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... Send *rit a private message | | | *rit's profile:I enjoy all things nefarious and mischievous with the exception of drugs,murder and clowns. Been through a couple of nasty breakups but with each one i got better with dealing with people a little more empathetically. i never see myself as a perfect person so im always ready to equippet myself with latest GEARS and TOOLS to mollify my journey.In my school days i was superbad to begin with and was wacky but now with current gf ive become much more laid back and mellow. When i first met her it was really hard to belive that girls like her still there in the dating arena. NO MIND GAMES and stupid old HARD TO GET game even though shes the pure exception of beauty with brain. SHE has her own way of expressing her love to me.AND its completey adorable...
IF EVERYTHING IS SO PERFECT THEN WHY IM HERE????
because i realize that not everyone is in same lane as me. IT took a little while to reach here.Im here for--
1) for the lazy people who run away from relationships just because it consumes time and energy, its goldmine to get the tips
and tricks of the inside trade.
2) For the genuine people needing genuine advice.
3) To learn and see how LOVE changes the life of people around the world.
I'm rude,offensive but brutally honest. IF you want someone to tell you what you want to hear even though its wrong then talk to someone else.Its not bad to get hurt and be upset over agony aunts(people you don't know or care) and correct yourself then to go through the same feelings of hurt and anger in your relationship. with the person you really care for and die for.
AT-LAST,We don't need sugar, flour or rice or anything else to run our life's but we just want to see our dear ones happy. SO live wise and make them happy.
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If the first time you meet a guy he talks about sex, is that all he wants from you?
Q. I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with ...
A. 24 May 2011: According to the popular misconception , bars and clubs are a very good place to socialize and meet new people. But they don't know that many players have made these places there WORKSHOPS. They come here and practice their ROUTINES and leave ... (read in full...)
If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???
Q. ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask f...
A. 24 May 2011: Well even if you liked her once then also don't make the mistake of dating her. She's doesn't deserves your time and attention. Spend it only on the lady who is worth of it. Many girls are beautiful but still down to earth. Search for them and you ... (read in full...)
If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???
Q. ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask f...
A. 24 May 2011: For me, that's not being polite but just a desperate attention seeker. You can be picky and reject those men for not liking them but to first lead them on and then just dissappear like nothing happened is complete NONSENSE. Any guy who respects ... (read in full...)
How do I make him feel very bad??
Q. So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...
A. 23 May 2011: well I don't suggest you do this but if you want to do it than try this----
the next time he trys to get into your pants and use his tool , just say this
" what??? Are you already in?? Then why don't I feel anything.??"
This would be a big sla... (read in full...)
My gf is ignoring me ever since she did bad on her exam. What can I do??
Q. my girlfriend's examination went bad. ever since then, she's been avoiding me (2 days). someone tell me what to do? if it isn't my fault, why is she ignoring me? i tried to cheer her up, but to no use. what shall i do ?...
A. 21 May 2011: You can't do anything about it. If she wants space then you have to give it to her. The more eager you become the more further she would go. It is really bugging if you want to be all alone and someone is constanly on your head. So be patient and ... (read in full...)
He doesn't think I'm keeping my options closed
Q. We are seeing each other and getting to know each other. Let's put it this way, we are in the process of becoming official and agreed to close our options..One day on my facebook, he saw another guy comment on my status about going somewhere to hang ...
A. 19 May 2011: you would had heard it earlier that 97% of our all communication is through body language. but when you are chatting with someone without them being able to see you then SAME words can imply a completely different meaning. so this is a problem ... (read in full...)
Cuddled with guy friend.. Does it mean anything?
Q. I have a guy friend *Joe*, whom I met through an ex-boyfriend (they were best friends) 4 years ago. I've always felt an attraction to him, and I fooled around with him once (he asked if we could do stuff, and my ex said that was fine.. we were all ...
