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Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.

I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.

A little more about my personal life:

I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.

Like i said feel free to message me anytime and I'll reply asap

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Raven x

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I'm bisexual and I need to know how to tell my parents.

Q.   Im for sure for sure bisexual and I need to know should I tell my parents about it,they tend to be extreemly closed minded and Im not sure they will understand. My family is going through crisis after crisis and im not sure wether I...

A.   24 July 2008: I'm 17 and bisexual, I only told my dad last year....yet it was in random curious conversation... I was lay on the couch and dad was watching the telly and i said Me: "Daaaaaaaad what would you do if i was gay?" Dad: "I'd get used to it i suppose.... (read in full...)

Trying to stop smoking, having a hard time, can anyone share their experiences with trying to quit smoking cigarettes, how do I motivate myself?

Q.   I gave up smoking about 2 months ago. 9 weeks to be precise. I have probably smoked 20 cigarettes this week alone though! I only had 2 the whole time previous to that. I am using patches and am on stage 2. I really should be going down to stage 3 ...

A.   17 July 2008: its not a great way but i used to say to myself "ill go garage and get another pack in 10 minutes" and then in ten minutes i'd do the same.... it took a while i found playing games on my xbox helped lol but im younger my dads 48 and he recently ... (read in full...)

My wife is troubled by her stretch marks, what can she do?

Q.   This is a question for my wife.she has had 2 kids the youngest is 5. She had to have c sections with both. the problem is she has strech marks that she wants to get rid of. The c section scars are hiden but her belly is were the problem is. She is ...

A.   9 June 2008: Ah ok, i dont know if this is sold in the USA BUT there is a very excellent thing to help women with this, scars adn stretchmarks. It is called Bio Oil. I use it for my skins and its excellent! heres the website http:... (read in full...)

I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!

Q.   I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...

A.   21 April 2008: hey, i suggest you get a test done in about 4 weeks and learn something its called CONTRACEPTION... (read in full...)

I re-used a condom 3 wks later. Am I Pregnant?

Q.   hey... so ... here is my problem... me and my boyfriend had sex with a re-used condom about two weeks ago. the condom we re-used was first used about three weeks before we used it the second time.. does the sperm die off or what? he cleaned it out ...

A.   21 April 2008: OMG three weeks go to a damn family planning clinic and get them for FREE!... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

Q.   if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...

A.   21 April 2008: firstly your like 13-15, its too young to be honest think of what the other aunts have said Secondly, WOW you've been with him a whole 2 and a half months and your not using protection? IDIOT! Your no where near knowing him enough. My best ... (read in full...)

If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?

Q.   My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big poss...

A.   15 April 2008: hi it wont make you infertile, you can still get pregnant afterwards if done properly x... (read in full...)

My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?

Q.   how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14...

A.   14 April 2008: Just come out with it....or do another pregnancy test and leave it somewhere she may find it. if she argues you can go with the "what-do-you-expect-when-you-let-us-sleep-together" line good luck x... (read in full...)

Was our sex good enough? Am I pregnant?

Q.   Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says ...

A.   13 April 2008: Hun, he enjoyed it lol. the wetness could be because you think of sex and become aroused, therefore are wet x... (read in full...)

I have feeling for this girl who got pregnant with a guy she has now broken up with. How do I handle this situation?

Q.   I have feelings for this girl and we've been friends for 4 months now. We are both in college. She had a boyfriend but now they've broken apart from each other for about 3 weeks now and she is pregnant. I still have feelings for her but I don't know...

A.   11 April 2008: be a friend ONLY to her throughout the pregnancy. let her settle with her new baby and be there for her adn help out you two will gradually get closer... good things come to those who wait feel free to message me with tips =] x... (read in full...)

My boyfriends ex girlfreind is pregnant with his kid what should I do??

Q.   I need help. Me an my boyfrind have been together for five months and we love each other so much. But he just found out from his ex from ten months ago that she just had a baby and it might be his. Please help me and give me some advice on what sho...

