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We have a lot in common and he's never ONCE treated me badly, unlike my ex'es. Why don't I love him?

Q.   I have this AMAZING friend. He has truly proved himself to me that he is amazing. I mean most guys wouldn't bother being 'friends' with me if they knew they had no chance with me, but this guy, he doesn't care, he just likes me for me and really ...

A.   23 April 2008: You do love him! Your just not attracked to him romantically. This is normal. Nice guys finish last, bcuz girls want the nice guy for a friend, not a lover... (read in full...)

How can you tell if he's looking at you? Where do you sit in relation to a girl if you like her?

Q.   Right if your standing opposite or sitting opposite a guy you really like who could like you to(i'm not sure if he does) how can you tell if he's looking at you and making eye contact or just looking infront on him and you just so happen to be ...

A.   23 April 2008: You probably have the biggest crush on this guy. You should, put those feelings aside and just approach him like you would a girl. Just talk to him like a normal person.... (read in full...)

I don't have the will power to keep my weight down and stay in shape! What can I do?

Q.   Over the past few years, I've lost quite a bit of weight but I'm STILL not happy with myself at all. I have a lateral thigh trainer that I often use, and i've started exchanging snack type food for fruit and just eating healthier I suppose....

A.   23 April 2008: You should look up Your BMI (body mass index) online. Use google to find websites with a BMI calculator. Your BMI score will tell you if you are at a healthy weight, over weight, or in the category of obessity.... (read in full...)

Newlywed's husband addicted to porn!

Q.   I have only been married a few months now and have recently discovered that my husband is, what I call, addicted to porn. I didn't really bother me at first and he didn't know that I knew what he was doing. But as time has passed it seems he is A ...

A.   23 April 2008: Your husband needs to make a choice. You or the damn porn! My girlfriend hates porn and doesn't want me looking at it. I broke a promise that i would stop and now she's lost sexual desire for me. It is no longer a matter of the porn, but trust. If ... (read in full...)

He is married and said to be a player, we've been intimate already and I feel... addicted to him! How to stop the affair?

Q.   I am 17 years old and have a male friend who is 35, i really like him but we can't be together because i am not yet 18 and plus we live in a very small town of about a 750 pop. and there would be problems, he is known to be a player, he is ...

A.   23 April 2008: Stay away from this guy. He will never leave his family for you. you'll only end up hurt in the end.... (read in full...)

He doesn't want sex and it's starting to make me feel terrible about myself!

Q.   I need some advice. Ive been dating a guy for about a year and a half and he never wants to have sex...I'm not trying to be cocky but I am a pretty girl and im in good shape...he's starting to make me feel terrible about myself. If I want to have ...

A.   23 April 2008: it sounds like you boyfriend had a bad experience in the past. Maybe he was sexually abused.... (read in full...)

My husband does not know what he wants....is this something I should stick around for?

Q.   I am a 34 year old and i have been Married to my husband for 7 years together for 8 years. Today my husband came to me and said that he does not know what he wants. If he wants to be with me. He thinks that he just wants to be on his own he is not ...

A.   23 April 2008: since there are kids involved, the two of you need to get together and figure out why he feels this way. He needs to be honest with you and with himself. Most importantly, you must both think of the children... (read in full...)

I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?

Q.   I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...

A.   23 April 2008: You aren't gay. your not attracted to men, just cock. Every man likes cock, but most only like their own cock and that's why they can jerk off and have an orgasm. I wouldn't suggest you keep sucking peoples cocks though, maybe just keep seeing this ... (read in full...)

He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...

A.   23 April 2008: This is why women should watch porn when they're young LOL! You don't love cock enough, that's why you can't stand hooded ones. If you did't suck and and play with it so much in the past, it wouldn't matter what is looks like, just as long as it ... (read in full...)

Do guys really break up with girls because they aren't shaved to turn them on?...

Q.   I read a comment the other day on here and it got me really nervous...a guy said that one of his girlfriends wasnt shaved in her pubic area and he didnt end up getting really serious with her. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but im not ...

A.   23 April 2008: I guess it just my personal preferance, but i love unshaved scrotch, Especially because my GF is a redhead. The little red bush is so beautiful! If someone breaks up with you because of that, then he is a complete superficial ass hole!... (read in full...)

22 year old virgin. What can I do?

Q.   I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...

A.   23 April 2008: Ignore who ever is teasing you for being a virgin. My Girl was a virgin when i met her. She was 21 yrs then. She was taught to save herself till marriage growing up. She had boyfriends before me but the split when she told them she was saving ... (read in full...)

I'm undecided - should I give in to my brother's urges and have sex with him?

Q.   My brother trying to seduce me. He's been trying for a long time, from time to time he was making a move on me, but now I think he's serious. When we were in early teens (13-15) we already had a kind of sexual relationship with him - we've been tou...