A. 19 May 2011: ((READ BOTH THE POST AS ONE)) OTHERWISE it would impart a wrong meaning. sorry for the trouble
BUT guys don't do that. If they want to have sex then they would make it clear to you before. SO im sure that he dint had SEX on his mind when you visi... (read in full...)
What type of girl appeals more to men?
Q. This a question I have wondered for a while, and men would probably find answering this one easier, but what type of girl do guys usually go for? I know it's personality that counts and I would never change how I looked to please someone else, bu...
A. 18 May 2011: Yeah I totally agree from word to word with cerebrus and am sure millions of other men would also do. Go with it... He is absolutely on the spot. I would had said the same thing........ Just like to add a bit more to it -- the more femine traits ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?
Q. I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. ...
A. 18 May 2011: Players are of 3 types---- one, who rely on their Looks to get a girl. Second, who rely on their SKILLS to get a girl. Third, worst of all, who don't rely on anything and just sleep with any random girl they could get their hands on. Guys in... (read in full...)
I can't have a relationship because there is always someone new! I need to break this cycle!
Q. Hi there , I thank you in advance for any help you can offer me at all. Its pretty hard to explain but I will try my best. I have an obsession with men. To the point where it takes over my life and I can't think of anything else. I was never give...
A. 17 May 2011: Okay this could sound little complicated but try to read this post slow and easy ... When people are new into a relationship a love chemical called PEA is released into brain. This gives the person the buzz which quite same as of a cocaine user. ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?
Q. I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. ...
A. 17 May 2011: So do You just married or dated him cuz others thought that he was good catch. Well not a good idea to start with. He had his share of fun when he most needed it but afterwards setted with you cuz u were a nice girl who was also virgin. But Im sure ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend has been acting distant!
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for the past 10 months. I love him more than anything and love keeps on increasing every moment. Initially, even he used to be very expressive of his love. Since we are in a long distance relation and ...
A. 15 May 2011: Well this is NOT funny. I would be also pissed off if my gf had asked me about my fb password.If I want to give it then I do this without even her asking but will not give it if she's demanding me to do so. I have nothing to hide but just shows the ... (read in full...)
13 guys in 7 years...too much?
Q. Is having had sex with 13 guys in seven years making me look like a slut?...
A. 15 May 2011: well if you slept with 2 or more guys at the same time while you were in relationship with them then maybe YES. But if you were just plain unlucky to find the right guy then strickly NO. There's no harm in enjoying sex for sex but if in these ... (read in full...)
What does love buddy mean?
Q. hi i would like to know what does love buddy mean....
A. 14 May 2011: Love Buddy means to be intimate with the person without having complete sexual intercourse. Being all over the other person, hugging them, holding them, goin on some romantic dates. But you know that due to some reasons they come with a expiry date ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I got selected to same college, but he doesn't want to come along
Q. me and my bf love each other like mad.we are in a ldr since two years. recently we gave entrance exams and i and my bf got selected to the same college. but my bf doesnt want to come.he said he will drop this year and will try for some better...
A. 13 May 2011: If you really care for him than you have to let him go. Don't force him to change his desision if he doesn't wants too. True nature of love is to sacrifice some of your desires for a little happiness of the other and if he values you than he would ... (read in full...)
I cant stay with her but I can't be away from her either
Q. Hi i am 29 yr old.. i met a girl over internet 2 year back and became close to her . she confessed me about her past relation ,that time her ex bf had ditched her.we became very good friends and spent more time to get to know each other. gradually i ...
A. 12 May 2011: You were a rebound for her. She doesn't have ANY true feelings for you. So you were much more like pillow to fall upon when she was badly hurt and dumped by her ex. Rebound relationships NEVER work. If you care for her then you can continue being ... (read in full...)
Pick Up Artists..why resort to this, guys?
Q. Dear DC readers. I have a question that I've been thinking about and couldn't really answer myself. I've noticed that a lot of guys I know, either who get dumped or who can't find a lady, they resort to being a Pick Up Artist. Question is, why...
