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Well i live in the United States in the State of Indiana. I feel like i have some things i cant contribute to help others because I have experienced a lot for my age and have always been a little mature for my age to the point that when i was in middle school i scared some of my teachers. I seemed to mature.. And this plus the fact that im good at logically thinking things threw and can connect things in life and movies that others wouldn't even notice. This has allowed me to learn things some people have to wait a life time to learn. This has also made others until recently distant from me, and made me cold for a long time.

I enjoy movies, music, anime, manga, video games, reading, building relationships, and hanging with family and friends.

And as of right now im single after getting out of a relationship that caused me a lot of stress and pain and im hoping to find someone i feel the same way about as i did for her.

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My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??

Q.   My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I ...

A.   4 December 2008: I don't recommend that, he could take it the wrong way and get mad, you shouldn't do it just to mess with him. ... (read in full...)

Should I date the girl I love - even though she's pregnant with another man's child?

Q.   Ok i have been trying to get the girl i love for the last year and i have sorted succeded for a while. But she couldnt stay away from her ex who is a horrible person, he uses and abuses her. And she just wouldnt say no to him in hopes he has ...

A.   22 December 2007: Well im still going to make myself available to her when she needs help and tell her that i still will be with her if that is what she wants. But im not going to wait around and do nothing waiting for something to happen that may never happen. So im ... (read in full...)

Am I old enough for sex at 14 or should I still be playing children's games?

Q.   i am 14 and i am worrying how should a 14year old act? am i old enough for sex or should i still be playing around and having fun like a child. am i old ? or am i worrying over nothing i feel that i am too old for christmas am i ? what...

A.   20 December 2007: Your not old enought, wait as long as possible nuff said. And you are not to old for christmas, it just changes with your age.... (read in full...)

Why are girls suddenly interested in me after years of acting like I don't exist?

Q.   I just got out of a relationship that i was completely devoted to and got hurt in the end. Well the word of how devoted i was to her got around. before this relationship, which was my first serious relationship, girls payed little to no attention to ...

A.   20 December 2007: ok thanks, i wont let it go to my head, and im not one to rush into a relationship, i am one of those guys who doesnt want to date someone i dont really know. Some of my friends will date anything with a pulse that comes along without knowing them. ... (read in full...)

Regret doing what I did and I want her back! Advice?

Q.   hi... i've been going out with my gf for the last yr... before this we knew each other for 9 yrs ... we got engaged were suppose to be married july 5 and then it happend i gave her an ultimatum... sorry bad spelling.. i regret it very deeply... she ...

A.   20 December 2007: If you know her as well as you say you do then you should know but i reccomend being a little careful no matter what. I kind of been lead on before it isnt fun. ... (read in full...)

We're back together but he will not agree to officialise it. Should I trust him?

Q.   My boyfriend keeps lying to me, there not really big lies but how do I know hes not lying about more serious things?? An example of one of his lies is he broke up with me a month ago and told me it was because he was going to America to play ...

A.   20 December 2007: Yeah dont trust him, my ex fell for this all the time and took back her ex several times, which all he did was use her for a week or two and leave. Rinse and repeat. And when he knew she was with me he would avoid me and when she was home alone or ... (read in full...)

Now dating for 4 months, would it be appropriate to touch her breasts and how to do it?

Q.   well iv been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months nw.. we havent done anything except meet.. i was wonderin as d 1st small move could i ''top'' her.. top means feeling the breasts... ok the problem is i dont no how?? please help.....

A.   20 December 2007: I would guess it would be ok just dont go in rambo style as the other guys said, my ex we never got to sex but i had done things to her with my hands she enjoyed. And i got away with just feeling her within the first month, it was a accident at ... (read in full...)

Are we officially a couple or not??

Q.   hes 32 me 22 we both kno we both like each another cuz we hav told 1 another but neither 1 of us hav cleared the air weather or not were bf/gf but the last time we chilled he asked me if i would go out wit him sumtime and i said yea well 3 days ago ...

