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writes:Hi! I'm in love with a girl she is my collage mate. I proposed to her but she rejected me but she spoke to me for two months. This new year she suddenly stopped speaking to me, I asked her the reason but she said "no I don't want to speak to you". I was behind her for 2 weeks but she was ignoring me. Well I was bit nervous and fell to alcohol but I was about to forget her and started doing my own work and left the collage as soon as the bell rings. At last, after a month she came to me and spoke to me and said sorry for her behaver. Still she rejects me but she wants to speak to me. I said many times that we can be friends, "I am in love with her" she just smiles I also said that I don't need her friendship I need her love.Please help me, I love her a lot what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 You don't love her. You are infatuated with her. Trust me. You cannot love someone that you do not know. Leave her be and get a realistic view of how people work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): yeah dude, you messed up. You probably freaked her out by proposing to her. The best thing you can do now is leave it alone. Dont do anything like what u did for a while. Who knows, maybe in a year, SHE might be the one proposing to YOU. Good luck.
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reader, krit +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Brother you did the wrong thing. From next time try building attraction first and then propose. If you do it the right way then she would be dying to listen those 3 sweet words from you. keep her waiting, guessing and let anticipation kill her from inside. Be smooth as silk with your every action and word like like you don't care about what the outcome will be but let her enjoy your company and be in the moment. If you my friend are able to do this then she will CHASE you. Trust me girls love this chase too but we guys don't give them enough space to do the same. Dont be so obvious and easy to read. Make her work hard to known what's goin in your mind.
In this case, I think that you had spoiled it too much to be repaired now. your girl is out of your hand now. But won't feel bad about it and use alcohol for this small reason. It is a sedative and depressent. It make you feel more happy and social when you are already happy and more sad and lonely when you are already alone and sad. Girls come and go, don't let this shit affect your life. This would Spoil your chances of meeting any new girls. It takes less effort in finding and attracting a new girl than convincing the one dosnt feels the same for you.
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reader, Roxsanna  +, writes (25 April 2011):
it sounds like she just wants to stay friends and she doesnt feel the same way,,, and instead of being straight forward about how she feels she ignored you,,, it seems like she feels she is comfortable around you now to just carry on being friends and you should just accept being friends with her its either that or eventually your going to loose her all together.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 April 2011):
 If she doesn't love you back, there's not much you can do. If you think you can TRULY be her friend, then that's an option she seems open to. If not, then it's best you cut her out of your life.
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