A.   11 April 2008: I suggest you step back, support him adn let him make his own discisions - and suggest he gets a paternity test x... (read in full...)

Where do we go to for abortion advice?

Q.   well me and my girlfriend had unprotected sed right and now abit ago right and no she keeps feeling sick and and pissing all the time bu shes on the pill as well so we just took a test the other day and it sed she wont but she ant cum on her period ...

A.   11 April 2008: i suggest you wait anout another 3 weeks. Get another test done IN THE MORNING. if tis negative and you guys still have doubts and no period has come then go for a blood test from the doctor. He or she will advise you from there x... (read in full...)

Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?

Q.   Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a ...

A.   11 April 2008: personally i think you should leave him and focus upon yourself and your child...not eating because of him WONT help! Your going to be stressed enough you dont need this. Dump his un sorry arse.... (read in full...)

Should I have the baby when I'm not sure who of the three is the father??

Q.   Im 2 months pregnant and i dont know who the father is there is 3 possible dads and i dont know wat to do. please help me !!!!!! its ethier my exs a one night stand or my mate that i had sex with once or twice PLEASE help i know if been stupid but ...

A.   11 April 2008: i suggest you have the baby and see who the child has a likeness too. ...if you cant afford a dna test you can always go on jeremy kyle lol x... (read in full...)

I've only just turned 12, I'm pregnant and I lied to him about my age!!

Q.   I met a really nice man nearly a 8 months ago, i'm 1 month pregnant and in a loving realationship with him. He was my 1st and i want him forever he adores me and asked me to marry him but i lied to him i told him i was 16 but in fact i've only just ...

A.   10 April 2008: first of all he needsto know your pregnant, secondly he needs to knwo your actual age. Expect him to be annoyed you've lied to him for 8 months. As well as the fact your 12 and he unknowingly commmited statutory rape. Have you told your pa... (read in full...)

Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really. I don't know what to do.

Q.   hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no...

A.   10 April 2008: Hey are you sure your pregnant? Did you take a test, have you actually had sex... ...or is this a fake question? reply soon hun and we can give advice we need more info x but you need to talk to your mum and dad x... (read in full...)

Is my body adjusting to the change? Should I go on the pill?

Q.   Hi, I asked a question almost a couple weeks ago about being on time if i had sex with the condom intact with no tears or rips or falling out. I have been having period like symptoms of bloating, fatigue, cramps, and smelly discharge. I tested nega...

A.   9 April 2008: I dont think you're pregnant. Symptoms can come from psychologically stressing or even wishing you were pregnant. Use protection - go on the pill or other contraceptive methods until you are ready =] message me if you wanna talk x... (read in full...)

When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy.....?

Q.   When you first start 'showing' during pregnancy, does it look and feel pretty much like a fat stomach? Or does it feel different from fat - is it more firm, or hurt if you hit it? Thanks :]...

A.   3 April 2008: around 3-5 months, some dont even show.... but yeahh the average is around 3 months=] x... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant, by these signs?

Q.   hi. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on saturday. and ever since monday morning my breasts have been very sore (tender). and this morning around 10am i was feeling so nauseas..but never throuwed up could i be pregnant? i have been using birth ...

A.   2 April 2008: your getting signs too early stop thinking about it cause thats probably whats causing them and wait 4 weeks and get a test hun x... (read in full...)

I really love him should I lose my virginity with him?

Q.   Hey I'm 15 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend that I really love and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to him soon. I'm kinda nervous for many reasons....STD's.....possible pregnantcy ( i really wudn't mind that though in a way...).....fear ...

A.   30 March 2008: if you love him go ahead with it but maybe wait until your 16 so its legal? cause if you love him you dont want him in trouble right? x... (read in full...)

Please help me, am I pregnant? Should I do a test?

Q.   i think i might be pregnant, i've still been getting bleeds around my time of the month, but they are very light and only lasting 2 or 3 days and are either brown in colour or bright red. i'm 23 and have always been regular and heavy. if i am i ...

