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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, ive been sexually active for a year now and it has all been with my boyfriend. Im 18 and hes 19 and he has had alot more experience then me. But he hardly ever gives me oral sex. I give him oral sex every second day we arent havin sex becuse i enjoy it and enjoy the way he gets off over it. but when he does its only a short period of time and i dont feel much. It doesnt turn me on much because i think he doesnt enjoy it seeing as its only on the very rare occastion. i dont know how to guide him because well i havent felt it before. is he just doing it wrong or am i just not equip to feeling that down there?
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (27 April 2008):
Your boyfriend odviously doesn't have as much experience as you think LOL! He needs take more time to go down on you. He's too busy thinking about getting his turn. IF he really cared about your enjoyment, he would do it as long as it takes for you to get the pleasure you deserve!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): You are equipped to feel incredible pleasure through your clit down there, and your boyfriend should be giving you oral sex a lot more. Can you reach an orgasm by yourself? If you haven't tried, do. You do need to be familiar enough with what makes you come that you can tell him how to do it.
I love oral sex on a woman and always have, and most of my friends (guys) do too. It is a very important part of my wife's and my sex life. The scent and taste of a woman's aroused vagina is intoxicating. If your guy doesn't like it, teach him to like it, or find someone else. The only thing that has ever been a turn-off for me is if the woman is not clean enough, and I've only encountered this a couple of times. I'm not talking about douching (which is unhealthy), I mean lack of washing, or yuckky stuff like bits of TP. If you wash regularly, this isn't a problem.
Almost all women can't come through intercourse alone and need some kind of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. The best way to do that, aside from using fingers on the clit during intercourse, is licking directly on the clit, with little motions side to side, up and down, round and around, ever varying in motion, and starting gently and slowly, gradually increasing in both speed and intensity (pressure). That is how every woman I have licked has liked it.
If you enjoy what he does, make noises and say things to him that let him know. Likewise, if you don't enjoy something, tell him (gently).
Overall, I'd talk with your boyfriend directly about this. This is too important not to talk about.
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