A. 8 May 2011: Pick Up Artists (PUA) doesn't means to act like what you're not, it Only teaches you what you should do or be in order to attract a women. It is actually just a way to refine your inner game to achieve success with women. And actually they never ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel good about myself despite all the attention I get?
Q. I don't want to sound arrogant, but when i go on a night out, I get a heck of a lot of attention from guys!! Yeah sure, at the time it's fun and i love hearing guys compliment me and approaching because it makes me feel great!! Most girls would love ...
A. 1 May 2011: Feeling confident by just getting attention is just So childish. Though there's nothing wrong in this but It has to come from inside and not because of any external source. This is what which makes a women super sexy and attractive to most of the ... (read in full...)
How to control my intense sexual thoughts?
Q. I'm a little conservative type of a person and i have high ambitions in my life. But intense sexual thoughts and unrealistic fantasies distracting from working towards achieving my goals I think sex outside marriage is morally wrong and I've d...
A. 30 April 2011: Men's sex drive is at it's peak in theirs late teens and early 20's. So it's normal for you to have the urges that you're going through. I bet most of men of your age won't be feeling any different from you also. Sex outside marriage is wrong, but ... (read in full...)
I think I am gay but I don't want to be! What can I do?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 years old. As question title says, I think I am gay. What can do I about this, if I don't want to be gay? I want to be straight, have a wife, family, kids. What makes me think that I am gay, is the fact, that I do not want sex with any...
A. 27 April 2011: Homo-phobia is just a silly term coined to use against basic rights for homosexuals. I understand you pain. Read an article on net about gay child defining his suffering to parents. Go through this-----
Dearest Mom & Dad
I am writing you a le... (read in full...)
Why does she want to speak to me, after rejecting me?
Q. Hi! I'm in love with a girl she is my collage mate. I proposed to her but she rejected me but she spoke to me for two months. This new year she suddenly stopped speaking to me, I asked her the reason but she said "no I don't want to speak to you". I ...
A. 25 April 2011: Brother you did the wrong thing. From next time try building attraction first and then propose. If you do it the right way then she would be dying to listen those 3 sweet words from you. keep her waiting, guessing and let anticipation kill her from ... (read in full...)
Should I flirt with my Ex-girlfriend's best friend?
Q. I broke with my Girlfriend dumped me few months back. My girlfriend left me saying that I didn't have secured future by doing small job. I think I have been hard done by her for leaving me for such a small reason. Now I want taking revenge on her ...
A. 24 April 2011: It is not a small reason because women from centuries search for a PROVIDER in the form of a MAN. But in todays time most of the women are educated , have jobs, and are more independent than ever before. So now they like to go with their instincts ... (read in full...)
My world revolves around my boyfriend. How do I get my independence back?
Q. I am too emotionally attached to my boyfriend.? I feel my world would come crashing down if we broke up for any reason. He is a great guy and the only problem is his bad temper. But I feel I am too attached to him to be able to live independ...
A. 23 April 2011: It is called obsession. Many people suffer from it. But it is not attractive at all. The dance of seduction is performed with one step forward and then two steps back. If you want to keep him intersted in a long run and don't want to loose him than ... (read in full...)
How close can a guy be with a female friend, when in a committed relationship with another girl?
Q. How close can a guy be to him female friends when in a committed relationship with a girl? What are the things that a boyfriend can and cannot do with female friends when he is committed to someone?...
A. 22 April 2011: The answer is Very close but without even noticing it. Yes it could also even closer than my girlfriend. But most of girls get insecure over it and start acting aloof. What they don't understand is that it is something something we do on unconsious ... (read in full...)
Was I too "innocent" for him?
Q. I went to the club the other night with some friends and got pretty drunk and started dancing with this guy I thought was extremely attractive. I ended up going back to his place. I am a virgin and 21 years old, by the way, and did NOT have sex...