A.   30 March 2008: good luck with your test and desired result! x... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help

Q.   Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it ...

A.   30 March 2008: congrats for the desired result, you're pregnant, you've obviously made up your mind on whats going to happen now im not gonna lecture you on THAT. HOWEVER - if you want to get pregnant at 15 that was your choice, now your an adult and with ros... (read in full...)

I had a one night stand while drunk and now I'm pregnant! Do I tell him?

Q.   I joined this site as I'm so confused of what to do!! I've been going off the rails lately, drinking waay too much, going to pubs every night and clubs every weekend, having a fair few one night stands.... the truth is, I seem to associate se...

A.   26 March 2008: I think you should tell him hun adn see what he says and follow through with this pregnancy, i think you will regret abortioin for the rest of your life. Go through with it, and if things dont ease up or even out or get on track, then give the... (read in full...)

We're both 14 and she might be pregnant...

Q.   im 14 and i think i made my 14 year old GF pregnant we dont know if she is or not im scared and dont know what to do is anyone in the same situation as me or has anyone been in this situation before PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!...

A.   26 March 2008: get a test done about 4 weeks after she may hae gotten pregnant if shes not preg learn to put something on the end of it! x... (read in full...)

I'm fifteen and want a baby with my boyfriend (16), should I wait?

Q.   Ok your gonna all think I'm absoultely crazy and some may tell me I need mental help but please tell me your thoughts about what I'm about to tell you ok. Ever since I was very young I've wanted a baby.I'm 15 years old now . I know I'm going t...

A.   26 March 2008: I think you should wait i was in the same situation you are in now until ive decided to wait. Finsh school AT least. If your passionate about these children you want to have with him try building FOR that over the years, get a stable job BEF... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant! How do I tell my parents?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am a 22yr old asian sikh girl and i am with the love of my life, he is black carribean and is aged 24. We have been 2gether 4 years; had our problems but no doubt love eachother more than anything. recently I have found out that i...

A.   23 March 2008: hey, maybe you guys could meet in a public place. Maybe with you mother. Break it to her and then meet up with your father and mother again in a public place to discuss things, if you go to their home, take your boyfriend just incase your dad kicks ... (read in full...)

I don't think my boyfriend is the father of my baby... I think it's his cousin's!!

Q.   im a 21 year old and ive been in a 4 year relationship i love my boyfriend but im in love with my boyfriend cousin i had a child last year and i think he might belong to the cousin as we were having an affair my boyfrind found about the affair after ...

A.   23 March 2008: you should get a dna test and if you dont love your boyfriend then leave him, its not fair on him, he can find someone who's loyal and will love him back x... (read in full...)

My best friend is pregnant at 15, refuses to tell her parents and plans an abortion. How can I help her get through this?

Q.   Hey Evryone. Last Night, My Best Friend told me she was pregnant and she knows she is for certain because she took a pregnancy test. She told Me She didnt know what To Do Wether To Keep it or not.. So I Suggested She told her parents beacau...

A.   23 March 2008: hey, i am personally against abortion. But if its something she wants to do then she should, but if she has ANY doubts and any WANTS to keep the baby if she aborts him or her she WILL regret it for the rest of her life... if shes stuck onto ... (read in full...)

Can I find out before my missed period?? What can I do to stop thinking about this possible pregnancy...?

Q.   There is a very strong possibility that I may be pregnant and I just can't keep my mind off of it. I have to wait until I miss my period to determine whether I am or not and it's really bothering me. Any ideas on what I could do to find out sooner ...

A.   22 March 2008: Hey i dont know about the usa but here in england theres a test called first response - it can tell you if your pregnant 10 days before your missed period is due. Hun anyway try waiting, or maybe ask the docotr for a blood test? x Message me if yo... (read in full...)

What are the causes of a missed period, apart from pregnancy?

Q.   Could anyone help me here... What are the causes of a missed period, apart from pregnancy? If its stress related, why does it not come? What happens?...