A.   23 April 2008: I'm glad you got your issue sorted. Now be a good sister and hook your brother up with one of your nice girlfriends eh!... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my step-daughter!!! What do I do?

Q.   ive fallen in love with my stepdaughter and dont know what to do...

A.   23 April 2008: This is axactly why you shouldn't have married a woman with a grown daughter!... (read in full...)

How do I tell her I can't cheat with her anymore?

Q.   I made a huge mistake. My wife and I were having problems with our marriage and she complicated it further by having a few sexual encounters and a full blown emotional relationship. I became an angry person with an agenda to get even. I contacted an ...

A.   23 April 2008: Tell her flat out that you cannot sleep with her anymore. It also would be good to stop seeing her all together. ... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend and he wants to have sex with me...

Q.   Recently this 22 year old guy has been flirting with me, I know him from a friend. I know he wants to have sex with me but I'm unsure wether to or not. Because your first time is supposed to be special, I know it's illegal, but I really like him. He ...

A.   23 April 2008: Do not give your virginity to someone who is already in a relationship. When you have sex for the first time, if you keep seeing that person you'll develope a strong emotional attachment to him. You would be setting yourself up for heart ache for ... (read in full...)

He lies about porn, can I trust him?

Q.   I am currently with my bf of 6 months, we're living together already and although 6 months may not seem that long, it's like we've known each other for years. He was my first everything really and have given up allot to be with him properly. I am ...

A.   22 April 2008: My girlfriend discoverd i look at porn. I had to give it up, because she feels like it's as good as cheating on her with another woman. I promised i would stop, but it was hard cuz ieve been looking at porn and masturbating since my early teens. ... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

Q.   if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...

A.   22 April 2008: WTH! You barely now this guy and you're letting him inside you with no condom? Did you at least go together to get tested for STD's before you started having sex? IF you don't want to get pregnant, use condoms. When he's gonna come push him off!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?

Q.   What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...

A.   22 April 2008: half the people in here will probably tell you you're too young, but the reality is when they were your age they were humping too! If you don't want to have sex, tell him no. IF he cannot except that, then dump him! There is nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)

Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.

Q.   I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...

A.   22 April 2008: In this day we live in, the tables are turning. Men used to be the players and have multiple partners. But since women are becoming more liberated, they are now sleeping around for kicks and trills. The whole notion that women only want to have ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   21 April 2008: Your girl is very insecure! She won't let herself love you because people she trusted and loved have failed her before she met you. IF she cannot learn to forgive those who have hurt her, she will never move on to find real love with someone else... (read in full...)

Help, lack of intimacy with my husband is driving me toward another man!

Q.   I am 36 years old and my husband is 38. We have two children. One is 12 and one is 5. For the past 3 years my husband has lost all interest in having any type of intimacy at all. Including even words of endearment. i complain and then he puts a ...

A.   21 April 2008: You husband shows no interest.... Think back to when your sex life was best with him. Think about the who you two related to each other then. Futhermore, think of the things you used to do to him, do for him, and say to him then. How does it ... (read in full...)

I feel there is no affection there anymore, or am I reading the wrong signs?

Q.   I need help, I can no longer tell what my feelings tell me. I have a GF she's beautiful and completely devoted to me but we have had a brake from before because things didn't go too well. Well anyway we go on msn and she would always say "HI BABE!!" ...

A.   9 April 2008: maybe she got tired of being the only one to give all the affection and special attention. Now it's your turn!... (read in full...)

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

Q.   My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we ...

A.   9 April 2008: bottom line is that if you never found out that your bf was sleeping with his ex, you wouldn't feel any less loved right now ... (read in full...)

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

Q.   My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we ...

A.   9 April 2008: "if he love you he wouldn't sleep with another woman". Total BS! Sex for a man has no emotional premise. A man could sleep with a woman he thinks is a total Bitch and still enjoy it. when he's with his baby's momma and she's skippin around in ... (read in full...)

My love with my wife's sister!

Q.   I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we ...

A.   9 April 2008: You aren't confused, just forgetful! What is going on with you and your inlaw must of happened wit you and your wife, or you wouldn't've married her! That mushy passionate stuff only lasts for a while, that's why there must be something more to ... (read in full...)

I can't stop cheating!

Q.   Well i've just met this really nice guy and at first we were seeing each other, so i didn't see the big thing on going with other people that much but now it's a serious reletionship and now i don't want to waste this but i've had a bad habit ...

A.   9 April 2008: It seems that here in the 21st century, roles are changing. Women are becoming more educated and independant. Since they no longer need a man to be secure financially and socially, they just use em for what the are good for.... sex... (read in full...)

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