A. 21 April 2011: Men's sex drive is highest in their late teens and early 20's. So at this peak they want to have as much sex as possible. It's impossible for them to have any contol over it. It's not like that they DONT like to be in relatonships but it's just ... (read in full...)
Husband has erectile dysfunction, wont see a doctor, we have sex once a month and I'm not satisfied. I know its wrong, but I think about having an affair...
Q. I'm 35 my husband in 52 he has Ed so we only have sex once a month. I masturbate often so he calls me a pervert i have tried to make him understand once a month is not enough. He won't go see a doctor and thinks I should be happy with things the way ...
A. 21 April 2011: Everyone knowns men have five times more testosterone level than women. It motivates men to have sex as much as possible. It's highest when they are in their late teens and early 20's. At this peak it's impossible for them hold on sex. Women's ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend cheating?
Q. i am in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 9 months.its been more than 1 month that my bf has stopped caring the way he used to.now he never texts me,in the whole day he wont text me at all.at the night he will text or call for 2 min, ...
A. 20 April 2011: Women can FAKE a smile but men can sometimes fake a whole relatonship.
Observe him and his actions. Actions speak louder than words.... (read in full...)
My fiance says she's a virgin but I'm not sure if she's telling the truth
Q. Hi, I need your advice. I am a 31 yr old guy. I am a virgin and about about to get engaged to a girl. She is 24. Before getting engaged to her, I want to know if she is a virgin or not. She told me she does not have any boyfriends but the way she ...
A. 20 April 2011: This question very common on dear-cupid from male posters from India. just because you didn t had any taste of sex or complete relation before ,you want to put her under scanner too. LEARN it man NO women reveals her sexual past. Because if she r... (read in full...)
Do you think I did the right thing?
Q. I broke-up with my boyfriend 6 months back...Its not break-up he started ignoring me and it was online....so I decided to move on....I'm 15 and he is 26.... After few months I met one guy online... He is 24....he is nice guy...He helped me to forget ...
A. 19 April 2011: Teenage is most confusing part of life in which you are confused just about everthing ,ie the clothes to wear, which hairstyle to get ,which movie to watch , which subject to take, which grl/guy to date, etc. So you hav a right to confused but not ... (read in full...)
Do you think I did the right thing?
Q. I broke-up with my boyfriend 6 months back...Its not break-up he started ignoring me and it was online....so I decided to move on....I'm 15 and he is 26.... After few months I met one guy online... He is 24....he is nice guy...He helped me to forget ...
A. 17 April 2011: you are very young to do such intimate things with your bf. you are in puberty stage so your hormones are getting all over you that's why you are feeling like this and its completely normal. But sharing intimate things with guys online is big ... (read in full...)
In a loving relationship, until I found out about his facebook inboxes..
Q. I'm 19 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with a guy who i adore and love. We have been together for almost 2 years now and i never want to lose him. I used to be kind of a slut, i dated a tonne of guys and cheated on almost all of them. They were ...
A. 17 April 2011: Your getting a dose of your own medicine.This is NO suprise to me as this question is quite common on DC and all of them get same answer from people---- WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND. this is the biggest lesson of life . It Doesnt matter i... (read in full...)
Is he flirting? Or just being nice? Or trying to get my attention? I'm confused by it all.
Q. I've recently, at work, met this guy who I'm starting to fall for. Being rather shy, when it comes to dating guys, I fear rejection. This guy seems rather shy too!! .. So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if ...
A. 17 April 2011: These kind of things happen in every day life so I think he's just being nice. But if u like him then flirt with him, give an occasional glance and a smile and then see what happens. There's nothing to be ashamed off, use your femine charm to get ... (read in full...)
I am cheating on my wife, my lover has a boyfriend who cheats on her, and my lover is cheating on her boyfriend with me! What should I do about this mess?
