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writes:This is very strange for me asking this and have only just found this website but i really need help.last nite my guy took me from behind and it really hurt in which i asked him to pull out which he did but it made me feel a bit sick for a few seconds after, anyway, weve done this position about four times before and has never hurt,i think the question im trying to ask is it normal to feel like that when he does go from behind or am i doing something wrong or is there somethng wrong with me for it hurting like that?sallyann X_X Reply to this Question
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (23 April 2008):
It will hurt at first when you start doing it from behind. That's how it was with my grl, but now she can climax from it. You have to do it a little at a time, he must be gentle, and it would help it you're really wet down there. This should be the last position you do during a love making sesseion.
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reader, lilmisse2424 +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Hey there,Your question pertains to health, and it's okay to ask. The position is penetrating the penis deeper. There is a chance the cervix may be hit while doing this position, which may have happened, and he may have went too fast and may lead to why you may be hurt. You may have to worry about the risk of STDs. So, if I were you, to ease the pain, use lubricants and/or condoms the next time. Also, it is best to communicate with your boyfriend and tell him to slow down and take it easy until you are comfortable.
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (23 April 2008):
 This is quite a common sexual health question, so there’s no need to be embarrassed. Being taken from behind allows for deeper penetration, which is why it’s a favoured position. However, there is the risk that he might hit your cervix, which can cause pain spasms. The name for this pain is “dyspareunia” (pronounced dis-pah-ROO-ne-ah). Lubricants can help, but the best remedy is communication; tell your partner to slow down and take it easy until you’re comfortable. You can also explore other techniques for deeper penetration to make your sex life more satisfying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): ouch, sounds painful! personally i don't like it from behind but i would say its something to do with the angle hun! x
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