I'm confused about my sexuality and could really do with your advice.
Q. I'm confused about my orientation and would like some advice. I'm 26 and I've always found girls attractive, from a young age I have always wanted that coupling relationship with a girl and from about 13 i've been sexually attacted to girl...
A. 17 October 2008: your bad relations with girls will push you to think more about guys. Your using guys as an excuse not to try harder with girls. Don't fall into that trap. Going the gay way may look glamourous and fun, but think about how you will be treated by ... (read in full...)
I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!
Q. I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I...
A. 17 October 2008: you shouldn't have done that at all! mixing up sex with your boyfriend and your friend of ten years! It doesn't matter if you were drunk, bcuz you pre-meditated it before you got drunk. You don't understand a man? you cannot give your boyfriend a ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship good or am I being played by my boyfriend?
Q. Hello I would like some outside views of my relationship. First of all, I am 27 years old, I am professional and have a great career that it is everything for me. I was engaged for 5 years with a guy that was a little bit controlling and he used to ...
A. 17 October 2008: your new relation ship sounds similar to mine with my girl freind. We only get to see each other three times a week. Just because he is not clingy and telling you he misses you eveyday, doesn't mean that he isn't in love with you. You two are ... (read in full...)
I'm only a freshman, what does he see in me?
Q. I'm a freshman in high school and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. Everytime I pass by he gets red, and when I look at him he gets red too. I have no idea if he likes me or not. Maybe he just wants be be my friend and knowing me I'm not ...
A. 17 October 2008: Duh he likes you girl! It's totally common for seniors to like freshman. Since you claim you're not shy, why don't you walk up to him one day and introduce youself. " High, i'm ___. This is my first year here. What's your name?" As simpl as that.... (read in full...)
I met some sex people at a Cancun club and can't get it out of my head!
Q. So about a week ago while in Cancun on vacation with a friend I was at Cocobongo when this very attractive woman gave me a stare from across the room. This is when I should have known something was up, after all there were about 2,500 people in this ...
A. 9 September 2008: Maybe they will post the pitcure up on the internet for the whole world to see LOL!... (read in full...)
I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???
Q. I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big resp...
A. 9 September 2008: You need to finish school and get a secondary education too. You'd be making your life unecessarily hard by moving in with him and having a baby now.... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but want to be with my cousin?
Q. I am 27yrs old guy i am very much atracted towards my cousin who is 17yrs old. Every time i see her i feel to make love with her.I have a girlfriend and we have sex when ever we get a chance. But then also when ever I see my cousin i dont know what ...
A. 9 September 2008: You're way to old to be fooling with a 17 year old! I know things may be a little different over there in India, but i'm sure your family wouldn't be supportive of you having a relationship with your teen cousin! You shouldn't even have time to ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of the cliches and find life pretty dire.
Q. I am going to be honest, life is something I've never been a fan of. I'm nearly 20 now and so far my life has been pretty dire. I was never the popular person at school, the truth was it took me a bit more effort than most people to get passing ...
A. 9 September 2008: I used to think i was gonna be alone. Girls would say i was cute and a "nice guy", But they only wanted to be friends. Here's a cliche` for ya: "nice guys finish last". I used to believe in that garbage! I was shy and didn't have lots of ... (read in full...)
Hubby complains that I am not active during sex! What can I do?
Q. My husband of 5 years and I have a good sex life. BUT, he complains that i don't ever do anything during sex. He just gives me my oral and he gets on top then we're done. Honestly, I feel like I put some motion in it, but, he says "i love it, I just ...
A. 9 September 2008: Next time he thinks it's over, you tease him and give him oral till he's hard again, then you can get on top of him and ride him like a horsey!... (read in full...)
My husband of 7 years asked me to put my finger in his butt during sex... Does that make him gay?
Q. My husband of 7 years ask for me to put a finger in his butt when i go down on him and his favorite position is doggy style does this make him gay?????...