A.   22 March 2008: He hun it could be your diet or are you stressed? it says your 16-17 so maybe its exam worrys things like that. They can make periods late even make you miss them x I was like that, ive only just did my gcse's last suimmer so i went through ... (read in full...)

Do my symptoms mean I'm pregnant?

Q.   Okay so i think im pregnant, i had sex with my bf about a month and a half ago and the past month i have been getting morning sickness four days a week roughly, and i missed my period twice does this mean im pregnant?? please help me i dont want t...

A.   22 March 2008: Hey hun just take a test, simple. x... (read in full...)

What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff.

Q.   Dad says I should concentrate on my studies instead of boys. He's always setting rules. Why can't I be like my friends and do as I please, they don't have dads. What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff....

A.   22 March 2008: tbh you should be thankful you have one who gives a damn, look at your friends without fathers. The girls will end up with an older men have sex with them thinking its love because in reality they want a father figure,listen to your dad in ten years ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to make love on the third date?

Q.   Hello, Just want to know if it is right to make love in the third day from the first date? Or do you think that might make him lose interest in me and he runs away? Was it too fast? We're around the same age. I wrote this question because I'm inte...

A.   22 March 2008: if your happy and you like him and he likes you back and you respect eachother i think the third dates fine personally =] x... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant? What's going on with my body?

Q.   About 3 weeks ago I had sex with my boyfriend, and my period should be due this week. I've needed to go to the bathroom more frequently than before, and noticed what might be considered a blood spot. I haven't experienced any other signs, Could I ...

A.   22 March 2008: give it about 2 more weeks, get a test done, if the 'blood spot' doesn't disapear in about a week go to the doctor. Get checked out, wont hurt =] message me if you wanna talk Xx... (read in full...)

My fiance bores me, there's no passion. But I'm pregnant with his baby...

Q.   I am bored with my husband to be. I am also pregnant with his second child. I feel that I am going to marry him because I don't have a choice. Sure I love him but was never in love with him. He does not touch me, we don't even make out at all. He ...

A.   22 March 2008: Maybe you could sit down with him adn talk to him on how you feel and before you marry. If things dont spice up (remember take into consideration your pregnant so it wont fully) but like try being engaged longer and tell him adn if things dont spice ... (read in full...)

Pregnant with my cheating boyfriend's baby! Should I have it?

Q.   me and my boyfriend are having alot of issues right now.right after Valentines Day I found out that he cheated on me. he treated me like crap for awhile then we tried to work things out. Things arent the same, but we tried to work on them. I just ...

A.   22 March 2008: Its your body and your choice, its also not just your fault your pregnant, its his, he should face up to his responsabilites. It will be hard but im sure you can do it =] message me if you wanna talkXx... (read in full...)

We used extra-safe condoms when we had sex but my period is late, could I be pregnant?

Q.   Well me and my boyfriend had sex four times. The first time we used a pleasuremax condom. It didnt split. But he didnt roll it off, he pulled it so everything fell onto his bed (I was dressed by the point). The next three times we used extra safe ...

A.   22 March 2008: if no semen got into or onto your vagina its highly unlikely you are pregnant.If you think you are you can like psychologically be stressed and make your period late (wierd I know) Give it 4 weeks and if one doesn't come at all then get a test x ... (read in full...)

What do you do when you are in love with your friend...

Q.   What do you do when you are in love with your friend but don't know if they love you back?...

A.   22 March 2008: You find out, yet be careful it would ruin the friendship, it depends how much you cherish the friendship you have. You could flirt and see if you get a response or not... message me if you wanna talk Xx... (read in full...)

Is it her choice to be able to keep the baby or her mom's?

Q.   I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 16 her mother let me live in their household and she knew we were having sex... some issues happened and I moved out. Also her mother will not let us see each other anymore.... and we love each other.... but the real ...

A.   18 March 2008: it should be BOTH of YOUR decisions her mother should support her but be prepared her mother will pressure her. x... (read in full...)

I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?

Q.   I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?...

A.   18 March 2008: first of all congratulations secondly yes you can =] just be a little weary x... (read in full...)

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