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*oviefan
writes:I just got out of a relationship that i was completely devoted to and got hurt in the end. Well the word of how devoted i was to her got around. before this relationship, which was my first serious relationship, girls payed little to no attention to me, like i didnt exist. Im not ugly or dirty. hell! i take at least 2 showers a day. But now theyre coming out of the woodwork. My friend was the one who connected the fact that i was devoted to her and the fact that girls, as soon as we seperated, were hitting on me and showing intrest after none for so long. Is it becuase im devoted that this is happening? or is it something else? im am confused about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (20 December 2007):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks, i wont let it go to my head, and im not one to rush into a relationship, i am one of those guys who doesnt want to date someone i dont really know. Some of my friends will date anything with a pulse that comes along without knowing them. I think there dum and there relationships dont last long. Its just wierd because i dont think my apprearance has changed at all. Maybe my face a little, maybe they sense something there i dont. Im just going to guess that its they know im a nice guy and would treat them well so there interested. thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Ok, well i started having that about 1 year ago when i became 16 and it's all good, but it also happened to my mate and he became really big headed and cocky. He started being a player and treating girls really badly. i would advice don't do that, be mature about it, be a nice guy respect the women. But choose carefully as you don't want to find yourself in a relationship with many problems and you finding that you don't like this girl. This happened to me and atm i'm in a very sticky situation after choosing the wrong girl. So just let it happen, be mature but not arrogant as to ignore girls. Get to know them etc. so your relationship is more passionate and fullfillingyours truly jay boi
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Never question your good fortune, just relax and enjoy it. It's possible that you have matured into a handsome guy now that you are a man, not a boy. It's possible that your ex did a lot of talking about you, and it was all good. It's possible that they were kind of envious of your good relationship and are happy that you are now single. It's possible that you have a lot more inner-confidence after having a girlfriend and that's always attractive to women. Lucky you. I would avoid dating ex's friends and friends ex's, that's always messy, but other than that, it sounds like manna from heaven! Everyone should be so lucky!
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