A. 19 August 2008: He probably found out that anal insertion can be a plus for a guy and he wants to try it with you.... (read in full...)
Why are women expected to degrade themselves for men's pleasure, but not vice versa?
Q. I do not understand why it is almost expected of women to degrade themselves to please men when men won't do the same for us. Men's minds are so poisoned by the porn industry that they think it is NORMAL for women to take it in the ass and so on. I ...
A. 19 August 2008: Porn does make people more perveted, but you shouldn't do something you're totally against to please your boyfriend. And your boyfriend is an insensitive ass, if he doesn't make sure you're okay with it. Also, you're boyfriend isn't open minded, ... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed because of his watching porn!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend is bisexual. Which inst a big deal except he isn't faithful to our relationship. It's happened several times thought 5 years of being together. Every time he promises that he loves me and that it wont happen again. but in ...
A. 19 August 2008: If you had any sense at all, you would end this relationship! Your boyfriend is being a gay man whore at night and holds hand sip lattes with you in the afternoon! The stupid thing is that you know about it and kiss him anyway...knowing he had ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking my husband may be gay or bisexual; what should I do?
Q. I really need help figuring out if my husband is gay or bisexual. I have a gay brother and we have been going out with him pretty regular to the local gay club. I have no problem hanging out there just to be around my brother. This past weekend we ...
A. 19 August 2008: Gay. Your husband is interested in guys. I sometimes say things like "Matthew McConaughey is ripped! Did you see his abs!" But that is just admiring his fit body (i'm over weight). Your husband didn't even say "if i was a girl, i would get with ... (read in full...)
Akward question about masturbation....
Q. This is an awkward question to ask, but here goes: I sometimes like fingering myself in the ass...I also I imagine girls doing it to me and even wearing strap-ons and humping me!I'm straight and only like girls that way,is there something wrong ...
A. 19 August 2008: There's nothing wrong with you! You've found a new and exciting way to pleasure yourself. Big deal.I used to do the same when i was your age. It get's better when you use things bigger than your finger LOL! At your age, i don't think girls are ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to "do" me with a strapon... Surely to God this isn't natural?
Q. me and my wife have a good sex life but she wants to try anal on me with toys then a strapon we like to try new things but her doing it to me doesnt seem natural. if we do try anyone got any advice on best strapon(small plz) best lube and best ...
A. 19 August 2008: Dude! You are soooooo LUCKY! I wish i could convince my girl to take me with a strap-on! I've been analy masturbating from my early teens. I too have used large cucumbers, but when i was old enough to go to the adult store, i bought myselt some ... (read in full...)
Could sharp pains in my head be linked to masturbation?
Q. Hi, i am a 15yr old male incase the above says otherwise. I masturbate frequently but recently have had a problem. I occasionaly get sharp pains in my head for a short while (for about 15-30mins). Also, I don't know if this is relevant but I think I ...
A. 13 August 2008: too much masturbation could make you get head aches. I know from personal experience.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to initiate sex?
Q. been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), ...
A. 13 August 2008: stop initiating and see what happens.... (read in full...)
How can I make my first time having sex enjoyable?
Q. Hi DearCupid, I'm 23 and a virgin. Basically, my question is how can I make my first time having sex an enjoyable one, or at least partially enjoyable? You seem to hear that everyone's first time is a disaster, awkward, or embarrassing, so...
A. 13 August 2008: lots of foreplay, lube, and patients... (read in full...)
Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!
Q. I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...
A. 13 August 2008: You're making your wife feel insecure! If this woman online doesn't mean anything to you, then why do you fight your wife to continue talking with her? You are totally wrong. All this chatting and bonding you are doing with this woman online, you ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm bisexual?
Q. Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women ...
A. 13 August 2008: Weather you are bi or not doesn't matter at this point. You are ready to commit yourself to your man in marriage. So their will be no sleeping with other people, neither male or female. You should have shared you sexual past with your feance`. ... (read in full...)
