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writes:i got married 2 years ago since then i can count the number of times me and mt wife had sex. My wife is not at all interested in sex. She is a doctor too. One day she told she saw her relative having an affair and th next day that relative suicided as her affair is known to everybody. SInce then she had a hatred for sex. this was not a problem until mrriagebut after marriage whenever we indulge in sex she has a agony. what to do please help me
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (27 April 2008):
Your wife is confused! IF an affair drove her relative to suicide, why would she deny her own husband an intimate sexual relation ship? She wants you to have an affair too? She makes no sense!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): Hi Hunny
It sounds as if the trauma of what happened to her relative has had a very bad affect on your wife love, seeing that a family member is having an affair then to cope with a suicide in the family can be so very traumatic, It matters not that she is a doctor she is still human sweetheart. Maybe you could talk with your wife and ask if this pain is related to the suicide of her relative and she may look at sex and think of this causing alot of pain hunny she should talk with someone a counsellor to help with the loss of her relative being such an awfull situation for her to deal with mentally it could have made her feel differently about sex and she may not be relaxed so therefor in pain I feel for your pain also as this must be very hard for you. I hope this has helped a little and you can talk with your wife about it. WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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