A.   20 December 2007: It could be he is just afraid of commitment and hopefully that is what it is. But i have a question did he just recently leave some one else or does he still have feelings for someone else you think because i went throught a situation where a girl ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and a virgin, and feeling very pressured by my friends

Q.   i am 14 and there are not many virgins in my year i am a virgin and i feel presured into having sex all my freinds have either been fingerd or wanked of someone i havent. am i a freak? or are "they too youg too soon" is it me or everyone else? a boy ...

A.   20 December 2007: Dont feel bad and dont listen to them im 18 and have been preasured to use girls and to have sex on many occasions. but i have refused to use others and to have sex with someone i dont care for. Dont do something u dont want to do. Im still a ... (read in full...)

Please help, pregnancy scare...!

Q.   The first of December was the day I was ovulating. Im not on BC and I had unprotected sex that day(12/01/07). I always get my period the 16th of everymonth...I haven't gotten it yet making it 4 almost 5 days late. Today (12/19/07) I took a first ...

A.   20 December 2007: If it is over a full week late you may want to start worrying but ive heard of people i know having the period be late by 2 weeks or longer sometimes. But this is very uncommon and should not happen all the time. So give it a few more days and test ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??

Q.   My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I ...

A.   20 December 2007: Yeah i would believe him because i have never signed up for a porn site and have windows Vista which stops most malicious software that can cause you to have this problem. recording your information and sending it to a remote server (a computer), ... (read in full...)

Should I date the girl I love - even though she's pregnant with another man's child?

Q.   Ok i have been trying to get the girl i love for the last year and i have sorted succeded for a while. But she couldnt stay away from her ex who is a horrible person, he uses and abuses her. And she just wouldnt say no to him in hopes he has ...

A.   18 December 2007: Well you guys seemed to be rights she wasnt over him, as i was suspecting anyways, how can someoene get over someone they have been with for 2 years. But he is pulling his act again to make her think he has changed. He seems to be taking ... (read in full...)

Is it normal, to want to taste his own sperm? (kissing me immediately after I perform oral)

Q.   My boyfriend likes to kiss me after i gave him blow job and swallowed cos he likes the taste of himself. It is not just my assumption, he actually told me. Do any other guys like to taste themselves? Do you think it is normal?...

A.   16 December 2007: I guess its normal i would probably do that, even tho just the smell of my own cum i hate, i could get past the idea. And ive always thought if she didnt want to swallow it im ok with it, i dont like the smell, let alone the idea of swallowing it.... (read in full...)

I need to know how to give her the big 'O'

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend now for a year. Although we both care for each other, a situation arose last week. We started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago and have sex 2 or 3 times a week. One day when I had to go out to get something, I came bac...

A.   16 December 2007: Do what they say, and ive always told my girlfriend once we do have full on sex not to fake it, it doesnt help me or her faking it. It just hurts more when you fake it then we find out about it. Then if u just told us.... (read in full...)

Regret doing what I did and I want her back! Advice?

Q.   hi... i've been going out with my gf for the last yr... before this we knew each other for 9 yrs ... we got engaged were suppose to be married july 5 and then it happend i gave her an ultimatum... sorry bad spelling.. i regret it very deeply... she ...

A.   16 December 2007: Take her to a nice resraunt and take her somewhere romantic afterwards and get down on your knees and just tell her how you feel, and say what u said her in more detail and in depth, if you do this and mean it she will be able to tell. It should ... (read in full...)

Will her ex think I'm taking his place?

Q.   Hi, i'm in a dilema...i've liked this lass for a while now and well recently we have got close, we speak all the time and have such a laugh! Theres a few big problems...a) she has a child with another man but she's seperated from him, b) he gets ...

A.   16 December 2007: Yeah been in this situation the guy is super possesive, and hasnt and wont let go without a fight even tho there not together. If you really love her you should be able to handle this situation u may have to knock his ego down a few pegs. Just dont ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to message her for me?

Q.   I met this girl at a friend's party. I didn't know anybody there, but when she said hi to my friend i noticed she was staring at me, so i introduced myself and she said "who are you friend's of?" so i told her and she asked me why i hadn't hung out ...

A.   16 December 2007: Do it, have your friend inviter her to go out with you guys, if she likes you chancees are she will take you up on your offer unless she doesnt like your friends or something or you could set up a myspace profile yourself and talk to her that way, ... (read in full...)

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