I have a great boyfriend, but I keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. he's a great bloke who treats me like a queen, is faithful and great looking, but i keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal? Does this mean i have to end it with him? Should...
A. 13 August 2008: It's totally unfair to be with him and then ask for space of brake things off when you wanna have sex with other men. If you wanna be a play girl, than do it. But he wants to with only you, hoping that you will be the same. Don't lie to him or ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to offer him fellatio before sex, how will this influence actual sex?
Q. Is it OK to give the guy a blowjob before you have sex, will he still have enough cum? Or should you just have sex with him and not make him come beforehand?...
A. 13 August 2008: Go for it. If he cums, keep sucking till he's hard again and then give his boner a good ride! It'll blow his mind!... (read in full...)
Why don't I make noise during sex?
Q. So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl) But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing....
A. 13 August 2008: Don't be worried, everyone is different. You can let him know verbally if you like wat he's doing, and encourage him to continue. That could also be a great turn on to a guy.... (read in full...)
Should I drop a few hints or just forget about her and move on with my life?
Q. I need someone neutral's advice - I think I'm too close to the situation to be able to think clearly, and I don't know what the right thing to do is any more. My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 8 years, but recently we brok...
A. 13 August 2008: That was rather lengthy! Should you tell? YES! why should you feel guilty afterward. The guy helped destroy what you have, he shouldn't get to have his cake and eat it, while you eat dirt! Let his girl know.... (read in full...)
I masterbate and look at porn, even gay porn!
Q. hey ! im a 16 year old guy. i still masturbate almost everyday, and look at porn frequently. sometimes male porn, but im totaly straight! is there something wrong!...
A. 13 August 2008: Sex is sex. it's all about pleasure. unless you masturbate in complete darkness, you are odviously not turned off by a hard penis, right? Getting yourself off to porn that may be considered gay is your own business. Just don't tell the girl you ... (read in full...)
I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?
Q. dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...
A. 13 August 2008: Don't date him! you will be setting yourself up for desaster! He will be going to college next year and waiting for a 15 year old will go right out the window! yeah, he's really gonna tell his frat bothers "my girl friend is a sophmore... in ... (read in full...)
We seem perfect for eachother and I seems to like me, but he's married. What do I do?
Q. I've worked with him for over 2 and half years and we've always got on well. I was instantly attracted to him because of his kind, mature nature. We talk alot and laugh together. He's been married for a year now and he tells me his problems with ...
A. 13 August 2008: Don't get your hopes up with this guy. He's not gonna leave his wife for you. He got married while you two where already friends, that means that what he has with his wife, is way bigger than what he has with you.... (read in full...)
I slept with a married man who really seemed to like me. Now he says it won't happen again and not to tell anyone.help
Q. hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round ...
A. 13 August 2008: just leave him alone. Your both wrong. He shouldn't be sleeping with another woman if he has a wife, and you shouldn't sleep with him knowing that he's married. Just cut your losses and let it go.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he wants to have sex?
Q. My boyfriend always makes comments such as "lets have sex" but he only ever txts them so i dunno if he is being serious or not. How can i tell if he really want to have sex? As he is the shy type that wouldnt ever dream of saying it to my face and i ...
A. 13 August 2008: If you have to ask this question, than you are definitley not ready to have sex. If he can only talk about it in text, than he also is way too immature to have sex.
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What do you think, Is there ant hope for me?
Q. My bf of 4.5 years dumped me 2 weeks ago. He was acting distant and not really affectionate 3 weeks before we broke up. I knew he liked this younger girl at his job (we are only 21 yrs old btw and she just turned 17)... I kept asking and asking ...
A. 13 August 2008: Your boyfriend was getting close to another girl while he was still with you! What kind of love is that? You odviously wasn't wit him 24/7 if he says " it feels like him and this girl are dating already". time he should've been sharing wit you, he ... (read in full...)
