've pleased yourself when mundane little jobs like that got looked at. You'll get to watch what she wants on the telly - and that will mostly be bloody soaps!
On the plus side, apart from the sex-on-tap (but beware - it'll be a lot less frequent), she can demonstrate her skills at cooking, doing the washing, ironing and tidying up - although you'll never find anything afterwards.
Make sure that the little things that might irritate you about her, you can cope with!
Phil
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (25 January 2008):
 I think that... When a woman LOVES a man, she can't get enough of him. I can't see any problem in THAT ... Enjoy and relax!
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Is having a girl moving in with you just for sex a bad thing? Wheres your head at man? She wants you and desires you and wants more of you in a regular basis. I still ask what is the problem with that. If its moral reasons why are you screwing her silly already?
Be a man have her move in have and all the sex you want. If its love you want then stop using each other and the love thing will clear up...Otherwise, you're letting a good thing go if you have too many second thoughts about it. Go for it.
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