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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i'm in a dilema...i've liked this lass for a while now and well recently we have got close, we speak all the time and have such a laugh! Theres a few big problems...a) she has a child with another man but she's seperated from him, b) he gets jealous and violent towards anyone who she has a relationship with, c) i think she wants something to be more than mates with each other but i'm worried that if we do that it'll cause a MASSIVE problem for her and maybe for me with her ex in the way. I don't want to stand in his way of the child but he'll obviously think i will be taking his place...:(
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Yeah been in this situation the guy is super possesive, and hasnt and wont let go without a fight even tho there not together. If you really love her you should be able to handle this situation u may have to knock his ego down a few pegs. Just dont start a fight let him do it, and from what you said it will happen eventually.
And u kind of are taking his place, and the guy needs to realize its not really his business anymore who she dates as long as they treat her well. And im sure his kid will not take to you ever as well as he takes to his blood father. Its just how we work.
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