We used a condom during sex, but my period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. okay, three weeks ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of some time. we used a condom, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. i was supposed to start my period yesterday and.. i didn't. today: nothing either. i'm very worried. i'm 15,...
A. 12 July 2008: If you just recently started having sex for the first time, your body chemistry could be changing. That could cause your period to be late or even skip a whole month!... (read in full...)
I won't have an opportunity to lose my virginity until I'm 18, what do I do?
Q. Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to ...
A. 12 July 2008: Don't be so concerned about loosing your virginity at a certain age. ... (read in full...)
We had sex, then he got mad at me and I don't know why!
Q. I'll make this short and simple. I met a guy recently. I fell for him straight away. He had gorgeous eyes, and an amazing personality. After we met, we constantly called eachother and always wanted to see eachother. Well, that was all be...
A. 12 July 2008: Leave him alone! you made a mistake by trusting him. Learn from your mistake and move on.... (read in full...)
I only get turned on by prostitutes!
Q. I have always have had sex with prostitutes, but never with a "normal" woman. I just don't get turned on by normal women. only prostitutes turn me on. Is there any thing wrong with this? Am i supposed to have sex with hoes the rest of my life? I ...
A. 12 July 2008: You've had sex with them for so long that your the sexual side of you has come to expect a prostitute along with sexual arousal. You condition yourself that way unconciously. You have to wean yourself of prostitutes, use that money to by a girl a ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant the first time you have sex?
Q. can females get pregnant when they have sex for the first time? ...
A. 12 July 2008: your a 16 year old and your asking this question! This is what happens when our nation spends more money on weapons and war and space exploration, instead of funding education! HECK YEAH you can get pregnant!... (read in full...)
Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?
Q. For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've...
A. 12 July 2008: You ask yourself "Do I really want to have sex with only one person for the rest of my life?" That won't matter at all because if you've never been with anyone else, than there will be no other sexual experience to compare to what you and your ... (read in full...)
Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?
Q. For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've...
A. 12 July 2008: You should definitely save your self for someone who you respect and trust. Sex could make you become closer to a person emotionally, so it's like you are trusting that person with your heart. IF you don't wanna risk heart ache, then either wait ... (read in full...)
Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?
Q. For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've...
A. 12 July 2008: yeah...right. Wait till you're in love, and if the sex sucks, then you break up with this wonderful man who you've grown to love so much? BS! Why so you wanna save yourself? IF it's not because you think that fornication is a sin in the eyes of ... (read in full...)
She said she had been "forcing her feelings" to try to make it work. Is this possible?
Q. I was wondering, is it possible for someone to fake feelings because they want to be with someone. I was seeing a girl for about three weeks and she seemed very into me...lots of texts saying how much she liked me, etc. She stayed over at mine on ...
A. 12 July 2008: Maybe this "spark" is just Hollywood BS! And she's full of it! If She knows what this spark is like, why is she not with the person she experienced it with? How does she know that it this spark won't develope over time? She thinks she's come ... (read in full...)
I hate myself for cheating, but I cannot seem to stop! I need to understand why I am doing this...
Q. Ok, i know people will have little sympathy for me but I cannot stay faithful. My parents died when I was 3 and I was raised by my aunt and uncle who never really had much time for me. They were'nt affectionate and in some ways seemed to resent...
A. 12 July 2008: You need to have more repect for yourself! How can you be in a relationship and you're busy sleeping with other's on the side? What do you think these other guys see you as? A whore is what they see you as. If you wanna sleep around, then don't ... (read in full...)
Is anybody NOT cheating?
Q. Does anyone know TRUTHFULLY of any couples who have never cheated on their partners of say over 5 years in a relationship. I despair all my friends are saying their partners are cheating not jsut the men women too. Is anyone faithful these days ...
A. 12 July 2008: I have been in a relationship for a little over a year. With talk of the future and marriage when i finish school, i know this is the woman for me and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. Before this relationship, i never had a regular ... (read in full...)
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