Q. i am 34year old married man and she is 22 yrs god knows how but 3 years ago i very deeply fell in love with this girl and she was the one who proposed me that time even after knowing that i was married. i agreed and we were deeply involved, used to ...
A. 16 April 2011: wow man!!!! you are the ultimate desperate creature alive on this planet earth. What you just wrote down clearly states that you have NO self-respect for yourself. WOMEN DONT LOVE OR RESPECT MAN WHO DOESNT RESPECT HIMSELF FIRST. she doe... (read in full...)
How do I know they have really broken up? Or is he just lying to me?
Q. There is a guy who is my very close friend. I have liked him ever since I first saw him. He also used to say me that he liked me, but as we always joke about everything. I thought he was again joking so I never took it seriously. After some mon...
A. 15 April 2011: Dating rule no 1 - NEVER listen to your friends or anyone about whom to date. As they are also as puzzled as you. Dating rule no 2- Just go for what you want. Else it would too late and you would regret It later. Dating rule no 3- don't belive ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of getting bored of my boyfriend
Q. Hi, I get bored of realtionships very easily.Something or the other haapens and I lose interest .I dont like to change boyfriends often.Now I am into a relationship and I am scared to get bored of him. What should I do?...
A. 10 April 2011: People don't get bored of relationships , they just get bored with person they are with. Otherwise relationships Are always FUN. There s always an element of drama and lots of twist which Makes life more Intersting. Try to date a bad boy for a ... (read in full...)
She lied and flirted with other guys so I cant trust her anymore, but she wants another chance. What should I do?
Q. hi everyone. please help! i met a girl last year, march 29 2010, shes very pretty, cute. a month later, we started dating. and i proposed her and she accepted me. when we go out together, she kind of stare other guys, she doesn look, rather sta...
A. 7 April 2011: LEAVE her. What are you after??? I would say that she's not a cheat but she's not just attracted to you. She's just trying to adjust but as she's not attracted she goes to other guys. And mind you, attraction is not just based on looks. You had ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend be going to Goa with his friends? Is this fair on me?
Q. Im in a committed ldr since 1 year 9months. my bf is going to the most romantic place (Goa) with his male friends in the month of may. Goa is famous for beaches and of course bikini babes. should my bf be going like this with his friends?? is it ok? ...
A. 5 April 2011: No, the case is still the same as I had all of my girl and guy friends from school with me on that trip. The only difference is that you are in a LDR and I was not. That's why I'm not a big fan of these LDR's as they always create confusio... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend be going to Goa with his friends? Is this fair on me?
Q. Im in a committed ldr since 1 year 9months. my bf is going to the most romantic place (Goa) with his male friends in the month of may. Goa is famous for beaches and of course bikini babes. should my bf be going like this with his friends?? is it ok? ...
A. 4 April 2011: So what problem do you have with that???? I also went to goa from school tour with my friends, and it was one of most enriching experience for me. I too had a girlfriend at that time and she was actually more excited than me for me going over th... (read in full...)
Does my married work colleague like me in a romantic way?
Q. I'm a male 35 year old married. I have a colleague, and she is 30 year woman married. We are professionally very closely related and requires lot of interaction on day to day basis. I came to know her 6 months back when i was in Gurgaon and she w...
A. 3 April 2011: It's NOT an affair. She just have a crush on you. And having a crush for a married woman is same as watching porn for a married man. It jus gives you those warm feeling without being labeled as CHEATED. She wants your attention but that's not becau... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me. I don't know how to cope with this.
Q. I love her a lot. But she's not trying to understand me. I was the one who proposed to her first. But she told me that, she can't see me like that. She was in love with a another guy. But it broke up due to some reasons. I can't forget her. Her ...
A. 29 March 2011: Hey brother I feel for you. I known how bad it feels when you fell for Someone but they have there minds occupied with someone else. The only cure to this is get busy with your work and friends. Just let the girl free. I know it's easier said tha... (read in full...)
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